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We've only been dating for a month but my feelings seem to be fading, what is going on?

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Question - (22 January 2013) 5 Answers - (Newest, 22 January 2013)
A male United Kingdom age 26-29, anonymous writes:

There's this girl who I've been seeing, it started out where I realised we had the same sense of humour and other interests. Well at the weekend (friday) she met my parents and my mum said we get on really well and what not and I had never felt do strongly over someone, we were so so close on that day. However for the past couple if days my feelings for her seemed to have gone weird, I literally stopped jumping at my phone when we text and I've got really confused. Is it that I've just got more comfortable and relaxed where I don't need to be constantly talking to her or are my feelings faded off? We've only been dating a month or so? I really like her but I've had a rough couple of days since seeing, could it just be my mind is on other things? I really don't want to fade off from her! I've arranged to see her in a few days! Some spark seems to have disappeared these past couple of days, I just hope it's because I've got my mind on other things!!

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (22 January 2013):

Don't worry its probably just due to the bad weekend that you had and you wrote that you still like her so surely that's got to say something.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (22 January 2013):

Right, this is abit ovbious, you are getting abit bored now, if you haven't done much you need to step it up maybe just a little. Like let's say you just kiss, hug&hold hands. Go abit more snog&make out..try it don't be nervous!!

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A reader, anonymous, writes (22 January 2013):

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Thanks! Also this is was quite embarassing but that night I saw her we got carried away and because I was nervous I couldn't get it up! I spent all the time since worrying about it! Hopefully I'll feel better when I see her!

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A female reader, R1 United Kingdom +, writes (22 January 2013):

R1 agony auntI don't think a spark can disappear just like that. You will have good days and bad days, good weeks and bad weeks. No one feels the same way all the time. Sounds like she's a nice girl who you are into. Don't allow the doubts to creep in and spoil something which could be really good.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (22 January 2013):

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Oh and I forgot to add it may possibly be that I'm a little bored of texting. A girl I was seeing before never wanted to meet, just text. Another girl I was seeing hardly had time for me, so most of that was text, but this girl, I will be seeing her as much as possible so could it be that?

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