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writes:I want to apologize to a man that I did something that he doesn't like. I don't know what they are but he seems not interested in me anymore and got mad also. we're staying in the same house and he doesn't want to come close to me or where I am. I feel guilty and sad that he acts like that and I cannot ask him what's wrong cuz he said he doesn't want to answer any question about whats going on or whats wrong in our relationship. so i want to tell him that i want us to stay as a friends and quit having sex. i don't know if he's planning to quit having sex too or just acting this way cuz he's mad but for me quiting is better. so how do I talk to him that not make him more angry or want to go further while i am talking? how do I tell him to understand fully and not getting his mood worse or hate me more? Please people help me....... Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 May 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionYou know what you are right and that's what I'm trying right now.but to me the space that's coming between us to give him time,it works for me too but differently the longer we're not talking to each other the less feeling for him.it's like right now just friends is all am waiting for and no feeling of being bf and gf like we use to.and it is good in some ways I think.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 May 2011): Leaving him a lone for a while. He may need time to gather his thoughts and if so he'll talk to you when he is ready. Pursuing him is only going to anger him further.
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