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writes:Hello, I recently started (about a month ago) having sex with my boyfriend as I was a virgin. Everything is okay but he is 9 inches and everytime he goes in it hurts. The pain goes away after awhile but it still hurts real bad going in. Is there anything I can do to ease the pain?Thanks xoxo Reply to this Question
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reader, staci +, writes (16 January 2007):
My guy is 9 plus and oral is hard enough but he loves anal so to ease the pain we use baby oil and it slides like a charm. Also having me bend over opens me up a bit. Good luck! I got past it.
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reader, daughteroflilith +, writes (23 June 2006):
if it doesn't hurt after a while then the problem is probably nerves because you are literally braced for the pain. Your body naturally will make you tense up, so the more relaxed you are about it the less it will hurt which is probably why it stops hurting as you go on. Definately try being on top for a while if you do this then you'll get used to it not hurting so much and hopefully the next time you are underneath you'll be fine
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 June 2006): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionNo, this isnt the same person...but thanks everyone for answering. I hope it works!
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reader, willywombat  +, writes (22 June 2006):
 Wonder if this is the same people that said 'my BF had a 13" penis'.....mmmm?
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reader, camille +, writes (22 June 2006):
 By you going on top of your boyfriend, you can control how deep you feel comfortable with. As long as you are 'ready' for penetration there shouldn't be pain as the vagina can expand to huge proportions (if a baby can fit through then a large penis shouldn't be a problem). It may be that you are psycholgically building up mental blocks and barriers to him as you think he's too big for you. Try to relax and if it's discomfort, it may change in time.After all, he is your first sexual encounter. If it's pain, perhaps a chat with your doctor to see if everything's ok.
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reader, sexylinz +, writes (22 June 2006):
 hey hun,the first thing you can do is to try using lubrication or asking your boyfriend to hold back from entering you untill you are 'wet' enough. As once this has occured you will be more naturally lubricated and also more relaxed.also if you feel that after a while this is not working try using some different positions... doggy style is a good one to use if you fell he may be too big for you.remeber sex is fun...not ment to be painfull. experiment with each other fing out what is more comfortable for the both of you.good luck hun xxif u find you need to talk about this further just email me...dont hesitate!!
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