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Should I pursue sex with my hot neighbour?

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Question - (6 March 2019) 3 Answers - (Newest, 8 March 2019)
A male United States age 22-25, anonymous writes:

I'm currently 20 and the next door neighbor who still hot, probably 29 or 30 years old and is not married but does have 2 children is turning me on. I want to have sex with her. Should I just go for it. I mean I don't know that i can hold a serious relationship with her. What should i do?

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A female reader, TasteofIndia United States +, writes (8 March 2019):

TasteofIndia agony auntLord have mercy, kiddo - chill your hormones. Like WiseOwlE said, stick to the fantasy, but for the love of Pete, don't be a creep and try to bang the MILF next door. She's a single Mom with enough on her plate. If she was trying to hook up, she knows where you live. She hasn't come knocking at your door, so please don't knock on hers. Just let her live. I imagine that life is already hard enough for her without her own home being a place where she feels ogled by the horny neighbor boy.

Enjoy the fantasy behind closed doors, if you insist on indulging in your imagination, but treat the woman with respect and privacy in real life, please.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (7 March 2019):

Honestly, I don't think she wants to be treated like a MILF on a porn video. She has two kids to support and take care off; and doesn't need a third horny kid sniffing around just for sex, and to complicate her life.

I recommend you stick to fantasy and stay within your own age-group. She's a grown-woman with too much responsibility on her hands to just to be your sex-object, or to be looking for a boy toy.

I'm pretty sure she'd let you know that.

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A female reader, Andie's Thoughts United Kingdom +, writes (7 March 2019):

Andie's Thoughts agony auntGet over the hormones, OP. "Don't sh*t where you eat". The last thing your neighbour needs is the horny young man next door trying to use her for sexual release.

I get it, I do, but it's not worth it. Besides, what do you mean "just go for it"? She needs to want it too. What would you say? "Hey Jane, wanna have sex?" I think your fantasy is overruling your ability to think logically and about consequences. You don't need to have sex with every woman you're attracted to :P

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