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I live in Victoria Australia .
What qualifies me to help people ? hmmmm , I dont like the word " qualifies " but anyhow , people always come to me because I have considerable experience and they know they will get a no nonsense answer . If I dont know , I dont try and pretend that I do .
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Should the girl always make the first move when it comes to sex?
Q. Should it be right for the girl to always make the first move when it comes to sex?? I have been seeing my boyfriend now for just over 2 months and he's 28. I wouldn't necessarily say that he's shy however some nights when i go down to see him we ...
A. 2 March 2010: Each to their own ..Id be ripping your clothes off , bet he takes it slower , just be gentle with him , make a small move , Its just how this guy is ..
There is NO black / white answer , just make a pass .... (read in full...)
My husband is in prison and I don't miss him, but I have strong feelings for another
Q. Hi,ive been married now for 11 years and i'm a proud mom of 2. My husband recently got himself into some legal trouble and got 2 years imprisonment. I also discovered that i have strong feelings for a mutual friend of ours. I'm not sure what his...
A. 2 March 2010: To Laura1318 ...
With due repect any Man/Woman could use this as an argument . Emotions , situations ..are certainly not " owned " by women .
For this poster .. " Stand by your man " ..is an obvious responce , and certainly what s... (read in full...)
My husband is in prison and I don't miss him, but I have strong feelings for another
Q. Hi,ive been married now for 11 years and i'm a proud mom of 2. My husband recently got himself into some legal trouble and got 2 years imprisonment. I also discovered that i have strong feelings for a mutual friend of ours. I'm not sure what his...
A. 28 February 2010: I really think now is the time to stick by your husband , I can certainly understand you feeling lonely and " drawn " to your mutual friend . But now is the time your husband really needs you , he is in a difficult situation , they say you know ... (read in full...)
Why are men so cruel when it comes to dating us curvier women?
Q. Ok..I previously posted a question...I went on a blind date with a gentlement who I was talking to for 2 weeks..we were constantly on the phone and texting galore..It felt fantastic, he learned about me and I of him... I'm not big, but I'm not a ...
A. 23 February 2010: I think you have answered your own question . He told you from the beginning he only likes slim women , he didn't want to waste your time , I dont think you are being completely honest about your weight . Often people who like to use the word " ... (read in full...)
Strippers, porn...what's wrong with women saying that we will not accept this rubbish in our relationships?
Q. I just read a post about a woman who was upset her partner is going to a strip show...I was appalled to see the advice that'''oh you should trust him' 'all men do it etc' To me this womens feelings are completely justified and she is demonstr...
A. 21 February 2010: Excellent informed and logical posts Miamine..you addressed many other areas I had not considered .
Good input !... (read in full...)
Was this rape? Or consensual?
Q. About a year ago, I was in a relationship with a guy who was 21. I was 16 at the time. We had sex, and I consented (well, I couldn't legally give consent, but I said yes). Now that the relationship's been over for a few months, I'm feeling more ...
A. 21 February 2010: Here in Australia Its certainly NOT rape , you are over 16 years and he is 21 years , this is obviously not the case in the wonderful US of A , and it would depend which state you were etc etc .
However the big question you must ask your sel... (read in full...)
Should girls shave their pubic hair, or do guys find it attractive?
Q. ok i hope no one thinks im nasty or something but should girls shave pubic hair? or do guys find it attractive for girls to have it? im not haveing sex or anything i just wanted to know? ...
A. 20 February 2010: NO HAIR NO HAIR NO HAIR ! without doubt , make sure you re shaved and groomed there is nothing worse than a great big mound of pubic hair ..Especially if you want the guy to pleassure you Orally , pubic hair is disgusting . I like to see what... (read in full...)
How to provide her with comfort?
Q. Hi. I need some advice, i've been with my girlfriend for 9 months now, i'm 27 and she's 36 we both have a lot in common and share some great times together. Her husband died nearly 3 years ago in a motorbike accident and she also has two daughters ...
A. 15 February 2010: Mate , you are too young for her for a start , stop looking for a mother figure , the man should always be older .
Secondly ..get out of there , you are cramping her , you have lasted buggar all time and you shouldn't have moved in anyhow .... (read in full...)
Do all guys get grossed out by kissing their partner after she gives you head?
Q. okay i have a question for all of you guys out there (girls feel free to answer if youve been in this situation). okay do all guys get grossed out by kissing thier partner after she gives you head? my boy friend doesnt want to kiss me after ive ...
A. 14 February 2010: Naturally you deserve a Giant BIG kiss ! This guy doesn't know what hes missing out on ..hes silly . As others have probably said ..Just dont Blow him if he refuses to kiss you ... Imagine if you wouldn't kiss him after going do... (read in full...)
My boyfriend watches porn and visits gentleman clubs. I don't know what to think about all this, and what are the gentlemen really doing in their clubs??
Q. Questions, specially from all the guys out there. Do all men have to watch porn? Is it OK for a guy, who is in a relationship, to go to gentleman clubs. The thing is that I've been having problem with understanding why my bf watches porn or go to ...
A. 13 February 2010: Interesting ..the poster wanted the view of men and all she got was one guy , the rest from women , these views are not relevant to the question .
Sweet poster you live in different states , you should be jumping for joy if all hes doing is... (read in full...)
Would it be so bad to get a tattoo reminding me of him, even though this weekend will be the first time we have met up?
Q. I have recently met a younger man (3 years) on a dating website. We have texted and talked on the phone. We are supposed to meet this weekend. To add insult to injury his father passed away this last Monday. I feel a VERY strong connectio...
A. 12 February 2010: Sorry ..Its an absolutely STUPID idea , tattoos are for ever and are more ugly as you get older ..You dont even know this Guy .
If in 5 years time , you still happen to be together ( which you probably wont ) ..Get it then ..Yuk !... (read in full...)
A male stripper forced my wife's hand down his underwear, and she touched his Penis. I say it's no big deal, but she feels guilty. IS it a big deal?
Q. Hi everyone, this says I'm Male, but it's really both myself and my wife asking this. So please address your replies/advice to both of us. We are doing this together as a solution to our little problem. Here it is. My wife's very close friend is ...
A. 12 February 2010: Sorry , Its a gross over reaction . If you are going to attend these kind of parties its exactly what you would expect ..Noone has been hurt . Its really is a case of build a bridge ..
If you were concerned with issues like this DONT att... (read in full...)
How do I accept my bf looking at naked pictures?
Q. Hi there, need some help! I have low self esteem and I have just found out my boyfriend has been looking at half naked girls on the internet through his phone. I am totally annoyed at this n feel abit angry. Is this wrong? I don't want to say anyt...
A. 12 February 2010: Personally I dont get off on Porn , although I do like magazines showing " homegirls " etc , I enjoy going though those and exploring the sexual power of women , these are very basic naked shots ..no legs spread etc .
But its true most guy... (read in full...)
I don't think I can forgive and forget his stag night to the strip club!
Q. I know I am not the first female in the world to have an issue with strip clubs but my boyfriend lied to me for 6 months and I had to force the truth out of him before he confessed to going to one on a stag night. I told him from the outset of our ...
A. 12 February 2010: My god ! what an incredible over reaction ..No wonder he gets angry ..Big Deal , so he has attended a strip club ..LIGHTEN UP GIRL ! this really is Crazy .
There are some problems you are 5 years older than him , this always presents problems... (read in full...)
Husband had sex with a stripper!
Q. My husband had sex with a stripper. he said it only happened once. he's been going to strip clubs, always getting lap dances from strippers. I am just so disgusted just thinking about him rubbing against other women. i still love him, can i ever ...
A. 12 February 2010: You answered your own question " You cheated on him too " ..Why would you be any better ? How does he know you wont do it again ?
Naturally , he should contril to attend lap dancing , Its good clean sensual , hot , sexy Fun ...
But ... (read in full...)
Do I trust him after his flirtiness...I'm in turmoil...
Q. Hi everyone, When your partner has made you feel so insecure by having flirty/sexy and emotionally close relationships with other women which he thinks are 'just a game' and you are distraught when you find out, how do you ever trust him again?? ...
A. 12 February 2010: Please no offence , but you sound scarey!
Your reaction is way toooooo over the top and you are simply showing your own insecurity . Get yourself some outside intersts ...
But please , dont put this man down just because he has some " fr... (read in full...)
How far can a stripper go during a lap dance?
Q. Hello all! Something has been bothering me about my boyfriend's past that isn't really important in the big scheme of things, but despite knowing this it still bothers me. Here's the deal: My boyfriend went to a (fully nude) strip club right be...
A. 11 February 2010: You certainly cant do as described in Australia , we certainly have fully nude ( for the dancer ) and the grinding of the virgina into the errect penis , however the man is always clothed .
I do like the sound of the dance you describe... (read in full...)
He had his first lap dance and I'm feeling even more insecure now, help me cope, please.
Q. Hello there, I have a problem, which makes me feel bad about myself. I'm insecure, and I'm not sure why, and I wish I could somehow turn off some switch inside me to stop feeling like this. It's about strippers and strip clubs. I wish so much ...
A. 11 February 2010: I think you are fortunate that is all he does , you are correct strip clubs are great , incredibly sexy , sensual , and simply awesome lap dancers you can recieve if you know what to look for .
I would use this as a trigger , to get yourself... (read in full...)
Why do men like fake boobs so much?
Q. Why do men like fake boobs so much? In my country, guys seem to prefer fake boobs. These are some famous models in my country, which all men drool over (no nudity, just bikini clad, but probably NSFW): http://i48.tin...
A. 11 February 2010: At your age I agree with you totally , certainly dont get them , I love small breasts myself , a tight body is what is important . But I like implants also , if done well .
I brought my girl some implants , but this was what she wanted ,... (read in full...)
Strippers, porn...what's wrong with women saying that we will not accept this rubbish in our relationships?
Q. I just read a post about a woman who was upset her partner is going to a strip show...I was appalled to see the advice that'''oh you should trust him' 'all men do it etc' To me this womens feelings are completely justified and she is demonstr...
A. 11 February 2010: I think you are actually trying to fight nature , yes its no problem you could express your opinion that you dont approve , but a male attending exoctic dance club is not actually cheating .
In the majority of the world ( in numbers ) men ha... (read in full...)
I hit my boyfriend as a joke, but he took it serious and he hit me back. Please, I truly need help!
Q. Well last night my boyfriend and I went to a party and got drunk. After that I hit his lower side, basically his balls. I did it in a joke a stupid one. After that he slapped me in my face and i started bleeding. I was so shocked because he never ...
A. 10 February 2010: You must never kick a guys balls ..and you certainly dont do it saying " It was a joke " , It was not .
You assalted him , he defended himself ..fair is fair .
Im glad you got back together .... (read in full...)
The lap dance he was offered made me feel jealous. Should I consider being present at a second show?
Q. I am a soon-to-be bride and my fiancé' and I have been together for a long time. I was never a jealous girl; however, once I got that ring the jealousy hit me. It didn't occur to me until my beau received a lap dance....it was a "celebration" lap ...
A. 10 February 2010: Wow ..What a detailed question!
I really do think you are putting too much thought into it , lap dancing is sensational ..if done well , and its extremely sensual , exotic and VERY exciting , and YES guys love it . Pretty much all guys , a... (read in full...)
Has he been in a lap dancing club? He's fairly attentive to me and a good father to my child, but it's the deceipt I cannot tolerate.
Q. Hi, I have just found out my husband has been into a lap dancing club. Basically the other night i found out he had been viewing porn and he lied about it to me. My husband travels a little with his job, usually Prague, a few years ago he used to go ...
A. 10 February 2010: Really I think that you should just give him a break , you said yourself he is a good husband and father , so please dont feel decieved , hes only going lap dancing .
Its just really good clean fun and really no harm is done . Guys will alw... (read in full...)
How do you give a lap dance?
Q. How do you give a lap dance? What makes it feel really awesome and what is the best way to end it before the sex? Should the sex come after oral sex or no oral at all? and I need details please I have no clue what I'm doing?!?!...
A. 10 February 2010: A sensual , exotic lap dance is an art and a skill , but you sound like you are just dancing for your boyfriend ? the way your question is structured , I will talk about the dancing , so many girls get it wrong . The setting is very important , ... (read in full...)
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