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writes: Me and my husband hadn’t had sex for 3 days because of his busy schedule. And when we finally did it he did not ejaculate a lot like he usually does even when we do it every day. Is that normal or should I be worried?
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 November 2022): You are the one with the problem, a huge problem. Analysing every little detail like this looking for faults and proof of this and that is paranoia, fear, it will eat you up and make your life difficult and ruin your relationship if you continue to do this. Get therapy urgently and stop making out he is the one with the problem.
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reader, TasteofIndia  +, writes (23 November 2022):
 THREE DAYS? This is nothing to worry about. Why didn't he ejaculate as much? Well, maybe he masturbated that morning. Maybe he's been stressed. Maybe that's just what his body decided to do that day.
Please don't read too much into this. It sounds like if this roused your suspicion, then perhaps you had previous reasons to suspect infidelity - but this is not evidence, this is just life, queen. No worries on this one.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 November 2022): This is what insecurity and suspicion makes people do. You jump to conclusions and create imaginary problems.
Three days?!! Are you kidding me?!!
Don't presume your spouse is cheating based on the volume of his sperm. That is ludicrous! There are more serious and incriminating forms of evidence from which to draw such a drastic conclusion. Being a male, I know that I don't care how much sperm you may have today, it isn't always the same; and it isn't always a lot. You seem to know little about male biology; and your assumption about this matter is a little silly. A lot of sperm doesn't mean you more turned-on, it doesn't mean you're a super-stud. It means basically nothing, except you may sometimes ejaculate a lot; and other times you might not.
Sperm volume means nothing, unless it is "always" super low. A gushing ejaculation is a myth that comes from porn. They have squirt bottles, and camera angles to create an illusion. You're exaggerating. It may just seem like a lot; but it's more if you haven't ejaculated recently, than when you have. Your testicles don't fill-up like your bladder. Do some research about it, and educate yourself.
If you want to create problems in your love life, this is a great way to do it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 November 2022): Maybe he'd masturbated already. A quick, easy fix to wanting sex and maybe not having the time or the energy to put effort into having sex with you, his partner.
There's a possibility that he ejaculated somewhere other than his hand, but that's difficult to ascertain.
Do you have a reason for mistrusting him? If you do, look out for other hints that he might be being unfaithful, but remember, it might be that he masturbated recently. If you have sex daily usually and then didn't have sex for three days, he must have missed it and maybe did something about it, on his own.
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reader, kenny  + ♥, writes (22 November 2022):
 Personally i don't think you have got anything to worry about. As you say lately he has had a busy schedule and probably has a lot on his mind at the moment.
It was only three day's since you had sex, and then you noticed a slight change that he did not ejaculate the same as he normally does.
At this stage as i say i would not worry as i suspect its work related and a change in normal patterns.
Try not to worry, but just keep your eye out for any more changes in his habits.
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