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Has anyone had their hymen broken riding a horse (and did it hurt)?

Q.   Hi my 16 year old sister is going horse back riding for the first time . one day she was looking up things about sex , virginity and other stuff. mostly on dr. drew's web site and gurl.com about the hymen that we women have she found out that the ...

A.   28 December 2007: hey i have been going horse back riding once every week for about 2 years now, and I don't think I have broken my hymen. You see there is no real way to tell unless you go to the dr., so even if I did break my hymen I didn't feel any pain, so I ... (read in full...)

My boyfriend asked me if I would have an orgy, which I'm anxious to try but don't know what to do.

Q.   my boyfriend recenty asked me if i would have an orji. me and 3 other boys. i am quite anxious to try it and would like to give it a go but i wouldnt know what to do... i am ready for sex have done it tons of times but i dont know whether it would ...

A.   4 October 2007: everyone here has told you not to do it, but the real desicion is up to you. if you don't want to then don't, I wouldn't advise it, but it is your life and your body! so respect it and if your bf doesn't then he doesn't deserve you! I don't think ... (read in full...)

His ex sent a text to my bf mentioning weed and sex! I feel he also compares me to her! How should I react? I'm aggrevated!

Q.   I am actually new to the whole relationship and dating game and dont know much on how to act and what exactly to do...i have a boyfriend now since april and took it to a very big level by moving in with him at his parents house...we do everything ...

A.   4 October 2007: I know it might be hard, but I really think you need to talk to him. tell him how you feel and confess to him about reading his texts! then you can be honest with him and he will be able to feel that he can be honest with you!! I think he migh... (read in full...)

What should a wife do when her husband is going to prostitutes?

Q.   What should a wife do when her husband is going to prostitutes?...

A.   14 August 2007: You deserve a man that is devoted to you especialy since he made a vow to you to have you as the only "one" in his life. I think you should leave him unless you don't mind having a husband that has to pay for others to give him sex and then come ... (read in full...)

I had sex with my brother and I'm worried about being pregnant.

Q.   I had sex with my brother I only started my period a month ago and I know your not even supposed to have produced eggs by this point but I'm worried and I don't want tests or to tell anyone. Please help....

A.   14 August 2007: If I may ask why with your brother? (you don't have to answer) You have started your period so now you are able to get pregnant, so I think you need to take the morning after pill. I know you might be enbarassed but I think you will feel much ... (read in full...)

I am 12 and I want to have sex without being caught

Q.   iam 12 and want sex i just moved dont know any body. Who can i have sex with and not get caught?...

A.   12 August 2007: If you are that desparate then I say go for it as long as you know what you are doing and can except the consequences. But if you are not ready and are just doing it to be cool...STOP....that is not cool! It means you have no self respect! Remember ... (read in full...)

How do I know if I'm ready for sex (or not)?

Q.   I don't know if I am ready for sex but I really want to give my boyfriend my virginity he is really nice and cares about me and is only willing to do it if I am ready for it. It will be my first time and he is wanting to make it the best. How will I ...

A.   12 August 2007: thank you guys! We have been together for a year and I think I am ready but I don't know what to expect what was your first time like? We are getting together this weekend while his roomate is away and I think we are ready. Can you give me more ... (read in full...)

My boyfriend and i broke up, then got together again... now he's obsessed with sex!

Q.   My Boyfriend and I of six years recently had a huge fight we broke up and everything. Well, we made up finally and were working things out. about 2 months ago I mentioned in passing that maybe we could have Sex. And sense then thats all he wants ...

A.   12 August 2007: I don't think he is the guy for you if the only thing he can think about is your specail place, cause you deserve someone who respects you and only does what you are comfortable with so dump him and move on!!!... (read in full...)

I'm getting married and I don't want to! What do I do?

Q.   well, I'm so confused and the issue itself has been causing me a depression since it happened that I thought of committing suicide just to escape the scandal. I'm 23 years old and due to circumstances I was pushed into a relationship and I lost my ...

A.   12 August 2007: I don't think he will really be able to know unless you tell him. You should be able to talk to him though because it is not good to keep secrets especially from someone you are about to spen (hopefully) the rest of your life with. If you want to I ... (read in full...)

I'm fed up of having casual sex, I want a boyfriend.

Q.   I think i'm falling for this guy... He told me the other night that he was into me and also said he would love to "have fun" with me. The thing is, this guy is gay...(I'm a girl). He said although he's gay he likes a very select few girls. I'm very ...

A.   12 August 2007: I don't think you want to have a relationship with him cause he probably won't be very faithfull to you, but if you are really falling for him talk about your fealings let him in on them. I totally agree about the casual sex thing sex isn't ba... (read in full...)

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