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It haunts me a lot, the idea that my girlfriend has slept with other men...

Q.   I still have a problem accepting the fact that my girlfriend has slept with other men. Three others to be exact. Now, I do not judge her for it. It does not change the fact that I love her. It just hurts sometimes, like if I see a picture of one ...

A.   21 April 2008: Thank you anonymous. I believe you are absolutely correct. I am grateful that someone can realize that I am not an aggressor here, and that I only want to better myself and end the pain. Finally someone with enough sense to realize it.... (read in full...)

Tips to compensate for smaller than usual size?...

Q.   Hey i have a smaller than usually penis (4 in. irrect approx.) and wondering if anyone has a tip or two that would give me an edge in bed. I'm willing to try almost anything (not going to have "it" anytime soon but would enjoy some prior knowledge). ...

A.   26 February 2008: Let's see, first of all... have you hit puberty? It gets bigger after that. A woman's vagina is usually only about 4-6 inches deep, and most of the nerves are toward the outside. So, you really don't have much to worry about.... (read in full...)

I dream my girl cheated on me, am I being paranoid?

Q.   i recently had a dream of my girlfriend cheating on me. and in the past i have always been very reluctant to trust any girl that i have been with, including my current girlfriend. we have been together for nearly 16 months now, and no strong trust ...

A.   20 February 2008: Hey man. I have been through the same things. Ignore people that dog on you for being insecure. Its something thats not desirable, but with maturity that should work itself out. You're pretty normal... everyone fears losing the one that they ... (read in full...)

How can I tell my friends I can't help them out with their studies?

Q.   I hope that the moderators still publish this, being that it's not a sexual love relationship. I am currently a Biological Sciences major at the University of Nebraska. Along with my biology courses, I must take chemistry. Chemistry at the...

A.   20 February 2008: I must add that the assignments aren't group assignments or projects. They are assignments online that allow a certain number of missed answers. A lot of people collaborate to test out different ideas. One person gets 4 attempts. If two people ... (read in full...)

She doesn't see anything wrong with posting trashy pics of herself on line. Am I being out of order?

Q.   I'm going to try to be as fair on this question as possible. I'm not going to leave anything out, even things that I did. My girlfriend and I have been together for years. Toward the beginning of the relationship, she posted a picture on one o...

A.   7 February 2008: Okay, I have one more thing to add. I tried asking her why she would post that kind of picture. She replied that she didnt think it was trashy. After I commented on the fact that I knew she had been trying to show that she is a classy girl, I n... (read in full...)

She doesn't see anything wrong with posting trashy pics of herself on line. Am I being out of order?

Q.   I'm going to try to be as fair on this question as possible. I'm not going to leave anything out, even things that I did. My girlfriend and I have been together for years. Toward the beginning of the relationship, she posted a picture on one o...

A.   7 February 2008: Wow I butchered that... *Deemed AN accident *she and her promiscuous FRIEND... (read in full...)

She doesn't see anything wrong with posting trashy pics of herself on line. Am I being out of order?

Q.   I'm going to try to be as fair on this question as possible. I'm not going to leave anything out, even things that I did. My girlfriend and I have been together for years. Toward the beginning of the relationship, she posted a picture on one o...

A.   7 February 2008: I'll clarify... I would never strike a woman, ever. 1st picture: Black and white, close up of her kneeling on her in a very small bikini top. 2nd (deemed and accident): Her in a bra Third: She and her promiscuous posing in incredibly rev... (read in full...)

Is my ex just being nice or does he want to see me again?

Q.   I broke up with my boyfriend about a year ago and ran into him in the mall the other day. There has been no contact between us and at my suggestion we went for coffee. We kept things light and fun and it was good to catch up. The old feelings were ...

A.   31 January 2008: I think that if you still have feelings for him, you can get him back. You have both had time apart, and you're on very good terms. That is how my girlfriend and I were, we are now back together, and our bond is very strong. Just go with wha... (read in full...)

Does sex ever get boring?

Q.   can you ever get bored of having sex? or does it get boring if you have it too much?...

A.   19 December 2007: I have been dating my girl for nearly two years. You get to the point where it starts to get boring... so spice it up. Switch up positions, or where you do it (my favorite haha) Its better than being bored and not having sex.... (read in full...)

Can a girl feel a guy ejaculate in her? Your experiences on the matter?

Q.   Can a girl feel a guy cum in her? What are your experiences on the matter? ...

A.   19 December 2007: Yes she can, unless he doesnt have much force behind it. When I have sex with my girlfriend, she says that she can feel it. have fun!... (read in full...)

Is it wrong to ask a guy out??

Q.   Is it wrong to ask a guy to go out with you or should you just keep it old fashioned? ...

A.   30 November 2007: To straight-up answer your question... No. Its not wrong. Its really flattering.... (read in full...)

We can't get it on b/c I just don't fit! We've tried so many things - anymore suggestions?

Q.   I've been dating my girlfriend for over a month now. We've yet to have sex because every time we try, and it seems at least 2-3 times a week, I just can't get my penis to fit inside her. I've tried extra lubricated condoms, I go down on her ever...

A.   25 September 2007: I cant really give you an answer. Wish I had that "problem" lol... (read in full...)

Do I tell her I love her? Should I do it over the phone, or in person?

Q.   I have known this girl for a few years now and we're good friends. I Realized a couple weeks ago that I love her. I can't stop thinking about her. Ever since I realized that I loved her I haven't started the conversations at all. She has been the ...

A.   20 September 2007: Hey bud, go for it. Tell her you like her (dont say love just yet lol). Life is too short to wonder "what if." Its tough, I know. I went through the same thing many times. Good luck, you can do it.... (read in full...)

She tells everyone how she misses me, and how this is the worst breakup she has ever had, and that she wants me back... but then she doesnt act it.

Q.   I dated a woman for a little over a year. I ended up breaking up with her because of a few lies about her past. I couldn't care less about what she did in her past, but the lies made me realize that I can't trust her. I have moved on since t...

A.   23 July 2007: I see that I need to add a few things... I had told her many times that I didnt care about her past, because after all, I dont care. I just believe that trust is the base of any relationship... so when she lied to me about all the things, I felt a... (read in full...)

How can I sleep with my boyfriend who has HIV, but not get it myself?

Q.   How do you catch HIV/AIDS? I kissed my boyfriend (who's just been dignosed with HIV) a couple of days back. Have i got the STD? Please reply, i'm really worried. Also i'm thinking of having sex with him. What would be the best contraception to use ...

A.   18 July 2007: This is a difficult situation. In this case, maybe you should wait until you know you will end up with him... just in case you contract HIV. This way you know that you will always have each other. Good luck... (read in full...)

My boyfriend wants to make love but my ex wants mad sex! Who do I choose?

Q.   hey i need advice how do i decide between my boyfriend and my ex??? i'm a virgin n i really love my boyfriend n my ex. i think i'm ready to go all the way but the problem is i want them both to b my first...i kno its not possible but i cant decid...

A.   18 July 2007: Hey, I would say wait it out until you know for sure what you want. Its tough, I know from experience. But, you will be much happier if you know what YOU want :)... (read in full...)

I'm 14 and considering having sex for the first time... I'm scared! My Mum says I should wait it out, what should I do?

Q.   hi im 14 and considering having sex for the 1st time the thing is im really scared ive talked to my mum she told me that il enjoy it more if i wait and if i really like the guy i do it with. i think shes only saying this to prevent me from having ...

A.   18 July 2007: I had sex at a very young age. It was great at the time. Ever since then, I have felt horrible and dirty about it. Make sure its with someone you really care about. I'm not here to tell you yes or no, but just to let you know that there are ... (read in full...)

What's the best excercise plan for losing weight?

Q.   is it better to eat before you exercise or after you exercise? in the morning i prefer working out. should i eat my breakfast first, then wait 45min then workout? or should i eat after? what's the best? OR should i just eat when i'm hungry and also...

A.   6 July 2007: I am a Biology major at the University of Nebraska. Your body's metabolism is an interesting thing... feed it too much, you gain fat... don't feed it enough, then your body will lock everything in that it possibly can. Here is what I feel wou... (read in full...)

I want to have sex with my girlfriend to bring us closer but she wants to wait

Q.   Hi there. Im a 17year old virgin. Well... ive been with my girlfriend for 5 months now. I love her so much but i wanna feel so much more. And we were discussing sex. And she says shes going to wait til she gets married. I heard sex takes your ...

A.   6 July 2007: Hey bud... try not to rush things, k? You did a very good job landing this girl. She is respectable, those girls are rare. Just go with it, I know its tough... but know that you have an incredible girl. God Bless... (read in full...)

I respect girls and treat them right. So why won't they date me?

Q.   Dear Everybody I'm 14 and surrounded by people my age with boy/girlfriends. All the boys in my year group are perverted and simply 'use' these girls to feel them up etc which is highly inaporpriate and In my opinion, very rude! I am one of onl...

A.   5 July 2007: The first thing that I want to say to you is never ever change how you are. I have been in both circumstances. I used to treat women like objects, and yes, I got a lot of play... BUT, those girls arent worth it. When I began treating them the way ... (read in full...)

Everytime I masturbate, I dont ejaculate ! Why is this?

Q.   Every time i masturbate i dont ejaculate i dont think i have ever ejaculated. Why is this? what can i do?...

A.   5 July 2007: Hey bud, well first off, maybe you havent hit puberty yet? If you haven't, then there wont be any sperm. But if you have, it could be just what dixiegirl said, it just hasnt developed yet. Don't worry though, it will work eventually.... (read in full...)

I want to kiss but not tell!

Q.   Hi please help. I want to kiss my new bf so so so bad but how do i let him know with out telling him. PLEASE HELP!...

A.   26 June 2007: Pounce. Just go for it. Show him you got some balls lol (just kidding) but seriously just go for it. He will like it :)... (read in full...)

I feel like he's cheating with these other girls

Q.   Me and my boyfriend were coming up on our 2nd year anniversary but lately things have been shaky. Then when I thought we got over all of our arguements, everything seemed fine, I went on his comp and found that he was talking to a girl he had once ...

A.   23 June 2007: Hun, I went through the exact same thing. I am no longer with the woman that put me through it. I gather that you are a sincere, loving person. I would say do what I did, give him an ultimatum. Either he stops talking with these other women, or ... (read in full...)

I don't want just a sex buddy any more, I want love

Q.   I never had a true relationship. How do I put myself out there? I decided to leave my 'friend with benefits' and seek someone who will care about me. I am overweight and lack the confidence to ask guys out. I have always spent my Fri/Sat nights ...

A.   23 June 2007: Well, my best advice would be to keep the physical part out. This way you will know that the man is sincere about a relationship. Good Luck :) hope it works!... (read in full...)

I hear rumours about him which he denies but he's really flirtatious

Q.   I have this new boyfriend and hes the ex of one of my good friends and i keep hearing bad things about him and he denys all of it. he seems relly sweet and i think we could of been fine if all my friends and his friends didnt get involved. I really ...

A.   23 June 2007: I will restrain myself from commenting on your age :) . Rumors are just that, rumors. Maybe they are true, maybe they are not. Don't trust a word anyone says. Find out for yourself. I have learned in my relationships that one must take it up... (read in full...)

I just turned 19 and the girl I am seeing is 17 and a half. Is it illegal to do sexual acts with her?

Q.   I just turned 19 and the girl I am seeing is 17 and a half. Is it illegal to do sexual acts with her?...

A.   22 June 2007: I guess I should have cleared things up... Sex isnt a priority for me at all. I was just wondering if she wanted it, could I give it to her. I live in Iowa, I have heard both yes and no for the legality of the issue. I'll just keep it in my pants.... (read in full...)

I have such ugly teeth I dont want to smile

Q.   I have really ugly teeth. People call me elephant girl bc they look like tusks. it really hurts me inside. and i really like this guy derrick but he makes fun of me too even though he has like the hairiest legs ever so he shouldnt be talking. should ...

A.   20 June 2007: Ah hunny. I'm sure you are a beautiful girl. If you want to change your teeth, however, it can be done. I know its hard, but try not to let them get to you. They are retarded... making fun of someone else so that they feel more secure. I cant ... (read in full...)

Could she be pregnant?

Q.   my girlfriend was jackin me off.and i came on her hand a little bit.and after that, she put hand sanitizer on her hands.then like, an hour and thirty minutes later, she went to the bathroom to "clean herself up".is there any chance that she is ...

A.   17 June 2007: Very unlikely, yet still possible. I would say dont worry about it, for two reasons. The odds in your swimmers surviving alcohol and an hour drying on her hands are insignificant. Also, even if there were a few sperm left, they would have to ... (read in full...)

Am I too needy? Does she maybe not understand my emotions? What?

Q.   I'm horribly confused. My girlfriend and I have been together for almost 3 years now. At the end of both our leases were planning on moving out together. I'm really happy with our situation and finally feel comfortable being near someone so much....

A.   12 June 2007: Hey bud, I think I may have been through the same thing before. Those emotions really suck, and I feel for you there. Whenever I feel all depressed, I think of all of the good things God has given me. I figure any day that I wake up is a goo... (read in full...)

My girlfriend dumped me for my best friend about 3 weeks ago and I cannot get over her.

Q.   My girlfriend dumped me for my best friend about 3 weeks ago and I cannot get over her........i still feel jealous, and kinda mad toward my friend....and I do not know how to get over her....I still love her and this hurts....her going out with my ...

A.   11 June 2007: Sounds to me like this "friend" is a big pile. You are way better off without the girl. Someone that dumps their significant other for the best friend is NOT a good person. Definitely not someone to date. You seem like a good person. Find a g... (read in full...)

I gave her a precise date amd time to decide whether she wants to get back with me..am I being unreasonable?

Q.   I posted a question earlier, and things have changed a bit, and I would like to hear some advice from you all. I will recap the roots of my problems. I was sent an email saying my girlfriend was cheating on me. The email said I could find evide...

A.   9 June 2007: Thanks, I really appreciate it. I was raised as a gentlemen, so I had to make sure I wasn't being a jerk. I'll update you guys wednesday.... (read in full...)

How do I get a really smoooooooth shave in my genital area?

Q.   Im 16 When i shave my vagina it leaves red dots and when i run my hand over my vagina it feels like i havent shaved, its all prickly and hurts.. how can i make it feel and look like there's no hairs there. Also do guys get turned off by a little bit ...

A.   8 June 2007: I dont really know much about shaving a vagina... as I am a guy... but I can tell you that I prefer some hair. As long as its not a big poof of fuzzy hair its all good!... (read in full...)

His uni work seem sto take priority over me and it's driving me mad! How do I deal with this?

Q.   Hi ya, what can i say apart from im driving myself demented with worry and insecurity. I have been seeing a lovely bloke for 2 months he lives 80 miles away but we get on great. Unfortunately at the moment he is in his last 10 weeks of a 3 year ...

A.   8 June 2007: I understand your insecurity. Trust me though, he has spent a lot of time and money in receiving his degree from the university. I admire the man for keeping his priorities straight. He realizes that if you two are to end up together, you will ... (read in full...)

Read her msn conversations with another guy! Is she cheating?

Q.   I recently read up on a msn conversation my girlfriend had with another guy. It was very intriging. How do I get over it. How do I know if she is cheating. I need help...

A.   8 June 2007: Well man, this is a tough situation. I had a similar one. I saw a message in my girlfriend's myspace inbox, and it looked like she was cheating. I confronted her on it, because I thought she had, and I was convinced that I was right. That was ... (read in full...)

Should I tell my new partner my ex and I had genital warts?

Q.   Hi, bit of a strange question but one I need to ask. I have recently come out of a very strong 4 year relationship, during the first 3 months of that realtionship, my ex girlfriend and I contracted genital warts (HPV), we are unsure as to whe...

A.   2 June 2007: by the way... genital warts are NOT curable. the symptoms may go away. but, you will ALWAYS have the virus. I'm sorry, friend. i hope the best for u!... (read in full...)

Should I tell my new partner my ex and I had genital warts?

Q.   Hi, bit of a strange question but one I need to ask. I have recently come out of a very strong 4 year relationship, during the first 3 months of that realtionship, my ex girlfriend and I contracted genital warts (HPV), we are unsure as to whe...

A.   2 June 2007: bud, you should get checked. if there is any possibility that you can transmit the warts. you must tell your girlfriend. if you love her, you need to protect her from warts. they can kill her. The Human Papilloma Virus-HPV aka genital warts can ... (read in full...)

My boyfriend and I fight all the time, how can we learn to communicate properly?

Q.   Hi, I really need help. My boyfriend and I are having differences, and when there is a fight ...he yells so much and then blames me for starting the fight and then goes on saying that i am manipulating him and or the situation and that i am makin...

A.   2 May 2007: You need to sit down with him sometimes when you arent arguing. Talk, and explain that you dont like it when you argue. Tell him how much it hurts to argue with someone that you love. Then ask if he has any ideas of how you both can avoid ... (read in full...)

I've been depressed for so long.. How do I get rid of it without going to the doctors!?

Q.   What is the best way to get rid of depression? I have had it for years and daren't go to the doctors. i don't want it on my records. What if this comes back to haunt me in the future. But - honestly i just cannot go on. i am so down all the time. I ...

A.   1 May 2007: Its not an uncommon thing. I know many people that take medications to help with their depression. My own father being one. He is a great man, and he is a well-respected community member and employee. And plus, who gives a crap what others t... (read in full...)

Im with someone new, things are great, but I'm so paranoid he will hurt me like the last guy!!

Q.   Hey, I'm going out with someone now, and I think i'ts great! He's kind, funny and quite sweet to me. But, I just can't help feeling parnoid that he'll end up hurting me like someone else did to me :( I just want to stop panicking about it, and I do ...

A.   1 May 2007: I'll start off by applauding you for realizing what would end up being unfair to your new guy. Out of experience, its very hard to trust the opposite sex after they trample all over you... stupid exes lol.... anyway, you don't have to trust hi... (read in full...)

Any other birth control methods aside from condoms?

Q.   I've been seeing my fella for a wee while now and I'm considering different types of birth control to go on. Just now we always use condoms, but he really doesn't like them and I think they do interupt our sex life but alway have to use them as I'm ...

A.   1 May 2007: With all-do-respect to the poster of the previous answer... do not do what she suggested. Coitus Interuptus, or "pulling out," has no contraceptive benefit. A man has pre-ejaculate that contains sperm. These sperm can find their way into your ... (read in full...)

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