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A friend old enough to be my grandfather told me I drank too much and then offered to have a FWB relationship with me

Q.   Hi everyone! Hope you can help me with this. I am a student in a country different than my own. I made a lot of friends at university and in my new life. One of them is a lot older than me and an artist (he just turned sixty and I am in my mid ...

A.   15 March 2012: you're not the weird one here sweety, HE IS. you did nothing wrong, i dunno if i got it right but lol he "offered" to have sex with him? lol just be careful of men like him... men who GIVE and GIVE and GIVE , then start asking for "favors" (se... (read in full...)

I'm falling in love with another man and I have a boyfriend!

Q.   hi all... I have been with my boyfriend for 9 years now, we have 2 kids together, things are usually pretty good with us, a few things that bother me are his mood swings one minute hes happy the next hes very miserable. through these nine years...

A.   19 November 2011: hi there, i'll tell you a story, a story about a man that broke 4 very important relationships that should be stronger than most "average" relationships. why? because those relationships are between family members. i'll tell you what happen... (read in full...)

I met someone online but everyone is always concerned for my safety!

Q.   I think it's terrible how a minority of wicked people can forever tarnish something which could be used for the good. I met the love of my life (and I'm not using those words lightly) online in August 2010. It wasn't a dating site, just one for ...

A.   19 November 2011: i went through the same thing... please read this till the end. i went through the same thing... the only difference between you and I is, that my relationship ended, it was an amazing, beautiful love story, well at least that's how i... (read in full...)

I love my boyfriend with all my heart, but why cant I stop obsessing about this other guy?

Q.   Please, help me. I have been with my partner for nearly two years now i am 20 years old (turned in June) he is my first love and i truly love him with all my heart and being,i picture my life with him and we have a fantastic relationship- we're op...

A.   7 September 2011: i guess you're being TOO LOYAL... i guess due to your Christian believes you might be having such a problem, i mean, i'm a Christian too, i'm 21 and i lost my virginity 1 year ago... Christianity puts too much pressure on a person... sex is n... (read in full...)

Should I reveal to my straight friend that I am interested in a possible sexual relationship with her?

Q.   Dear Cupid, my female friend and I share the same interests, beliefs, opinions and understand each other without saying. I consider her as my very soulmate. Lately, I felt something that goes beyond friendship. I desire to be with her, start so...

A.   10 January 2011: give it a try, if she doesn't know that u're a lesbian, she might be saying that she's straight cz she doesn't wanna tell you about her sexual orientation, but always think that she might really be straight, and if you tell her that you like her... (read in full...)

Could she have feelings for me?

Q.   First off i am a 23 year old female. There this girl i used to be friends with, for a long time. And i always liked her for more than a friend. I have never told her this. Well we use to talk a lot and after a couple people told her lies and started ...

A.   9 January 2011: we will never know unless you make a first step right? or else you can be stuck there forever! saying she loves, me she loves me not!!! make a move! don't be passive.... or else u'll live ur life guessing what would've happened... (read in full...)

My girl has me, but she has also gone with a boy. Why couldn't she put our relationship first? How do I cope?

Q.   A normal girl in love with another. Something I would have thought impossible for me, until over a year ago. I have been in love with her for a long time, I don't know why or how, but I am. On new years of last year she went the extra mile and kiss...

A.   9 January 2011: first of all, i'm a lez myself, and i've had a similar story somehow... ok,rule nb one, try to see a psychologist to get out of that depression! nb 2: let her go, YES !!! let her go!!! if she really loves you, she will come back! ( tell her... (read in full...)

Terrified to come out of the closet!

Q.   im gay i've known since just a bit after starting puberty. I probably would say it was in high school i knew i was gay, well im just a bit scared to come out because im the only one in my family which is gay and i see that as alot of pressure i just ...

A.   9 January 2011: hi, i'm a lez, and i came out to my parents about a year ago... if u're 100% sure u're gay, than you don't have to worry about going out of the closet... it will happen when it is time for it to happen.. don't over push it! but i'll tell you th... (read in full...)

How can I feel so deeply for someone that's been terrible to me?

Q.   Okay here's my problem. There's a boy that I think I'm in love with. I've always told myself that there's no way I could love him because you can't love somebody you can't trust and you can't love somebody that can't love you back. It's so co...

A.   4 January 2011: there is this sort of weird enigma, we tend to love people who are (or we think) are unobtainable, we even love them more when they hurt us, when they break our hearts. no one knows why that happens... but i can assure you, that that;s just a ... (read in full...)

How can I feel so deeply for someone that's been terrible to me?

Q.   Okay here's my problem. There's a boy that I think I'm in love with. I've always told myself that there's no way I could love him because you can't love somebody you can't trust and you can't love somebody that can't love you back. It's so co...

A.   4 January 2011: there is this sort of weird enigma, we tend to love people who are (or we think) are unobtainable, we even love them more when they hurt us, when they break our hearts. no one knows why that happens... but i can assure you, that that;s just a ... (read in full...)

Am I abnormal or just introverted?

Q.   I have friends, and a boyfriend. I'm only 15. Yet whenever I'm with people, I just don't enjoy it. I don't make an effort to talk to people, they talk to me but I just don't get why I don't like talking to them. Am I abnormal or just introverted? ...

A.   31 December 2010: hi, first of all we need to think why is that happening? was there any bad experiences in ur past? or maybe not a very good communication with ur parents? having trouble in any kinda way... school perhaps? you should find if there is a part ... (read in full...)

I'm paranoid about what could possibly be going on with my girlfriend...

Q.   Hello , i just want to know if its just my mind or if its actually happening !! im in a long distance relationship and believe me when i say my gf and i were soooooo much inlove , i still love her though like crazy but we had our ups and downs an...

A.   29 December 2010: i think being in a LDR b4 makes me understand what u're going thru why do we trust some people and not others ??? the answer is simple! because the people we trust usually don;t show us any "suspected behaviors" of being cheaters, wh... (read in full...)

Is it possible to get pregnant without penetrative sex?

Q.   Ok I have heard a lot of what I think are myths but I want to be sure about the subject of unplanned pregnancy. My question is if is really possible to get pregnant without even having intercourse. I have heard about the guy cummin on you and gett...

A.   29 December 2010: hi, i work in the medical field, and actually TimmD it is possible to get pregnant even if the sperm isn't inside the vagina but close to it... like comming on the vulva, near to the vagina, even without penetrating the woman, there is a risk that ... (read in full...)

Said he adored me. We broke up, so then he scared me when became abusive. Now wants me back?

Q.   Please help i loved someone, he looked cute. i dated him now 2 years together. He says he adores me, but one day we fought so hard, so i decided to break up. He started to scare me, with the msgs. He had he started to shout and say bad words, and ...

A.   29 December 2010: when you love someone, you love him for being good to you, for giving you a safe shoulder to cry on when u're feeling low and to be with u in good and bad times. SO basically we love someone who can make us feel safe... does he make you feel saf... (read in full...)

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