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I want to tell this man that I love him but I'm afraid its too soon

Q.   I was with my babys dad from 2008 to 2011. In 2010 I met this guy that i had interest in and my current relationship was on and off. When my babys dad and I broke up for awhile I started seeing this guy. we had a thing for about 6 months but i w...

A.   7 March 2012: Very true. but the other day he sat there and kept saying he is my sons "best buddy" lol and i said i think youre more than his best buddy and he said "well what do you want me to be then? thats up to you on what you want me to be to him." and I ... (read in full...)

Is the shape of my vagina normal?

Q.   Okay, I'm done worrying about this, so I'm just going to ask a few questions about my vagina and whether or not it sounds unusual. I've always thought I looked odd down there, but i figured that was just the way it was meant to look. I find vag...

A.   6 March 2012: i feel the exact same way about my vagina as you do. plus i just had a baby so now im more self conscious.... (read in full...)

He's 15, I'm 19, and I'm due to have his baby any day!

Q.   okay its going to sound weird that im asking this question now being in the predicament were in...here goes im 19 (girl) and my boyfriend is only 15..the reason were together is because he lied about his age for a year and when his mom told me the ...

A.   8 February 2012: Im a little late to reading this. I havent been on forever! But congrats on your baby! And I actually had a baby boy with the guy I was talking about but we are no longer together, which is for the better. My babys name is Kyson and he was born ... (read in full...)

I'm 14, is my penis going to change?

Q.   Hey guys, i am a 14 year old male and i want to know if my penis going to change. first of, it crooks a bit on the left. how can i fix this, i just want it to be straight, also my foreskin is too big? i don't know it just dont show my "head" i see ...

A.   20 September 2010: There's nothing wrong with either of these things. But I do agree it should be awhile before you have sex with anyone. I lost my virginity young and regret it. Dot let these things bug you..... (read in full...)

He doesn't even try to have sex with me anymore!

Q.   My boyfriend doesn't seem to want me as much lately. He doesn't kiss me, hold me, or tell me he loves me as much as he used to. He don't even try to have sex with me anymore! He used to try A LOT! I don't know if he's bored of me or if he found ...

A.   16 September 2010: I've heard I told youso many times.. But that don't change the fact that you love someone. I don't think anything does. He may be older but he's not as mature as he should be... And I'm done with this because it's just going to piss me off........ (read in full...)

He doesn't even try to have sex with me anymore!

Q.   My boyfriend doesn't seem to want me as much lately. He doesn't kiss me, hold me, or tell me he loves me as much as he used to. He don't even try to have sex with me anymore! He used to try A LOT! I don't know if he's bored of me or if he found ...

A.   15 September 2010: Well considering we were together over 2 years, maybe another 2 relationships aren't perfect dirtball. Shit happens. But if we keep coming back to each other that must mean something. And thank you miamine.... (read in full...)

He doesn't even try to have sex with me anymore!

Q.   My boyfriend doesn't seem to want me as much lately. He doesn't kiss me, hold me, or tell me he loves me as much as he used to. He don't even try to have sex with me anymore! He used to try A LOT! I don't know if he's bored of me or if he found ...

A.   13 September 2010: We worked things out.. We always do. We attempted to be physical last night but got interrupted..... (read in full...)

He doesn't even try to have sex with me anymore!

Q.   My boyfriend doesn't seem to want me as much lately. He doesn't kiss me, hold me, or tell me he loves me as much as he used to. He don't even try to have sex with me anymore! He used to try A LOT! I don't know if he's bored of me or if he found ...

A.   12 September 2010: I'm trying I told him we need to compromise and cooperate with each other. There's not only 1 but 2 people in this relationship. I've held my feelings in for so long about this situation that I just finally birdies. I think he's the one who thinks ... (read in full...)

He doesn't even try to have sex with me anymore!

Q.   My boyfriend doesn't seem to want me as much lately. He doesn't kiss me, hold me, or tell me he loves me as much as he used to. He don't even try to have sex with me anymore! He used to try A LOT! I don't know if he's bored of me or if he found ...

A.   12 September 2010: I guess you're right. I just want the answer that I want. With parent consent it's legal at the age of 16. But age don't matter to me.. I broke up with him tonight. He said he just wants one day of space then he wants to come back.. I don't think ... (read in full...)

He doesn't even try to have sex with me anymore!

Q.   My boyfriend doesn't seem to want me as much lately. He doesn't kiss me, hold me, or tell me he loves me as much as he used to. He don't even try to have sex with me anymore! He used to try A LOT! I don't know if he's bored of me or if he found ...

A.   11 September 2010: Legal age is 16. He's over 21 and it's already been a roller coaster. Like I said we've both made mistakes in the relationship. My mistakes have something to do with talking to other people his mistakes are not treating me how I way to be treated. ... (read in full...)

He doesn't even try to have sex with me anymore!

Q.   My boyfriend doesn't seem to want me as much lately. He doesn't kiss me, hold me, or tell me he loves me as much as he used to. He don't even try to have sex with me anymore! He used to try A LOT! I don't know if he's bored of me or if he found ...

A.   11 September 2010: hes the one that told me he wants to marry me. ive had to give up much more than he has.. i didnt stop him from hanging out with his friends. i just dont like it. he stops himself. i told him i wouldnt mind him hanging out with his friends if i ... (read in full...)

What else can I try to get rid of these stretchmarks?

Q.   I have really bad strech marks on the backs of my legs, thighs, hips, bum and breasts, what can i do to get rid of them? I've tried loads :( please help...

A.   11 September 2010: have you tried getting a liquid vitamin e and rubbing it on them? i have them too. ive had them for along time... they are hard to get rid of and i gave up on using the vitamin e because i have them everywhere and its so time consuming and you have ... (read in full...)

He's 15, I'm 19, and I'm due to have his baby any day!

Q.   okay its going to sound weird that im asking this question now being in the predicament were in...here goes im 19 (girl) and my boyfriend is only 15..the reason were together is because he lied about his age for a year and when his mom told me the ...

A.   11 September 2010: oh my god. some people are so rude. NO you're not a bad person. you cant change your feelings. and you didnt know he was this young. Im 17 and my boyfriend is 23. age to me is just a number and its not going to stop me from who i love. although he ... (read in full...)

I can't give my husband a baby! Shoud I tell him to leave me for someone who can?

Q.   I'm not sure whether or not this is allowed to go on here, but this is my story. I have been married for five months to the guy of my dreams, we met at Uni and had been going out for six years before our wedding in April. All our friends think we...

A.   10 September 2010: why dont you just adopt? or find a woman who will carry his baby so that it could be his own blood?... (read in full...)

How do I change where we are in our relationship right now and how do I make things better?

Q.   I have been dating a man for almost 2 years now. I am 20 years old and he is 30. He is one of the most serious relationships ive been in. i dated in school but nothing serious and i wasnt sexually active with any of them. And then when i graduated i ...

A.   10 September 2010: i know you might love him but you really really need to get away from him.. what if he does actually kill you one time? and just as you said you are better than that.. make him take a drug test too, to see if he is smoking. but all in all.. you need ... (read in full...)

He doesn't even try to have sex with me anymore!

Q.   My boyfriend doesn't seem to want me as much lately. He doesn't kiss me, hold me, or tell me he loves me as much as he used to. He don't even try to have sex with me anymore! He used to try A LOT! I don't know if he's bored of me or if he found ...

A.   10 September 2010: also i made him quit chewing and smoking. and him and i drink occasionally but not often. with his friends, if they drink he has to drink too.... (read in full...)

He doesn't even try to have sex with me anymore!

Q.   My boyfriend doesn't seem to want me as much lately. He doesn't kiss me, hold me, or tell me he loves me as much as he used to. He don't even try to have sex with me anymore! He used to try A LOT! I don't know if he's bored of me or if he found ...

A.   10 September 2010: hes older than me.. and now of days most people are doing that or worst.. but hes choosing not to hangout with them. im not forcing him not to. I dont like it though because they try to get him to break up with me and they talk shit about me and he ... (read in full...)

He doesn't even try to have sex with me anymore!

Q.   My boyfriend doesn't seem to want me as much lately. He doesn't kiss me, hold me, or tell me he loves me as much as he used to. He don't even try to have sex with me anymore! He used to try A LOT! I don't know if he's bored of me or if he found ...

A.   10 September 2010: I told him maybe he would want to see me more if he didn't see me everyday. He said but I want to spend everyday with you. ---- he sure don't act like it. Then we got into an argument last night and he was like I should see what Jason is ip to ... (read in full...)

How can I tell if my female friend is gay or likes me?

Q.   How can I tell if she's gay or likes me? Well, there's a girl that i think i have feelings for. We aren't really friends but I'm friends with her friends so I talk with her sometimes. Compared to everyone else she acts different with me kind of ...

A.   9 September 2010: thers a possibility. im bisexual.. and its hard to tell with girls. especially some who are just very friendly.. but why dont you just be like oh that girl is hot and see hwat she says.. or you could even just ask her if she is straight or bi. it ... (read in full...)

He doesn't even try to have sex with me anymore!

Q.   My boyfriend doesn't seem to want me as much lately. He doesn't kiss me, hold me, or tell me he loves me as much as he used to. He don't even try to have sex with me anymore! He used to try A LOT! I don't know if he's bored of me or if he found ...

A.   9 September 2010: We've been together two years. And yes we've had sex multiple times. We were even trying to have a baby about a month ago. He don't go to school he works. I've turned him down in the PAST but who doesn't gettirneddown. Lately I'll touch him and it ... (read in full...)

He doesn't even try to have sex with me anymore!

Q.   My boyfriend doesn't seem to want me as much lately. He doesn't kiss me, hold me, or tell me he loves me as much as he used to. He don't even try to have sex with me anymore! He used to try A LOT! I don't know if he's bored of me or if he found ...

A.   9 September 2010: We've been together for over 2 years. We've had sex multiple times. We were even trying for a baby. He don't go to school he works. I want to give my relationship my all because I want to be closer to him but it's seeming to just push him away. ... (read in full...)

Caught up between two guys... help!

Q.   I started dating my boyfriend about two years ago and we were together for 6 months, but it was long distance I only got to see him on weekends. we broke up for 4 months then got back together and have been together now for 13 months. I used do ...

A.   8 September 2010: I'm happily with my boyfriend of 2 years! We just needed to work things out and that's what we did. :) now I think we just gotta figure some other things out.. He has been making me feel unwanted lately... :( ... (read in full...)

Caught up between two guys... help!

Q.   I started dating my boyfriend about two years ago and we were together for 6 months, but it was long distance I only got to see him on weekends. we broke up for 4 months then got back together and have been together now for 13 months. I used do ...

A.   6 August 2010: I live at my parents he lives here with me. But pays rent at an apartment. My family is trying to force me to be with him. If I go somewhere they tell him where and when I come home they tell him to come over. I had a friend over once and my cousin ... (read in full...)

Ugly curse... or beautiful blessing?

Q.   How do I even begin? Well, I just feel the need to express my thoughts and get things off my chest because I am in a complicated situation that is leading me to lack of sleep because my brain won't stop thinking and debating. I am sixteen years ol...

A.   3 August 2010: Honestly do what you feel is rift. Talk to him about it. I was 12 dating a 18 year old 23 dating a 20year old 14 with a 21 year old and ive now been with my boyfriend of 23 for 2 years. Ofcourse everyone says oh my god age is a big deal that's gross ... (read in full...)

I think I'm bi, but when I make out with girls it doesn't feel completely right. How can I be sure?

Q.   hey evrybody out there.i am actually fairly young but i think i am bi.i make out with girls and it doesnt feel right.i like doing it but half of my wants me to stop.is there anything i can do to find out for sure?...

A.   15 August 2009: Just because you make out with a girl doesn't make you bi. Have you ever felt like you had feelings for a girl? Or try doing sexual things with one and see if you like it. Make sure you tell her you're just curious though. The first girl I dated I ... (read in full...)

How can I make my friend tell me if she is hitting on me?

Q.   i have this friend in school.she is hitting on me without a doubt.she touches my legs at the lunch tables and when she gives me a hug she makes sure i am sitting down so she can snuggle me with her breasts.i ask her a try to drop hints to make her ...

A.   15 August 2009: Tell her you don't care if she is bi or lesbian. She's your bestfriend and so that shouldn't bother you right? I'm a bi female myself. ... (read in full...)

My bf thought I was joking when I refused intimate contact as we had been talking about it, and he raped me. Please help me.

Q.   hi im 13 and i was raped by my 13 year okld boyfriend and think i might be pregnant i know he was only joking around and he thought i was joking when i said no because i had been talking about it please help me....

A.   29 November 2007: sweetie im 14 years old. i was touched and raped all through out my life and i actually got raped and knew what he was doing when i was 12 it completely changed me. and sweetie dont ever let anyone hurt you or touch you in that kind of way unle... (read in full...)

22 year old virgin. What can I do?

Q.   I am 22 years old and still a virgin. My friends think it's very strange and laugh at me. Are there other women in the same situation? Even my bf was turned off when I told him? How do i get him back?...

A.   29 November 2007: im 14 years old and believe me i wish i was a virgin!!!!! my best friend is now 20 years old but she lost her virginity at 19 theres nothing wrong with being a virgin. i think its amazing. but you probably think a 14 year old telling me this... (read in full...)

I am 13 and I want to have sex with my boyfriend

Q.   im 13 years old and im dating a boy who says he wants me marrie me :) and we have only been going out for 3 months. and we both love each other very much and we have been doing sex practices. not real sex but with our clothes on and it feels so good ...

A.   29 November 2007: I'm a 14 year old girl who lost my virginity at 12 and i regret it so much. the guy i lost it to i dont even see or talk to anymore.. probably because he is in jail but still... Don't have sex!!!! as everyone is saying, do other things. fingerin... (read in full...)

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