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We were fake dating, but do you think he is really interested?
Q. First of all, I've never had a bf until now. I have fallen for 2 guys in the past- they both lead me on, even kissed me.. but never asked me out. So, I met this guy, (Bob?) . We met through mutual friends about 4 months ago (I was kinda seeing a ...
A. 26 April 2010: It seems like he's taking the relationship seriously and cares about you. Trust him until he gives you a reason not too or else things will end up going array. I personally don't like putting my trust in people but i've learned that trusting until ... (read in full...)
I want to have sex with him so he will be happy but I'm scared it will hurt!
Q. im going out with the same boy for three years he wants to have sex and im 13 and hes 15. im really stuck cuz i love him and i want him to be happy but im scared when i do it its gunna hurt and thats what im really scared of. plzz help me if you can ...
A. 19 April 2010: Point blank: You shouldn't have sex with this boy to make HIM happy
Think about you. But no matter what age you are sex for the first time or maybe even the first couple of times is going to hurt. There's no getting around that. I don't think yo... (read in full...)
I want to lose my virginity... so confused!
Q. Hi,just wanted to get this out as i don't have anyone to talk to.I'm an almost 17 yr old girl and i'm beggining to feel as though i'm going to die alone.I've always told myself that this would never be something I'd worry about,but it's funny how ...
A. 19 April 2010: Why do you want to lose your virginity so bad?...and to just almost anyone at that. I'm not trying to judge you but I just want to understand. Really I can tell you honestly that losing your virginity to just "lose it" isn't something you want to ... (read in full...)
He sent me a flying kiss, is he a playboy?
Q. hi friends.i actually neede some counselling.and before i forget id say thanks in advance.and now for my problem.i am from a middle class family.and i love to spend my time in my balcony.four days ago i was standing in my balcony with my half wet ...
A. 1 September 2009: I agree with pinktopaz 100%
How can you love him you don't even know him, and he doesn't know you. What he's doing his called flirting. And he has no obligation to you your not his girlfriend so I wouldn't call him a player.
If you want to get ... (read in full...)
Could it be that my friend likes me? And how do I suggest to him that I like him back?
Q. i'm not sure if one of my guy friends likes me, he texts me everyday, hugs me alot and a couple of days ago he put his arm round me. we were talking and he said that he couldnt tell me who he and his friend were talking about and then i asked could ...
A. 1 September 2009: It's possible that he could like you.
And to show him that you like him you could flirt or you could just flat out tell him.
Hang out with him, ask him to a movie.... (read in full...)
Why has my bf started calling me by my surname?? I find it a little odd!
Q. my boyfriend has started calling me by my surname - like 'alright smith' - just think its a little funny - what does that mean?! ...
A. 1 September 2009: If you don't like it just let him know... (read in full...)
My family hates me...
Q. Everyone In My Family Hates Me! I'm boy from Devon and my parents keep arguing, I don't think they wan't divorce but its not nice. My brothers keep bullying me and Have an autistic brother. nearly everyday I cry because someone upsets me and no...
A. 1 September 2009: You don't sound like a bad kid to me. Every family has it's little issues, but no matter the reason for everyone elses problems they shouldn't take it out on you and that is what it seems like they're doing.
Maybe when you go back to school you coul... (read in full...)
Is being fingered considered as losing your virginity?
Q. is being fingered considered losing virgin? please answr me,i really need the answer...
A. 27 August 2009: no honey
your still a virgin. Losing your virginity consists of a penis going inside your vagina.... (read in full...)
I'm a virgin but I told him I'm not
Q. ok im turmoil here :( Im seeing my bf, we both in love, making future plans together ect... thing is im lying to him. Im still a virgin! even tho i've told him im not. Infact im lying to everyone about this, im like the 40 yr old virgin. i hate it, ...
A. 27 August 2009: You should be honest and just tell him everything you just wrote. If he loves you he'll understand, but lying to him isn't helping you and it's not doing anyone any good.
Plus you really aren't a virgin since you said you tried to have sex and ... (read in full...)
I'm 15. He's 24. Mom says she's going to throw him in jail! Is that possible?
Q. Im a 15 year old girl, dating a 24 year old guy. We've been dating for about a year. I know there is a really big age gap there. But we've never had sex, he has never pressured me into anything and the furthest we've gone is kissing. My mother found ...
A. 23 July 2009: yes she can sorry to tell you hun but im kind of in the same situation my boyfriend is 7 years older than me but my mom doesnt know I think she will threaten to do the same thing if she knew. But just try to talk to your mom... (read in full...)
We broke up because we go to different schools. Help!
Q. There is this girl that I met about a year ago and I instantly liked her. Recently we started dating and we really connected. I learned things about her and she learned things about me if you know what I mean. But today she said it wasn't going to ...
A. 23 May 2009: Im sorry to brake it to you hun but it's best to let her go. Iv'e been in the same situation as you. You dont like it now, but it's the best thing to do. You guys are young and if you really love each other you'll find your way back to each other. ... (read in full...)
Did YOU bleed your first time???
Q. Hey! I know this probably just sounds like I'm being a nosy bitch, but I've started going out with this guy, only been with him 11 weeks! I'm 17 in 3 weeks and I'm still a virgin, he's 20 and he's also still a virgin, and although I'm not jumping ...
A. 26 March 2009: I actually didn't bleed my first time but many women do and yea it hurts but don't think about how much it hurts or else you won't want to do it. Just relax and everything will be okay if you get tense during intercourse it will hurt more than it ... (read in full...)
He is going to ask me out tomorrow but I don't know if I like him... Help!
Q. Okay there is this boy that is on my bus and he likes me but I don't know if I like him back. What do I do? Tomorrow he is going to ask me out but what do I tell him? I have no clue what to do??? Help! ...
A. 25 March 2009: If your saying your not sure if you like him then you probably don't so just say no. You can't put yourself in a relationship with someone you dont like because you want to be nice.... (read in full...)
I've fallen in love with my bestfriend and I don't think she feels the same
Q. Hi I think i have fallen in love with my best friend. I know I am only 15 years old and you are probably thinking that I'm joking around or that I'm not in love with this girl but i am positive that I am. I really cannot stop thinking about her,...
A. 7 March 2009: Well hun if you want to be with her so bad tell her you like her because you can't be her boyfriend if you don't tell her. Suppose she does like you and you don't tell her then you'll be missing out on an amazing opportunity. Just tell her that you ... (read in full...)
I found my own sister in bed with my boyfriend!!!
Q. My sister is having an afair with my boyfriend! I was going to his apartment and saw her car. When I got upstairs (I have a key) they were in bed. What should I do? I hate my sister now!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!...
A. 3 March 2009: dump him because he's dirty and inconsiderate and for now cut your sister off. She betrayed you. Both of them are at fault. Those are suppose to be the two people you could trust and now you can't trust either of them. Maybe eventually you and your ... (read in full...)
Is it too early to propose to her... I'm 14!
Q. I have been with my girlfriend for 6 months now and I'm a sophmore in high school and she is a junior and she's going to enlist in the national gaurd and me in the navy but I really really love her and I was thinking about proposing march 31 her ...
A. 3 March 2009: Awww that would be so sweet to propose to her on her birthday but i think it's a little too soon don't rush into anything... (read in full...)
I love my g/f but feel lost..don't know what to do!
Q. So ive been with my girlfriend for nearly 4 months now, and am having a bit of trouble... When we first started seeing eachother we were so happy, we were so in love, but now something seems to have changed, like somethings missing. I love ...
A. 3 March 2009: Why did you guys drift apart in the first place?
Continue on your brake and see if the feelings return if they don't as hard as it may be to do you probably have to let her go.... (read in full...)
My mum saw the dirty text messages on my phone and has now told me to keep away from him!
Q. I'm 13 years old. A few weeks ago I met the most amazing boy in the world, let's call him Jack. He is such a player but I really can't stop thinking about him, I was meant to meet him last week but I was on my period the next day, so when I told ...
A. 3 March 2009: You might not want to hear it but your mom is just trying to do what is best for you. Just stay away from those boys and start off fresh with a clean slate. You'll meet other boys that you will like just as much.... (read in full...)
When I try to speak my throat goes all dry& I don't know what to do
Q. okay i've liked this boy since november so thats been about 3 months? i've never liked anyone this much before, but he thinks im pretty and always tries and talks to me. and he always use to text me. and he always looks at me and tries to start a ...
A. 3 March 2009: IT seems like he likes you. But to make sure ask him, get to know him more hang out with him while with friends so you wouldn't feel so shy.
hope I helped... (read in full...)
How can I move on, or stop feeling so bad?
Q. ive recently found out that this girl i was absolutly crazy about doesnt like me, but we are still mates, i dont think that she knows i like her that way and we still hang out together but wen we do it kills me thinking that we can never be ...
A. 7 February 2009: maybe you shouldn't spend so much time around her like Emajayne said and go out with some other friends try to take your mind off the fact that she doesn't feel the same way about you... (read in full...)
No affection this week
Q. so me and my man are going through a hard time right now. i am thinking about ending it with him, but i really truly want to contuine 'us', but aparently this week wasnt are week. he was sick, so maybe that has to do with it, but in the whole we...
A. 7 February 2009: yes I think you should give him another chance wait another month or so and if your still not satisfied with the relationship end it, because you don't want to be in a unhappy relationship... (read in full...)
Why can't he open up to me?
Q. Why is it hard for some guys to be open and upfront about their feelings? I'm asking because the guy I have been interested in a shy guy. I'm wondering why it seems as if he likes me yet he hasn't made a move. I'm a nice girl in no way am i stuck up ...
A. 23 January 2009: Well if he's shy he's probably afraid of asking you out so if you like him so much maybe you could ask him out. I'm a girl and it's hard for me to be open with my feelings so him being a shy guy is probably extra hard. ... (read in full...)
I don't know if I'm ready!
Q. Well, I'm 13 and my boyfriend is 14. We've been dating for about 2 months now and we had our first kiss about 2 weeks ago. I Love him and I think he's the perfect boyfriend. I just spent time with him yesterday and we made out for a couple hours. He ...
A. 29 December 2008: You should just say no if your not ready. Don't worry about ruining the relationship because if he cares about you and likes you then he won't mind. ... (read in full...)
I want to lose my virginity but I don't know who to lose it with!
Q. i want to lose my virginity but idk who to loose it with...i want to with my ex because he's the only one that im comfortable with...im not comfortable wit sumone else...so should i just have sex wit my ex and continue on with my life? or just ...
A. 5 September 2008: Hun you really shouldn't be in a rush to lose your virginity. It seems like you just want to lose it and get it over with, though i can possibly be wrong. I'm not telling you to wait till marriage or any of that. I'm just telling you you should wait ... (read in full...)
I'm expecting a first kiss from my first boyfriend, I'm scared. What should I do?
Q. Im 15.. I've never been in a relationship, I've never kissed a guy either. The guy I like is 16, he's 16 and very experienced, in other words, he's done IT more than once. He likes me back. I'm not asking about sex, because there is no way ...
A. 29 June 2008: If he knows that you've never kissed a guy before then don't worry about it. Don't worry about putting him off either just follow his lead. You'll do fine.... (read in full...)
Is it true that he wanted to know if I liked him, by this tricky question?
Q. so i am texting this guy friend of mine and he say, "can i ask you a question?" i say "sure" then he say, "do you or any one you know like me?" then i say "as a friend or more?" he says more. then i say," you are not my type, but you are a really ...
A. 1 June 2008: It could be possible that he wanted to see if you like him or maybe he likes one of your friends.... (read in full...)
He forced me to have sex with him and I feel such a wreck about that. But I love him and don't want to break up with him!
Q. Well I have a boyfriend And I have been with him for 1 week. And The other Night , I was at his house and He kinda pressured me to have Sex with Him. Im 14 years old and I wasnt ready but He Forced me to do it. I dont feel right now and Im emotional ...
A. 5 May 2008: you were raped and you need to brake it off with him. If he cared for you at all he would not have done that. i understand that you like and your confused and hurt, but that's why you need to distant yourself away from him. he shouldn't have forced ... (read in full...)
Is it okay to be "boy crazy" at my age?
Q. Is it ok to be a little boy crazy ? like loving one boy . Liking two... and thinking 2 more are very cute . Is it wrong to flirt with all of them ??? tell me what you think ( thanks in advance ) *~VG~*...
A. 5 April 2008: i think it's fine to be boy crazy at your age go ahead flirt a little have fun. But don't go overboard with it.... (read in full...)
How do I gain my boyfriend's trust?
Q. My boyfriend and I have been dating for 5 months now, and he says he doesnt trust me, I really love him but dont know if I cant gain someones trust? Can someone help on this, and tell me what to do?...
A. 5 April 2008: i have that same problem but it's the other way around i dont trust my boyfriend. But you should talk to him about it ask him why he doesn't trust you and then let him know that you could be trusted. You can't make him trust you but you could try.... (read in full...)
Should I dump my boyfriend for this other guy?
Q. hi im a 14 yr old girl and atm i hav a bf who i still like, but there is another guy that loves me so much more than my bf and he seems really nice and i think im starting to have feelings for him. the only problem is my bf and i hav been together ...
A. 31 January 2008: you should go out with the person you like more if you like the other guy more than your current boyfriend then get to know him more and decide if you'll like to leave your boyfriend for him or not and dont worry too much about hurting your ... (read in full...)
My best friend (16) is pregnant with my Maths teacher's baby... What should I do?
Q. omg! iv just found out that my best friend is pregnant with my maths teachers baby. this has come as a complete shock to me because i had no idea theyd even slept together! shes really worried cos her parents will just freak out n shes also really ...
A. 14 December 2007: I think you should encourage your friend to tell her parents and if she will feel better telling them if your with her then go with her. Her parents could help her... (read in full...)
How come my boyfriend wont stick up for me?
Q. k well i cant get this outta my head and i really need your help. my boyfriend is always hanging out with his friend like 24/7 seriously and this one guy is always staying the night and i really dont even like him but when i try to call my boyfriend ...
A. 21 November 2007: he's a loser what kind of boyfriend doesn't stand up for his girlfriend he probably doesn't wanna tell off his friend because he's afraid of what his friend might say or think guys like that you don't need tell his friend off by yourself since he ... (read in full...)
Do guys really break up with girls because they aren't shaved to turn them on?...
Q. I read a comment the other day on here and it got me really nervous...a guy said that one of his girlfriends wasnt shaved in her pubic area and he didnt end up getting really serious with her. I love my boyfriend a lot and he loves me, but im not ...
A. 20 November 2007: well some men like that area shaved but some dont all men are different if he's seen you naked and he wanted you to shave he would tell you... (read in full...)
Should I date as many girls as I can or just try to find that one perfect girl for me?
Q. Hello Aunts. I've been thinking; I'm 18 years old, and I want somebody to spend my life with. Someone I can wake up to in the morning and cuddle up to at night, somebody I can talk to about anything. Basically somebody I can share my life with. ...
A. 20 November 2007: don't go out hunting for the right girl your young and like your friends have told u u should enjoy your youth date around and when the time is right you'll find her... (read in full...)
Can you get pregnant if the hymen's not broken?
Q. is it possible to get pregnant if the skin is not broken?...
A. 18 November 2007: yes it's very possible... (read in full...)
What can I do about this situation?
Q. ok there is a this girl who i have been recently talking too and she has started to be mean to me.i have done nothing mean to her and she always says i look like 'karen' from the film mean girls and she always says i had sex with my cousin which is ...
A. 18 November 2007: forget about her if she wants to be catty with you for no reason. Don't acknowledge her at all because calling her names back like blueberryxo said would only make things worse... (read in full...)
How long should you wait until sex? I'm 12.
Q. I am 12 i have a felling to have sex but i know it is wrong and i wont do it. Just to tell you now my b/f is not pressuring me but we both know it is wrong so we will wait. what age should i wait until? My b/f and i have been going out for about 5 ...
A. 18 November 2007: no one can tell you what age to wait for until you have sex you have sex when you and your partner are ready and not because your pressured into doing it your really young though and I think you should wait but if you do plan on having sex at this ... (read in full...)
Period influencing growth?
Q. this may sound like a silly question but do you stop growing after you have started your period.(upwards and outwards)...
A. 18 November 2007: no sweetie you dont stop growing when after starting your period... (read in full...)
We split up 5 years ago, he was a cheater, but we still think of each other all the time, will this ever go away?
Q. Couriosity Wonder if anyone can help long term partner and I split 5 yrs ago due to his cheating/drinking we are now on speaking terms again,he now lives with someone else. In conversations we have had he had said not when he is with her but...
A. 18 November 2007: you guys were together for a really long time so your feelings for each other won't go away automatically it takes time it is normal for you to feel that way maybe you should keep your distance from him for a little while... (read in full...)
Is popularity the problem? Should I become more popular - for him?
Q. there is a boy in my year (year 10) at my school who i really like, but he likes me as a best mate, not a crush. the problem is, he is the most popular and well known-kid in the school and some people have never heard of me. what do i do? do you ...
A. 31 October 2007: dont change yourself for a guy if you become more popular you might change if he doesnt like you for who you are now then forget about him... (read in full...)
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