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Hey everbody I just signed up on this website. I'm eighteen but really mature for my age and I love to give people advice it just really feels good to know that iv'e helped somebody else out...chessey i know but it's true. Well if you want to ask me a question or just talk message me later!!!!!!!

I'm expecting a first kiss from my first boyfriend, I'm scared. What should I do?

Q.   Im 15.. I've never been in a relationship, I've never kissed a guy either. The guy I like is 16, he's 16 and very experienced, in other words, he's done IT more than once. He likes me back. I'm not asking about sex, because there is no way ...

A.   29 June 2008: If he knows that you've never kissed a guy before then don't worry about it. Don't worry about putting him off either just follow his lead. You'll do fine.... (read in full...)

Is it true that he wanted to know if I liked him, by this tricky question?

Q.   so i am texting this guy friend of mine and he say, "can i ask you a question?" i say "sure" then he say, "do you or any one you know like me?" then i say "as a friend or more?" he says more. then i say," you are not my type, but you are a really ...

A.   1 June 2008: It could be possible that he wanted to see if you like him or maybe he likes one of your friends.... (read in full...)

He forced me to have sex with him and I feel such a wreck about that. But I love him and don't want to break up with him!

Q.   Well I have a boyfriend And I have been with him for 1 week. And The other Night , I was at his house and He kinda pressured me to have Sex with Him. Im 14 years old and I wasnt ready but He Forced me to do it. I dont feel right now and Im emotional ...

A.   5 May 2008: you were raped and you need to brake it off with him. If he cared for you at all he would not have done that. i understand that you like and your confused and hurt, but that's why you need to distant yourself away from him. he shouldn't have forced ... (read in full...)

Is it okay to be "boy crazy" at my age?

Q.   Is it ok to be a little boy crazy ? like loving one boy . Liking two... and thinking 2 more are very cute . Is it wrong to flirt with all of them ??? tell me what you think ( thanks in advance ) *~VG~*...

A.   5 April 2008: i think it's fine to be boy crazy at your age go ahead flirt a little have fun. But don't go overboard with it.... (read in full...)

How do I gain my boyfriend's trust?

Q.   My boyfriend and I have been dating for 5 months now, and he says he doesnt trust me, I really love him but dont know if I cant gain someones trust? Can someone help on this, and tell me what to do?...

A.   5 April 2008: i have that same problem but it's the other way around i dont trust my boyfriend. But you should talk to him about it ask him why he doesn't trust you and then let him know that you could be trusted. You can't make him trust you but you could try.... (read in full...)

Should I dump my boyfriend for this other guy?

Q.   hi im a 14 yr old girl and atm i hav a bf who i still like, but there is another guy that loves me so much more than my bf and he seems really nice and i think im starting to have feelings for him. the only problem is my bf and i hav been together ...

A.   31 January 2008: you should go out with the person you like more if you like the other guy more than your current boyfriend then get to know him more and decide if you'll like to leave your boyfriend for him or not and dont worry too much about hurting your ... (read in full...)

My best friend (16) is pregnant with my Maths teacher's baby... What should I do?

Q.   omg! iv just found out that my best friend is pregnant with my maths teachers baby. this has come as a complete shock to me because i had no idea theyd even slept together! shes really worried cos her parents will just freak out n shes also really ...

A.   14 December 2007: I think you should encourage your friend to tell her parents and if she will feel better telling them if your with her then go with her. Her parents could help her... (read in full...)

How come my boyfriend wont stick up for me?

Q.   k well i cant get this outta my head and i really need your help. my boyfriend is always hanging out with his friend like 24/7 seriously and this one guy is always staying the night and i really dont even like him but when i try to call my boyfriend ...

A.   21 November 2007: he's a loser what kind of boyfriend doesn't stand up for his girlfriend he probably doesn't wanna tell off his friend because he's afraid of what his friend might say or think guys like that you don't need tell his friend off by yourself since he ... (read in full...)

Do guys really break up with girls because they aren't shaved to turn them on?...

Q.   I read a comment the other day on here and it got me really nervous...a guy said that one of his girlfriends wasnt shaved in her pubic area and he didnt end up getting really serious with her. I love my boyfriend a lot and he loves me, but im not ...

A.   20 November 2007: well some men like that area shaved but some dont all men are different if he's seen you naked and he wanted you to shave he would tell you... (read in full...)

Should I date as many girls as I can or just try to find that one perfect girl for me?

Q.   Hello Aunts. I've been thinking; I'm 18 years old, and I want somebody to spend my life with. Someone I can wake up to in the morning and cuddle up to at night, somebody I can talk to about anything. Basically somebody I can share my life with. ...

A.   20 November 2007: don't go out hunting for the right girl your young and like your friends have told u u should enjoy your youth date around and when the time is right you'll find her... (read in full...)

Can you get pregnant if the hymen's not broken?

Q.   is it possible to get pregnant if the skin is not broken?...

A.   18 November 2007: yes it's very possible... (read in full...)

What can I do about this situation?

Q.   ok there is a this girl who i have been recently talking too and she has started to be mean to me.i have done nothing mean to her and she always says i look like 'karen' from the film mean girls and she always says i had sex with my cousin which is ...

A.   18 November 2007: forget about her if she wants to be catty with you for no reason. Don't acknowledge her at all because calling her names back like blueberryxo said would only make things worse... (read in full...)

How long should you wait until sex? I'm 12.

Q.   I am 12 i have a felling to have sex but i know it is wrong and i wont do it. Just to tell you now my b/f is not pressuring me but we both know it is wrong so we will wait. what age should i wait until? My b/f and i have been going out for about 5 ...

A.   18 November 2007: no one can tell you what age to wait for until you have sex you have sex when you and your partner are ready and not because your pressured into doing it your really young though and I think you should wait but if you do plan on having sex at this ... (read in full...)

Period influencing growth?

Q.   this may sound like a silly question but do you stop growing after you have started your period.(upwards and outwards)...

A.   18 November 2007: no sweetie you dont stop growing when after starting your period... (read in full...)

We split up 5 years ago, he was a cheater, but we still think of each other all the time, will this ever go away?

Q.   Couriosity Wonder if anyone can help long term partner and I split 5 yrs ago due to his cheating/drinking we are now on speaking terms again,he now lives with someone else. In conversations we have had he had said not when he is with her but...

A.   18 November 2007: you guys were together for a really long time so your feelings for each other won't go away automatically it takes time it is normal for you to feel that way maybe you should keep your distance from him for a little while... (read in full...)

Is popularity the problem? Should I become more popular - for him?

Q.   there is a boy in my year (year 10) at my school who i really like, but he likes me as a best mate, not a crush. the problem is, he is the most popular and well known-kid in the school and some people have never heard of me. what do i do? do you ...

A.   31 October 2007: dont change yourself for a guy if you become more popular you might change if he doesnt like you for who you are now then forget about him... (read in full...)

Braces will make me feel worse about my appearance. I feel ugly, what can I do?

Q.   I am a 15 and i regard myself as ugly, i have only ever had one proper boyfriend and i am about to get braces. I know i shouldnt be talking like this but i do have really low self esteem. No one has ever told me i am pretty or beautiful and lets ...

A.   31 October 2007: i never had braces but i know its not that bad you'll be pretty with or without them their are so many people out there with braces in this day and age that no one will think much of it when you get them... (read in full...)

I still like boys, but I can't stop thinking about this girl - whom I had to kiss for "Truth or Dare." Am I gay?

Q.   Hiyya.. LAst night i slept round my friends house, we were kinda drunk and we were playing Truth or Dare and i was ALWAYS straight but i got dared to kiss my friend on the lips like properly so we did, now i cant stop thinking about her.. and the ...

A.   27 October 2007: like love-him and jodie said if your thinking of the girl you kissed in the same way you would think about boys maybe your bisexual but it's really early to tell... (read in full...)

I love him! BUT! He's still in love with his ex who doesn't love him, What can I do?

Q.   im badly in love with a boy and weve done things together but he still loves his ex (who isnt interested in him). My mates dont like this boy so I havent told them how i feel about him they have no idea how i feel neither does the boy know i love ...

A.   25 October 2007: i know you love him but the best thing to do is to leave him alone and let it be.Whatever is meant to happen will happen because you can't force him to be in love with you maybe he just needs time to get over his ex... (read in full...)

I want out because I'm not loyal and I'm bored. But she loves me - and sometimes I think I love her - so I could just come back!

Q.   Okay, well I have been going out with this girl for about six months. I look at myself and I think "why would someone want to go out with me?" I think this because I like my freedom - I'm unloyal - and to be honest I get bored. Well, now I'm thin...

A.   22 October 2007: if your bored and not commited why stay in the relationship maybe you can try a open relation or maybe just a brake for a little while to see how things work out... (read in full...)

My boyfriend just hit me 'cause I wouldnt get him something from the fridge!

Q.   my boyfriend has just hit me and smashed lots of things in the house because i would not get him something from the fridge when he was in the kitchen and i wasnt what shall i do,we are due to get married and dont think i can spend the rest of my ...

A.   21 October 2007: he sounds really violent has he done this before? either way you should really be worried for your safety because he could get a lot worse when you get married ... (read in full...)

I get nervous around him. What can I do?

Q.   I cant stop thinking about my friend. Its draining because i like him so much that every little thing he does effects me. Things never used to be like this between us but lately when its just us two i get really nervous and things get really ...

A.   20 October 2007: my guess is that he likes you but you should probaly talk to him before jumping to assumptions ... (read in full...)

Is she flirting or friendly?

Q.   there is this girl i know from school who randomly hugs me or links arms and even puts her arm round me as if we were best freinds on a night out, but this happens very randomly and out of the blue, it must happen most days and the thing is i dont ...

A.   19 October 2007: she might like you it's hard to tell if you like her you should just go for it... (read in full...)

I'm not sure I'm actually ready.

Q.   My boyfriend wants me to have sex with him but i'm not sure i'm ready yet, we've been together for 3 months now, what should i do?...

A.   19 October 2007: Sweetie if your not ready then you really shouldn't have sex with him don't worry your young you have a lot of time... (read in full...)

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