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What can I do to fix our sexual problems?

Q.   im a 51 y/o female my partner is a 54 y/o male, we have been together about 8 mths and at first our sex life was FANTASTIC, as usual, he said he had a high sex drive which suited me just fine, he has been on anti-depressants since before we met, and ...

A.   13 October 2009: Hi, I think he has problem due to his pills. If you take initative and open more to him, I am sure your sex life will be more blissful. Thanks Jaks... (read in full...)

Can sexual attraction be so intense between two people that they are actually uncomfortable in each other's presence?

Q.   Hi. I was just wondering (and please don't read too much into this!) whether sometimes the sexual attraction between two people can be so intense that they actually avoid each other (i.e. never actually consummate the attraction), net result being ...

A.   13 October 2009: Hi, Yes it to very very true. One won't persue this fatal attraction due to the fear of her/his family being ruined. Or thinking what other person will think about you. I think you are in this delicate situation. We have famu family clos... (read in full...)

Self conscious during sex with husband because he never pays me compliments, etc. How can I get over my trust issues?

Q.   Hello everyone, I have been married for 11 years,and I am 31 years old, my husband is 34. We have 4 kids together ages 15,11,9, and 8 months. I consider myself to be attractive even after 4 kids...meaning I’m not skinny or overweight. I’m ...

A.   12 October 2009: Dear, Every individual has his/her own fantasy. It is very delicate point and don't try to waste your time thinking too much about it. since you have come to know what is he searching for, let him do it.. but keep on your initiati... (read in full...)

My Stepson Films Me Naked

Q.   while cleaning my stepsons room recently i accidentally pressed play on his vcr and to my horror it was a video of myself getting undressed in my dressing room, he must have put a hidden camera in the curtains which wasn't there when i checked. I...

A.   12 October 2009: Dear Stepmom, Young ones at this age looks for such adventures especially when they are lonly. My advice would be to push it aide, and leave the boy in peace. If you are very humch hurt, then you should tell him how bad it is. Best regards Jak... (read in full...)

I happened to see my son masturbating and don't quite know what to do about it!

Q.   I am a mother of 2 kids, 11 year old boy and 8 year old girl. My husband is on a business tour and will be back only after two months. Couple of days back I happened to see my son doing masterbation in his bedroom. He does not know that I have seen ...

A.   12 October 2009: Dear Mom, Please don't worry about your son masturbating. It is simply normal. You saw him by chance..If you advice him, he will continue to do it in scret. It it is quite a normal practice, and everyone in this world does it. Love jaks.... (read in full...)

My mother-in-law hinted she wanted to sleep with me, I always had this phantasy so what should I do?

Q.   Me and my wife have been married for two months. Well her mom and dad just got a divorce. My wife has always told her mom her sex stories. I brought my baby over to her moms house and she was hinting around that she wanted to sleep with me. She said ...

A.   1 October 2009: Well, the idea is great, but be very careful..not to spoil your family life.... (read in full...)

Husband wants a threesome with me acting as a lesbian..I don't want it1

Q.   My Husband wants to experience threesome..... My husband is been forcing me or convincing me to go for threesome with him. His fantasy is to see with with a girl. He wants me to be lesbian and make out with a any girl. I am not just not comfort...

A.   1 October 2009: Fantasy has no limit. You should go only if it interest you, else it will be a big disaster. Take care. Jaks... (read in full...)

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