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Teenage: Help and advice

I hate my miserable life?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5102 days ago

11 May 2010 (M) - I'm 14 years old, and in the 8th, soon to be 9th grade. From kindergarten to 6th grade I hanged out with the loser click, but then I got 2 7th grade and started hanging out with more popular ppl. The thing is, all the years b4 in my life, left me ...

Should I get involved even though I'm going away to college?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5102 days ago

11 May 2010 (M) - I've always thought high school relationships are a waste of time. I've always thought that senior guys and freshman girls getting together was wrong. Now, I met a girl who I really like and really likes me. We kissed for the first time recently. My ...

He wants to wait to get married even though we have a baby on the way!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5102 days ago

11 May 2010 (F) - Hello everyone. I am having relationship problems with my current boyfriend. We are 19 years old and i am 7 months pregnant. We are in college and he goes to college a few hours away. We werent planning the baby but just took it as a blessing. I am ...

What should I do to get our sex life back on track?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5103 days ago

11 May 2010 (F) - My boyfriend and I usually have a good sex life and If we fall into a routine will try new things (to an extent!)... But every few months he decides that I'm not putting enough effort into things (when I go on top) and he stops and lies there and ...

The Ever-So Taboo "Student to Teacher" Crush.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4310 days ago

11 May 2010 (F) - It’s 3rd period Science class, when all of a sudden your teacher walks in the room. Your heart races and his perfect smile, a smile you just have to return. His laugh fills the room, joking with students around him, par usual. You don’t just see him ...

Could I be reading too much into this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5102 days ago

11 May 2010 (F) - I have a school ball coming up, and there's this boy that I really like. We were chatting the other day, and he asked who I was going with. I told him that me and my friends were going as a big group, and he said, 'ah, I would ask you but me and my ...

Is something wrong with me since I'm not sex driven?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5103 days ago

11 May 2010 (F) - So, I'm sixteen and I'm still a virgin. I have had 4 boyfriends who have all tried to get in my pants and have been really close to but haven't. My problem is sex just doesn't seem appealing to me right now. Is there something wrong with me? I...

Getting the teacher I love a gift?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5102 days ago

11 May 2010 (F) - Well, for my teacher (that I have a major crush on), I want to get him a gift for the end of the year. Just a little something to say "Heyy, thanks for putting up with my mental retardation when it comes to this class and all the lunch hours you ...

What should I get my boyfriend for his birthday??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5089 days ago

11 May 2010 (F) - He is turning 16 on June 7th and im still at a loss of ideas. We have been dating for almost 3 months, so i dont want to get him something too intimite, yet i dont want to get him something meaningless either. Hes an all-out country boy. He loves ...

We're becomming distant from each other

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5102 days ago

11 May 2010 (?) - Okay so I've been fighting with myself on an issue for months, and I just don't know what to do. I need some advice. So about a year ago I met a guy, lets call him Ben, and we connected almost instantly. We became really close, really fast, and we w...

I'm 14 and I want to have sex!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5102 days ago

11 May 2010 (M) - Hi, I'm 14 years old and I want to have sex. But I don't have a girlfriend. I'm tired of masturbation. So i want a girlfriend. Not for sex(but that's a point). I also want to love her an so on. All I can say is that i'm not a VERY good-looking boy...

Will this "shyness" go away?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5103 days ago

11 May 2010 (F) - I'm 16 and just started dating my first boyfriend. I'm comfortable around him and we seem to get along great BUT he says i'm really quiet... specially around him. We've been dating for 2 weeks now, going on 3, and I think this could cause a problem. ...

Guys: how would you prefer a girl to tell you she likes you?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5102 days ago

11 May 2010 (?) - I really want to approach a guy and tell him I like him, would any guys care to share the way they would like this done for them? What is your ideal setting for a girl to telly ou she likes you I get your all different but if I can get general...

Does this girl sound interested enough for me to try something?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5102 days ago

11 May 2010 (M) - Theres this girl in this acting program i go to that i cant seem to get off my mind recently. Shes everything ive been looking for and more, shes got grace, style, a sense of humour, likes to party, laid back, beautiful just everything. Well ...

Is this how a shy guy flirts?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5102 days ago

11 May 2010 (F) - Two questions here: 1) would you consider a guy(someone thats not very forward with showing how they feel) putting :) at the end of texts suddenly a sign of flirting/ he likes you? 2)If you said to someone we might be going out one night if ...

How would you as a person want me to act if I felt this way towawrds you?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5103 days ago

11 May 2010 (F) - "OPs own title" I really need this question answered and taken seriously. There is this guy, and i have like him for nearly 3 years. He's my high school crush if i were to put it that way. Lately, we've been talking loads every night on IM and we ...

How can I tell if I am gay or bi or straight?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5102 days ago

11 May 2010 (?) - I think i'm gay or bi buti really don't know,, how can i know... ? I mean I think i like girls to,, i mean aftir i found out my friend who's two years older then me, is gay I git a little exited. but i still like guys, i think.... plz i really ...

Are these signals mixed?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5103 days ago

11 May 2010 (F) - Me and my bf are both 16. We've been going out for 5 months. I'm confused about what he thinks about us 'doing stuff.' He's touched me everywhere but with the exception of a couple of times sticks to the outside of my pants when rubbing me 'down ...

I'm 14 and in love with my much older former science teacher

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5096 days ago

11 May 2010 (F) - i'm fourteen i've been in love with this teacher for almost 2 years now , he was my science teacher and something about him just was appealing to me hes way too old for me hes about in his 45's but i still find him kind of attractive other may ...

Any way to make my very noticeable assets less visible?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5080 days ago

11 May 2010 (F) - I am only 14 years old and i have 34 DD boobs, they are the biggest in my year, i used to like them but now in the summer when i want to wear vest tops they look huge and they are really pert and they just sit their..my friends are jelous but i am ...

Finally I've been accepted into a new school, but because I have been bullied for years I have annoying habits! How can I stop so I don't annoy my new friends?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5103 days ago

11 May 2010 (M) - Today, I got amazing news! i've been accepted into a new school! but the reason i wanted to move was because my cousin was bulliyng and i was tired of faking that i did'nt hear his insults about my weight and apparently too nice personality! I've...

Can anyone help me to figure out my feelings for my teacher?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5103 days ago

11 May 2010 (F) - Hey, I will try and keep this short. I don't know how to describe my feelings about this teacher (married with 2 kids, late 30s/early 40s). I have known him for about 5 years and he has taught me for 2 of those years. He always smiles at me and ...

What's up with him and what do I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5102 days ago

11 May 2010 (F) - [Moderator's Note: OP's own title] I'm 13 he's 14. im VERY shy and he's just shy. we go to the same church and stuff. i liked him the first time i saw him (2 and 1/2 years ago) i dont talk to anyone in church much. mostly little kids and family. ...

How do I get rid of these razor bumps?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5103 days ago

11 May 2010 (F) - dear cupid, i keep getting razor bumps in my pubic area and they will not go away. i got this big bump that im not use to on my lip os down there and i picked it and cler stuff came out is that normal??, i was thinking it was herpes but if it...

Why does my dad favor my sister over my mum and I?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5103 days ago

11 May 2010 (F) - I just really want to know why my father treats me like this... I have a 28 year old sister. She lives in Canada; my father talks to her everyday. I'm 14 and, unfortunately, I have to see poor excuse for a father (that's an exaggeration. I'...

How can I find out if he likes me when we live so far away from each other?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5102 days ago

11 May 2010 (F) - I really really like this guy A LOT, but he lives an hour and a half away from where I live. I got to see him and do an eyeball disection with him. We flirted a lot, and did a lot of fun stuff together, but I'm not sure if he likes me. What should i ...

How can I make this work? And how can I tell if he still loves me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5087 days ago

11 May 2010 (F) - So ive asked before. About the guy I love with the whole long distance relationship and the difficulties. So were not together because the "Distance" was killing our feelings. And deep down inside I couldnt handle it because I would have figured ...

Boy trouble!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5103 days ago

11 May 2010 (F) - Ok so i really like this guy at school and i got zapped on him (zap is where you write a name on someones hand and they cant look at the hand till a certain time or they have to ask the person out) and had a friend ask him out for me. (im not too ...

Could medication mess with period cycles? Advise, please?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5102 days ago

11 May 2010 (F) - Okay so this question isn't really about me, its about my friend. She's 16 and has been having sex with her boyfriend for about ten months now. They used to have sex very often and with out a condom, but recently they have cut back on how much the...

Did I loose my change at love?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5102 days ago

11 May 2010 (F) - Ok, so ive been friends with this guy for 3 years. We attend the same college. My first semester at the college i met him, i liked him, but because he was 3 years older then me and a bit of a player, he told me that he'd make my life miserable if we ...

Ideas for a birthday without his friends

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5104 days ago

11 May 2010 (F) - help! I've been with my bf a year now and I'm totally bored with it. I know we both feel strongly inlove with eachother. Our physical life is good however I find our whole relationship boring. No matter what I do for him and how good I make him feel ...

How do I find out what I am to him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5104 days ago

11 May 2010 (F) - A week and a half ago, I met a guy, let's call him William. We hit it off and started talking. William asked for my number in the end. We have been texting almost everyday. We've been taking turns being the first one to text (although I don't know ...

Too young for this love?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5104 days ago

11 May 2010 (F) - My boyfriend and i have been dating for about 8 months now, and says he wants to give me a ring, engagement ring to be exact. I was thrilled when he said this, but as i laid in bed i thought. Im 17,almost 18, this is my first serious relationship. ...

I'm hot so how come I never get asked out?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5100 days ago

11 May 2010 (F) - Im not ugly i swear everytime at school all the guys always say like DAMN when i pass by or LOTS of other things i never flirt with NOBODY though i dnt like to do tht cuz then they will call u hoe or somthin but the thing is that guys always check ...

Two great relationships, who to choose?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5068 days ago

11 May 2010 (F) - Well, I'm in a little dilemma. About 10 months ago, I was dating this really, really, I mean REALLY nice guy. He was a great boyfriend, and our relationship was great. Thing is, by the time I met him, he had already signed up to go overseas and stud...

The guilt is haunting me so should I give him my diary?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5104 days ago

11 May 2010 (F) - http://www.dearcupid.org/question/should-i-tell-my-boyfriend-i-nearly-cheated.html the above link is the situation i was in 9months ago. i have gone ahead and not told my bf about what happened. nor has he found out. the guilt still ha...

What can my Aunt do to get a man?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5104 days ago

11 May 2010 (F) - my aunt is 30 and single. she has three kids, has been married twice, has had boyfriends, but she cant seem to find "the keeper". all she can find are men who just want a piece of ass than leave. got any sugestions on what she can do to get a man?...