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female
age
26-29,
*a Sad Girl
writes:Im not ugly i swear everytime at school all the guys always say like DAMN when i pass by or LOTS of other things i never flirt with NOBODY though i dnt like to do tht cuz then they will call u hoe or somthin but the thing is that guys always check me out n i ingnore the kids at my school i like older guys im 14 n i like 16-20 years old like my older brothers friends when they come over when my brother goes to the restroom or somewhere they always try to flirt wit me... almost not all though guys say im hot i mean im pretty but not tht hot for every guy i pass by has to check me out it jus gets me mad tht guys will rather try to flirt wit me n use me for somthin else than have a real realationship WHY WHY DONT GUYS EVER ASK ME OUT IF THEY SAY IM HOT????AND ALWAYS CHECK ME OUT HELP ME PLZ
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 May 2010): probably because you need to flirt. guys like when you show a little intrest or they wont bother. believe me in 7th grade i was sooo shy no one asked me out now im in high school and im dating this great guy because i came out of my shell
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 May 2010): hot is not the only reason a guy will ask a girl out a lot of the time, they want more. maybe you're giving off an unapproachable vibe?
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reader, greenflower +, writes (11 May 2010):
There are many myths around hot/pretty girls.
1. She already has a boyfriend.
2. She is a slut so flirting alone will get some action (sad to say but true).
3. She's out of my league.
4. She's a bitch.
5. She's a tease.
6. She's high maintenance.
7. She's not that smart, so not too much to talk to.
Etc. Etc. You get the idea. You're beautiful. You know that. Like previous commenters have mentioned, find a guy you like and talk to him. You've seen enough guys that like you for your body. Its your turn to find a guy you like and turn him on with who you really are.
And honestly, if you can't find this worthy guy in your circle, find other social activities or hobbies. Sometimes all the myths guys have about hot girls, makes them shy and awkward or come off really stupid (trying waaay too hard) so just look around. I hope that helps.
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reader, chigirl  +, writes (11 May 2010):
 Guy's are rude and can be immature. There's proper men out there though, so hang in there! I think you might be starting to get the "problem" pretty girls have: we don't get guys thats are into US, and not our bodies/faces! Guys look at you and think "wow I'd love to feel her up". If you want a guy to committ, to care for you, you need to get under his skin and get to know him. You'll need him to be in love with all of you (and your looks wont help much if you are a mean person).
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reader, The Realist  +, writes (11 May 2010):
 When a guy see's a hot girl he will think that she is either in a relationship or is not interested. If you want to get asked out try making the first move and talking to a guy that you are interested in. That way he will know and you'll avoid the whole situation of this hesitation. Plus guys tend to find it very attractive when the girl initiates things so just go for it with a guy that you like.
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (11 May 2010):
 Guys don't ask you out because they feel intimidated and may not be in your league.
They would think that being hot, there will be many guys after you and they would think that the competition can be very fierce.
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