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*ittle_Miss_Confused
writes:My boyfriend and I have been going out for about 3 weeks. we're both a little quirky and get along so well. we're best friends, and we love eachother so much. well at least that is what i thought. we made a mistake but it was on both of our parts and i assure you it was taken care of and that it will never happen again. but this thing that happened really scared him, and he has been avoiding me for a week. we go to different schools so i bareley ever get to see him. i have a hunch he is going to break up with me because when i asked him, he said " i've just been thinking thinking thinking, and nothing makes sense right now... i think i need a few more days to think..." ok i respect that he is thinking. duh. but the fact that his statements are so 50/50 is driving me insane. so my question for you is do you think he is going to break up with me?
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reader, devastated2008  +, writes (9 September 2009):
 There is not enough information to determine that not for you nor for me.
Don't let your imagination get carried away... try to focus on other things and give him the time to figure out his problem before he talks to you. If he's confused and doubting your relationship... its even better to allow him time to think.
Relax and try to do something fun even if you don't feel like it.
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reader, Jmtmj  +, writes (9 September 2009):
 There's not really much that you can do and noone is going to be able to tell you whether he will break up with you. We dont know what the mistake was, but if it was enough to scare him after only dating for 3 weeks... maybe he's thinking, well if there's been trouble already a few weeks in, then whats to come? So you can either agonize your mind about it waiting or you can flat out ask him if he's not sure about your relationship anymore.
Best of luck.
JT
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reader, itssimplyme +, writes (9 September 2009):
I'm rather confused at what you did wrong the mistake... It may have made him cautious of showing his real feelings. Its hard to say if he is going to break up with you because i dont know what the issue was.
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