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I just want to be friend, but I think she might fancy me

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Question - (18 December 2009) 3 Answers - (Newest, 19 December 2009)
A male United States age 36-40, *iket389 writes:

Ok so im just a little bit confused as of lately.... i know a girl, have known her for a couple years casually. U know not close friends or anything.. well last week we got to talking and exchanged numbers,

Now i know she has a bf and while she is cute and theres some attraction there i just have friendly intentions.. ive hung out with her a few times and shes talking about how unhappy she is with him.. i just don't know what to take of things.. she suprised me at work with a gift.. calls me quite a bit especially after ive seen her and hes not around.. i guess im getting mixed signals from her..

i don't know what to do.. am i just looking too far into things or does it seem like this girl likes me?

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A female reader, witch-fire United Kingdom +, writes (19 December 2009):

witch-fire agony auntI would wait for her current relationship to end first, for now just be her friend. That will be a good move for both of you.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (18 December 2009):

It definantly sounds like she likes you,but you should play it cool and just hang back let her bf mess up their relationship that way you dont feel guilty in the end patience is a highly respectable virtue!!!!

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A female reader, Nataliemarie United States +, writes (18 December 2009):

She probably does like you. I think you should tell her your getting some mixed signals from her and that you just want to be there for her as a friend. If you don't want to be that upfront then don't give her any signs that your into her- because like you said there is a sensed attraction bwteen you 2 , so she probably is reading that as a signal you would be interested. I guess don't be flirty..and drop the friend word.

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