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36-40,
anonymous
writes:HI My problem is Im inlove with my cousin. shes smart and beutiful and every since the first time i saw her ive been in love with her.im three yrs older i saw her for the first time when she was about 7 and as she grew she got so beautiful. Shes my cousin so i know we cant have a relationship thats not what i want even though i do love her. I just want us to be friends she hates me i dont kno why really she argues with me for no reason. shes mean to me. i get the feeling she really doesnt like me. As far as i kno i never did anything to her to make her hate me. If i could stop liking her i would. sometimes i wish i never met her but for most of my life now ive been thinking about her. i get this feeling when i see her that i never get from any other girl. If she wasnt my cousin it would be easier i could tell her how i feel and if she didnt like me i would just go away but it would be impossible to avoid my cousin since we're family. Im the type of guy thats waiting for the rite girl to come along maybe she never will its not a big deal all im saying is i kno what i feel is not just some crush im to old for that stuff and ive felt this way for aslong as i remember. In my heart i feel like i would do anything for her but she seems to dislike me so much basically i want us to be friends and get along. does any one kno how i can do that?
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 December 2009): Look if she isn't nice to you, ignore her! There's no point trying to be friends and talk to her when she wants you to go away.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 December 2009): It doesn't matter whether she's your cousin or not. Simply ask her what her problem with you is - why the attitude? You could tell her how you've been feeling about her but I'd get the first question out of the way first.
Who says you can't have a relationship? Yes you can - if you both want it that is.
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