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writes:Hi everyone. Im very depressed and hurting. I am in love with a guy I mostly likely stand no chance with. You see he is one of my bosses at the place where I work. He is a few years older than me and im pretty sure he single. I dont know him well personally and i dont see him outside of work. I havent known him long because I been working at that place just a little over four months. I do know he is everything I have ever wanted in a guy and Im starting to fall in love. I love my job it is the best job I ever had. Its not my career. Im in college now and my job is just as a cashier in a store. As much as I love my job I would choose him in a heartbeat. It is really painful to work next to him. Even if he was not my boss he probably would not be interested in me. He flirts with me but it most likely doesnt mean anything. I mean he is stunningly handsome. Iam decently pretty but im not skinny or exceptionally smart or special. Guys like him dont date girls like me. My feelings are so strong. What can I do about these feelings about a guy who is my boss and out of my league? Someone please help me. I cant stop my feelings.
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reader, Mary1964 +, writes (18 April 2009):
I think just let him go .He is your boss.One day something goes wrong you can loose your job or his. Work and pleasure don't mix.I know how you fell good looking men you like him so much. Go out and find a men outside.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 December 2007): It's his loss!! If he doesn't seem to notice you he is not worth the pain and anguish.
Find someone who will take a huge interest in you and will give you the happiness you deserve.
Good luck,
Sharon
UK
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reader, jamiexox  +, writes (9 December 2007):
 nobody can help how the feel about someone, but maybe its just a lil crush that you have on him other than being in love.. and im sure the flirting doesnt help your feelings although take it an ego boost, its that special time of the year when we all come together and spend time with our loved ones.. not only that we also have work xmas do's, this might be your chance outside of the work enviroment to see what way he comes across to you then, i wouldnt get my hopes up (in case u get hurt) if i were in your position but at the same time never say never, you may feel that he is out of your league but nobody really is, you could be miss world, and have a rubbish attitude to life which is a turn off to alot of men but not all sometimes just looks do it for them!!!! anyways if you are having an xmas do, get yourself glammed up let your hair down and show who u r outside of a working enviroment you just never know you might charm him.good luck with everything sorry i cant be a bit more help J xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 December 2007): I do understand how you feel, but you hardly know this guy as you already mentioned,so you should just wait a bit and see what happens. You may think that he may not fall for a girl like you, as you put it, but that may not be true.Time will tell, I know that it's killing you inside, but in my opinion you should wait, and try to notice any signs of him being interested in you. i mean you must know, is he making eye contact with you, you must feel something. Try hinting to him in a subtle way that you like him but do not be too strong. Patience is the only way. I wish you the best of luck and hope that he feels the same about you too.take care now.
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