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anonymous
writes:I have been married for 7 years. Both of us are 33. I love my wife a lot and she is very good wife to me. We have two kids. However, our sex life is almost dead. In most cases once in two or three months. I have high sexual derive and sexually stressed for all these seven years. I don't want to divorce her just for this reason. We have discussed on it a lot but no solution and she says she doesn't have any interest for sex. I met a woman about a year ago. She is 46 and single mom. We have been just friends but few days ago we slept together and we had amazing sex. I have never had such wonderful sex before. Now she wants continue with me secretly. On one hand I don't want to divorce and on the other hand I want to continue the affair with this woman because I had been sexually stressed. Please, help. What should I do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 December 2007): OF COURSE IT WAS WONDERFUL Of course it was, remember the first time you and your wife made love! IT was WONDERFUL TOO! RIGHT! GET IT!I cannot understand how a married person will go out and have an affair because the spouse wont have sex with them did you ever stop to wonder that your wife is bored with you too obviously you are not bringing any adventure to bed do you talk to her like you do to this whore probably not, I caught my husband this year found all the sweet textmessages you know "hey babe" um "good-night baby" all the things he didnt say to me if he did he would of gotten more action because I toO was bored of the SAME THING IN BED TOO! But I did not go out and have an affair, I tried to tell him what was wrong now I am trying to forgive him but am a little jealous he went to a "strange" something else and I am left with the "same thing" so dont think its your wife you are obviously boring her to tears in the bedroom,,,trying calling her "babe" like you probably do the whore..IT MIGHT BE WONDERFUL!!!!.sorry anyone who sleeps with a married man knowingly is no other name than a W****.....GOOD LUCK..HOPE YOUR WIFE DOESNT FIND OUT
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reader, mama2three  +, writes (28 December 2007):
 Infidelity is NEVER the answer. Get counselling and stop contacting this other woman asap. Your wife is a saint if she doesn't kick your booty to the curb after finding out about this affair that you've already started!
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 December 2007): Neither. Get marriage counselling and consider going to a sex therapist.
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reader, rockelle +, writes (26 December 2007):
 Usually a bad-sex life is a sure sign that there is a bigger more important issue going on in your marriage. So, if I were you i would try figuring out what that issue is and try to correct it. You said you do not want a divorce so why not try and fix what is wrong in your marriage instead of creating another problem. Maybe counseling, maybe talking to your wife and figure out what SHE needs and/or wants. Ask her is there anything that you can do to change how she feels about sex. There is a solution to every problem you just have to be willing to figure it out.
Good Luck.
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reader, eyesramazing +, writes (26 December 2007):
Of course it was amazing sex you fool. It's called getting some "strange," after being married for seven years. Men and women just think differently about this issue. You and your wife are in a marital rut. You need to find a way to come together again, emotionally and physically. If you don't... the end result will be you will be alone... totally without your wife or children and minus a lot of money from your wallet due to that big lump of child support that you are gonna stick in the mail every month. Write back and let us know how "Amazing" that feels.
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