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anonymous
writes:So heres the deal im 15 and my teachers 40. I dont know if its infatuation or developing into love but sometimes the way she looks at me or approaches me I could really have a chance with herbut then other times I know its impossible. Im thinking about telling her how I feel when I graduate cause I wouldnt dare do anything that could ruin her reputation or destroy her career.The bad things are thats shes a she and im a she and im not gay but its just something about her and shes also married. Can someone please help me??
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 December 2007): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI just wanted to thank you guys for the advice. Im still debating wether or not im going to tell her after I graduate, like I said before I wouldnt even think about telling her now. I guess it justdepends how I feel after I graduate.
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reader, red1982  +, writes (28 December 2007):
This is quite normal at your age - I had a crush on my female english teacher ( i'm now married with two children). It's because your hormones are all over the place and you admire this teacher.I'm sure these feelings will dwindle over time and by the time you graduate you won't even feel like this anymore so don't worry too much about telling her.This doesn't mean you are gay, and you are not abnormal. Give it a few months and I'm sure you will meet someone else. That's what happens at this age. I wish you luck.
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reader, kenny + ♥, writes (28 December 2007):
 I think that this is just a stage that you are going through, its nothing more than a crush, and crushes tend to be quite short lived. Its like when he have a thing for movie stars, sport's people, musicians ect, it does not last forever. I would refrain from telling her and just admire her from afar and let your feelings die down naturally.
All the best x
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reader, hello1 +, writes (28 December 2007):
 Ever heard of a girl crush? loads of girl have them, I still get them at 18 but never on a teacher mind you. She's your teacher, just look at her from afar and maybe you can tell her after you graduate? One of my freinds fancied an male teacher, she told him how she felt. It actually helped her deal with her feeling in the end.
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