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writes:i have been going out with this guy whom i love so much,but after some time he told me that he wanted me to give him space for two months as he has some problems.during the talking we had some arguement and he started saying that he likes me but does not love me. i asked him if he wnta to break up with me but said he wants me to give him time and if i cant wait we should break up.should i wat for him or he has already left me? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 May 2008): Anyone who would ask for space for two months doesn't care for you. Let him have the space and let someone find you who does care. He may like you but doesn't care enough about you to want to be with you. And, at the same time, he doesn't care what you will be doing with your time.
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reader, Tommy7  +, writes (19 October 2007):
Give him all the time he needs while you look for a new bf.
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reader, ladysuzanna  +, writes (19 October 2007):
 answer let him go spaces for what he should know if he cares only in two months what will it be in six moths find someone that know what he wants good luck
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reader, dearkelja +, writes (19 October 2007):
 When someone in a relationship asks for space it is sometimes an indication of something wrong with the relationship. When there is something wrong the two people should work on it together. If he is asking for space because of this, this doesn't say much for what you have. If he has some problems, the other person is typically suppose to be there to support the other in these trying times. The fact that he is pushing you away is not encouraging. If I were you I would get on with my life as if he has too. I don't think it would be healthy for you to pine away and wait for this man. If he comes back in a few months ready to give it another go, you should think hard about this. You may have moved on with your life and not want to give it another go. I am sorry things did not work out better for you. All the best.
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