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*eltbhoy
writes:i have been living with my girlfriend for three years. We moved in from pretty much day one. We were both students sharing acommodation. We are now renting our own place. Im 24 and she's 21, i love her to piece's. she told me recentley that she wants 2 move out and get a place to herself as she needs space and that it would be good for our relationship. She assures me she does'nt want to leave me and that she loves me dearly. We are both working long hours and the spark between us has been missing,is there no way we could sort this together or is it best she moves out. Thanx
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reader, Tommy7  +, writes (12 October 2007):
She is trying to let you down gently.
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reader, rcn +, writes (12 October 2007):
 I agree with the other person. What I don't agree is when people say "I need space" or "we need a break". Stating that implies "I am directly the problem or stress in your life." So if we take a break, she's back to low stress, neither on of us has worked on changing behaviors that might cause this, we get back together then a couple more months "I need a break."
I would do the dinner thing as well, and I would discuss what it is about you or the relationship that she feels this is necessary.
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