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Archived questions from: May, 2009 (see latest in Virginity category)

Virginity: Help and advice

The annoying thing on my mind

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 173 days ago

31 May 2009 (M) - Hey, I'm a 16 year old guy and will be 17 in 2 weeks. Me and my gf both lost our V plates to each other when we were 15. My girlfriend is 3 months younger than me which makes her a year behind me in education. Thing is, even though now we ar...

How can I get over my erection phobia?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 165 days ago

31 May 2009 (M) - This is gonna be long..sry ! i need help tho.. Ok so today me and my girlfriend were alone in the house..we started taking of our clothes etc..started foreplay and stuff butshe had her panties on and i was trying to think a way to go inside her ...

Virginity questions

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 174 days ago

31 May 2009 (M) - Im 16 and for some reason i cant stop thinking about sex i really want to have sex but im worried that im gonna lose my virginity when i am drunk, and should i retract my foreskin before erection or leave it unretracted?...

Does it hurt when you have sex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 163 days ago

31 May 2009 (F) - does it hurt when you have sex?...

Do men like older virgins?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 17 days ago

30 May 2009 (F) - Men and Older Virgins? I know most men are into young women - especially if they are still chaste and virginal - but what do men think of older women who are still virgins? For example women in their 30s or even 40s as there are still some of us ab...

Worried my insecurities will ruin sex.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 175 days ago

30 May 2009 (F) - I know I am to young to have sex and I should wait till I am ready and in love but lately I have been very self-conscious about my body. All my friends have almost perfect bodies…but I don’t….when I get undressed its obvious I have baggy breast t...

Sex and virginity

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 175 days ago

30 May 2009 (F) - hey, ok I have a million questions, but ill ask this one question that I have had in my head for a while. im a virgin and I always think guys want to have sex with me because of that but I also think once I tell a guy im a virgin they don't want to ...

20 year old female virgin with intimacy issues

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 176 days ago

29 May 2009 (F) - I'm a 20 year old female virgin and I never had a serious relationship/boyfriend or even had a real kiss. I'm smart, have a job, and been told that im beautiful by many admires but i have never really been on that relationship rollarcoaster. people ...

If you are drunk, will your first sexual experience hurt less?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 176 days ago

29 May 2009 (F) - Just a Quicke Question. Does The First Time hurt Less If Drunk? x...

Orgasms and virginity

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 174 days ago

28 May 2009 (F) - i've had orgasms a couple of times before but no one ever touched me and i'm about to have the first sex , i dont know if im a virgin or not, so can having orgasms affect my virginity???? and if i am , will it hurt or bleed?????? im really scared ...

Confused about women's bodies and sex!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 165 days ago

28 May 2009 (M) - Hi Dear Members? I am 25 years, I have lot of confusion about women body and their sex organs. because I don't have sex yet. so, can you pls tell me What is hymen? is this releted with menstruation? is it true that every girls have bleed i...

Am I still a virgin?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 174 days ago

28 May 2009 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for a little over a year. He is my first boyfriend. I am also a virgin. So I've always said I would not have sex until I was married. But more and more, it's getting harder between my boyfriend and I. Today, we were ...

Virgins: the next endangered species soon to become extinct

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 174 days ago

28 May 2009 (F) - why wait? thats what everyone is asking. in this world virgins have become an endangered species and are fast becoming extinct. waiting for marriage is now outdated. i wonder why. in the begining sex was a celebration of love between two people who ...

Pains in my stomach after sex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 178 days ago

27 May 2009 (F) - The first time i had sex a few weeks ago it was fine during sex, however a couple of hours after i got a sharp pain through my stomach area every time i stood up/straightened my back. I didn't know what caused it or if it was to do with the sex, but ...

First time ideas?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 178 days ago

27 May 2009 (M) - I have a girlfreind and we both are still virgin. For some time we are thinking of doing sex ,so please let me know some tips for first time sex and the best position to break her hymen for less pain...

Still a virgin after 11 months of marriage, how do I overcome the pain of intercourse?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 179 days ago

26 May 2009 (F) - i am married for 11 months and been with husband for 6 yrs. still a virgin what can i do to overcome pain...

I want to make love to my boyfriend, but it is wrong in my culture

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 180 days ago

25 May 2009 (F) - I am so confused. I'm 18 years old girl i've got a 24 year old boyfriend he's muslim i'm sikh. we've only been dating for a month but knew eachother 2 months before and we have even had our little up and downs but i love him so much and vice ve...

Virgin for Life

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 179 days ago

25 May 2009 (M) - From all I've seen that this world has to offer and judging from the testimonies of many others, I have long made the decision to remain a virgin for the rest of my life. Every time I think of all the disgusting things that people face and have to ...

I hired a prostitute... but couldn't get an erection!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 180 days ago

24 May 2009 (M) - Hi, I'm a 27 year old guy. I'm a virgin, and for the last few years have been getting concerned about my situation. I haven't really gone out much in my twenties. But do enjoy it when I do get out. I have kinda withdrawn a bit. It's not that I'm...

I can't feel sex. Why is this and what is it like?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 183 days ago

22 May 2009 (F) - serious problem! me and my boyfriend have been together for 4 months and he was my first and i felt nothing (it's a problem i have, where i can't cum etc got no feeling what so ever down there) and i always tell him i cum etc but now he asked me...

She's got a b/f, but I really want her

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 182 days ago

22 May 2009 (M) - Moderator's note: Two questions from the same sender were combined 15 nearly 16. I only know one girl that'll give me a chance and she already has a bf... What should I do?!... I'm 15 nearly 16. There's only one girl that I want to lose my virgi...

Just by looking, can you detect virginity?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 184 days ago

21 May 2009 (?) - Hi all, I'm not sure whether this is the right place to post but, I have been wondering can people tell who is a 'virgin' or not? if so, how? (e.g. the eyes, the way they dress, act?) ...

I really like this guy and just wanna know how to do the whole kissing process.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 184 days ago

20 May 2009 (F) - Okay you guys so, me and my bf have been dating for 3 months now and we haven't kissed or anything. So tommorrow is the last day of school and i really want to do it but idk like how to you know get him close enough to kiss him. And also I've never ...

A year and 1/2 and still no sex?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 184 days ago

20 May 2009 (M) - Sooo me and my gf have been dating for a year and a half so a decent amount of time. We havent had sex nor have i tried. Our year n a half was a week ago n we were making out. Both our top layers came off n the moment just seemed right, so i tried ...

Thinking twice about our relationship

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 185 days ago

20 May 2009 (F) - Ive been dating this guy for about a month. But some things have happened that are making me think twice about our relationship. I am 20 years old and he is 24. He keeps asking me if im a virgin, how far ive gone etc. I've told him im not that ...

How do I accept her past?

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 174 days ago

20 May 2009 (M) - i think my other question was rejected so im asking again. ive recently found out my girlfriends ex boyfriend used her for sex and blowjobs... alot, and pretended to love her, she was a virgin before him. im 16 and a virgin and i had always wante...

He doesn't believe I was a virgin because I didn't bleed!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 185 days ago

19 May 2009 (F) - Hi i am engaged and he took my virginity. i didnt bleed so now he thinks i wasnt a virgin and is getting upset. i think i tore it while stretchin one time and now what should i say/do? please? ...

As a bloke who has decided to be chaste I find myself increasingly frustrated!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 185 days ago

19 May 2009 (M) - Hello, as a bloke who has decided to be chaste I find myself increasingly frustrated. I want to respect myself by staying chaste but my sexual drive is driving me mad. I find my self control wearing when I am cuddling and kissing my partner. I see ...

He makes me feel so lustful but I don't want to lose my virginity!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 182 days ago

19 May 2009 (F) - I have a lovely boyfriend ... hes my first proper boyfriend and everything is going well but he makes me feel very lustful. I don't want to have sex yet and he doesn't pressure me into it but sometimes when we are caught up in the moment I feel like ...

Why does sex still hurt so much?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 179 days ago

19 May 2009 (F) - Ok, So i recently lost my virginity to my bf whom I am very much in love with. I am pretty sure I was ready and have no regrets. I've done it five times now and it's not very fun. The first couple times it hurt alot, and not it hurts for like a ...

My penis won't stay up when it comes time for penetration. Please help!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 186 days ago

19 May 2009 (M) - ok so im a virgin and me and my girl have been doin role play kissing for an hour and my penis is hard through tht tht but once we stop and I want to go N my penis gets soft and I can't get it hard enough to penetrate and im to young for viagra ...

Am I weird because I'm at virgin?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 187 days ago

18 May 2009 (F) - Iv'e just turned sixteen and im still a virgin most of my friends arent. Does this make me weird? help!...

I'm still a virgin and I'd like to keep it that way!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 169 days ago

18 May 2009 (F) - Okay, First i'm sorry if this has already been asked before... But here we go. Well about a year ago, i started dating a guy, that i eventually thought i was in love with. He was kind of a jerk, he took things really fast, as in he tried to make...

I'm so easily aroused! Is something wrong with me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 188 days ago

16 May 2009 (M) - hi im a bi-guy ....and i dont have an account here..so im using my friends account.. so im really 17-18, not 14-15 so any ways...im not a virgin and i regret it..i lost it at 15 and i wished i hadent....but my problem is..i dont know ...

A poll regarding virginity

This question has 42 answers - newest was posted 168 days ago

16 May 2009 (F) - I am wondering at what age most people lost their virginity? This is a really interesting subject to me and I am just curious, I googled it and it says the average age is 16, but thats seems a little old to me. It also said like only half of the ...

Have I lost my virginity to my friend?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 181 days ago

16 May 2009 (F) - I have know idea if I've lost my virginty yet. My cherry HAS been popped, I know that for sure, and it wasnt from sports or horseback riding. It was from.. Well. To help me with this you might wanna know im Bisexual. And so are 4 of my best f...

In love with a guy but he only wants me for "fun"

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 190 days ago

15 May 2009 (F) - I don't now what to do I feel like I am in a catch 22 situation. I have fallen for this guy in a big way, he is gorgeous and when we are talking he seems really into me, but he doesn't always talk just when he feels like it and it's killing me ...

Why does it seem like certain people get all the sex in the world?

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 174 days ago

15 May 2009 (M) - Well I am getting older and I am still a virgin. I am about to go to college, so hopefully I will meet someone at some point in the next few years. I was just wondering why it seems like there are a few people who get a TON of sex, and others ...

Have I definately lost my virginity and was this actual sex?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 191 days ago

13 May 2009 (F) - im 15 years old and ive fancied this boy from school for a while now whos 16 but in my year (11). hes fancied me for about a year we talk all the time out of school but hardly ever while we're there. i was a bit scared of asking him out because ...

Best place to lose your virginity?

This question has 21 answers - newest was posted 146 days ago

12 May 2009 (F) - I'm ready, and I'm gonna lose it. The question is where? Ideas anyone? The beach? The woods? Not some sleazy hotel room or my bed. This is the first time you'll always remember. I want to make it memorable in so many different ways, and...

Broken-hearted 15 year old daughter who lost her virginity to a guy she "loved"

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 186 days ago

12 May 2009 (F) - I am the mother of a 15 year old daughter (soon to be 16). Her boyfriend broke up with her suddenly after going out for 6 months. He claimed he "loved her" even up until the night before her broke up with her. His reason for ending the ...

Should I feel guilty about losing my virginity?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 194 days ago

10 May 2009 (F) - Hello. I turned 16 in April. i lost my virginity summer of '08. i was 15. i am so confused on whether or not to feel guilty or pleased or secrative or URGH i just don't know. i told my mother today that i've had sex. the thing is- when it happ...

No pain, no blood, does that mean my hymen isn't broken?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 195 days ago

10 May 2009 (F) - Me and my boyfriend had sex last night for the first time. I was a virgin before, but it didn't hurt and didn't bleed. Also, i've masturbated a few times a while ago, and since my boyfriend and i got together he's fingered me a lot of times. but i'...

Why don't I get pleasure from didos?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 194 days ago

10 May 2009 (F) - Hi, My question is why don't I get any pleasure from dildos? I'm a virgin, but I'd like to break my hymen beforehand and be more comfortable with penetration on my own before I decide to have sex. The thing is, I think I already have broken my hymen ...

He keeps asking me if I'm a virgin!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 192 days ago

8 May 2009 (F) - I went out on one date with this guy, and then the next day we were talking through text messages and he asked me if I was a virgin or not. I told him I didnt feel comfortable answering that at this stage yet and he said thats ok I dont have to ...

So what's the big deal about viginity?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 185 days ago

7 May 2009 (F) - Okay so this really isn't a question. Truth is I don't see why people make such a big deal about sex and virginity. I don't find it such a big deal losing it. I mean I'm 16 I'm still a virgin and I believe that you know you should wait until you ...

Is it better to wait for sex?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 159 days ago

7 May 2009 (F) - So I'm 19 and a virigin. I have a bf who's also a virigin (he's my first ever bf) and he really wants to have sex. We came kinda close to doing it once but we've never gone all the way. Part of me really wants to wait til marraige but part of me ...

Everyone assumes I'm experienced just because I'm bi. I can't open up to people.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 198 days ago

7 May 2009 (F) - I used to have a girlfriend (I'm also female)and I get on well with lads and identify as being bisexual. Because of this, everyone I know assumes that I'm sexually experienced. In reality I've slept with my ex- girl but never got beyond kissing a ...

How can I get hard erections back again?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 199 days ago

6 May 2009 (M) - I am a 16 years old healthy guy, never had any health problems but like 6 months ago i've became sexually active. I had sex with a bigger woman (1 night stand) we were drunk and on the beach.. it was winter so it was cold. When i penetrated here i ...

Sex just doesn't interest me at all!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 199 days ago

6 May 2009 (F) - Well ever since i lost my viginity at 16 nothing grand has ever happened to me! To get to the point i have never had an orgasm at least i dont think so! Sex makes me more depressed than anything:( My boyfriend is very supportive but sometimes i ...