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Archived questions from: August, 2010 (see latest in Virginity category)

Virginity: Help and advice

What do guys my age think of young ladies like me???

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4987 days ago

30 August 2010 (F) - I am a 23yr old virgin. Whenever I go out men are always complimenting me..asking if Im a model.. and trying to get my number. I am tall, i work out, eat healthy, am very stylish/classy, and I love God. I live with my dad, grandma, and my dog. I ...

Ladies what do you think of male virgins?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4977 days ago

30 August 2010 (M) - This is a prespective question for women. Ladies, what do you think of male virgins over the age of 20? We can break this up into differnent cateogories too. What's your opinion on these scenarios, and what can they do? The guy whos...

What's it like losing your virginity?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4987 days ago

29 August 2010 (F) - so im talking to this guy about having sex with him so i can have a first time. i really like him but i dont think he feels the same way.. he is only 2 years older than me. should i have sex with him? he is in college and im a junior. and how bad ...

I am a 38 virgin, am I the only one?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4933 days ago

29 August 2010 (M) - I am a 38 virgin, am I the only one? I think all that talk when I was a teenager back in the mid 80/s about AIDS put me off for life!!!!...

Boyfriend says he has waited long enough but I don't want to lose my virginity

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4986 days ago

29 August 2010 (F) - what should i do?i dont wanna lose my virginity. i am 22 years.and i am in relationship from past 5 years.me and my b.f have done oral sex many times.but now he wants me to lose my viriginty for him and i dont wanna lose it before my marriage...

I'm afraid women won't be interested in me because I'm still a virgin

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4634 days ago

29 August 2010 (M) - What type of women hate virgins? I'm 23 and although still fairly young I always have this fear that I'll end up still being a virgin at 30. My fears are based on the fact that if I meet a girl who i care about, she'll reject me on that basis be...

Confused ex-Virgin

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4989 days ago

29 August 2010 (M) - I have several questions. I recently had sex for the first time (as in lost my virginity) with my girlfriend, but had difficulty getting the condom off. The first night that we did it, the condom ripped on our second go at it and on the second night ...

Never had sex, hymen broken am I still a virgin?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4991 days ago

27 August 2010 (F) - I am a girl of 20 i have not had sex since i was given birth to but the last time i visited a gynacologist he told me that my hymen has been broken and each time am trying to go into a sex free relatioship with a guy they always aske if i am stil a ...

How can I date a mature woman when the society I live in is very conservative?

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26 August 2010 (M) - first of all i will like to say hi. well i will like to admit here that im still a virgin and i've never had a real GF and i just had 3 kisses in my life.I get horny almost everyday. I can just help my self than just to masturbate.i've asked so many ...

She is a virgin but I am not, how can I make her first time perfect?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4989 days ago

26 August 2010 (M) - Hello my problem would sound a bit unusual..my girfriend and i are plannin to have sex soon.. shes a virgin but im not. i had many girls in bed so im pretty experienced..but the thing is i never had a virgin in my life and it actually freaks m...

Should I settle for someone who likes me or wait for someone who I really like?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4989 days ago

25 August 2010 (F) - So I'm 21, a virgin, and have never had a proper boyfriend I do get asked out quite a bit, and have been on a couple of dates, but I usualy say no because I haven't been interested in or attracted to any of the guys who have asked me out. It's not...

I want to remain a virgin until I am at least 17 but I cant help getting really horny around my boyfriend!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4988 days ago

24 August 2010 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for almost a year.[[I'm 14]] I'm a virgin. When we talk on the phone, on MSN, and when we see each other I just get SO horny. I just want to jump on him. I know enough about sex...(I have tons of free time so I read...

Caught him with a man! I don't know how I can trust him!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4995 days ago

23 August 2010 (F) - My name is Thelma. My boyfriend and I met a few years ago, we were friends for months before we ended up dating. We've been dating for over 2 years. He and I have never had sex, as of right now I am almost 26 and he was 2 years older than me. We ...

He didn't want to be my boyfriend he just wanted me for sex

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4995 days ago

23 August 2010 (F) - i have been talking to this guy for about 3-4 mon.. i thought that he wanted to be in a relationship with me... he brought up the whole i really want a girlfriend and i really like you etc.. so i said ok we can give it a try... when we first started ...

Was he only acting this way to get me into bed?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4989 days ago

23 August 2010 (F) - I could really do with a few questions answering, as I'm driving myself crazy and getting really upset. I'm 18 and upto a month ago, I'd not kissed a guy, had a proper boyfriend and obviously hadn't had sex. This used to frustrate me every single ...

She wants to lose her virginity to me but I'm not sure if I want to spend the rest of my life with her because of her past!

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4988 days ago

23 August 2010 (M) - hello im with this girl i know through internet..we been together for 2 years but we still havent met since we live far away. anyway i know everything about her and her past is actually haunting me..she didnt do much but just the idea that some oth...

Please, let lonely, single virgins suffer in silence!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4981 days ago

23 August 2010 (M) - I am not writing a question but posting some thoughts that I have had on my mind in regards to all of the positive responses that readers post on this website, especially in regards to people being depressed, single, virgins well into their adult ...

My boyfriend raped me!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3883 days ago

23 August 2010 (F) - MODS NOTE: OP's own title. I am 20 years old. I have always been committed to abstaining from sex til marriage - not "everything but", I mean really abstaining from sexual activity. The furthest I went with my first boyfriend was us both taking o...

Why does he freeze when it comes to having sex?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4995 days ago

22 August 2010 (F) - Why would a guy in his late 20's and still a virgin, not want to havesex? What does it mean when he only wants bjs?? He is a nice guy and touchy handsy but when it comes to the topic of sex and lets do it, he freezes? How to get him to relax? Thank ...

Told him I was a virgin now he is distant

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4981 days ago

22 August 2010 (F) - Okay, so there is this boy I have been talking too since april. We started hooking up (in april) but never had sex (though he tried). We hung out a few times, then summer came and we went home. All summer he texted me and would send me little ...

Virgin, so scared, please help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4996 days ago

22 August 2010 (M) - [OP original title] Guys i dont know what to do...my girlfriend and I soon will be starting to have sex...but Im virgin and never had or made oral sex...well she told me she has received and made oral sex to guys, altough she has never been pene...

Had sex for the first time I need advice to make it better!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4986 days ago

22 August 2010 (F) - Hey ! Me and my boyfriend had sex for the first time and we're both virgins. He really enjoyed it and i did aswell but it was kinda painful! is this normal? i didnt bleed and i heard thats what usually happens? , also i want to know ideas how...

I'm afraid of coming out because of the conservative society

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4996 days ago

21 August 2010 (M) - Dear readers I’m a 26 years old male professional and successful and I’m virgin. I want to live my life as many people do, find a girl, get married and have kids. I love girls and they are sexy and attractive but when I think about sex I feel th...

In love with a virgin but he cant be with me because I am not a virgin!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4989 days ago

20 August 2010 (F) - So i am about to be 20 years old in month, during my freshman year i met this guy who was out of the ordinary. Hes 22 years old, and hes a virgin for religious reasons. But yet hes messed around with girls, including myself. We are in a ...

He wants my virginity as a bootycall

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4989 days ago

19 August 2010 (F) - I'm 21 he is 29, lately he has been wanting to take it to the next level (intimacy), the thing is im still a virgin and not sure if he his the right one ... After being friends for the past few years, I asked where he sees our "relatio...

Should I visit a prostitute to lose my virginity?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4996 days ago

19 August 2010 (M) - I'm a male virgin. I've never kissed a girl, I've never been on a date and I've never had a girlfriend. I've been told by numerous women that I'm not handsome or as some put it, ugly, even though I thought I was average looking. Guess I can appr...

I'm still a virgin !

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5000 days ago

18 August 2010 (F) - Im 23 and still a virgin,I once used to be very proud of the fact because unlike the other girls my age Im not just willing to sleep with any guy,the only problem is now the older im getting im finding it hard to even get in a relationship with a ...

Is it odd that I can't remember the exact age I lost my virginity?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5000 days ago

18 August 2010 (M) - Basically, I lost my virginity sometime between the age of 11-13 and I'm wondering if it's overly odd not to remember the exact age I was? No-one ever believes me when i say I can't really remember it at all. (No regrets, plenty of sex since but ...

She won't have sex. I'm tempted to cheat

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5000 days ago

18 August 2010 (M) - Hi, I really need some help here. Me and my girlfried have been going out for nearly 2 years (we are both 16) And she has yet to give me a blowjob or sex. I have tried to talk to her about it several times but she said she isn't ready for sex. S...

Do virgins turn guys off?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5001 days ago

17 August 2010 (F) - I'm 18 years old and I'm still a virgin. The guy that I've been talking to just asked if i am or not, and I'm scared that things will change between us or he will think of me differently when i tell him that i am. I'm not "saving myself" for ...

I'm 19 and a virgin!

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 5001 days ago

16 August 2010 (F) - i'm 19, a virgin, and deeply ashamed to be one. what's worse, is that I have absolutely no experience, not only when it comes to sex, but with anything concerning affection (kissing, ect). recently i've been talking to this guy and I think something ...

How can I attract a decent guy?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4989 days ago

16 August 2010 (F) - okay so i am 18 and really frustrated with how to attract boys, i am a virgin and i feel like that is my defect, i get hit on alot but not by the guys i like :( is there anyway i can stop being single without the mind games that come along with ...

Should I give him my virgnity?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4989 days ago

15 August 2010 (F) - Okay so, I'm still a virgin because I would like to lose it to someone who really matters to me, but with my current boyfriend (who I just started dating), well, he's not a virgin, and he's able to find soo many of my "turn-on" spots. He's also able ...

Still a virgin after partial penetration?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5003 days ago

15 August 2010 (F) - My boyfriend and i were..messing around i guess.. and after awhile we were naked and he was putting his dick near me. I said ok just a little bit, Im not sure if he really went it,so i asked him how far he went in he said about half way and ...

Some tips for entertaining a married older man

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5001 days ago

15 August 2010 (F) - I'm 18, and have been seeing a 42 year old man. He is married with kids. It all started when I spent the whole night working with him on his truck that broke down. He's a mechanic witch is what I would like to be when I'm finnished highschool. A...

Recent break up from long distance relationship...

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13 August 2010 (F) - I hav ebeen with my boyfriend for three years, i recently got obssessive over him when i found out he had second thought of being with me because he felt he doesnt know bc of my behavior. (me being overly loving)...he told me after 2 months of ...

Is it wrong to be a virgin at 28?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 4997 days ago

13 August 2010 (M) - I'm a virgin at 28, is this wrong? I've 'technically' never had a girlfriend, but I did have a fairly decent amount of girls flirting with me back in college. I've also dated a few but we never officially had a relationship, although the dis...

I lied to her about many things and if she ever finds out the truth she'll be very hurt

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4987 days ago

12 August 2010 (M) - i'm 21 years old. 9 months ago i started a relationship with a 18 year old girl, at the beginning i tought i wouldn't fall in love for her and that neither she would, therefor i lie to her and prettended to be another person since the beginning, i ...

No one wants to have sex with me!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4702 days ago

11 August 2010 (F) - I have to vent right now as I am SO angry and upset! I want to have sex but my partner keeps coming up with lame excuses. I am a virgin and he is much older than me and not a virgin and yet somehow its ME that has to pester him for sex. It starte...

Is it wrong to believe that sex outside of marriage is immoral?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 4984 days ago

11 August 2010 (F) - I am still a virgin at 34 due to mostly my own religious convictions. I believe it is immoral to have sex outside of marriage. I feel like a freak due to this fact. I hope that nobody knows since only the ones closest to me know about it. Am I wrong ...

What's a male virgin to do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4995 days ago

11 August 2010 (M) - I'm a male virgin, and I'm not attractive at all. I've been told numerous times by woman that I'm not good looking. I did'nt have the nerve to ask any girl out high school. I've asked out 50 women in college so far. 48 of them turned me down. ...

Can you get pregnant if you use a condom but not the pill?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5007 days ago

11 August 2010 (F) - Hey peoples ! , Me and my boyfriend are going to have sex and we're both virgins. I was wondering could i get pregnant if i dont go on the pill and we just use a condom? He said he'll pull out before he ''come's'' but i just really want to b...

Was I not a virgin because I didnt bleed when I had sex for the first time?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5007 days ago

10 August 2010 (F) - Hi, i want to ask that when i had sex with my boyfriend first time then i was not bleed. But that was first time i involved in the procedure so i want to know was i not a virgin? Please help me because this thing has completly disturbed my life...

How many times do you have to have sex before you bleed?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5008 days ago

10 August 2010 (F) - My boyfriend and I have had sex twice now..and he keeps worrying about how he hasn't popped my cherry and that hes doing something wrong. Is he doing something wrong? How many times do you have to have sex before you bleed? And if he's doing ...

I am against pre-marital sex but I am super horny! How can I control my urges?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5001 days ago

10 August 2010 (F) - im fourteen and a virgin and i dont belive in pre marital sex. i have a boyfriend who i have actually been with since were were 11 and now im a freshman. . the issue with my no pre martial sex thing is that im like super super horny and im worried ...

Douching & sponge, what on earth?!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5007 days ago

9 August 2010 (F) - [Moderator's Note: OP's own title] Hi Agony Aunts and Uncles, I am in need of your advice and experience please!! I'm a virgin THINKING** about doing it for the first time with my boyfriend. We are both virgins and are talking about all** aspects ...

How can I get past the pain so I can make love to my boyfriend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5009 days ago

9 August 2010 (F) - hello! Am 25 and still virgin and every time my boyfriend try to finger me i almost shout because am afraid of the pain, i really want to make love with him...but am mentally block when thought of the pain it might caused me...i felt sorry for him ...

Will losing my virginity to my bf ruin our relationship?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5008 days ago

9 August 2010 (F) - I'm a virgin and my boyfriend really wants to have sex. I really want to, but I'm afraid it will ruin our relationship or something like that. How do I know he is the right person to do it with? I feel like I have waited a long time and I do love ...

Virgin at 24

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5010 days ago

9 August 2010 (F) - I am going to be 24 in a month, and I am still a virgin. I'm starting to worry that guys will be put off by it. My friends told me just not tell a guy that that I am, but I think he'll find out when he finds out I've only been in one brief ...

Hate myself for being a virgin at 19

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5010 days ago

8 August 2010 (M) - [OP original title] Well as the title says im a virgin at 19, never had a girlfriend and never even been kissed and i cant stand it. everywhere i go i see couples and all of my friends have had girlfriends and boyfriends a hundred times over, its ...