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Archived questions from: September, 2010 (see latest in Virginity category)

Virginity: Help and advice

I want to have sex but my heart starts beating so fast I feel like I'm going to die!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4912 days ago

29 September 2010 (F - I think I have problem and I always been shy to talk about it but I can’t keep it inside me anymore I need help... I am 23 years old and I really want to have baby so badly but the big problem is I can’t have sex I am virgin. I have been trying...

Still bleeding after 1st time sex 8 days ago. Is something wrong?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4915 days ago

29 September 2010 (F - Dear Cupid This is really embarrasing, basically i had sex with this guy who had a very large penis and it did hurt as it was my first time, but you see i have been bleeding for longer then 8 days i think. I thought it was my period that star...

I don't want anything inside me! How am I ever going to have sex?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4915 days ago

29 September 2010 (F - I'm 24 n a virgin, yet i have urges like everyone else. I have one problem ... I am scared of anything going inside my vagina. the mere thought of it makes me squeeze my legs together. Ive had a boyfriend before n I only let him go as far as playing ...

Loosing verginity from fingering before sex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4913 days ago

29 September 2010 (F - ok so i had sex today but my bf has fingered me with 3 fingers before and that made me bleed. before i had sex for the first time today he fingered me with 4 fingers. it was weird that he could fit that much... so is there something wrong with me?...

Any tips for first time sex for a guy who suffers from premature ejaculation?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4915 days ago

28 September 2010 (M - Hey everyone I suffer from premature ejaculation and me and my girlfriend will be having sex for the first time in a few weeks so i was wondered if you all could help. I was wondered with the stop start technique how long should i wait...

My 1st time wasn't horrible and there was no bleeding why?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4915 days ago

27 September 2010 (F - Well im 16 years old nd had sex for the very first time, all my friends were already sexually active and they said there first time was very painfull nd horrible but my first time wasent painfull at all nd i taught u were suppost to bleed but i ...

Will she ever be ready, or is she just teasing me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4917 days ago

27 September 2010 (M - Ok I dont want to come off as a jerk so please don't hate on me. My gff is 19 and a virgin, am I 22 and not one. We have been dating for 3 months and she says she still sin ready. I DONT pressure her, I don't want to hurt her in any way BUT it is ...

I want my virginity back!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4917 days ago

27 September 2010 (F - i had premarital sex wid my xbf.he used me to said he ii marry me.now i get a guy who luvs me and marry me.but i dont want to marry him like dis .i want my virginity back plssss help me...is there any treatment for that?...thnk u ...

Something keeps stopping me from having sex, why do I keep saying no?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4915 days ago

26 September 2010 (F - well im 16 and i am a virgin! peaple always say ohh you dont seem like your a virgin? what the hell does that mean really. Anyway i have done everything apart from sex because when it nearly happens something always stops me and i dont know what t...

I'm too scared to lose my virginity.

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4916 days ago

26 September 2010 (F - So I'm 14 and i want to lose my virginity. But I'm also extremely scared. I don't really know what I'm scared of but I am. So I just wanted to know if there is any tips people can give me on this. Like why am I so nervous and scared to lose my ...

Do you only bleed the first time you have sex?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4918 days ago

25 September 2010 (F - i lost my virginity to my boyfriend last week, but afterwards i bled. a lot. i figured that it was because my cherry got popped, and that it would be a one time thing. i guess not. i've had sex twice since, but both times i've bled, and i'm not at ...

Are you still a virgin if you've been fingered?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4919 days ago

25 September 2010 (F - Are you still a virgin if you got fingered?...

Why do people asks the question "Are you a virgin"?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4918 days ago

24 September 2010 (M - Are they just extremely nosy or are they hoping for a certain answer? I've been asked that question by people I barely even know in the past, but I don't care about them cuz I don't know them. My concern is about my friend. She asks her bo...

I love her so much but I don't think I can deal with her new rules about sex!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4919 days ago

24 September 2010 (M - My girlfriend and i have only been dating for two months. i am 16 but a romancer all the same. i lost my virginity to this girl and i love her. its not about the sex and i dont think she realizes it. in two months we have only dont it three times. ...

Getting married soon, virgins and no urge for sex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4922 days ago

22 September 2010 (M - I have a problem and I am confused. I am 27 and a virgin. I had always stopped myself from having sex till I was 22yo. Coz i thought it would affect my studies in school and college. I started viewing porn in college and was really deep into...

If I stay over with him more often will it eventually lead to sex? He promised we would not have sex until marriage but I'm worried he wont be able to control himself!

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4918 days ago

22 September 2010 (F - I have been staying over at my boyfriend's hostel room like every once a week. And each time he will rub his penis on my vagina although i am still wearing my panties. I would like to stay over with him more often but I am afraid if that continue...

15 year old guy and 27 year old man, what to do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4922 days ago

19 September 2010 (M - Hey, I have a really bad problem. I'm a 15 almost 16 year old guy and I'm in love with another 27 year old guy. I met him when I was on holiday and we became really good friends but on my last day he just kissed me and I never thought I was gay befo...

How to get my virgin girlfriend to have sex with me?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4925 days ago

18 September 2010 (M - Dear Readers, I would like to have some advise on how to convinced my girlfriend to have a sexual intercourse with me... Since she is still a virgin, it is extremely complicated to convinced her.. She always tells me to wait and wait and wait......

22 year old guy who's never made it to third base!

This question has 22 answers - newest was posted 4174 days ago

18 September 2010 (M - I'm 22 years old and I'm still a virgin.Hell I've never even made it to third base.I'm just getting so tired of waiting. I really wanted to wait until I had some one I loved, I even prayed to God to send me someone but either he doesn't care or is ...

My virgin girlfriend wont have sex with me

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4921 days ago

18 September 2010 (M - Im a virgin and so in love with this girl who is also a virgin,recently i talked to her about having sex but she wont give in,she belives in no sex before marriage and it rilly bothers me coz she is only 16years.she lets me touch her private parts ...

I'm a 23 year old virgin female who has never been in a relationship or even kissed. What is wrong with me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4902 days ago

16 September 2010 (F - I'm a 23 year old girl who recently really started feeling depressed and I know it is linked to me still being a virgin. It was always something in the back of my mind that I would just think about when I saw a romance movie or something, but as of ...

He doesn't want a relationship, I'm confused!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4928 days ago

16 September 2010 (F - hi i need someone to answer my questions and give me some advice on thurday my boyfriend and i had some awesome sex i have never had sex like dat with him before he is my first. that night he never called until sunday i knew some thing was ...

My boyfriends friends are presurring him to have sex!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4893 days ago

14 September 2010 (F - Hi everyone. I have a problem. I've been with my boyfriend for 17 months now (almost 18 months!!!) and he's now at college (he's 15, almost 16 and I'm 13, almost 14). I've just started my GCSE's, and he's just started his A Levels. He left just ove...

Afraid that not being physical will weaken the relationship

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4928 days ago

12 September 2010 (F - To start out I should tell you my boyfriend and I are both college sophomores. Although I am not a virgin, he is. We both feel as though we want to wait until marriage to have sex...meaning for him to lose his virginity and me to have sex again. ...

Virgin and totally freaked out!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4929 days ago

12 September 2010 (F - Hello. I really need some answers. 2 days ago me and my boyfriend were hanging out. I was topless, he wasnt, and i had my underwear and jeans on and he had his boxers and shorts on. He was on top of my and his penis was pretty much on my vagina, ...

Was my girlfriend a virgin?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4921 days ago

12 September 2010 (M - hi my question about my girlfriend virginity 2 question give me a both answers n help me my girlfriend is 23 yrs old when i put my finger her virgina means her pussy i can easily put my one or two fingers n she didnt feel any pain n my gir...

He can't take my virginity until he breaks up with his girlfriend!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4933 days ago

12 September 2010 (F - Me and this boy ive known for years likes eachother problem is that he has a girl,see im a virgin and i wana lose my virginty to him. i really like him. we have fun and everything. i told him he cant take it til he breaks up with her but its ...

19 Nearly 20 and still a virgin

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4906 days ago

11 September 2010 (M - Im going to be 20 in 6 months or so and im still a virgin. And the thought of it (and still being a virgin at 19 for that matter) is absolutely killing me. I hate myself so much and i cant stop with feeling negative, even though i know thats just ...

Could a virgin train themselves for better sex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4934 days ago

10 September 2010 (M - I may be a virgin but I don't want to be ill prepared for my first time. So I have been doing research onto sexual techniques and what could make sex better. Since I want to make my first time fun for her as well, I thought this site would be a good ...

I want to be more than friends with her!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4896 days ago

10 September 2010 (M - I am deeply in love with this girl. We dated in 5th grade and we started talking again last school year. She is the perfect girl for me, her personality is so much like mine and she is so beautiful. She just broke up with her boyfriend of a year and ...

I'm a virgin and considering casual sex. What if I regret it?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4935 days ago

9 September 2010 (F - I'm not so sure how to place my question. I've always wondered about casual sex partly because, even though I did have a few "boyfriends", I don't seem to be able to form strong bonds with them and therefore I think of myself as incapable of loving. ...

I just had unprotected sex on the first date!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4935 days ago

9 September 2010 (F - Yesterday I met up with my boyfriend for the first time. We actually ended up having sex, and I know it was really to soon! We actually did it without a condom, and I do plan on getting checked out just to make sure. Anyways now looking back on it I ...

Can my girlfriend become pregnant by rubbing penis on the outside of her vagina?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4936 days ago

9 September 2010 (M - Hi I want to know whether my girlfriend can fall pregnant from me rubbing my penis against her vagina?And If I place it only in the opening of ehr vagina?If I have ejaculated already?If I have not?She is still a virgin. If I finger her?If sperm...

I hate being a virgin!!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4938 days ago

6 September 2010 (F - I hate being a virgin, no woman will come near me when they find out about it. when they find out i'm a virgin they make exsuess to leave me. why do they always leave me i can't work it out. i'm 51 and never had sex, it's so off putting that I may ...

Do guys lie about not being virgins?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4918 days ago

3 September 2010 (F - Do guys lie and say theyre not virgins when they really are? and will theyre guy friends lie for them??because im a virgin and my boyfriend and his friend said he wasnt a virgin .then when we tryed to have sex he could put it in..and he told me to ...

If I don't have sex with him soon will he leave me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4933 days ago

2 September 2010 (F - Dearcupid i have been with this guy for a year and couple of months,he now want to have sex with me and iam confused.my mind want to leave him but my heart still loves him,i love him so much,he always tells me that he loves me but it is hard to ...

How do I make it the least painful for her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4933 days ago

2 September 2010 (M - ok, so me and my girlfriend have been going out since may, and we've always had this problem where we want to wait till her birthday before we sleep together, but no matter how hard we try, we always end up in a possition were if we didnt stop the...

Is having lasting pain from losing my virginity normal?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4933 days ago

2 September 2010 (F - Me and a guy i know were messing around earlier yesterday and ending up "doing things". I was a virgin until he put his penis inside me. I told him to stop so he did but then he put it back in and we had sex but it was only about a minute ...

What is the best way to get my girlfriend into bed and to make sure she enjoys her first time?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4940 days ago

2 September 2010 (M - Me and my lass are both virgins, but we've started to get serious. But, I'm not totally sure what's the best way to get her into bed, and what...foreplay and position that will pleasure her the most. I know it's an awkward topic, but any help?...

How does a single sexually inexperienced 20 year old lesbian start dating?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4941 days ago

2 September 2010 (F - How does a single sexually inexperienced 20 y/o lesbian female meet other lesbian females? I know it sounds silly, but I honestly do not know how to start dating. I am a 20 y/o female with no sexual experience (virgin) with males or females. ...

Has my ex just come back to me to take my virginity?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4942 days ago

2 September 2010 (F - Dear cupid,i was dating my ex for 9 months and we never had sex,and i found out that he was cheating and ended it,we got back together this year(june)and he think we should have sex,did he come back to get what he never got at the first place?my ...

We've been dating for a year and seven months. He wants to have sex but I don't feel ready.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4943 days ago

1 September 2010 (F - Dearcupid , iam a 18 year old young women,i started dating last year,and m stil a virgn,i have been dating m boyfriend for over a year and 7 month,he now want to have sex with me,but iam not ready i feel like i need to talk to hm first about how i ...

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