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Virginity questions

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Question - (31 May 2009) 3 Answers - (Newest, 31 May 2009)
A male United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Im 16 and for some reason i cant stop thinking about sex i really want to have sex but im worried that im gonna lose my virginity when i am drunk, and should i retract my foreskin before erection or leave it unretracted?

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A female reader, love-struckxo Canada +, writes (31 May 2009):

love-struckxo agony auntMy friends always come to me and say, 'I want to be drunk when I lost my virginity' and I'm like 'WHY!?' Anytime anyone says that to me, I will definatley tell them, no, no, no!

I think your first time should be memorable even if it is the most painful. You don't wanna say later on, 'yeah I lost my virginity when I was wasted with a guy I don't even know'

How special is that?

I think when the sex is REALLY good, it is like being drunk. I feel like I loose all control of myself, and I do things I wouldn't do usually. It makes me feel no fear.. On that note, use a condom even in the heat of a moment!

Don't worry about it too much. The time will come when the time will come.

And, YES leave the skin alone.

xxx

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A reader, anonymous, writes (31 May 2009):

even the best advice is flawed....this is the link i meant to send you...

http://sexperienceuk.channel4.com/videos/about/first-time

lol...the rush and the excitement made me paste to quickly...

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A reader, anonymous, writes (31 May 2009):

Well when you loose it is mostly up to you. You don't have to drink to have sex... Leave the foreskin alone, it will know what to do... biology is mostly great like that.

Anyway good you are thinking clean healthy thoughts. The very best advice i can give a virgin really, is go and read

Satindesires article here :

http://www.dearcupid.org/question/thinking-about-losing-your-virginity.html

go and see the website:

http://sexperienceuk.channel4.com/sex-on-c4

and the last one is don't be Fu*king stupid (love the play on words there)- wear a condom.

Have a wonderful shagging time :) when it arrives,

Star.x.

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