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Archived questions from: August, 2011 (see latest in Virginity category)

Virginity: Help and advice

Newlywed virgin not had sex yet. Shall I just 'get it over with' even though it hurts?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4580 days ago

31 August 2011 (F - So, my husband and I are recently married (only married about a month and a half, so far) but we're still dealing with the issue of my...ahem...virginity...I've never engaged in full intercourse/penetration and we have tried numerous times already, ...

Is it possible for us to not have sex for the 4-5 years before we get married?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4585 days ago

30 August 2011 (F - Hi! Here's my problem.i and my bf have been dating for 8 months now and we have not had sex with each other.i'm a virgin but he is not.we agreed not to have sex until we are married which could be in 4-5 years time.we only only have make out ...

Our fairytale relationship has lost its spark

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4585 days ago

30 August 2011 (F - My boyfriend and I have been together for 4 and a half years now. Since 10th grade, and back then, he was so romantic and wanted nothing more than for me to be his girlfriend. I feel like the start of our relationship, and how we both had crushes on ...

She lied and told me she was a virgin, the truth came out while drinking

This question has 24 answers - newest was posted 4578 days ago

29 August 2011 (M - Dear cupid, the woman i am suppose to marry is a liar. 2 years ago i asked her if she was a virgin because i am and didnt want to waste each orther's time if we had different ideals about premarital sex. She said she was a virgin, now that i am ...

Why does she dress hot for work but not for me?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4585 days ago

28 August 2011 (M - She dresses HOT for work, low tops, flouncy skirts, sometimes no panties. When she comes home she dresses down, pyjamas instead of negligee, baggy pants instead of skirt, baggy dresses etc. I see all the answers saying this is innocent and to just...

What should I do to prepare for losing it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4588 days ago

27 August 2011 (F - I'm 21 and not a virgin and going to my boyfriends house next friday to hangout and i know we'll end up having sex. What i want to know is what would be really must haves in my purse when going over. The really important ones, just to be prepare. ...

Is it wrong for a virgin guy to want to marry a virgin girl?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 4578 days ago

26 August 2011 (M - dear cupid, is it wrong for a virgin guy to want to marry a virgin woman with great personality,respect,trust and love? It seems when i mention this to women they think am crazy or i have insecurities....

What's wrong with my boyfriend?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4586 days ago

25 August 2011 (F - I'm 14 and my boyfriends 16 soon, he wants to have sex but I'm not sure I do, he's not a virgin but I am! He always gets drunk and high, it dosent bother me usually but recently he feels me up and sticks his hands down my pants and top in front of ...

Male, 20 and still a virgin

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4566 days ago

23 August 2011 (M - Just as the title says. I absolutely hate myself for it too. What a loser i must be. Worse, everyone's always telling me how good looking i am and what a good sense of humour i have. So why the HELL cant i make it work for me?? Im a useless failure. ...

He said I'm loose down there and now I'm really worried!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4592 days ago

23 August 2011 (F - Hey please help me... Ive recently lost my viginity (on holiday with my bf this week) and he is larger than normal. At first he said i was loose however i explained that i have been very experiemental in my past. however after 3 days of sex he...

Does he like me to have gone this far? He lost his virginity to me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4592 days ago

22 August 2011 (F - Hello everyone. I have a best friend name Harry we work together at the beginning I use to think he was so weird. I work in the copy center and hes an office supply associate. One day we started talking since that day we became best buds. He would ...

Why does being a "Nice Guy" get me nowhere?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4593 days ago

22 August 2011 (M - My virginity doesn't bother me that much, on most days at least, but I do feel a bit sad over the fact that I've never been in a relationship, NEVER. I'm 22 and nothing! I'm starting to feel that if I don't end up in relationship I'll never get ...

Struggling to lose my virginity because of the pain. What can I do to be more relaxed?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4542 days ago

22 August 2011 (F - I'm having a very hard time with losing my virginity. I'm 20 years old and I've been with my boyfriend for almost 4 years. I've tried several times to lose my virginity, but it just never seems to go right. We've tried every position we could think ...

Is my ex just talking to me for sex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4594 days ago

21 August 2011 (F - Dear Cupid. Me and my boyfriend was together for 14 months, its the first time ive fallen in love and i really thought he was the one. We split in october 2010 as he thought things had changed. We speak every so often, but its the conversa...

I really want a Mexican guy to marry but I don't know if I can!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4593 days ago

21 August 2011 (F - Every day on Dearcupid, there are multiple posts from students in love with their teachers, and now the tables have turned. I'm from Florida, and a TEFL teacher in Mexico, and I have feelings for a student. Before you freak out, it's NOT...

How can teens delay teen sex?on how to avoid early sex

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4591 days ago

21 August 2011 (F - Please provide advice for teens on how to avoid early sex There are many pressures on teens and everyone wants to feel like they are like every one else. And not be different from friends. And so many people think they are successful if they can be w...

Should I go out with him? I really want to to, but I am scared

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4596 days ago

20 August 2011 (F - Okay, so im realllllyyy into this guy. He is my age and seems like a really great guy and all that stuff. but he smokes, does weed, alcohol and isnt a virgin..Yeah i know its all bad stuf, but ive done everythin but sex, ima virgin. I really likie ...

How long should I wait for the right person before I just accept there's no such thing as a perfect first time?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4598 days ago

17 August 2011 (F - im 17, i'll be 18 in march and ive just come out of a relationship of 3 months. im also a virgin. i thought my last boyfriend was the right person to lose it to and i told him i was a virgin and that i wanted to lose it to him. he was fine with it ...

I am virgin, but do not fit the description of most virgins.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4597 days ago

17 August 2011 (M - Hi, I'm 18 years old, male, and still a virgin. With my ex-gf of 2.5 years, all we did was have oral sex countless times, almost every time we hung out. We never had sex because she didn't want too for some reason. But this isn't the problem. The ...

Virgin wants to have an affair with a married man

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4599 days ago

16 August 2011 (F - Okay. This is really crazy but I want to have an affair with a married man. He wants me, too. BUT, I am a virgin!!!! He has no idea. I have been putting it off because I am a virgin but it has come to the point where we can't hold off sex any ...

How do I get this virgin to sleep with me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4600 days ago

15 August 2011 (F - Okai., So Theres This Guy ., Who I Really Want To Sleep With..., But Hes A Virgin.., Idk How To Bring It Up That I Want Him.., How Do I Comfort Him Enough To Sleep With Me ?...

Does losing your virginity make your more vulnerable to that person?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4600 days ago

15 August 2011 (F - Does losing your virginity to a boyfriend/girlfriend make one more clingy to them? Specifically to the guys, were you more attached to the girl you lost your virginity to, assuming you were in a relationship? I ask because my current boyfrien...

The girl I love has slept around and partied a lot in the past

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4568 days ago

15 August 2011 (? - you guys! i have really loved you all. i know this is three years later but what most of you are talking about is my story and what i am going through now. i love this girl and she tells me that she loves me. i am a virgin who has always wanted to ...

Why do creeps ask girls if they are virgins?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4600 days ago

15 August 2011 (M - Why do creepy guys and perverts ask teenage girls "Are you a virgin"?...

ARE men really turned off by virgins?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4602 days ago

12 August 2011 (F - Why are men turned off by virgins? What is it about virgins that scare men?...

How do I handle this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4603 days ago

12 August 2011 (F - i started dating this guy but he doesn't know i,m a virgin and he doesn't know that i,ve had very little experience with men. I know he's had a few long time girlfriends but i,m embarrassed because we,re starting to get a little heavy when we meet ...

My inexperienced boyfriend has a small penis. How do I improve our sex life? HELP

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4603 days ago

12 August 2011 (F - Hello, aunts and uncles. Any advice or suggestions is well appreciated.  My boyfriend and I have been dating for a few months. We have been becoming increasingly more intimate over the past few weeks. He is 21 and was, until tonight, a virgi...

What are the odds he lied about being a virgin?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4603 days ago

12 August 2011 (F - I've been questioning whether or not my lover, whom I lost my virginity to, really told the truth about his virginity. He originally told me he was not a virgin. Later on, he came out to me, apologetic for lying, saying he was in fact a virgin. S...

How do I get my virgin boyfriend to consider going down on me and talking dirty to me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4599 days ago

7 August 2011 (F - My 21 year old boyfriend, who I love dearly, is not exactly incredibly sexually suave, lol. Now, he is a virgin. So, I am being really understanding and not being forceful. I'm trying to go slow. Before me, he had done absolutely nothing with a ...

Thoughts only why I'm called a slut and 19 months along enough time to wait to loss virginity?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4610 days ago

5 August 2011 (F - okay well i lost my virginity to much boyfriend of 19 months at the time. he was a virgin also. i was just kinda wondering was that a good about of time to wait. i thought so but just wondering. also why do you thik people call me a slut when ive ...

Still a virgin 3 years after having sex?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4611 days ago

4 August 2011 (F - Hello, I am a 17 year old girl who lost my virginity three years ago to my boyfriend. we were together for a year and a half and had sex about 6 or 7 times. I know its not a lot but i was very scared about pregnancy and in the end we decided that we ...

Girls/women who have had sex: How much did it hurt the first time?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4597 days ago

3 August 2011 (F - I'm a virgin and I'm pretty worried about having sex for the first time. I definitely have a hymen that will need to break. When I use a certain kind of tampons that are too big, it hurts like holy hell trying to get them out - I've worried about ...

At 20 I should be sowing my wild oats, but instead I'm intimidated by girls and don't want sex! What is wrong with me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4612 days ago

2 August 2011 (M - I'm on anti depressants so my sex drive is low. I turned this girl down as i didn't wanna lose my virginty to her and wasn't horny at all. WTF is wrong with me? I should be really horny and sleeping with loads of girls but i haven't I'm 20 years ...

Guys: Would you be with a virgin? Or is it really 'too much drama'?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4613 days ago

1 August 2011 (F - Most guys I know say that they don't want to sleep (or even date because that will eventually lead to sleeping) with a virgin, because it's 'too much drama'. I feel like I'm way behind and I won't find anyone to ever be with me just because of that....

I'm still a virgin.....should I keep on waiting for Mr Perfect or get it over with the first guy who comes along?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4614 days ago

1 August 2011 (F - I'm still a virgin... I'm not going to write my age but in this age nobody even expects a girl to be a virgin. It's not like I didn't have the chance (In fact, a few months ago I had the perfect chance but I chickened out, not because I'm afra...

Why did I have these problems with my first time?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4614 days ago

1 August 2011 (M - A few words before i start my story: 1) i got to warn you that this post is going to get graphical! 2) i have a lot of doubts , its going to be a long text i'm 22 yo , male, and i was a virgin until yesterday, i went out and hooked up ...

Help me make my senior year a good one and one to remember!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4611 days ago

1 August 2011 (M - Im 17 and entering my senior year of high school. I'm a real quiet person and I stay to myself a lot. I don't play sports go to parties or school functions and even talk on the phone with other teenagers because I kinda shy. I'm scared to do ...

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