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Archived questions from: November, 2010 (see latest in Virginity category)

Virginity: Help and advice

Is it right to have sex with my girlfriend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4897 days ago

30 November 2010 (M) - Im 17 years old male!my girlfriend live in my country but im studying in Canada.i wanna have sex with my girlfriend in this year when i wanna go back to my country but my girlfriend is virgin and I dont know that is it right to have sex with her or ...

Is it really that bad to explore someone's sexuality even if its only been 2 months and considering my age?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4895 days ago

30 November 2010 (F) - Hello, Im a 24 year old woman, Im still a virgin. Ive been with a 29 yr old boyfriend for two months, hes been good to me so far. Ive had already had other boyfriends before, we made out but never went far 'cuz I didnt want to. I love making out ...

My girlfriend told me she wants me to take her virginity! I'm scared to hurt her!!!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4873 days ago

29 November 2010 (M) - Me and my girlfriend have been dating for just about 7 months. A couple of days ago she said that she wanted to have sex and i told to give me a day or two because its a big responsibilty if we do it. The problem is that she's a virgin and anemic. ...

I'm so upset, I lost my virginity to him but now he thinks I've cheated and is back with his ex!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4898 days ago

29 November 2010 (F) - Hey, bit of a long story but need help! Well me and my boyfriend were going amazing, i loved him so much! We had split in the summer as work was too busy and he said he wouldn't have had time to see me. But we got back together in the septembe...

Is there anything else we can use for protection that I wont be allergic to?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4898 days ago

29 November 2010 (F) - hi ok ive been thinking about my first time a lot lately, my boyfriend is very patient and said whenever im ready its ok with him.. now one of the reasons i havnt is because im allergic to medicine specially cortizones and steroids, is there ...

If she was sexually abused, is she still a virgin?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4896 days ago

29 November 2010 (M) - So my girlfriend was sexually abused at the age of 13. Anyway, her and I were thinking of taking things to the next level. She says that she feels bad cuz she isn't a virgin cuz of what happened to her. I was just wondering if she is still conside...

I'm worried about my future husband finding out I'm not a virgin. Can you fake virginity?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4898 days ago

29 November 2010 (F) - I was in love with a boy since my high-school days...we wanted to get married o.ce we grow up with our parents consent. we even made love many times..we were so much in love. but things didn't turn up as we had expected. he met an accident and is no ...

No love for a 22 year old virgin

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4884 days ago

29 November 2010 (M) - Well, basically I'm 22 turning 23 in February and I'm still a virgin and some times it makes me sick to my stomach to think about it, to make it worse my reserve unit is leaving for the middle east soon, so that pretty much means I can count not ...

It bothers me that she lost her virginity to her ex boyfriend

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4889 days ago

28 November 2010 (M) - hiii....iam in a relationship from past 1 year....my girlfriend told me a few months back that she has lost her verginity to his ex-boyfriend..they had a realtionship of 4 years..i love her a lott n cant think of my life without her.but at the same ...

Due to antibiotics, birth bill was inneffective, NOW I'm 2 months pregnant!!! How do I tell him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4900 days ago

27 November 2010 (F) - Hi, my boyfriend and I have been together for 3.5 years. We met in 7th grade but didn't start dating until a month before freshman year started. We're both nearly half way through our senior year now. We lost our virginities to each other on ju...

He wanted an open relationship, should I tell him I've lost my virginity to someone else?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4899 days ago

27 November 2010 (F) - Heyy. I've been with my boyfriend for a little under a year now and we're in a open relationship (per his request). I've always been fine with it, but prior to the situation I'm about to tell you about, I've only made out with a guy that wasn't my ...

I cheated and lost my virginity and don't feel guilty or don't feel I need to tell my boyfriend

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4900 days ago

27 November 2010 (F) - I've been dating my boyfriend for two years and two months. The most we've ever gone is oral. This summer, I met this guy, who's 21 and he's five years older than me. Ever since we've been talking nonstop, basically I've been cheating on my ...

I'm afraid of anything to do with sex!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4901 days ago

27 November 2010 (F) - I am an 18 year old virgin. I am absolutely terrified to lose my virginity or do any other sexual things, because i've never been put in that situation. I need to get over my fear soon, because i'm beginning to shy away from the opposite sex ...

Is there a way to make losing my virginty more comfortable?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4901 days ago

25 November 2010 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for 5 months, and we both feel ready to have sex. i want to make sure that we are the safest we can be. how can we avoid breaking the condom? also, i heard it hurts the first time. is there any ways or positions to ...

Is it normal for me to be in such pain after my first time?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4902 days ago

24 November 2010 (F) - hi well i had sex for the first time today..it didnt hurt but now after im really really sore my legs and everything...is this normal? i know they say it hurts the first time and in the process it didnt not really it was like a bee sting but now im ...

I want kids but I'm scared to have sex

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4902 days ago

24 November 2010 (F) - Im scared to have sex but i want kids and im scared to lose me virginity beacuse i dont want to go there the pain of getting my cherry popped. can someone give me advice???...

Still a virgin at 21?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4899 days ago

23 November 2010 (F) - Well, I'm 21 years old and I'm still a virgin. I feel more ashamed of this than "happy" because it seems virtually everyone I know at this age has lost their virginity, including my younger sister. I've only had one boyfriend and that was f...

I tend to get him turned on by accident!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4904 days ago

23 November 2010 (F) - My boyfriend is a virgin and I tend to get him really turned on by accident. He gets turned on by me even kissing him. Well he has figured out things that I really like and I am afraid that things will go too far too soon. I have talked to him about ...

Do you think my boyfriend isn't that into me because he wants a threesome

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 4901 days ago

22 November 2010 (M) - Hi, I recently lost my virginity to my gay boyfriend. It was quite an awkward experience... It lasted for around 3 hours and I didn't get aroused much, because we spent all night drinking coffee and cola and watching movies. So I hope that he ...

If you're a virgin, can you have sex 2 or 3 times in the same day?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4902 days ago

21 November 2010 (F) - Hey, is it possible too loose your virginity but have sex another 2 or 3 times in the same night? Its what my partner wants just want to know if it's safes thanks x...

How long were you in a relationship as a teen before losing virginity?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4906 days ago

21 November 2010 (F) - I'm 16, and i have a lovely boyfriend. he treats me right and im really happy, but it's only been a month. i want to know if you lost your virginity at my age, how long were you in a relationship for?...

He's leading up to sex and I"m a virgin!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4906 days ago

21 November 2010 (F) - ive been seeing this guy for almost 2 months, im 21- he is my first relationship (but we're not exclusive/official etc) im going to talk to him about going slow with the physical stuff as im not ready to go below the belt, and feel like he may be e...

Since we had sex he won't talk to me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4905 days ago

21 November 2010 (F) - Dear Cupid, So me and my x boyfriend were together for 2 years and, I finally gave inn an gave away my V card to him.Ever since that night he wont talk to me and, he told me he hates me and never loved me.What should I do he was my everyt...

Socially anxious female virgin needing help

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4900 days ago

21 November 2010 (F) - Hi there I am wondering if there is any advice for a girl like me. I am 25 years old and have never really had a boyfriend at all. I am not that bad looking but I suffer from social phobia which really makes things hard for me. I have been on a f...

I'm worried he has told other people at school that I'm a virgin after our failed attempt at having sex! What should I do?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4908 days ago

19 November 2010 (F) - so i'm just going to start with my question. few weeks ago, a new guy in my class began to send me messages. i wasn't interested i'm not even now. but anyways i talked to him. he told me he likes me and so on. because he wanted to meet with me so i ...

Why was I asked if I was a virgin?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4908 days ago

19 November 2010 (M) - Hello, I was at a birthday party for a relative,at the end i took my cousin home and two of her friends,and out of nowhere my cousin asked me if i was a virgin.My cousin is 15 do you think thats strange an why would she ask me that? The reason t...

Should I be worrying about this sex stuff?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4909 days ago

18 November 2010 (M) - well im 20 and a virgin and i wont be afraid to admit im nervous to have sex, mainly just scared that when we are going at it, ill be so nervous that ill hold myself back and not be able to climax :/ its not like im completely inexpereinced, i...

I get so wet during sex that he can't feel me. Is something wrong?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4909 days ago

18 November 2010 (?) - My man and i hav been together for 3 yrs now. He took my virginity and he's d only man i'v eva slept with. At 1st yr i didn't reach climax infact i didn't even knw wat it was. As tym went by i reached it. Lately i'v been getting very wet during ...

I'm a virgin male..will this help me find a better class of a gf, in the future?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4909 days ago

18 November 2010 (M) - My friend has told me that not dating and being virgin through highschool will help me meet a better class of women. Do you think not going through the highschool drama will help me in the future?...

Why did he not believe me when I told him I'd never had sex before???

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4905 days ago

18 November 2010 (F) - Hey, I am 29 years old and have not technically ever had sex. When I was 14 i was sexually molested and had my virginity taken away from me. I used to finger myself to get off but more so enjoy using a vibrator on my clitoris now. Whenever I am m...

Trying to cope with retroactive jealousy!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4908 days ago

18 November 2010 (M) - I suffer from Retrospective Jealousy, I'd love to hear from anyone that has a similar condition that has "come to terms with it??" Rather than tell a story here are some points that hit the mark for me My partner and I lack of balance or...

We don't want to go all the way, so what else is there besides plain old oral sex?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4909 days ago

17 November 2010 (F) - My bf's birthday is coming up and i want to do something special for him... Both of us are virgins...we both agreed to wait for the wedding night; however i wanna get a bit dirty with him without ...u know...losing my virginity...so w...

I don't want to make him feel like he has to stay!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4910 days ago

17 November 2010 (F) - My sort of ex-fiance, my first love, and I are very.. i need help. Not long after I gave him my virginity, 6days after to be exact, he asked me for a break. About a couple weeks after that, I learned I may be pregnant, and I talked to him about it ...

Should I wait for these hard times to wear off?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4910 days ago

17 November 2010 (F) - So for the past year or so, i got the chance to meet a very special guy from our small school that we both went to. He's three years older than I. We began as friends and nurtured that friendship as we talked more and more, realizing the unique and ...

Should I go to a strip club to lose my virginity?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4905 days ago

17 November 2010 (M) - Well first off im an 18 years old and im still a virgin. Everyone say to me that im lucky because I can share that experince with someone I truely care about but im having second thoughts. That maybe I should go to strip club and pay for it. So do ...

Not sure where to start on de-virginizing her?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4908 days ago

16 November 2010 (M) - My girlfriend and I have been dating steadily for over 5 months now. She's already told me she wants to lose her virginity to me, but I'm not sure how to start... I want to make her first time as amazing as possible, but I've heard that a girl's f...

Should I talk to him about taking the physical side of our relationship slowly? Or should it just be left unsaid?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4911 days ago

16 November 2010 (F) - so im 21, this is my first "relationship" (although we're not exclusive)-- been going out with this guy for a bit over a month (6 dates).. i am a virgin waiting for love, but i havent discussed my history with him yet... i want to take the physical ...

I can't stand that she's not a virgin!

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4805 days ago

16 November 2010 (M) - Okay so im fairly certain that i want to break up with my girlfriend. We've been together for almost 9 months now and in her eyes everything is going great. But a few months ago I found out she s not a virgin(I am a virgin). Ive tried to let time ...

How can I get my boyfriend to break my hymen without it hurting?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4912 days ago

15 November 2010 (F) - Hey im sixteen years old. i have never trusted a boy to do anything with my vagina before but now i do. and he did try not tht long ago and he sort of just rubbed and nothing went inside cos it really hurt wen he tries to this has happened twice now ...

Am I being too much of a tease? And how should I let him know that I want to take things slowly?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4911 days ago

15 November 2010 (F) - ok so been on 6 dates with this guy- im 21, hes 22-- have no intention of getting more intimate until much later on in the relationship (im a virgin and believe in waiting until love)... but last night we were making out on his bed (all clothes on) ...

Do men enjoy having sex for the first time?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4912 days ago

15 November 2010 (F) - this question is mostly for men but women are welcome. Do men enjoy the first time they have sex unlike woman? or do they have some pain just like woman's pain when her hymen is being broken? i also want to know whether men like girls who are not ...

Girl thinks I'm a disgrace for being a 19 yr old virgin

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4913 days ago

14 November 2010 (M) - hello there i'm a 19 yo male,virgin i've met a girl 1 year ago, a collegue, i like her a lot but she likes my best friend every time i go out with her she's okay, is having fun ... doesnt seem like she's disturbed by my presence but when i go...

I feel like a freak of nature!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4914 days ago

14 November 2010 (F) - First I have to inform you all on the story, before my question makes some sense. Okay...Teens/young adults my age usually, already have sex or have sudden urges to do the said act. But...I find myself not feeling those urges, and frankly I don't ...

The Myth of Virginity?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4904 days ago

13 November 2010 (F) - Why does society pose so much pressure on the idea of 'Virginity'? Many religions see that virginity is some sort of important rite of passage, from girl to woman. Others see that a virgin is clean and pure, once she has had sex, she is impure, s...

Does he like me for me or the sexual attraction?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4905 days ago

13 November 2010 (F) - I need opinions, but please don't be rude or too judgmental. I realize I need help; that is why I'm reaching out for it. There is this guy I grew up with; we were always very close and I always felt like he was the best part of my life growing up. ...

He wants to wait, but now I want it!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4914 days ago

13 November 2010 (F) - I am an 18yr old virgin gal and my bf 21 not a virgin. So my bf and i have been dating for 2 years and we never had sex but attemptd but i ws 2 scared... He then decided we wait 4 marriage but now i want 2 do it badly. What should i do? Please help! ...

Aren't I supposed to feel something?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4915 days ago

13 November 2010 (F) - So this is a strange question I know, but about a month ago I lost my virginity (we used protection, no worries) and it didn't hurt at all. Whenever I hear stories I always hear about it hurting the first time. And I know sometimes it doesn't hurt ...

Ladies, would you give me a shot?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4913 days ago

13 November 2010 (M) - Ok. I Have a question out there for all the Ladies. I am 26 and still have not had sex. Yes I am still a virgin. Is this normal. Do you ladies still find this attractive? I feel weird when all my friends talk about sex. They expect me to have had ...

Does it hurt the second time around?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4914 days ago

12 November 2010 (?) - I lost my virginity last year, and I am now scared to have sex again because it has been so long, and apparently it hurts again. Does it?...

Did I just take her virginity?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4915 days ago

12 November 2010 (M) - We are friends and unintentionaly,i just entered her once,only one shot and then out,and she saw a little blood and felt pain walking.is she virgine anymore?...