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reader, anonymous, writes (20 May 2009): If he's questioning you because he's really that misinformed, then tell him to trying reading a few things about the subject before biting your head off and then forgive him.
If he's questioning you because he's a non-trusting control freak who is always looking for reasons to call you a slut, then curse him out and dump him.
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reader, babyminow  +, writes (20 May 2009):
 you can pop your cherry during alot of physical activities. it is very normal if you are athletic to not bleed because of it already been done before, i think you should talk to him and if he really loves you he will believe you. your love cant last long if their isnt any trust in the relationship
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 May 2009): When i lost my virginity i didnt bleed. Not all girls do. Some girls pop their cherries with tampons when they first get their periods. Or some just never get theirs "popped".
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reader, pebble  +, writes (19 May 2009):
 I agree with the poster that said to direct him to a website that explains everything so that he can finally see. Or maybe show him this page. He can't go around thinking he knows everything about the female body when actually it seems he knows very little.
He needs to realise this is the 21st century, things aren't that black and white anymore.
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reader, ArmyMedic +, writes (19 May 2009):
 He was so desperate to marry a virgin but takes your virginity before your wedding day (lots of respect for you there)? Tell him he is a massive hypocrite and that not all virgins bleed!
This guy is obviously an idiot, do you really want to marry someone who has 17th Century standards?
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reader, confwom +, writes (19 May 2009):
 Ask him to read some sex education sites and make him understand that girls hymen could have broken due to lot of reasons and not all the virgins bleed.
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reader, Fiona xxx +, writes (19 May 2009):
 My hymen didn't bleed during sex, it was playing hockey. Why don't you just explain the situation. It does surprise me that some guys are naiive enough to think that all girls bleed the first time they have sex. To be surprised you didn't bleed is one thing if they expected some blood. Surely he can tell you are a virgin because us girls are not forward and react in a certain way when we are not used to the male body and the guy trying it on...
He'll be fine, just explain things.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 May 2009): Tell him to grow up.... I didn't bleed either... and for his un-informed information most females loose their "HYMIN" eary on in life... my daughter.. bled by getting hit with a tetor totter in the crotch.... more than likely you broke that sensative piece of skin when you were younger... pull up a site and show it to him... then tell him to grow up...
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