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Archived questions from: January, 2008 (see latest in Virginity category)

Virginity: Help and advice

If I use tampons will it break my hymen?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 176 days ago

31 January 2008 (F) - i can put tampons in, does this mean my hymen is broken and sex will be easier (the first time)?? ...

I might be pregnant, and I'm scared, what am I going to do?!?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 176 days ago

31 January 2008 (F) - hi, im realy confused because ive recently had sex for the first time, we didnt use any protection at the time and i know it was wrong and i regret it but im scared a might be pregnant, and im too young to have a child, i had sex on the 20 of ...

Me and my guy are ready for sex. Will it hurt?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 175 days ago

30 January 2008 (F) - Me and my bf have been together a long time, and he and I both feel we are ready to have sex. But.. Im scared it will hurt. I was just wondering.. is the pain realy bad? I have been horse riding for 13 years now and I heard that can break your hym...

Is it worth the wait? How do I allay all these fears? I'm 24, and a virgin.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 104 days ago

29 January 2008 (M) - Hi all, I am going to be 24 soon and still a virgin. I had two girlfriends before but didn't break through the last line of defence with any of them...however, I am in quite a complicated mood now. On one hand, I feel that I am very rare, at le...

I pulled away from a threesome. Should I go back and go with the flow?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 178 days ago

28 January 2008 (M) - Hello, this is kind of a last resort because I know my friends would not understand. I am 15 and I am not eager to lose my virginity. Last night, I was with two friends (girls 14 and 16) in a bed and they both tried to touch me in a sexual way, I ...

I'm 16 and need to get on birth control. What should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 171 days ago

26 January 2008 (F) - Hi...im 16 and i have hade sex!and i dont wanna tell my mom. but i really don't wanna get pregnant eather. i use a condom every time but i would like 2 get on birth control! what should i do?...

I want him to take my virginity but I'm scared because he's a big boy. Any tips?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 184 days ago

23 January 2008 (F) - im 16 but about to be 17 in about 3 months and im still in love with my ex but thats not the half of it i want to lose my virginity to him but he had a girlfriend and i dont know if he still goes with her or not i want to give myself to him because ...

I won't be his first sexual partner, so now he's mad at me! What is up with this man?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 184 days ago

22 January 2008 (F) - hi ive been having some problems with one of my male friends, im 24 and hes 34. we met early last year and have since become good mates, however recently he has told me that he is a virgin and thinks i am the girl he would like to have his first ...

My boyfriend is ready for sex, and encourages me to accept it! I'm scared however, what do I tell him?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 38 days ago

21 January 2008 (F) - my boyfriend is ready for sex! And i told him that im kinda scared becuz idk anything bout sex just yet! he told me that i wont hurt thant much! heres what he told me about it, it all depends on how big the guy's penis is compared to the depth of ...

I have a phobia about pain. What can I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 180 days ago

19 January 2008 (F) - i ve a very strange problem....i couldnt have sex with my husband coz i was not able to bear the pain and i broke my marriage....now i go out with guyz but when we come to that point i withdraw making excuses coz i know i wont be able to do it....i ...

I'm a virgin. Why can't he be happy with just a kiss?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 144 days ago

18 January 2008 (F) - is my bf ok? we've been dating for a year now i really do care about him and he loves me to death. but im just wondering, everytime we kiss and i mean each and every time the kiss leads to something else. when we kiss he always wanna "cum" then he ...

Did I make a mistake by not telling him I am a virgin?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 183 days ago

17 January 2008 (F) - hi everyone, ive recently had my first kind of relationship but it only lasted 3 weeks the guy i was kind of seeing was a lot older then me and more exprienced he had 3 children,anyway i stayed round his house about 4 times and really wanted to have ...

Does it hurt a guy when he loses his virginity?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 134 days ago

17 January 2008 (F) - ok something has been bothering me or annoying me for some time now my friend was asking me when guys loose the viginity does it hurt please tell me ...

What makes a guy a virgin?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 128 days ago

16 January 2008 (M) - In the thread, "What makes you are Virgin?" at http://www.dearcupid.org/question/what-makes-you-are-virgin.html , a girl asked how "virgin" was defined for women. How about a FOLLOW-UP QUESTION: Girls, how do you define a virgin guy? Does h...

What makes you are Virgin?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 192 days ago

14 January 2008 (F) - Okay so i have a question about what makes you a virgin. I know that different people fell different ways about this subject but i want opinions. I havent had sex but i have given oral, and hand jobs, and i have been fingered. Am I still considered ...

Want to lose my virginity but uncomfortable with the way I look.

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 39 days ago

14 January 2008 (F) - i will be turning 17 in a few months. I am still a vrigin and one of the select few in my school. I kinda want to lose my virginity but i am very uncomfortable with the way i look. I feel totally disgusted wen i look in the mirrors. My friends say i ...

She came to school the other day claiming she has lost her virginity to her friend's uncle and I know it's true as I have seen them together but I don't know what to do about it?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 193 days ago

13 January 2008 (F) - Me and my best friend are 14. Recently she has been having trouble at home and is now living with another friend and her family, including her 40 year old uncle. She came to school the other day claiming she has lost her virginity to her friend's ...

25 year old virgin who's never been in a relationship

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 44 days ago

13 January 2008 (M) - I'm a 25 yr old English bloke who is a virgin and has never been in a relationship with a girl. As I get older, I suffer bouts of anxiety and depression, whereby I fixate on a girl and fantasize about asking her out. Then a voice in my head laugh...

I don't know if she likes me in that way?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 194 days ago

12 January 2008 (M) - i really like this girl and have done for months now, i have had sex with her, i took her virginity, and were good mates, but i like her more than just mates i really really like her. but i don't know if she likes me in that way? how can you help ...

We have love but no passion, how can I get my gf to let us have sex??

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 160 days ago

12 January 2008 (M) - Me and my girlfriend have been going out for over a year and a half now and we still haven't had sex. We both love each other and we're both virgins. She is quite happy to perform sexual acts on me and she lets me go down on her, but when it comes ...

Girls...do you prefer shaven or unshaven??

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 180 days ago

11 January 2008 (M) - There is this girl i think i might loose my virginity too, i have no questions about sex or the kind just one, to girls like their guy to have pubic hair? If you could help me that'd be great!...

Should I lose my virginity?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 180 days ago

8 January 2008 (F) - i am 14 along with my boyfriend of 4 weeks. My boyfriend is not a virgin and lost it with a girlfriend of 5 months. i know that he had it very young and i have told him that i dont really mind. (he was worried that i would) i am still a virgin and i ...

I can't get over the thought of her having sex with this other guy. How can I get it out of my head?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 198 days ago

8 January 2008 (M) - Hello, I really need some help. It all started 2 years ago when the love of my life walked into my house. I fell in love and we got together. My life was great for about 2 months until she started acting different. And she ended up breaking up w...

We want sex but can't. What should we do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 196 days ago

8 January 2008 (M) - This isn't funny. It's true. I'm experienced, she's a virgin. We have 5 years between us and in our twenties.2 years together. I'm an average guy, it's just everytime she said it was hurting her I backed off. I want to have sex with her...

Do men need 3 seconds of eye contact before speaking to a girl?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 199 days ago

8 January 2008 (F) - Hi, I'm 21 year old virgin and I've never had a relationship with a man, I don't know what to do, because I belong to the most shyest people in the world. All (3) guys which want me to go out were uninteresting for me (for some time I tried to...

I have had opportunities to have sex but I always withdraw in thought of possible pain and I'm also not confident about my body. Any advice?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 197 days ago

7 January 2008 (F) - Hi, im 19yrs old and still a virgin. im beginining to think that i'll never lose it, i don't believe in getting married before havig sex. i have had plenty of opportunities to lose it, but for some reason i always get scared and withdraw. i just ...

I thought we were both virgins, but she isnt , can we still have a future?

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 180 days ago

7 January 2008 (M) - I am just about to get married, and I am still a virgin. I just found out my future wife has had sex with a couple guys before me. I was hurt when i found this out...and still am...because I was expecting her to be a virgin too... I love her very ...

She's had sex four times before and I need a virgin. What should I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 167 days ago

7 January 2008 (M) - I have waited all my life to have sex when i am married, with someone who also is a virgin. My fiance has told me that she has had sex before with 4 guys..I don't like this....what should i do? I was always taught sex was a sacred thing and should ...

Is it ok to wait til your 18 to lose your virginity or do anything sexual?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 69 days ago

6 January 2008 (F) - is it ok to wait til your 18 or so or at uni to lose your virginity or do anything sexual (other than kissing)? p.s i live in uk where everyone has sex before 16 [rolls eyes] id like everyones personal oipinions please, also not "don't be press...

I can't find an opportunity to buy condoms as our parents are restrictive, and I am also afraid they will not accept my bf of different race!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 180 days ago

6 January 2008 (F) - ok so it is not that we are embarrassed to buy condoms it is that every were we go our parents are there so we don't get the time to buy them and when we are alone we are not in a store to buy them.what should i do because if i tell my dad that i ...

My gf bleeded during sex, two months after her first and only before sexual experience with her ex. Did I took her virginity? How can you explain this?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 167 days ago

5 January 2008 (M) - Hi there, any help will be greatly appreciated, more especially from a female. you see the thing is, my girlfriend was a virgin until she slept with her ex bf for the 1st time, but the thing is, she didn't feel any pain, and didn't even bleed, then ...

We really want to have sex, but she's afraid of the pain and her body won't let her. What can we do?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 195 days ago

5 January 2008 (M) - This question is more for sexual advice than dating advice: My girlfriend and I, of about a year, are madly in love. We seem to be in a healthy relationship, except when it comes to sex. I have had sex, about 5 years ago. But I lost my virginit...

I don't want sex but I want to do other things.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 195 days ago

4 January 2008 (F) - Heya, I've been with my boyfriend about 3 months now, I'm 14 and in year 10 and he's 16 and left school. I really like him and he wants to have sex with me. I don't want to yet and I've told him, he's fine with it and said that he would ...

How can I be sure I took her virginity?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 201 days ago

4 January 2008 (M) - Before I met my girlfriend she was almost raped,a guy forced himself on her,but didn`t penetrate very far(just about the head),she was a virgin and she bled. A year ago, my girlfriend and I had sex for the first time,she told me afterwards that i b...

I'm a virgin with spots. Will this put the boys off me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 193 days ago

3 January 2008 (F) - I am a 15 yr old girl and i have been single for around a year now. i feel its the right time to get a boyfreind but there are non anywere and i feel none will like me because i am a virgin and i have spots which i feel put them off me. i dont have ...