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Archived questions from: September, 2007 (see latest in Virginity category)

Virginity: Help and advice

I told everyone including my girlfriend that I've had sex - but I'm still a virgin! Any tips for the first time?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 784 days ago

28 September 2007 (M) - Hello. I'm 14 years old(turning 15 soon; freshman). I have already told some of my friends that I had lost my virginity already. I'm starting to think that that was a mistake. I have a girlfriend (we've been going out for about a year and a half), ...

Should my friend and I have sex the night we get drunk? We're both virgins and I've never had a bf!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 787 days ago

28 September 2007 (F) - So me and my best friend steven and i are spending the night at our older friends house this saturday night.both of our parents think we're spending the night at someone elses house.We're gonna drink,and get drunk,he's my best friend in the whole ...

Girls - can anyone give us advice on having sex for the first time together?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 786 days ago

28 September 2007 (M) - Hey everyone, but mainly girls! I have two questions, but first, the background. Me and my partner want to be more sexually active, and want to have sex. We have been dating for a long time and know that we love each other very much. SO, two...

What can I do to help her be more comfortable when fooling around?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 785 days ago

27 September 2007 (?) - My girlfriend and I are in a distance relationship, about 2.5 hours between us, both in college, been going out for almost 6 months now. We both think sex or even just giving each other an orgasm is going too far before marriage but we still fool ...

He wants to do me "deep and hard" and "hardcore"... what does it all mean and will it hurt?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 604 days ago

27 September 2007 (F) - hiya, you no if a boy wants to have sex with me yes what does he meaan by doing it deep and hard??will this hurt due to it being my first time having sex??he also said he wants to do me hard core is this painfull or will i enjoy it?? and is it norm...

This guy swears he was my first, but I remember my kids' dad being my first! I feel as if I'm going insane!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 785 days ago

26 September 2007 (F) - Iam in touch with a guy i used to date when i was 15 yrs old. Recently, he told me he was my first. I have no memory of this he tells me he started to enter and I stopped him as I was bleeding. But the thing is, I remember my first true experience ...

Having sex and not losing virginity?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 790 days ago

24 September 2007 (F) - is there a way to have sex and not losing virginity? What does sex from the back means? is oral sex dangerous? ...

I'm having trouble getting started with relationships!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 790 days ago

24 September 2007 (M) - Trouble getting started with relationships... I am a 20 year old male. At the age of 20, I have never been involved in a relationship. The farthest I have gone is I kissed a girl (a friend about a month ago), but she's not interested in a ...

Is it weird that I climaxed during my first time? Is it normal to be sore for days afterwards?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 791 days ago

24 September 2007 (F) - i recently lost my virginity and people say you never have an orgasm on the first time. Am i weird because i did?? and Is it natural to be sore for a couple of days afterwards?? ...

Do you think we are ready for sex yet?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 791 days ago

24 September 2007 (F) - help i am 14 and me and my boyfrind love each other so much but we do oral things but we dont know if we are too young 4 sex please help and also there is one more thing my bf is poor and he has no money so i land up paying for everything but we ...

She wouldnt have sex with me for 2 years yet now we have split she has had sex with someone new.She tells me to go have fun. Is she manipulating me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 790 days ago

24 September 2007 (M) - Hey, about 2 months ago my girlfriend broke up with my after 2 years. I'm 18 and she is 20, and it was both of our first serious relationship. We only argued in the last few months, and it was over worthless things. We never had sex, because she ...

20 and never kissed a girl. I'm always told to "be myself," advice, please?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 606 days ago

22 September 2007 (M) - i'm 20, I am a confident person, I'm nice and I have a sense of humour. How many girlfriends have I had - 0. How many have I asked out - 7 I think. I have never kissed a girl let alone had sex and I don't know what I'm doing wrong. One girl sai...

If I could I'd express my love to him now, but 14-15 is a bit young to lose my virginity, is it not?

This question has 22 answers - newest was posted 638 days ago

22 September 2007 (F) - Me and my boyfriend are soo in love, we've been together for almost a year [11 months and 22 days] And we've discussed having sex for the past few months, i am not pressured at all and we're very matture about the subject. We've discussed contrcep...

Am I straight or a lesbian? I'm confused. Help!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 794 days ago

21 September 2007 (F) - hi, i recently lost my viginity to a male, but i didn't enjoy it at all. i have always thought i was a lesbian but people told me i just needed a decent bloke. i've snogged girls before and i enjoy it more than snogging men. when i was younger ...

How can I make sex better?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 99 days ago

21 September 2007 (F) - i lost my virginity and im happy with it but im kinda sad that now since i lost it i dont have the chance to live my first time again but actually i want to have more sex because it made me feel so happy with my boyfriend and we both enjoyed it but ...

In second year of uni and never had a bf. Any ideas?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 793 days ago

20 September 2007 (F) - I'm just starting my second year of university (engineering), and yet have never had a boyfriend. I really would like to have at least some sort of relationship, but I have only ever had one guy ask me out, and he was a creep who admitted he asked ...

Am I still a virgin after all these years?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 783 days ago

17 September 2007 (F) - My first bf and i was sexually active for about 4 years, he was the first sexual partner but there was never bleeding after sex even after the first time. Now i have a new bf, not long after i broke off with the first, my second partner, but sex...

My girlfriend broke up with me because I am a virgin. She now wants to have fun with me, what should I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 796 days ago

17 September 2007 (M) - Hey people, So me and my ex broke up for summer, she said she needed space and wasn’t ready for the commitment. 3 months later, she has returned back to the uk. When I found out she was back I sent her an email and we got chatting on msn, she...

I love this guy but he's unavailable. Please help!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 415 days ago

16 September 2007 (M) - I'm a 20-year old male that has always had a problem getting any further than friends with girls. I've not lost my virginity and I've had zero sexual contact with anybody ... other than a couple of drunken passionate kisses! However, I'm not just ...

Recently lost my viriginity and still bleed after sex. Help?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 796 days ago

16 September 2007 (F) - i have recently lost my virginity and i still bleed after sex. i have had penetrative sex about 3 times now and there is still alot of blood. is there smfin rong with me?...

We broke up and she's been ignoring me. What to say to make her at least talk to me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 788 days ago

16 September 2007 (M) - I recently lost my virginity to a girl and we were in love, but she moved and things went to hell when she moved, but she broke up with me and i still love her and want to spend the rest of my life with her, but she has been ignoring me for the past ...

I'm thinking that if I don't start my sexual life soon, I'll be too scared to initiate it later on. I'm 19...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 797 days ago

15 September 2007 (F) - I am 19 years old and never had sex, im now starting to think if I dont soon I will be too scared to have sex later on. Have you got any advice for me please?...

I'm a real life 28 year old virgin... and have hardly lived a life. I need a solution!

This question has 62 answers - newest was posted 30 days ago

15 September 2007 (M) - Hi, I am a 28 year old male from the UK. I have a major personal dilemma: I am still a virgin- at my age! This is literally driving me insane. It is affecting me psychologically. I feel that there is a part of my life that is missing. I can not talk...

I'm worried I wont be big enough to satisfy my girl!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 565 days ago

15 September 2007 (M) - HI IM 15 AND IM ABOUT TO HAVE SEX WITH MY GF MY PENIS 5'5 INCHES LNG IM SORTA CONSCIOUS ABOUT THIS COZ I HEAR HER GOING ON ABOUT BIG PENISES SHE IS A VIRGIN IM SKILLED IN BED AND I KNOW MANY WAYS TO PLEASE A GIRL BUT I DONT KNOW IF ILL BE ABLE TO ...

I'm un-circumcised and need some advice about how this can effect having sex and spreading STD's.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 801 days ago

13 September 2007 (M) - Recently i have gotten a girlfriend and im 16 my foreskin is tight and i could never expose the penis head myself but after my girlfriend giving me a blowjob i managed too, i never did cum but im just wondering if i do is she at risk of HIV or AI...

Lost my virginity weeks ago and still paranoid about being pregnant! Please help.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 802 days ago

11 September 2007 (F) - Hey, i lost my virginity 2 weeks ago and im still so paranoid! I dont understand why i am as it was protected sex (condom). I just can't stop thinking that i could be pregnant or something. I keep telling myself im being stupid as i was responsible ...

Am I still a virgin?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 795 days ago

11 September 2007 (F) - Hi, on my birthday my friends bought me a vibrator. Now am i still a virgin since i use it?...

I lost my virginity and now have bloating. Anyone got any advice please?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 802 days ago

10 September 2007 (F) - Hey, I lost my virginity nearly 2 weeks ago... it was protected sex, but i am now suffering from severe bloating. I also suffer from irrital bowel syndrome so do you think this is the problem? The condom did not break or slip off so should i be w...

Okay my problem is that I'm 14, and a freshman at high school and I'm terrified of sex.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 778 days ago

9 September 2007 (F) - Okay my problem is that I'm 14, and a freshman at high school and I'm terrified of sex. I recently ended a relationship with my boyfriend, although he did not pressure me for sex I am constantly hearing girls my age losing their virginity. My sister ...

I want to remain a virgin so how do I satisfy him sexually?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 796 days ago

9 September 2007 (F) - 8 September 2007 (F) - What can I do to make my boyfriend satisfied and make him enjoy during sex activity? I wanna remain a virgin, and I don't wanna act too sophisticated, please advise me!!! thanks a million... (34 words) (please andrew dont ...

My boyfriend is very touchy feely. I'm scared to have sex incase it hurts. Should I just do it and get it over and done with?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 442 days ago

5 September 2007 (F) - Hii I am 14 and my boyfriend is 17 i really like him but i think sometimes he is just wanting one thing. He always trys to put his hands down my trousers or up my top he can never just sit and be close and not touchy all the time he says he isnt ...

My brother is 2 years younger than me and lost his virginity. I'm still a virgin and been in a relationship 2 months! How am I suppose to feel?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 798 days ago

5 September 2007 (F) - Ok I need a bit of advice or reassurance because I've been feeling really confused lately. Well, not confused but I can't organise my thoughts to work out how I feel properly. Basically, I'm 17 and a virgin and I have been with my boyfriend for 2 ...

I'm 12 and want to have sex! I'm scared but I want to. Should I???

This question has 39 answers - newest was posted 330 days ago

4 September 2007 (F) - i am 12 i want to have sex with my boyfriend. what should i do? i am so scarde but i want to, so should i have sex with him ...

I lost my virginity to a guy then he abused me. How do I get over feeling betrayed and used?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 808 days ago

4 September 2007 (F) - I had sex with my bf after 10 months of going out with him. He was my first kiss, my first bf. I am 18 years old. However about a month after we had sex for the first time we broke up. I broke it off with him, however the reason why I did was ...

I lost my virginity with a lad and I haven't bled. Does that mean there is a problem?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 796 days ago

4 September 2007 (F) - Well ive just recently had sex with a lad i met and ive had sex with him 3 times but i did'nt bleed.Is this normal or have i got a problem ? ...

My mates have all had experience with boys. Why does noone want me?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 578 days ago

3 September 2007 (F) - Im 15 and have had ZERO experience with a boy. All my friends have snogged boys, gave and been given oral gave handjobs, been fingered. And i have not done any of that. The most i have done is hugged a boy! I feel so repulsive. Im 5"1, 9st 5 and the ...

If i have used tampons for years does it mean I've broke the hymen and sex wont be painful the first time?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 811 days ago

3 September 2007 (F) - If I have masturbated and used tampons for years does that mean that my hymen is broken? And does it mean that sex won't hurt as much first time? I hope so!!! Advice please xxxxx...

I am a virgin, but I haven't had my period in 9 weeks, what is happening?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 808 days ago

3 September 2007 (F) - Hey I am 16 and I am a virgin and I havent been on my period in 9 weeks I wondered if anyone could help me explain why this is happening please help!!...

Why do I hear women complaining about their first times, while I felt no pain?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 786 days ago

2 September 2007 (F) - I always thought I would bleed when I first had sex and that it would be painful...but I didnt bleed at all and there was barely any pain at all. I always imagined it to be this horrible feeling and stuff, but it didnt hurt much at all. After my ...

I'm 13. Am I ready for sex?

This question has 43 answers - newest was posted 107 days ago

1 September 2007 (F) - Hi, I'm a 13 year old girl 14 in two weeks an I'm stuck in a situation because I met this boy on msn and he's really nice to me an everything. I've seen him before but the thing is he wants to have sex with me and I am fine with that but I'm still a ...

She bled twice, is this normal? I'm her first...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 814 days ago

1 September 2007 (M) - I have made my girlfriend bleed twice and we have only had sex three times, is this normal? I am her first but I didnt expect this!...

Is it normal to be this scared after losing your virginity?...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 811 days ago

1 September 2007 (F) - Hey, i lost my virginity 4 days ago it was protected sex as he used a condom. It didnt split or slide off so why am i so paranoid? It is normal to be this scared after losing your virginity?...