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Archived questions from: November, 2009 (see latest in Virginity category)

Virginity: Help and advice

He hasn't made a move and I don't want to miss my chance!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted yesterday

23 November 2009 (F) - I really need some unbiased advice for my situation. I really like this guy, and personally think he's right for me. We're both very religious, and saving ourselves for marriage. Neither of us have dated or kissed anyone, so we're both very ...

I want her to wait for me to take her virginity!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted yesterday

22 November 2009 (M) - this girl lives far from me and drinks and parties alot.. she says shes a flirt to and she is pretty sure she is a virgin.. how do i make sure she waits for me and has sex with me first because i want her to be my first.. idk if i can trust her she ...

Is it safe to have sex with my girlfriend, we are 19 this year?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted yesterday

22 November 2009 (M) - may i ask is it safe to have sex with my girlfriend,we are 19 this year,i was just afraid that having sex before 20 will higher the chance to have vaginal cancer?is it true?...

Will he 'fit' when we have sex tomorrow?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted yesterday

22 November 2009 (F) - I really need help . I am 18 and i going to have sex with my boyfriend of 4 years tomorrow and i am worried that my vagina is to small for his penis.like stretching wise and i was wondering how can i make it fit if it doesnt? and some advice f...

I loved him...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 2 days ago

22 November 2009 (F) - I still cant believe it. I lost my virginity when i was in 8th grade and only 14 years old. Now its changed my life forever. I dont feel like its a bad thing but when i think about it hard, it kinda disappoints me. Ive had sex with two guys now and ...

I'm 14 years old and never had a boyfriend!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3 days ago

20 November 2009 (F) - i'm 14 years old,i have never had a boyfriend.i have a good personality i am one of those people who if you ask them for help i will definitely help. my mum and other people have always said that someone will always come around. my looks are ...

I'm jealous of his past! Will I always feel this way?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3 days ago

20 November 2009 (F) - I grew up in a very religious home (no sex before marriage). I grew out of my religion, but my health kept me from having fun. I've met a great guy, (who i lost my virginity to at 23) but he has a lot of experience, with the pics to prove it. We've ...

He's a great guy, but I'm still afraid of being used for sex

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2 days ago

20 November 2009 (F) - me and my bf are together since 8months, though i went away to university and haven't seen him for these last two months. when i was there, we used to kiss and he gave me oral too. i tried to give it to him but couldn't. he is the most amazing ...

My girlfriend had a one night stand before she met me and my family knows about it!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4 days ago

19 November 2009 (M) - I lost my virginity to my recent girlfriend and she has slept with two people before me. Only one of them bother me since it was a one night stand which she ended up having sex with twice. My cousin was there in the same house the first time she did ...

Why won't any man have sex with me?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5 days ago

18 November 2009 (F) - I am a female in my early twenties. I have been told I am attractive. I am slender yet have nice curves, a very noticeable smile and nice long hair. I am educated, intelligent, well mannered and have been told I have a great personality and a fa...

I'm overwhelmed by condom selections! Any tips?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3 days ago

18 November 2009 (M) - Hey, Me and my girlfriend are thinking of having sex. And it sounds embarrasing, but when i looked in the shop for condoms, i was completely confused on how many different types there are. Can anyone help me out, and tell me the best 'DUREX...

I feel so stupid because I fooled around with this guy at work!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5 days ago

18 November 2009 (F) - I need some help, I feel so stupid. This is long - sorry. Me and a guy at work have been flirting for a long time I have always said never to a work thing but one day we were both working late and one thing let to another and we kissed, a bit la...

Getting it up (first time)

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5 days ago

18 November 2009 (M) - Hi people, I have a concern I'd like to get input on. I'm 18-22 and a virgin; I was about to have sex several times after making out but every time I couldn't get a full erection, or of I did, it fell off quickly..I just didn't seem to be that ...

What was this thing I found in my panties?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5 days ago

17 November 2009 (F) - im 17 years old now... but a few years ago when i was about 14 on holiday i woke up and had this thing i cant explain in my knickers, it was kind of big, it looked a bit like a fetus, but the thing is i was a virgin at the time so i dont understand ...

An unlucky guy looking to have sex, what do I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 8 days ago

16 November 2009 (M) - Well, I'm 18 and I really want to have sex. "Saving it" for someone special stopped meaning something to me a bit ago, I just simply want to do it. I haven't had any luck with girls and the last girl I was seeing just flat out stopped speaking to ...

Should I give up my virginity?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 6 days ago

16 November 2009 (F) - hi, basically im 15, and im seeing a guy and hes very open about sex and hes not a virgin. i am and hes kind of asked about if i would and i kind of want to but am really like nervous about it all and how its all going to work lol. theres no poin...

Should I have sex with my girlfriend?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 8 days ago

15 November 2009 (M) - i'm 14 and my girlfriend is 14 too. we have bin going out for about a year and she asked me if we could have sex what sould i do?...

Should I smoke pot before sex?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5 days ago

15 November 2009 (F) - Would smoking pot before having sex make it hurt less the first time?...

I'm so behind with my sexual knowledge I fear he'll think I'm weird! Help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 9 days ago

15 November 2009 (F) - Four years ago when I was 16 I decided, together with my bf at the time, that I was ready to lose my virginity with him, basically neither of us knew what we were doing, I felt uncomfortable and immediately told him to stop. However he didn't, he ...

How do I overcome my sexual inexperience with men?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 9 days ago

15 November 2009 (F) - Hey everyone this si the first time i've posted on here but have always had interesting reads from this site! Ok basically here goes. Four years ago when I was 16 I decided, together with my bf at the time, that I was ready to lose my virginit...

Why don't boys want to kiss me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 9 days ago

14 November 2009 (F) - so... i'm about to turn 16 and i mean ive had plenty of chances but whenever a boy wants to kiss me they either think i wont want to, think it will be awkward after because ive neve kissed anyone, or believe its better if we dont because i deserve a ...

She had sex a week after our break up, two years later I still feel betrayed! Please help.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 9 days ago

14 November 2009 (M) - I have been dating this girl for a little over 2 years now. Everything is great in our relationship and we both have sex regularly. There is one thing that came up and keeps coming up. When we first started dating, I had a jealous friend on the side...

I feel insecure about not being his first. Any advice?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 9 days ago

14 November 2009 (F) - Heya, I've been with this guy for awhile. He's my first everything. He's a few years older than me, and has more experience. He's my first relationship and love, while I'm not his. And this makes me feel insecure, does anyone have any e...

Does it hurt worse to lose your virginity when you are younger?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 9 days ago

12 November 2009 (F) - i was wondering if it would hurt worse to lose your virginity when your my age which is thirteen or if it was the same no matter what age you are cause my friend said it was worse when your younger....

My body is stopping me from having sex...

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 11 days ago

12 November 2009 (F) - Hello everyone, I am a 16 year old female and I have a question. Okay, so I have been with my current boyfriend for 2 months. I have been with him before and we didn't work out because he was a bit of a player. Actually, that's an understatement. ...

Help! How do I let him know I'm ready to lose my virginity to him?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 11 days ago

12 November 2009 (F) - I'm ready to lose my virginity, how do I let him know I'm ready without saying it? What could I do to get him to make the first move? and can a man really tell it's a girls first time? ...

First time sex tips, please?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 9 days ago

12 November 2009 (F) - Hi, im a 15 year old female and a virgin and want to have sex with my boyfriend soon. He's 16 but has had sex alot of times. He knows that i am a virgin and says that when we do it, he will take it slowly for me and make sure that i'm okay with it....

Horrible first time sex feeling, anything wrong with me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 11 days ago

12 November 2009 (F) - Lawn Care Specialist Reply I am 24 and just lost my virginity last night. Almost all my friend lost their virginity during teenage, so I told my bf that I have had sex with few person before but when I saw his penis size, I almost fainted,...

Will first time sex be pleasurable for me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 11 days ago

12 November 2009 (F) - Hi. I`m 17 and I`m a virgin. This weekend I`m planning to lose it with my boyfriend. :) He`s not a virgin. I`m not nervous at all, I`m super excited. I`m very comfortable with him and I`ve never been a shy one. I`m just wondering one thing though. ...

What should I do next with this co-worker?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 13 days ago

10 November 2009 (F) - Where should I go from here. I have never had a boyfriend but I have been having some fun kissing a guy I work with, for experience really, we have both decided that we want to date but as I have never dated anyone before I am scared because we ...

We're both 13 and want to be friends with benefits, but I don't know if I'm ready!

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 8 days ago

10 November 2009 (F) - My neighbor and I have been friends since we were 2 and now I have feelings for him cause we have been through like everthing together and we probly tell each other more then like a married couple! We are both 13... The other day he suggested...

First time for both of us...what can we expect?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 13 days ago

10 November 2009 (F) - Alright, here it goes. I am sixteen and have been absolute BEST friends with a boy for three years. We talk about everything; probably more so than a married couple. This past year we have both told each other that we love each other. But we de...

I'm very worried that my first time sex will be painful!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 16 days ago

7 November 2009 (F) - I'm still a virgin, however when I have met the right guy I would like to take things slowly and enjoy myself when the time comes. However I have explored my body and have discovered that the likeliness is that my first time will be very painful, as ...

Will the guy be mad that you didn't tell him that you were a virgin? Or what's the deal?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 16 days ago

7 November 2009 (F) - I'm 20, and i've been talking to this guy for almost a month, and i ended up losing my virginity to him couple days ago, now i'm bleeding non-stop and my stomache hurts.. and i never told him i was a virgin and i feel super bad about it.. and i told ...

Can a person that is still a virgin get a disease?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 16 days ago

6 November 2009 (M) - Hi Cupid,I asked this question here last time about the word masturbation. this question confused me sometimes, i want to be sure of it. my question is, a person that still a virgin whether a boy or a girl. like a boy that still a virgin. if the ...

What can I do to help her get over this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 17 days ago

6 November 2009 (M) - I've been dating my girlfriend, "Nicole", for almost a year now. I have had one previous girlfriend, "Molly", who I dated a few years before Nicole. I'm Nicole's first real boyfriend and she is very turned off by the fact that Molly and I had an ...

My love has ADHD. What are all the things I may need to know to ensure our relationship stays healthy?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 18 days ago

5 November 2009 (M) - Allo! My girlfriend and I have been together for...ah...whoa...21 months, that's nearly 2 years, lol, neither of us realized. I'm 18, she turns 19 in a couple of months and we seem, well, absolutely fine. We'd like to hold on to our relations...

Does using a G-spot stimulator mean you're not a virgin?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 19 days ago

4 November 2009 (?) - As said virginity is not having sexual intercoarse...but if you have a g spot stimulator are you still a virgin?...

I'm a Catholic. What are the pros and cons of waiting til my wedding night?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 13 days ago

4 November 2009 (F) - I am a Catholic and I know that as one I should not have sex before marriage but as most, if not all, Catholics do today they do. I just assumed that I would sometime in my late teens. Now I am nearly 16 and I'm beginning to change my mind. I real...

After our break-up, I feel used! Am I wrong?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 19 days ago

4 November 2009 (F) - I dated a guy aged 22 for 4 months, i loved him so an ended up giving up my virginity to him, he was an alcoholic and i rarely felt his attention. one day when i was asking about us, about the relationship an its weakness he looked at me and told me ...

I lied about my virginty. Can a man feel your hymen?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 16 days ago

4 November 2009 (F) - I am a virgin, but for my own personal reasons I do not want my guy to know. We are having sex for the first time tomorrow night, and I'm afraid he might feel my hymen and know I lied to him. I don't care about the bleeding, since I know that can...

Was that a form of verbal abuse that I went through?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 20 days ago

3 November 2009 (F) - i was in a relationship with a guy for 7 months, and when the relationship started it was all good he would talk nicely well a week after talking he wanted to meet up for coffee i said we can. We spoke for long and after dropping me off he asked if ...

I'm scared to have sex

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 21 days ago

3 November 2009 (M) - Earlier this year, I had a chance to lose my virginity with someone I was seeing. But once we were naked, and I was about to insert my penis, I just couldn't..i lost all confidence, and didnt have the guts to go in. Since then, I've thought abo...

How can I overcome my fear of sex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 21 days ago

2 November 2009 (F) - I'm 18 years old and I'm still a virgin. I've been going out with my bf for almost 10 months now. The fact that he is 9 years older then me, I guess it's normal for him to want sex (he's a virgin too) and I understand that. We spoke a lot about ...

How can I be loose when I am still a virgin?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 21 days ago

2 November 2009 (F) - [MODERATOR NOTE: This post was minimally edited for spelling and grammar to improve legibility.] I'm worried. Basically I'm a horny girl. I can't help it, I think I'm more horny than a guy. Anyway, I masturbate a lot, like in one go, 3 times and ...

Help! How do I get my first kiss?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 9 days ago

2 November 2009 (M) - ok well I'm 18 and I have never had my first kiss or anything. please tell me how I should get it. I need major help so please give me all your ideas....

Is there a way to check for broken hymen? Out of curiousity and health.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 21 days ago

2 November 2009 (F) - Is there a way I can check if my hymen is broken or not?i want to see if theres a way.just for curiosity...

How can I check my virginity?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 22 days ago

1 November 2009 (F) - I m doubted that i have broke my hymen during self pleasuring.bt i dnt remember that I ever seen blood during self pleasuring.how can I check my virginity?...

Am I still a virgin if he didn't come inside me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 23 days ago

1 November 2009 (F) - Some of my friends say i am still a virgin cause he didn't cum inside me. But it still went in. Am i virgin or not is he a virgin or not...

I lied to my fiancee that I'm a virgin... what now?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 22 days ago

1 November 2009 (F) - Hi i had forced to have sex now im getting married and i lied to my fiancee that im a virgin i cant tell him the truth what should i do??????????/ plz help ...