New here? Register in under one minute Already a member? Login

244966 questions, 1084314 answers

Got a relationship, dating, love or sex question? Ask for help!

New Questions Answers . Most Discussed Viewed . Unanswered . Followups . Forums . Top agony aunts . About Us . Articles . Sitemap

To browse questions by day in April, 2013, use the links below (in brackets, number of questions on that day in this category)

1 (1), 2 (1), 3 (1), 7 (2), 8 (1), 9 (2), 11 (2), 12 (1), 13 (1), 14 (1),
15 (2), 16 (1), 17 (2), 18 (1), 20 (1), 24 (3), 25 (2), 27 (1),

Archived questions from: April, 2013 (see latest in Virginity category)

Virginity: Help and advice

I am worried about first time sex

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4017 days ago

27 April 2013 (F) - Okay, so my boyfriend and I have been together for quite a while now, but have yet to have sex. It seems as though we are getting closer to us both being ready to take things to the next level. Unfortunately for me, I'm not sure how that will go...

I'm conflicted. Since I'm a virgin is it unreasonable to want to find a girl who is a virgin to date?

This question has 22 answers - newest was posted 4012 days ago

25 April 2013 (M) - I don't really know how to approach this topic eloquently, so here's it in a nutshell: I'm extremely conflicted right now about sex. I'm 22 years old and have never had a girlfriend, and am still a virgin (obviously). I've never even kissed a gi...

He's separted from his wife but still legally married . We've been dating but now he wants a break. What should I do?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4012 days ago

25 April 2013 (F) - Hi aunts and uncles, this may be long so I apologize in advance. I have found myself in a situation I can't really talk to anyone about, except all of you. For seven months now I have been in a relationship with a gentleman who is separat...

I'm a virgin. I do find women attractive especially their breasts. But I look at men too. Am I gay or not?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4020 days ago

24 April 2013 (M) - Hi, I am guy in my early 30’s and I am unsure if I am gay or not. I am a virgin and I have kissed a girl but nothing more. I do find other guys attractive. I find their muscles and athletic appearance attractive. When I am jerking off I think ...

I'm a virgin and b/f has a large penis. Will sex hurt?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4019 days ago

24 April 2013 (F) - My boyfriend has a large penis. I want to satisfy him. I am a virgin. will it hurt ?...

I found a sex toy in my boyfriend's room.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4020 days ago

24 April 2013 (F) - Hi, Today I visited my bf in his house. We don't live together yet. It was a little mess, so I started to clean his place a little. Then I founf this, a sex toy, quite like a simple hole cup. Maybe it was there before, I just didn't noticed? ...

I feel we should be communicating more. What can I do to change that?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4022 days ago

20 April 2013 (F) - I am 22. My boyfriend is 39. We've been dating for almost four months. He is my first sexual partner. It's all so new to me so I just want sex almost all the time. He doesn't mind...most of the time. ;) But I feel like we're not talking enough. ...

He still thinks I'm a virgin, but I had a horrible experience losing it?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4019 days ago

18 April 2013 (F) - So this guy and I were dating and then he just fell off the face of the earth for a month. He was just so busy etc. So I moved on and met someone new. I met this great guy in the beginning of the month. Things were perfect. So one night this guy and ...

When me boyfriend and I try to have sex it's very painful. Should I just let him go in anyway?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4024 days ago

17 April 2013 (F) - So I'm 20 and have been with my boyfriend who is 21 for over a year now. I'm a virgin and he isn't. We've tried to have sex and I've found it very painful, it's not because I'm not wet enough because I have been. Whether it's because I'm not relaxed ...

Is it my fault that I can't remember in detail my first time with my boyfriend

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4012 days ago

17 April 2013 (F) - I had been with my guy for a little more than 1 year. He was a Virginia when he met me however, I wasn't. I have my own regrets and mistakes that I made being naive and trusting my exs when they promised me futures. My guy knew and he couldn't...

No Sex till after marriage this is my value

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4026 days ago

16 April 2013 (F) - I'm at university and I've decided I don't want to have sex before marriage, as I don't want to sleep with someone who isn't fully committed to me. I feel very strongly about this and I don't think I'd like to change it. I'm definitely not asexual ...

B/f lied to me and said he wasn't a virgin when he was. Will he want to date others since I'm his first?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4028 days ago

15 April 2013 (F) - Hi everyone and thanks in advance for your responses. I have a boyfriend whom I dearly love and I believe he feels the same way. We have been together for almost 3 years and we often discuss a future together - marriage, kids, where to live et...

Boyfriend absolutely cannot keep erection during sex!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4029 days ago

15 April 2013 (F) - Okay, me and my boyfriend are having a big problem. Things have started to heat up in the relationship and we've begun trying to have sex. Being the responsible girl-scout I can prepared with some Durex. I am a virgin and just really didn't want to ...

We tried to have sex for the first time but it wouldn't fit!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4029 days ago

14 April 2013 (F) - Hello I think I'm not the first one to have this issue, but i couldn't calm down from all I've seen on the Internet. Last night, my boyfriend and I tried having sex for the first time. It was my first time, well I don't know if this ...

First time sex and a big member.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4029 days ago

13 April 2013 (F) - My boyfriend has an abnormally big dick and it is physically too big for me? -I've sat on it lubed up and it would take alot of force to make it go in, were both still virgins but feel ready, how do i go about making this as less painful as possible...

Am I normal? Still a virgin and I do get frustrated. My studies have taken precedence over a relationship. Should I make some changes in my life?.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4029 days ago

12 April 2013 (M) - I’m male 25, single and virgin, never involved in ANY kind of sexual activity with anyone ever. At the moment I’m really focused on building my budding career and personally think that involvement in any relation/flirt might divide my attentio...

Not a player, but I'd like to be...

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4032 days ago

11 April 2013 (M) - I'm, 22, not a "player" or a guy who sleeps with loads of girls (in fact I've slept with 0) but I really want to be one, I don't feel like I am a man unless I have slept with a respectable amount of girls. Is this a good desire? I desperately want...

I think my girlfriend lied about being a virgin

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4033 days ago

11 April 2013 (M) - Well my girlfriend had said that she had almost had sex with someone I know before we were dating but the way she had told the story made me feel as though she was lying she said she was a virgin (as was I) when we first had sex but she didn't reac...

Girlfriend very insecure because I watched porn

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3975 days ago

9 April 2013 (M) - I have been in a very serious relationship for the last five years with an amazing girl. I love her so much. I would take a bullet for her. I am going to propose to her soon but I don't know when. She's the only person I've ever been in a relati...

Fingered, am I still a virgin?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4035 days ago

9 April 2013 (F) - Hi, I've been fingered by my boyfriend a few times and I don't know if I'm still a virgin or not.I'm scared that I might not be a virgin anymore.please help, am I still a virgin?...

I'm a 22y.o. virgin - I'm afraid life is passing me by!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4034 days ago

8 April 2013 (F) - Hi, I'm a 22 year old virgin (female) and never have had a serious boyfriend. I feel a bit 'odd' as the majority of my friends are in long term relationships and the rest are involved in casual relationships. I have been with guys through u...

I don't know what we and I'm scared about the fact I'm a virgin?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4028 days ago

7 April 2013 (F) - Hey Im 18 I have been going on a couple of dates with a guy that I met at work, were both in University as well. We have been out about 10 times some of these involve with his freinds and mine going for drinks and going out after. Im jus...

The first time sex for me, should I take pain killers?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4037 days ago

7 April 2013 (F) - A guy that I've known since elementary school (we've long since graduated high school)and I started talking again and came to realize we both live in the same neighborhood. So long story short, we've gone out for quite a few months and we'll be ...

Any advice on sex surrogate therapy?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4041 days ago

3 April 2013 (F) - Hi all, i'm a 30 year single female virgin. I have reached a point in my life, where i'm ready to move towards changing this. Does anyone have any useful info, where to start? I've heard of sex therapy where a sex surrogate is used, in the st...

Guys: How would you react if a girl told you she was a virgin?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4031 days ago

2 April 2013 (F) - To cut to the chase: I'm a virgin at 25. And I feel ancient being one at this age. I'm not a christian, so I didn't save my self out of religious beliefs. I did hold on to that romantic notion that the first time should be with someone I love, but ...

Is it normal for a guy not to come everytime?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4043 days ago

1 April 2013 (F) - My bf and I lost our virginity together, he never came the first time. After a year he still doesn't occasionally. And it seems like it takes lots of effort to come. He admitted an addiction to porn halfway into our relationship, and he's let that ...