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Archived questions from: October, 2007 (see latest in Virginity category)

Virginity: Help and advice

I still have strong feelings for him, but don't know what to do.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 272 days ago

28 October 2007 (F) - I lost my virginity to a guy i was dating nearly two years ago..he ended things quite soon after because he got back with his ex....so i never really got over him but carried on with things as normal. Completly out of the blue i got an email fr...

Do I tell him I'm a virgin or not?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 134 days ago

26 October 2007 (F) - Hello, I was wondering if anybody could help me? I am 20 (almost 21) years old and at university. I am still a virgin, mainly because I am very shy around guys and have always got cold feet whenever I got close to getting intimate with a guy. But ...

I told her I was a virgin, she avoided to talk about her; now she's ignoring me. What should I believe?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 253 days ago

25 October 2007 (M) - I was talking to a girl i've liked a lot for years. she knows i like her. we were just talking when the topic of virginity came up. I am a virgin and i told her. she avoided the question and then got mad. she asked if i thought girls who lost their ...

Most people think I'm wild but in bed, I'm not! Should I tell him I'm inexperienced, sex wise? How?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 252 days ago

25 October 2007 (F) - (This is more like a novel than a question, it's really long, sorry) I have a bit of a complex situation, it's a bit silly and I'm probably worrying about nothing so please don't laugh.I've been on a couple of dates with a great guy, but we've been ...

Is there an ointment or gel that I can use to make intercourse less painful?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 136 days ago

24 October 2007 (F) - i have been in a relationship since 3 years im a virgin me n my partner really want to have sex we have tried it a couple of times but couldnt't really do it cause everytime he tried 2 insert his penis it caused me pain ,could u suggest somethig ...

I really don't want to upset her, what do I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 268 days ago

24 October 2007 (F) - Well, there is this guy, and I am absoloutly bananas about him. I'm pretty darn sure he likes me too (like really sure), but there is one problem: my friend. She is a total bitchy bitch bitch and I hate her sometimes, but deep down I love her. ...

Questions I have as I get closer to loosing my virginity.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 277 days ago

21 October 2007 (M) - Simple to the point questions that are worrying me as i get closer to losing my virginity. 1-Does size matter? 2-What do I do?(stupid i know but im not too bright) 3-What if I don't last very long? Those are some pretty stupid things...

If I look down there it puts me off from having anyone touch me. How do I know I'm allright?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 279 days ago

21 October 2007 (F) - Heya. This is probally one of the most common questions you come across but you can never find an answer for, well at least i cant. Im worried if i look right or not down below and it puts me off from even having anyone touch me. How do you now if ...

I need tips to make her first time a good experience.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 63 days ago

18 October 2007 (M) - Ive been dating my girl friend for about 2 months now.. im 16 shes 17. she's a virgin and ive only slept with one girl. she swears she's ready to have sex, but i'm not sure how to do this since its her first time, my ex basicaly had to "put it in ...

Rape victim wants to be thought as virgin

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 93 days ago

17 October 2007 (?) - Hey. When I Was 13 I Was Raped By A Guy And His Friends 3 Times And I Didnt Tell AnyyOne About It Although I Wish I Had Of Doe But Its Too Late Now. Well Any Wayy When Me And My Friends Are Talking About Boyfriends And Stuff At School They Alwa...

Have I lost my virginity?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 280 days ago

17 October 2007 (F) - hey, i am a uni student and a virgin and have been seeing this guy for about a little while but he's not yet my proper boyfriend. However, the other day we were just like fooling around in his room and then he put his penis inside of me but i told ...

My virgin girlfriend is very tight. Is this normal?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 283 days ago

17 October 2007 (M) - I am 19 and in love with my school sweetheart of 4months again, both virgins. we tried it last night for the first time, after she had pleasured me 4/5 times. I could not get hard enough to penetrate properly as she is quite tight. Is this normal, ...

I'm a virgin. Shall I pretend that I'm not?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 283 days ago

16 October 2007 (F) - Hi...im a sophomore in high school and well most of my friends along with myself have went into high school as a virgin but most of my friends have lost it this year i dont feel pressured into losing it but when they talk about how everything ...

He cant keep it up long enough to have sex. I think its nerves as I am his first!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 108 days ago

15 October 2007 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been going out for 5 months now, and are at the "serious" stage of our relationship. We're both 18 and we've tried to have sex twice now. The thing is, he can't seem to keep an erection long enough for us to actually have ...

Who should make the first move - and how?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 285 days ago

11 October 2007 (F) - Hi everyone I got such nice responses last time, I need some more advice and feel I can turn to you guys so here goes. I have been with my boyfriend now for 6 weeks and he told me for the first time on saturday that he is a virgin and while I ...

I'm having doubts - is that a bad sign?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 289 days ago

11 October 2007 (F) - I'm 18 and a virgin. Recently though I've told my boyfriend that I was ready to have sex. At the time that i told him i was becuase i trusted him, but now due to certain circumstances i don't feel like the trust is fully there and I'm not sure if i ...

Do I tell him I know I wasn't his first, or just let it go?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 283 days ago

9 October 2007 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for almost a year now, and he is the only person I have slept with. However, before we started dating, he was in a relationship with a girl I knew from school, who I have now became good friends with. My boyfriend is ...

What's the furthest you should go with a boy?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 287 days ago

9 October 2007 (F) - Whats the furthest you shuld go with a boy? I mean, i like to make out with them but they always want me to go further, and im not even 15 yet. I dnt wanna giv them BJ or or toss them up, but this makje sme seem like a total virgin! Wat shuld I do? ...

How do I take my mind off waiting for him to call me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 280 days ago

9 October 2007 (F) - So basically, My best guy friend and i have done everything with eachother (when we were drunk only)except for have sex.(we're both still virgins).but now he never calls me,and i dont know if im just being paranoid,or what. Maybe he's just really b...

Losing my virginity (next Saturday) what should I expect?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 257 days ago

9 October 2007 (F) - Im losing my virginity next saturday with my long term partner. We have everything ready. My mates hosue will be free so we're using hers. She said she'd leave the master bedroom done up perfect for us like silk sheets, dimmer lights, oils, slow son...

What does sex involve?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 292 days ago

8 October 2007 (F) - This may sound abit stupid but i want to know what you actually do in sex ? Im still a virgin and so is my boyfriend and we want our 1st time to be magical. We rented a hotel, got scented candles, red rose petals and a cd of slow romantic songs. E...

It's our first time and need loads of tips on how to do it, please!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 292 days ago

8 October 2007 (M) - Ok this is going to sound soooooo stupid but how do you actually have sex? Me and my gf have decided we are ready and shes decided to get the injection and we have some condoms as well but neither of us have never done anything like this. We are ...

My questions are stopping me from having sex

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 290 days ago

7 October 2007 (F) - hey. im 16 and really want to have sex with my boyfriend. i emotionally and physically feel ready but there are just a few things playing on my mind about it. will it hurt? will he compare me to other girls? and what will he think of me after? an...

I'm a 24 year old virgin. How do I get close to girls?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 293 days ago

7 October 2007 (M) - Like the title says im a 24 year old male virgin with next to no experiance with girls. I mean really none, not even kissing etc, also not big into partys and disco's, prefer meeting up, hanging out, going to cinema, renting dvd just chating ...

I'm athletic and confident but I'm still a virgin. Please help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 293 days ago

7 October 2007 (M) - I'm 22 years of age and have never really been in a long-term relationship. Up until a couple of years ago, I had no self-confidence and could never understand how anyone would want to be with me, let alone how they could find me remotely attract...

I want sex but how do I tell my boyfriend...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 254 days ago

7 October 2007 (F) - i am 14 years old and i think i am ready for sex. i have a shy boyfriend who i have dated for about 3 months now, and we barely do anything. i feel left out because the closest of my friends have all had sex; i don't think its fair. i get horny ve...

I'm terrified of pregnancy - how can I stop worrying about it?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 294 days ago

6 October 2007 (F) - I'm 15. Ready for sex emotionally and physically. But the one thing holding me back is that i am absolutly terrified about getting pregnant. I am not one of these teenagers who dont care and will do it drunk without realising. I know i am o...

I was drunk, can't remember if we had sex, and he won't tell me.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 109 days ago

5 October 2007 (F) - ive liked this lad for ages, and was thrilled when we went on a date, we madeout n stuff but hes kinda just usin me and messing me about, like when i wanna see him he won't and he will ignore me, but then he changes aand he acts like my bf, so the ...

I lost my virginity recently to the girl I love but I didn't make her orgasm. Am I bad at sex? How do I prevent myself from ejaculating so quickly?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 294 days ago

4 October 2007 (M) - I suck at sex!!! I lost my virginity a week ago to this girl I love!!! It was brilliant! But... I didn't make her orgasm. I couldn't last long enough to anyway. Is this really bad? She's NEVER had an orgasm before in her life, not even made by ...

Can I lose my virginity with a sex toy?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 297 days ago

3 October 2007 (F) - can i lose my virginity with a sex toy? i mean can i break my hymen with a sex toy and then it ll be easy for my husband pls help ?...

I am falling way behind people my age with girls, and it's getting to me bad!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 297 days ago

3 October 2007 (M) - Hi there. Well i am 19, and i feel like i am slipping behind others teenagers my age to be honest. I don't hide away in a corner. I talk to people, guys and girls my age. I have plenty of friends, and i am outgoing. Told i am a good looking guy. But...

She wants our first time to be great and so do i...any tips??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 297 days ago

3 October 2007 (M) - Ok me and my girlfriend are wanting to make love and she wants it to be great i just want tips on what im going to go trough my first time what should i do since were both virgins, what to do and what not to do and some tips on pleasuring her just ...

We have been married for six months, but I am still a virgin

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 276 days ago

2 October 2007 (F) - i am married 6 months now and still vergin i need help? i am married after a story a nice story of love yes me and my hubsna ddecide to not made sex untill we marry cos i was vergine. our first night together he try but he get scared and comfused...