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Archived questions from: June, 2007 (see latest in Virginity category)

Virginity: Help and advice

Will it hurt me if he puts his fingers inside me?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 385 days ago

30 June 2007 (F) - I am 14 and have a 14 year old boyfriend. Alot of my friends have finger banged or gave hand jobs. My boyfriend has finger banged before, but i havent done either. I want to do both with him and i feel ready and i know he is too. We talk about it ...

I'm eighteen and he's sixteen, should we wait to have sex?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 390 days ago

29 June 2007 (F) - i am 18 and my boyfriend is 16. we have been together for 5 years, we think we are ready to have sex but i don't want to get in trouble. should we just wait or wat?...

I'm hoping to have my first time on a cruise that I'm going on. How do I really satisfy her?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 388 days ago

28 June 2007 (M) - I am still a virgin and i am 18 years old. I have just graduated high school and i am fixing to go on a cruise and i am hoping this might be my chance to have sex. But i am wondering how do i really satisfy her....

He lied to me about his virginity

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 392 days ago

27 June 2007 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for seven years. I was a virgin when i first met him and he told me that he was too.But just this past weekend he admitted to me that he had lied to me and that he had actually slep with three other girls before me.And ...

I don't know if he really likes me or wants me just for sex and I don't want to lose him. What should I do?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 56 days ago

27 June 2007 (F) - I am a 16 year old virgin and don't know if I'm ready to have sex or not! I love my boyfriend to death, I've been with him for four months already and he's always asking me if I want to do it but I know I'm not ready. I'm scared if i don't do it ...

I still love him even thought he lied to me and hurt me so much.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 393 days ago

26 June 2007 (F) - When I was 14, I met a boy who lived near a friend of mine when it was her birthday. We didn't talk all night, but I think I fell in love straigt away, and luckily the feeling was mutual. After a couple of years however, in which we had lost our ...

I love my boyfriend, but I think he's trying to manipulate me into having sex! I want to wait. What should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 381 days ago

26 June 2007 (F) - okay I've been going out with my boyfriend for 7 months, we haven't had sex yet but we've been close to so many times, I really love him and all but sometimes he acts like it is going to be the end of the world if we don't do it. I sometimes feel ...

I don't want to be shy in my new place--any advice?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 395 days ago

25 June 2007 (M) - hello everyone. i am 18 years old and I am relocating from Brooklyn NY to a Philly suburb. I have lived in Brooklyn all my life. I pretty much do not have much friends and i have never even kissed a girl (let alone have a girlfriend). There ...

We've never kissed anyone before--how do we get the first kiss?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 394 days ago

25 June 2007 (F) - I know this guy who really likes me and I really like him too... I want to kiss him and he told me that he would kiss me, but he's never kissed anyone before--neither have I. What do I say to him to persuade him? ...

I love him but I'm not ready for sex, what should I do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 381 days ago

24 June 2007 (F) - i am only 13 years old and i am very scared in a way but i love him to death!!!!!! 333 but i think that he really wants to have sex with me :( and im NOT!! ready for SEX!! what do i do????!!!!!!!...

I'm nervous about losing my virginity but I feel pressured by my friends

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 121 days ago

24 June 2007 (F) - Im still a virgin at 14 but recently, all my friends have been losing it and I'm beginning to feel left out. I know you shouldn't give in to peer pressure but they go as far as to say "Put your hand up if your a virgin" and I find only I raise my ...

I was a virgin and now he wants to be f*** buddies! I'm so confused, please help!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 396 days ago

24 June 2007 (F) - I just lost my virginity early yesterday morning roughly 4am (we were at a wedding before). I really liked him and I met him briefly before. It wasn't sore but I bled a little--I didn't tell him I was a virgin...do you think he might have known? ...

Who loses their virginity to two guys?! I'm finding this hard to deal with.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 389 days ago

22 June 2007 (M) - I've been dating a woman for about 3 months who loves sex, and ours is great. But I just found out that she lost her virginity in a threesome with two guys who she then had multiple threesomes with after that. She was 23 at the time and is just over ...

16 next week and worried my girlfriend wants to have sex... how can I say no gently!?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 387 days ago

21 June 2007 (M) - Hi Me and my girlfreind have been going out for 5 months now and its my 16th birthday next week. I am really worrid that she wants to have sex however I dont. She has been hinting at this for a while and I have been joking it off. how can i turn h...

A guy who pressurised me into sex never used a condom with his other partners... Now I feel a burning sensation... What should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 399 days ago

21 June 2007 (F) - Im 14 and Ive lost my virginity to a lad who made me feel pressured into having sex with him..He wasnt a virgin and has never used a condom with any of his sexual partners.. He hit me alot and had sex with my friends when i wudnt have sex with ...

I lost my virginity to a guy, now after having sex several times later, I've got these strange signs that something's wrong. Please help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 399 days ago

21 June 2007 (F) - ..After i lost my virginity to my boyfrend of 1 year he got agressive with me and made my life hell being too jealous. So i finished us and moved away..But after having sex a couple of times I've noticed thick creamy discharge and it hurts when i ...

Can the hyman be broken without having sex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 88 days ago

21 June 2007 (F) - I go Horse Riding and have been doing every week since i was 6. I have heard that women that horse ride or ride a bike there hyman can brake without having sex. I am still a virgin. I was wondering how can i find out my self if it is broke yet or ...

He's told everyone about how I lost my virginity to him! What should I do? Help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 400 days ago

20 June 2007 (F) - I recently broke up with an ex but I remained friends with his friends. I lost my virginity to my ex and he's been bragging to every person who will listen about it and it makes me so embarrassed! His friends tell me intimate details that he...

I think all my friends are now judging me because Im still a virgin!!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 395 days ago

19 June 2007 (M) - I have a strange problem, awhile ago my girlfriend told one of her friends that i was a virgin when we first started to date. Her friend told all of my friends and to start with they laughed at me. Im now feeling that all my friends are judg...

Should I have sex even though I am only 14?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 393 days ago

19 June 2007 (F) - me and one of my really good guy friends have been talking about having sex..because we feel there is something between us...but i am only 14..should i consider having sex w/ him?...

Is it considered slutty to sleep with someone a week into a relationship when one of them is a virgin?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 401 days ago

18 June 2007 (F) - I need peoples opinions here... Do u think its slutty to sleep with someone a week into the relationship, if one of the people are virgins? ....If yes what do you think is an apropriate amount of time to wait?...

Lost my virginity to the wrong girl. Now I don't want to be with her.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 402 days ago

18 June 2007 (M) - Ive been with the girl that I lost my virginity to for a month. While im happy its finally gone, over the past 3 days ive thought about who it was with, and feel nothing but regret, I don’t exactly know why. Its been on and off everyday, and I feel ...

Both of us are ready for the next step and, I have no idea how. I understand the basic idea of sex but, I don't know how it is done.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 384 days ago

17 June 2007 (F) - Dear Agony Aunts, I'm a 16 year old girl in a committed relationship with my boyfriend of a year and a half (he's 17 and my best friend). Everything is great, he loves me and I love him (and not the typical teenage love where you say I love you...

Is sex supposed to hurt the second time round?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 402 days ago

17 June 2007 (F) - hi everyone. I just want to know is it normal for sex to hurt the second time round? and how many times do you have sex before the hurting stops? My 1st time was excrutiating. I Really enjoyed the second time but it still hurt a bit x...

Was he using me all the way through our relationship?? I have so many questions to ask him but I'm too scared! Help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 403 days ago

17 June 2007 (F) - My boyfriend and I broke up about 6 months ago after being together for 6 months, but I can't stop thinking about him. I'm 17 and he is 20. I lost my virignity to him after being together for 2 months, it felt right at the time and I don't regret it ...

Can a hymen be broken without pain?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 170 days ago

17 June 2007 (F) - Hi my name is Kianna and i have a question can you please help me im 20. I had sex twice and none of the times i had my hymen broken. I want to have sex but i am to afraid for him to brake my hymen. My freinds tell me that i sould get drunk or take ...

I lost my virginity a couple of weeks ago and ever since I've been pissing blood is this normal?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 406 days ago

14 June 2007 (M) - erm I lost my virginity a couple of weeks ago and ever since I've been pissing blood is this normal? ...

Is it bad I lack experience, sex wise... never done anything with boys

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 404 days ago

14 June 2007 (F) - Im 16 and i have Never had a boy finger me or me do anything for a boy.. seems like everyone else has and i feel embarresed to say that ''i lack in sexual experience'' when personally i dont care but when people ask me.. i get ambarresed.. is this ...

Married my husband but still in love with my soulmate!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 376 days ago

14 June 2007 (F) - I have a problem. I am married to my husband but i'm in love with another man. I don't know what to do. The guy who had taken my virginity is who I am in love with even before I married my husband. I haven't seen or heard from that guy for 2 years ...

Would it hurt to lose my virginity when I'm drunk?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 406 days ago

14 June 2007 (F) - I'm almost 17 and am ready to have sex. I'm going to be honest, I'm gorgeous and a party girl - so boys date me under the impression we'll have sex. Of course once they find out I'm a virgin they run. If I have never done anything beyond making out ...

What are the percentage of people who engage in oral and anal sex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 406 days ago

12 June 2007 (M) - hello everyone. i have been noticing a dramtic increase in anal and oral sex among teens. being an adolescent i see alot of my peers engaging in these activities. i know that the percentage is probably higher in adults. being a total virgin (in...

I'm a virgin and he's not... any tips for our relationship?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 186 days ago

12 June 2007 (F) - hi me and my boyfriend are in a serious relationship and we are thinking about having sex but i'm kinda worried because i'm a virgin and he's not what if he breaks up with me because i can't full feel his needs?...

I'm 30 years old and still a virgin, is this normal?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 408 days ago

12 June 2007 (M) - I'm 30 years old but still a virgin. Is this normal? Ive never had a girlfriend. I'm not ugly just very shy. Its more out of circumstance than not been "lucky" ie i work weekdays and look after my gran on the weekend. Will i ever get...

First off let me say that I am 15 years old and I got in such a serious relationship at such a young age.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 408 days ago

11 June 2007 (F) - First off let me say that I am 15 years old and I got in such a serious relationship at such a young age. I fell in love with this guy and we both thought we were soulmates, we were together for a good 5 months until he broke up with me. I trusted ...

How often is too often? (Sex wise?)

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 409 days ago

9 June 2007 (F) - How often is too often? I recently lost my virginity with my boyfriend, we have sex every night if we are together and things are great..should we be slowing down? I am in Europe for a few months ( havent seen him in over a month, so obviously no ...

He told me it would be ok but I didnt want to do it and now I feel dirty!!!

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 360 days ago

9 June 2007 (?) - I have gotten my self into a real pickle and dont know what to do next!! I have been with my boyfriend now for a year and although i havnt slept with him, i love him. I was 15 in may and he was 16 in january and we have like i said been together for ...

My boyfriend thinks I'm "pure"... How can I tell him I've been raped???

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 379 days ago

7 June 2007 (F) - im 14 my boyfriend lives far away so when we meet up we are usually soo happy we get...erm...close He wants me to lose my virginity to him, its not i dont want to but first im no where near ready, second im starting to like this other guy at my ...

I'm 16, he's 23 - he wants to sleep w/ me, but he lives with a girl! I feel guilty! Can I really go through with this?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 412 days ago

6 June 2007 (F) - Im 16 years old and i've been in numerous relationships in the past year buti've never had sex. now this guy's come into my life, i've known him about nine months and thought he was a jerk up until about three months ago when we got to know each ...

What can these bumps on my penis be?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 406 days ago

6 June 2007 (M) - hello i am a virgin and i am 13 years old. i have been noticing bumps on my penis. They are located on the sides mainly but a little on the side.They are the color of my skin.I cannot pop them. They are not so bad but my penis looks wierd. i think i ...

I'm 18 and a little confused about sex!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 413 days ago

6 June 2007 (F) - hiya, im 18 nearly 19 and im feelin a bit lost lol! ive never had a serious realtionship, a proper snog, done stuf with a guy or had sex! im seeing sum1 at the moment and so i kno tht stuf is on its way if u get me and im fed up of 'pleasing myse...

A four way problem, 3 boys and me - what do I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 415 days ago

5 June 2007 (F) - im stuck between 3 boys i have like one from ages and been on and off with him for 3 yrs but its not going nowhere but i feel like i actually love this boy. the other one is very nice hes good lookin the lot but the thing is i havent lost my ...

After a bad day at work I said the wrong thing to her, she dumped me on the spot!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 414 days ago

3 June 2007 (M) - Hi 7 months after a nasty divorce i met the girl of my dreams, she was a virgin when we met and there was a age gap of 10 years which did not matter to us. Three months down the line and after a very bad day at work as a policeman, we me...

I have this fear that if I have sex with him...I won't be good enough! What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 405 days ago

2 June 2007 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been talking about having sex. Everytime we get the opportunity, I am ready to do it, I just get a feeling that makes me change my mind. He and I are both virgins, and obviously we would both be nervous, but I have a huge ...