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Archived questions from: December, 2008 (see latest in Virginity category)

Virginity: Help and advice

My friend tells me that guys can tell if you're a virgin, is this true?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 326 days ago

31 December 2008 (F) - On Saturday I lost my virginity to a guy who is very sexually experienced. I'd heard that going on top was best if it was your first time, so thats what I thought I'd do. Anyway, it kinda really went wrong (an embarassing moment, he musta thought...

How old should I be before I have sex?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 310 days ago

31 December 2008 (M) - how old do yall think i should be before sex?...

14 and worried about getting pregnant!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 328 days ago

30 December 2008 (F) - hey im 14 and i have a 17 year old boyfriend and i want to have sex with him he says he is ready when i am as long as its not years and years he said , now im fine with that im just worried of getting pregnant its so scary on tv i dont want it im ...

Should we give it another go? We were almost caught!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 329 days ago

29 December 2008 (M) - Im 15 and me and my girlfriend had been together for four months and we had foreplayed with each other many times, not long ago we were in her front room with the front window open, we got down to skins and i got on top however i couldn't do it, we ...

Was this attempted rape?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 328 days ago

29 December 2008 (F) - My boyfriend knows I want to stay a virgin till im married....but last night we did a lot...and normally we do that dry humping thing..well this time I had no clothes on and he had his boxers on...well I felt his hands down there and I didnt kn...

I am worried about my brother and think he's moving too fast.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 281 days ago

29 December 2008 (F) - ok, so i need some help on this... my little brother is dating my bff and has been for 3 months now, and im pretty kewl with it, they are very happy and are cute together... the thing that bothers me is that, they have been getting very sexual and ...

Can it be my hymen?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 328 days ago

28 December 2008 (F) - Hey everyone thanks for any help. The other night I tryed fingering myself but I could'nt get my finger in, there was like a layer of skin. It was blocking the entrance for my finger. Im really worried coz I dont no what it is. Is it my hymen? Also ...

Someone took my virginity!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 328 days ago

28 December 2008 (F) - ok im jst going to ask a real quick question im really scared someone took my virginity the other day and we have sex and he used condom but then after we done it im start to feeling kinda sick like my tummy hurttt soo bad and I feel throwin up do u ...

I told my BF that I want to lose my virginity but now I'm scared!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 322 days ago

27 December 2008 (F) - hello... ok well im 16 and my bf is 18.... im a virgin.. we have been so close to doin it but i stop him..he always says hes ''sorry'' that he just gets so carried away... n dat we wont do anything i dnt want to do... so yesterday we were tlki...

Did he pop my cherry? Or am I still a virgin... please reply!!

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 312 days ago

26 December 2008 (F) - okay so last night (christmas) i went over my bestfriends house...(its a boy) and we were kissing.....so it led to touching then it led to clothes coming off...next thing i know he's on top of me....i'm still a virgin (i think) so when he puts it in ...

Should I just bite his neck some more and make him forget I am a virgin?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 302 days ago

25 December 2008 (F) - I'm 14 and my boyfriend is 15. Last weekend I stayed the weekend with him. I'm a virgin and he told me once before that he didn't want to take my virginity away. Well we started making out and I started biting his neck which REALLY turns him on. ...

Bad gag reflex but my b/f wants oral sex

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 297 days ago

24 December 2008 (F) - So I'm really new at this dating thing, never really had an official boyfriend until now. I am 20 and he is 19. He was surprised when I told him I am a virgin, and that I've never been kissed. Well he says I can kiss pretty good now, but kissing...

How do you please his "willie" without sex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 335 days ago

24 December 2008 (F) - how do you give a hand job? what other ways can you please his "willie" without intercourse or oral/anal sex?...

Will he get restless and leave me if we don't have sex?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 335 days ago

23 December 2008 (F) - ive been with my boyfriend for almost 2 years now. i love him alot but we havent had sex or anything. do you think its time or should we wait longer and if i do, will he get restless and decide to leave me? please answer...

Do I need to see a shrink?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 328 days ago

23 December 2008 (M) - Two problems really; one is rather embarrassing and shamefull, and I am sure that people will think I am a freak after reading the other one..... Problem 1: I am aged 29, and still a virgin. You heard that correctly! I have never had any girlfrie...

I'm 14 and want to lose my virginity!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 87 days ago

22 December 2008 (F) - i like this guy that has a girlfriend i want to have sex with him and he wants to have sex with me even though he has a girlfriend. He feels on me and other stuff like that and he knows that i know that he has a girlfriend and i want to have sex ...

How can I stop wanting to have sex when I lose self-control so easily?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 337 days ago

21 December 2008 (F) - ok this may be really silly but im so confused. Ive been with my boyfriend for about 3 months and its going amazingly well. I always thought that i would want to be with any guy i lost my viginity to for at least 8months but with him its differen...

I think the condom might have broke!!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 337 days ago

21 December 2008 (F) - I lost my virginity 2 days ago and he used a condom but I'm kinda nervous it broke. I know it's been two days but I'm having weird pains. Could I be pregnant??...

He wants to have sex with me but he's having sex with another girl too!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 337 days ago

20 December 2008 (F) - Hi everybody. I met a guy 3 years back. We became good friends. He has been waiting for sex with me since 3 years. I have started loving him though he never says that he loves me too. But he wishes to have sex with me. He has also admitted that he ...

How would you react if you found out you were dating a virgin?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 328 days ago

19 December 2008 (F) - I just recently started dating a guy. He just found out that I am a virgin. I asked him how he felt about it after he had time to get over his shock (I'm 22.... it's not all that common to come across..I guess). He told me that he was fine with ...

Should I be more vocal during sex?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 340 days ago

18 December 2008 (F) - I'm a virgin, but during oral sex and foreplay (I guess you could say), I've had an orgasm. I only get "sexual" with my boyfriends. So recently, my boyfriend and I have been doing a little bit more than 1st base. I feel pretty lucky since I do tend ...

I lost my virginity about 2 weeks ago and now my period is late!!!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 336 days ago

17 December 2008 (F) - I lost my virginity about 2 weeks ago. We used protection and everything went well. The condom didn't split because we checked afterwards. However, my period is a few days late and I'm starting to worry I could be pregnant. I didn't think you could ...

He's a vrigin I'm not!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 340 days ago

17 December 2008 (F) - Hey everybody, So there is a guy who I have been dating for about about a year. We had known each other for about 3 years but never really talked. He is so sweet, kind, and understanding. He is much older than I and more intelligent. Well he is a ...

His parents think I'm going to de-flower him!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 335 days ago

17 December 2008 (F) - Dear Cupid, Last month, I turned seventeen. My boyfriend of almost seven weeks will turn fourteen in March. Despite the age difference, we have a GREAT relationship. He seems to always know what to say whenever it feels like my world is crashin...

Pregnant without sex?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 329 days ago

16 December 2008 (F) - Okay this may sound stupid, but I really need to know. Okay... my boyfriend and I have made an agreement to abstain from sex until marriage. We do how ever fool around. I am a virgin so it is very important to me that we don't have intercourse ...

I'm afraid to have sex but I don't want to neglect him!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 340 days ago

16 December 2008 (F) - I'm scared witless by the thoughts of having sex, i'm 17 and i've been going out with my first boyfriend for a time now, he is 22 and has much experience. i feel trapped and in some ways forced to have sex, but i feel like i'll would be hurting him ...

Dating for a week and he's already sexual. I'm not used to this and feel weird, any advice?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 341 days ago

16 December 2008 (F) - my boyfriend and i have been going out for more than a week now and today we were making out on the sofa and he got under my shirt and touched me through my jeans. I feel it's wrong and i dont want him to think im a slut but i feel so weird and i ...

I'm a virgin and plan to wear a condom, should I?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 343 days ago

14 December 2008 (M) - hi im a virgin and my girlfriend is not we have talked about sex and im all ok for it however i was wondering what would i do at the end when im am about to ejaculate i plan to wear a condom but i just dont know what to do thanks...

Is it normal to be 17 and not like sex?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 344 days ago

14 December 2008 (F) - Im 17years old and im not in to sex yet i like snogging my bf and touching him in places i and like to top half but if he take his boxer off in front of me i would probably run my mate is all ways saying to me have you not had sex w...

He said he will tell his friends he saw me naked! How do I get over him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 344 days ago

14 December 2008 (F) - Hi. I need help in getting over a guy that hurt me. It's a really bad situation. See, I was living w my friend and her brother in an apartment this semester. I guess me and my friend's brother fell for each other and started fooling around. ...

Will I regret losing my virginity like this forever?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 316 days ago

13 December 2008 (F) - Ok so when I was 15 I had this friend who really presured me to do this I didn't want to and I accidently clicked the wrong age thing I know I'm 16 now. Ok anyway so it was to the point where I did things I never would have done and believed things ...

How can I give a smooth blow job?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 346 days ago

12 December 2008 (F) - i've never given a guy a bj before. I want to know how I can go about taking initiative and doing it smoothly without making it into an awkward situation. also do guys find virgins a total turn off? ...

My boyfriend brought me a vibrator, I'm a virgin, how should I use it?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 346 days ago

12 December 2008 (F) - Hey This probably sounds really stupid but I don't know what it is, when you're meant to find out etc. My boyfriend recently bought me a vibrator and he keeps asking if I've used it yet. He's being sweet and not forceful and I want to try it out, h...

Will first time sex suck?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 347 days ago

12 December 2008 (M) - Hi. I was talking about the fact that I'm a virgin with this one girl, and I told her that I wanted it to have sentimental value when I finally lost it. She said that my first time will suck, and it's not all it's cracked up to be. I'm wondering.. ...

I'm a virgin unsure of what to do Advice please!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 338 days ago

11 December 2008 (M) - hi im a virgin and i have found out that in my girlfriends last relationship she lost her virginity im 16 and she is 15. im still a virgin and i want to have the best connection i can my my girlfriend however i feel that when the time comes for us ...

Should I give my virginty to him in one sided love?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 346 days ago

11 December 2008 (F) - I love my boyfriend. But he does not loves me. He says he just likes me as a good friend. He wants to have sex with me. Should I give my virginty to him in one sided love?...

Did I break up for the wrong reason?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 348 days ago

10 December 2008 (F) - my boyfriend and i quarrel over sex. we are both virgins and he wants to sex but i am not ready for sex. i called off the relationship yesterday cos i felt we both need a break to know if its infatuation. i really love him and already missing him. ...

Does dildo take away virginity?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 349 days ago

10 December 2008 (F) - I need to know if you already masturbated with a dildo but u didn't bleed at all does that mean you are still a virgin? Help please!...

"Fiancee" troubles...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 349 days ago

9 December 2008 (F) - Me and my fiencee have been together for 15 months. I call him he never answer phone most of the time. We use to spend alot of time together. I havnt seen him for 3 weeks i miss him and love him so much. It seems all he wants is sex. I no thats not ...

My BF wants to have sex, but I'm scared that it will hurt too much!!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 336 days ago

9 December 2008 (F) - lately my bf (of almost a year) and i have been joking around about sex we usually do foreplay and we both orgasm. were both virgins and i think he wants to take the next step so do i but im afraid its gonna hurt to muchh!! he says he'll be gentle ...

Is our sex illegal and considered rape? Also, could I be pregnant?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 344 days ago

9 December 2008 (F) - I had sex with my boyfriend for the first time and we didnt use any kind of protection. We are in a bit of a rut because he is 21 and I am 17. He left the decision to me about if we should or not, so can the law still call it a form of rape? It was ...

Do you still bleed after sex even if you've used tampons?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 343 days ago

9 December 2008 (F) - Do you still bleed the first time you have sex even though you have used tampons before?...

I'm a 20 year old male virgin and NEED help!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 335 days ago

8 December 2008 (M) - Hi, I am a 20 year old male virgin from Alberta, Canada. I seriously need help with this... I've never had a girlfriend, all through junior high, all through high school, and beyond. I still live at home with my parents, and I guess that kinda sc...

He lied about being a virgin when he met me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 349 days ago

8 December 2008 (F) - i have a huge problem, i found out my boyfriend of 3months who i love so much lied about being a virgin when he met me. he said he had slept with 3 people before me one of them being a girl who he lives with in his student accommodation which i was ...

Pressurised for sex, how can I avoid ejaculating very fast?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 350 days ago

8 December 2008 (M) - im getting pressured to have sex at my age and im afraid that i might cum right off the bat as soon as it starts. is there any way to help me not cum so quick?...

I'd like advice about losing my virginity

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 295 days ago

7 December 2008 (F) - I want to lose my virginity with my boyfriend.We are both virgins,and both the same age.Anyone have any tips on how the first time should be ?.So far,i have been on top of him while we were both wearing our underwear.I was just wearing my knickers ( ...

Terrified of losing my virginity!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 202 days ago

7 December 2008 (F) - Hello, I am a 13 year old girl and I'm terrified of losing my virginity. I know that losing your virginity is a big thing, and that it should all be out of love, but after reading something that can happen during it (pain, bleeding, etc) I realized ...

How can I even tell a guy that I've never done anything but kissing?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 350 days ago

7 December 2008 (F) - Haay, I'm nineteen and I've never been in love before. I have only kissed with a couple of guys before, but nothing more. But I really want to. Any tips for how to grow into this stuff. Cause I don't want to be clumsy when it all happens for the ...

I don't believe in getting intimate with any boy just to satisfy sexual needs, I want to wait for the "one". What do you think?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 325 days ago

7 December 2008 (F) - Hello friends. I am a 29 year old unmarried, virgin girl from India. I would like to discuss one of my beliefs with all of you. Hope you don't call me a psycho as all others call me. I have been a very outstanding student, always a topper. I am wor...

Do I tell my boyfriend that I'm not a virgin anymore?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 344 days ago

7 December 2008 (F) - Do I tell my new boyfriend im not a virgin anymore? I told him that I am but I want us to be honest to each other. So what do I do now? Do I tell him i'm not a virgin or do I let him think that I still am? Im 17. He is 21. Im not planning on having ...