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Archived questions from: November, 2011 (see latest in Virginity category)

Virginity: Help and advice

Is it possible to have sex four or five times in one night?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4169 days ago

25 November 2011 (F) - I was having a lighthearted chat with my boyfriend this morning about first-time sex. I'm a virgin, he's not, and after almost a year together we're planning to go through with it soon. So we were talking about condoms etc. and to cut a long sto...

Whats the best way to over come lust and temptation?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4531 days ago

25 November 2011 (M) - Whats the best way to over come lust and temptation? Even though I have chosen the single life, it seems that temptation is always around the corner and I get the urge to want sex. Iam a virgin so it makes things 100 times worse and im not religious ...

Should I give up and become a charity worker in rural Africa?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4537 days ago

24 November 2011 (F) - I'm a virgin. 30 years old and no prospects. I'm slim good looking etc etc but its just not happened. Should I give up and become a charity worker in rural Africa? I've been given the opportunity to teach Aids awareness in East Africa for about a ...

How do I move on? Lost all my friend. Broke up. Is it my fault that my ex now drinks so heavily and smokes weed? He never did those things with me.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4540 days ago

20 November 2011 (F) - Okay... This has been something that has affected my daily life for almost a year now. I'm fourteen I am a freshman and I start on the varsity basketball team. I have two parents who love me and have never given up on me after the horrible things I ...

All I do is think about sex!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4532 days ago

20 November 2011 (F) - I'm certainly not the first and I won't be the last to have this problem, but I can't stop thinking about sex. It's terrible! It started all of a sudden at the beginning of this month, and since then I haven't been able to concentrate on anything ...

He's had 6 gfs before me and I need to know the details. Should I ask?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4541 days ago

19 November 2011 (F) - My bf is the first proper bf I have had and the person I lost my virginity too. However, before me, he had a bout 6 proper gfs and has had sex with them all. This makes me feel a bit uncomfy, but I realise you can't usually get boys without history. ...

Is it weird going off to university as a virgin?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4484 days ago

17 November 2011 (F) - This is going to seem like a bit of an overreaction probably...and it's probably a silly question. I guess I'm feeling a little insecure about being a virgin. I'm only 17 and in my last year of school, but it's starting to look like I'll be hea...

I didn't bleeed when I lost my virginity this weekend. Did we do something wrong?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4546 days ago

14 November 2011 (F) - dear cupid, i lost my virginity this weekend. i will admit it hurt a lot for me, we did it for the second time (same night) and it was better the second time. however, i was quite disappointed because i dont think my cherry popped as there was no ...

He says he's given me 3 chances. Says he will not talk to me any more if I don't allow more than kisses and touching next time.What do I say to him?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 4502 days ago

14 November 2011 (F) - I like this guy ever since I was little , we grew up together and Finally one day we started texting dirty and he wants me to do stuff to him and I want to but I'm still a virgin and don't know if I could please him and I don't know how to do a ...

I'm scared my penis won't give her an orgasm because of what I've been doing to make it bigger!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4545 days ago

13 November 2011 (M) - I was watching a jelqing video because I want to make my penis longer and thicker, but the speaker said that too much pulling causes the tendons or ligaments or whatever to become weak which makes an erect penis not stand straight up and be ...

Will we ever be passionate again?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4549 days ago

13 November 2011 (F) - My relationship has been full of ups and downs. We have always been there for one another and we always have each other's back. We're best friends. But one day two years ago we broke up and I ended up seeing other people, but I didn't sleep with ...

A little primer on women and sex...

This question has 29 answers - newest was posted 4074 days ago

11 November 2011 (F) - A Primer on Women and Sex Look, we girls are funny. We don't sexually mature all overnight, our first sexual experiences are often painful, crappy and frankly unfulfilling on many levels. We don't know how to give blowjobs, most of us don't grow up ...

A week after his wedding (not to me)...he's sleeping on my floor. HELP my head is frying ? What do I do next?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4551 days ago

10 November 2011 (F) - Hi..I got friendly with a guy a few years ago. he was a single parent in a long distance relationship, we became friends..... I babysat the children, took them to school...grew to love all of them and we had some really fabulous 'family' times ...

Peer pressure about sex/virginity

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4551 days ago

10 November 2011 (F) - Heya! I was just wondering about some help for peer pressure. Basically I'm almost 18, but I'm still a virgin when all of my friends are not. I'm getting a bit sick of every conversation I have with my friends having something to do with sex as it ...

Should I tell him about my sex life in my teens?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4532 days ago

9 November 2011 (F) - so as a teen(maybe when i was 15 or 16 i had a boyfriend who i had gone out with for about 2-3 years. we had sex....and we were truly in love.... but then he moved. :( now i have a fiance. we've been dating for about 2 years. and i love him so ...

I'm a 21 year old male virgin, and it's killing my confidence. How am I supposed to deal with this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4543 days ago

7 November 2011 (M) - The situation: I'm a 21 year old male, in college, and despite attending a school famous for its academic programs and abundance of beautiful women, I'm still a virgin. Some clarifying information: 1. I have no religious or moral oppositio...

Ex says I should have sex with him because I owe him my virginity since he waited for me

This question has 21 answers - newest was posted 4552 days ago

7 November 2011 (F) - Me and my now ex-boyfriend just broke up because of me not being in love with him anymore. Although we're broken up, he's telling me to have sex with him so we can both loose our virginities and then he'll move on. He says if we do have sex, he'll ...

I have no clue what it's like to date, and I am still a virgin! Will I ever find love?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4555 days ago

6 November 2011 (M) - So here is the results,once again in 2011 I still haven't had any luck with girls,still don't have a clue what its like to be dating,be in a relationship or being loved,and yes I'm still a virgin.. you know its really hard to be in love alone and ...

Poll: What do you believe is synonymous with losing your virginity?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4226 days ago

6 November 2011 (F) - Ok, I want to know. I randomly thought of this today, and I wanted to hear everyones opinion on this, because I'm interested in what other people think. What, in your mind, is the loss of virginity? For girls: Is it breaking your hymen? I...

I feel overcome with guilt for failing my values. How can I move forward without guilt?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4553 days ago

4 November 2011 (F) - How is it possible to experience sexual tension if you've never had sex? I don't think that everyone would believe me if I were to tell them but I'm 32 and have never had sex with a man. I'm starting to feel so overcome with sexual tension t...

How do I tell my lesbian girlfriend to take it easy on me during sex without telling her I was a virgin before her?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4556 days ago

3 November 2011 (F) - Girlfriend is on a quest to sexually open me up. She doesn't like to use lube although she can be real rough during sex. I really really love her and she says she loves me....we've been together two years n being intimate for a yr and a half. We ...

Doubtful if I did the right thing.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4557 days ago

3 November 2011 (M) - Hi, When I was younger ( 4-5 years ago ) I started a relationship with a girl from my class. It went fine and was your run of the mill high school relationship. We used to chat for hours over the internet and phone. We would hold hands and talk in ...

Is it okay to set a mood for my first time?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4557 days ago

3 November 2011 (F) - I'm planning to lose my virginity to my boyfriend in the not-too-distant future, but while I'm excited about the prospect I know I'm going to be pretty nervous too! I'd like to create an atmosphere in the bedroom (nothing too extravagent - maybe ...

Could losing your virginity kick start your period?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4549 days ago

2 November 2011 (F) - Hello all, I lost my virginity a few days ago to my boyfriend of 2 years (yes, we used protection), and it all went quite well. I felt no pain and had no bleeding the actual night we had sex, but the day after (yesterday) I had a fair amount o...

Does anyone regret having sex too young and not waiting until marriage?

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 4559 days ago

1 November 2011 (F) - I'm just wondering had anyone regretting having sex too young, or not waiting till marriage as ive been in a steady relationship now for over a year and a half but havent had sex... me and my boyfriend are happy about this but im wondering about ...

Our parents have gone back on their word and decided to stop us from having sex, now I'm worried we will be banned from seeing each other!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4560 days ago

1 November 2011 (M) - Me and my girlfriend were all set to have sex for the first time but our parents ruined our plans at the last minute. It was made all the worse because it was meant to be a special moment at the end of a romantic night. I've just turned 16 and so...