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Archived questions from: July, 2007 (see latest in Virginity category)

Virginity: Help and advice

I'm a virgin at 18 because i want to wait for the right person, is this a silly idea?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 341 days ago

31 July 2007 (M) - Hi, I'm a virgin at 18, because I'm waiting for the right person to have my first time with. Do you think this is a silly thing to do, and that I should have done it differently? I've had the opportunity to, but would rather have it with another ...

He took my virginity and went back to his ex gf! Now he's back in contact..what should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 350 days ago

29 July 2007 (F) - I really need peoples opinions on this, so please help if you can.....i went out for 4 months last year with this guy lets call him A. I was head over heels in love with him, even though we didnt have the greatest relationship, anyway i lost my ...

Sex was too painful for my virgin girlfriend so we stopped; how can I help her stop feeling like she failed me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 351 days ago

28 July 2007 (M) - Me and my gf decided we were gonna have sex last other night but when we started it was hurting her and she said she wanted to stop for now so we did. I told her we could stop at any point and that i wouldn't think any less of her. We have been ...

14 and confused about whether I want sex or not! Help!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 363 days ago

28 July 2007 (F) - i am fourteen years old and i want to lose my virginity to a guy that i really like and he likes me to and i am totally confertable with him. i'm just not to sure i'm ready for the pain of it. I have given oral sex before to two guys and i have done ...

Is it ok to be a virgin the rest of your life and not be with any body ?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 351 days ago

28 July 2007 (F) - Is it ok to be a virgin the rest of your life until i die and not be with any body ? i am only in my 20's and since the time i was in my teens i decided not to be with anybody . this guy i know at my job says that i am crazy and then he said what ...

My ex left me and I lost my virginity to another girl; my ex is now back on the scene. How do I handle this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 364 days ago

27 July 2007 (M) - I am 20 years old, and I am going nuts now. My first ex left me for Bible college (pastor's daughter) and we never spoke for about a year, then I started dating this other girl, for almost 2 years and we lost our virginity to each other about a ...

Is this normal? Am I still a virgin?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 351 days ago

27 July 2007 (F) - hi! i have a question... today, my boyfriend and I were just watching tv. then, things led to another, and he started fingering me. im a virgin, so it hurt, and felt good at the same time. then, when everything was done i realized i was bleeding. it ...

Anyway if I start online dating which are the best ones and is it ok to tell them that I am a virgin?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 365 days ago

27 July 2007 (F) - I am a 22 year old virgin female not sure about online dating. Is it ok? Though I am trying to finish college I decided not to start dating until I am 25 or 26, however not only did my mother tell me not to date during junior high and high school ...

Worried I might be pregnant and people will think I'm a slut

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 177 days ago

26 July 2007 (F) - please help me ive had sex about 3 weeks ago it really scared me as im really young but i wanted to do it, he has been with me much more then 6 months hes really good to me but ive got scared when we was in the middle of it he goes 'is it still on...

All my friends make fun of me for being a virgin!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 365 days ago

26 July 2007 (F) - i have just turned sixteen in june. all my friends are a few months older than me but all lost their virginity when they just turned 15. so i have now turned into their virgin friend. when were are all out together and the subject of sex turns into ...

We haven't had sex. I love him but I'm not sure I feel any lust for him... How do I feel lust?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 366 days ago

25 July 2007 (F) - This may sound weird, but my boyfriend and I are in love and I love being with him, he makes me happy, I make him happy. We cuddle, snuggle, kiss and hug. BUT we haven't had s*x yet. We have a great relationship, but how do I bring lust into it? I ...

Why are so many children having sex?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 354 days ago

24 July 2007 (M) - Hi. This is a general question, rather than help really, and for all the young people to think about perhaps. Ok, here it is..... Why are so many very young people having sex under 16 years old? For a start the legal age for it is no...

My ex who took my virginity wants to get together

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 367 days ago

24 July 2007 (F) - I really need peoples opinions on this, so please help if you can.....i went out for 4 months last year with this guy lets call him A. I was head over heels in love with him, even though we didnt have the greatest relationship, anyway i lost my ...

Is it wrong to give your virginity away as a birthday present?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 361 days ago

24 July 2007 (F) - is it wrong to give your virginity to some1 you love for his birdthday? after 3 months ? or should i wait :S ...

I'm 13 and my 17 year old boyfriend and I had sex; he said he'd pull out when he came but I don't think he did it fast enough. Could I be pregnant?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 357 days ago

24 July 2007 (F) - hiya im a 13 year old girl,and i lost my virginity to my 17 year old boyfriend on saturday but we didnt use a condom!and now im scared incase im pregnant!!befor we had sex he said that befor cuming in my vagina he will remove his penis but im not to ...

I want to give my ex boyfriend my virginity as a birthday present

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 367 days ago

23 July 2007 (F) - well heres the thing. i'm 14. iv'e split up with my boyfriend about a month ago now. but i still love him very much. lately he's started speaking to me again like how things used to be. i asked him what he wanted for his birthday and his answer ...

I bleed every time we have sex!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 351 days ago

19 July 2007 (F) - My boyfriend and I just recently started having sex and everytime we do, I end up bleeding! I thought it was normal the first time but now I'm starting to think there's something wrong with me because I always start bleeding whenever we try to have ...

I am 13 and I want to lose my virginity

This question has 34 answers - newest was posted 31 days ago

19 July 2007 (F) - i am a 13 year old girl and want 2 loose my virginity but the thing is i do not no how to have sex and plus im scared if i bleed whilst having sex!!is there any chances that i will bleed?and my mates say that you cant walk after wards is that ...

I'm 14 and I'm scared to have sex with my 17 year old boyfriend; he wants me to get pregnant!

This question has 39 answers - newest was posted 57 days ago

19 July 2007 (F) - i am a 14 year old girl and i am going out with a seventeen year old boy and i am stuck in a situation because he wants to have sex with me but im scared because i do not no what to do when having sex!!and he said that he wants to get me pregnant ...

I'm 14 and considering having sex for the first time... I'm scared! My Mum says I should wait it out, what should I do?

This question has 22 answers - newest was posted 40 days ago

18 July 2007 (F) - hi im 14 and considering having sex for the 1st time the thing is im really scared ive talked to my mum she told me that il enjoy it more if i wait and if i really like the guy i do it with. i think shes only saying this to prevent me from having ...

My boyfriend wants to make love but my ex wants mad sex! Who do I choose?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 367 days ago

18 July 2007 (F) - hey i need advice how do i decide between my boyfriend and my ex??? i'm a virgin n i really love my boyfriend n my ex. i think i'm ready to go all the way but the problem is i want them both to b my first...i kno its not possible but i cant decid...

How can I relax more when I have sex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 367 days ago

18 July 2007 (M) - Hi I'm 19 and I'm still a virgin and am worried that I may have trouble losing it as I'm quite shy and also when I have tried before I have either not been able to penetrate or sustain an erection.. please help.....

After we lost our viginity to each other-she stopped talking to me! Any advice?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 367 days ago

17 July 2007 (M) - hey i have been with my gf for nearly a year now and we lost our virginity's to each other the other day and now she wont talk to me ,what have i done wrong i didn't force her into it and i made sure she was ready plz help ...

We want to wait until we're engaged or married before we lose our virginity; what can we do in the meantime?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 375 days ago

16 July 2007 (?) - Me and my girlfriend have been together for 3 1/2 months and things are starting to get a bit more physical. We haven't had sex, far from it probably, but each time we are together, we always seem to touch a little bit more. Go a little bit farther. ...

Is being fingered with more than one finger meant to hurt?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 88 days ago

15 July 2007 (F) - My boyfriend fingered me for the first time recently. And when he used 1 finger it felt fine. But when he tried to use more fingers it was really painful and then it started to bleed slightly. I'm really worried because its not meant to hurt is it? ...

I didn't bleed, does this mean I'm still a virgin?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 376 days ago

15 July 2007 (F) - I had sex with my ex fiance for many times but I didn't bleed! Does this mean I still have the hymen? I don't want to tell anybody that I had sex. How can I hide this thing from my future fiance? other than surgery. plz help me ...

I didn't bleed during my first time, am I still a virgin?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 376 days ago

15 July 2007 (F) - i had sex with my ex fiance for many times but i didnt bleed! does this mean im still virgin? because we separated and im afraid of the future, i dont want to tell any body that i had sex.how can i hide this thing from my future fiance? other than ...

I want to take things to the next stage with him and have sex.. but, I'm a virgin...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 367 days ago

14 July 2007 (F) - Hey. I've been dating this guy for about 3 months now. He's soo gentlemanly and that's one of the many things I like about him. He can be quite shy and he always waits for me to make the first move and kiss him first. I want to take things to the ...

She told me she was a virgin but when we had sex she didn't bleed; is it true your hymen can break in other ways?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 351 days ago

13 July 2007 (M) - Hi i have a question my gf told me that she was a virgin when we first did it she didnt bleed she said that it can break at anytime not only when sex she had done Karate and other sports could this be true?she also said that you can even break it ...

How do you make love? How do you make it pleasurable?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 378 days ago

12 July 2007 (F) - I have a really basic question. How do you make love? I'm a virgin, and I've learned from health classes and such in schools about sex. I understand biologically what is supposed to happen, but that's not quite what I want to know. How do you make ...

Will I bleed when I lose my virginity?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 379 days ago

12 July 2007 (F) - I bled when I was fingered and it was a bit sore. Does that mean my hymen was broken? Does that mean I will not bleed when I have sex for the first time?...

I have been married 2 years, but I am still a virgin!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 358 days ago

12 July 2007 (F) - I am in need of urgent help. I am almost 28 years old and married since last two years now. it was a love marriage and we both love each other a lot. But i am still a virgin. I am just so scared of the pain even before we start kissing that i do not ...

I told her that I was a virgin. Well she laughed at me... I'm not too sure how I should feel about this.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 379 days ago

10 July 2007 (M) - Here's the story, I am 20 soon to be 21 (in a week) A couple days ago I met this girl and we got to talking. As the conversation evolved, we ended up talking about sex. Well this is the point where I told her that I was a virgin. Well she laughed ...

Can someone help me sort out my life and show me how to have a positive outlook?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 381 days ago

10 July 2007 (M) - hey guys just wanted your help plz. I have been with my girlfriend for nearly 7 months, we have a good relationship. I don't know whether I'm in love with her, but I do feel close to her. She says she has never felt like this for anyone ...

My gf and I are going to have sex for the first time. She's afraid of the pain, so what can we do to make it more pleasurable for her?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 378 days ago

10 July 2007 (M) - hi me and my gf are planning on having sex tomorrow night for the first time. We are both virgins and old enough. We have been great friends most of our school lives so we know each other well. The thing is shes terrified of the pain and is afraid ...

Worried that when we have sex, it will hurt her given our experiences so far!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 381 days ago

10 July 2007 (M) - My girlfriend and I are getting to the stage where we are ready for intercourse but I am worried as when I tried to finger her before, as soon as I entered her even slightly she was lots of pain. If my finger hurts her when its not even going in, ...

I turn 20 soon and im still a virgin. Is that okay?

This question has 22 answers - newest was posted 291 days ago

9 July 2007 (F) - I turn 20 soon and im still a virgin. Is that okay? I wanted to wait until i was in a serious relationship before i had sex but now i dont know if i should just go out and sleep with someone because of the whole age-pressure thing?...

Told my friends I'm a virgin and it seems all they want to talk about now is sex!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 373 days ago

9 July 2007 (F) - Hey there, I feeling a bit let down by friends right now. A few days ago i told my friends i was a virgin (I'm 19). It's something i dont have a problem with and im quite proud of myself for not sleeping around and having one night stands. I feel ...

Afraid my small weiner will put her off!

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 90 days ago

6 July 2007 (M) - This is really urgent i am new to ths so i hope it gets sent out. I have a really small penis it is roughly 5 inches when erect. Can anyone tell me what the average size is? But thats not all my girl wants us to masturbate each other this SATURDAY. ...

I want to have sex with my girlfriend to bring us closer but she wants to wait

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 385 days ago

6 July 2007 (M) - Hi there. Im a 17year old virgin. Well... ive been with my girlfriend for 5 months now. I love her so much but i wanna feel so much more. And we were discussing sex. And she says shes going to wait til she gets married. I heard sex takes your ...

Is first time sex painful for men??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 386 days ago

5 July 2007 (F) - dunno why im gonna ask this question so here goes when ur havin sex for da first time it might be painful women but is it painful for a man...

Me and my boyfriend have been together 5 weeks and we are both virgins and are both ready for sex.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 384 days ago

5 July 2007 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have been together 5 weeks and we are both virgins and are both ready for sex. We are both nervous and don't know how to approach it. We tell each other everything and are completely comfortable with each other. Please help and ...

Do you bleed on your first few times having sex, or just on your first?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 363 days ago

5 July 2007 (F) - Do You bleed on your first few times of having sex or just your first ??...

Will my boyfriend be able to tell that I am a virgin?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 381 days ago

5 July 2007 (F) - My Boyfriend Thinks I Have had Sex But Im A Virgin Will He Know?...

How will oral sex feel?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 387 days ago

4 July 2007 (F) - My friend and I are thinking about oral sex. This is my first time. I was wondering when he goes down on me, how does it feel?...

I want to hide the fact that I'm not a virgin.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 376 days ago

2 July 2007 (F) - hy i had sex with my boy friend for 8 to 12 time, now i am going to marry a man of my parents choice, i want to start a good life, i want to hide that am not virgin. how can i do this pleas help me. pleas...

We haven't had sex in our 5 year relationship because of contraceptive worries

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 390 days ago

2 July 2007 (M) - I'm a rare brand of guy, I'm 22 and a virgin. I've been with my girlfriend for slightly under five years now. We never had sex yet because well, I always assumed at some point she would get birth control. I was hoping she'd get the birth contr...

We want to take things further without having sex; what do we do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 389 days ago

1 July 2007 (M) - Yesterday my girlfreind slept over at my house and when my parents went to bed we watched a DVD and when it finished we snuggeled on the sofa and all night she hinted and told me she wanted to take the relationship further without having sex. This...

Sex is still hurting after several times of doing it

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 373 days ago

1 July 2007 (F) - A couple of weeks ago i had sex for the very first time with my boyfriend of 3 months. Since then we've had sex a LOT...the weird thing is though, its still hurting me and Im pretty sure my hymen is still, intact. Can anyone PLEASE explain w...