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writes:I got dumped just about a month ago. There was nothing wrong with our relationship, we got on very well and he did not dump me because of a bad relationship, but because he felt we were very different. He still loves me and meant everything he said. He is very complicated and overthinks things a lot, making them much more complicated and confusing for him.I still see him at school and the problem - if you can call it that - is that despite telling me to leave him alone and not allowing us to be friends, he still looks at me throughout the day. It has become so frequent that I have come to expect it. The way he looks at me and occasionally talks to me reminds me of when we were friends before. He doesn't like a mate talking about girlfriends and got uncomfortable, breaking the eye contact earlier today.He has confused me. From the signs he has shown he still likes me, but what he has said doesnt say the same.What does he really want? Is there anything I could do or is it just best to leave him to work it out himself? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 September 2010): Ive been in a situation very similar to yours and all i can say is leave him be. ignore the way he looks at you and move on. that is the only thing that will work.
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reader, dirtball  +, writes (27 September 2010):
 I think it would be best if you left him to work things out. He may still like you, but whatever his reasons for breaking things off, you're better off if you move on.
He passed up on a good thing. His reasons don't matter as much as his actions. It's time for you to chalk this up as his loss and move on. If his staring at you makes you uncomfortable, tell him.
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (27 September 2010):
Leave him to work it out. If he ended things, no matter what he says, he still wanted out of the relationship. You now need to start moving on, because you don't want to be pushed and pulled around with this guy. If he really loved you, he would not have dumped you. You now need to accept that it's over and move on.
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (27 September 2010):
Leave him to work it out. If he ended things, no matter what he says, he still wanted out of the relationship. You now need to start moving on, because you don't want to be pushed and pulled around with this guy. If he really loved you, he would not have dumped you. You now need to accept that it's over and move on.
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