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How can I get my mind off of my male teacher?

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Question - (30 September 2010) 1 Answers - (Newest, 30 September 2010)
A male United States age 26-29, anonymous writes:

I'm 13, and my band director is male, and is married to a woman. He looks to bein his 40's, and just had I child. I've had a crush on him for a few years, and I know I'll never get a shot, because it's illegal, and he isn't gay, but ... What can I do to get my mind off of him?

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A male reader, AvgGuy1 United States +, writes (30 September 2010):

AvgGuy1 agony auntWe all have crushes on our teachers, coaches, etc... It just happens. Mainly because we project onto them what we think they are like or what we want them to be.

I know it's hard to believe but you'll eventually get over it... most likely when someone else, that you find really attractive, comes along. I know this is a really simplistic answer... but it's just the way things happen.

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