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Archived questions from: 4 March, 2009 (see latest in Teenage category)

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Teenage: Help and advice

He wants me to smoke weed with him before we have sex... what should I do?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5535 days ago

4 March 2009 (F) - My boyfriend wants to have sex with me but he also wants me to smoke WEED with him before we do it so I can get high. I don't know if I should because I'm worried that if he gets high he'll forget to put a condom on and I might get pregnent. What ...

A question strictly for the men aunts!!!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5535 days ago

4 March 2009 (F) - Okay guys, would you want a straight girl that would have sex with you or a bi girl that would let you have sex with her and her girlfriend?...

My ex boyfriend is stalking me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5534 days ago

4 March 2009 (F) - About 4 months ago I broke up with an ex boyfriend and then a got together with another boy... me and my boyfriend have been together for 3 months and I think my Ex is stalking me because he always calls me follows me, emails me and when he calls me ...

Is it true that you can catch sexual infections/illnesses from having sex a lot?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5537 days ago

4 March 2009 (F) - Is it true that you can catch sexual infections/illnesses from having sex a lot?...

My boyfriend wants to have sex for the 1st time

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5537 days ago

4 March 2009 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have been dating for 3 months now and he thinks we should have sex but I'm a little scared because it's my 1st time and I'm also a little scared that I might get Pregnant, I mean I do love my boyfriend but I don't know what I ...

I have bad results from masturbating too much.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5537 days ago

4 March 2009 (F) - Hey so I'm only 15 and I've masturbated since like fifth or sixth grade. I think I may have over done it cuz it just doesn't... look the same down there. Does anyone else have this problem or is it just me? And if so, is it reversable?...

"A roll in the hay!!!"

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5536 days ago

4 March 2009 (F) - We sometime use the term “a roll in the hay” when referring to sex. Has anyone every had sex in a barn? Was it a good location? In what parts of the barn did you do it in? Did you actually have sex in the hay? What positions did you use? ...

Went on a date, he told me he fancied me but wants to take thing slow... how do I read this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5537 days ago

4 March 2009 (F) - I recently went on a date and it went really well and I felt like we really connected. When the date was over he told me that he really fancied me and really liked me etc but wanted to take it slow.... how do I read this? and how should I act? ...

I'm worried he might be a paedo!

This question has 21 answers - newest was posted 5527 days ago

4 March 2009 (F) - Help. I'm 15, and recently been talking to this guy. He's really sweet, but he's 20. I'm worried he might be a peado, but he has already said he does not want to see me until I'm 16, and he'll wait to be with me until I'm ready. He explained h...

How can I let her know that I would like to see her naked? How can I warm her up to the idea?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5537 days ago

4 March 2009 (M) - My girlfriend and I started off just as friends. Now we are boyfriend and girlfriend. We kiss sometimes. We are entering our teen age years. We are learning about human sexuality. It seems important to us and our relationship. I think an important ...

How can I get his parents to understand?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5537 days ago

4 March 2009 (F) - I'm in a horrible situation. It involves the same guy as my last question. Everything was going okay then he told me he couldn't see me because his parents didn't like the sound of it because of the age gap. I didn't hear from him in about a week ...

How do I convince him to give it a go?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5537 days ago

4 March 2009 (F) - Okay, so I started liking this guy for about a year now, since I joined track last year. He responded back, and we flirted a lot. Then he got kicked out of the team, and we didn't see each other much. Now, when we start a new school year and I see ...

What happens if you have the cervical cancer jab and you have already had sex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5537 days ago

4 March 2009 (F) - What happens if you have the cervical cancer jab and you have already had sex? I am not asking because I am in the situation, I am just wondering because people have said lots about them....

My boyfriend cheated on me, but I know we love each other. Please help.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5536 days ago

4 March 2009 (F) - Hello everyone- I really need some advice. My boyfriend of 5 months just cheated on me. I dont know what to think or how to act. I know he loves me and i love him. He is my soulmate. He admitted everything. I found the condoms in his car, and ...

Is it normal that I'm 17 and wanting a baby?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5535 days ago

4 March 2009 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend a while now, and we've never used protection whilst having sex. We did to start with, then on two occasions neither of us had any, so we decided to do it without. Now this has become a regular thing, and protection ...

If we have sex more than once at a time, I have stomach cramps for at least a day afterwards. What's going on?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5537 days ago

4 March 2009 (F) - Recently i've started sleeping with my boyfriend, and i've noticed something strange. If we have sex more than once at a time, I have stomach cramps for at least a day afterwards. What confuses me is that i've had sex previously, again more than ...

Love or just friendship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5537 days ago

4 March 2009 (F) - There's this boy that I am REALLY good friends with him. I have been fancing him really badly since ages, and I know that he knows that, but he also knows that I am not allowed 2 have a boyfriend so I don't know how he thinks about me. Everyone ...

I want this crazy sex addiction to stop now!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5537 days ago

4 March 2009 (M) - Hi guys 'n gals. I'm a 19 year old dude who is CRAZY about sex. I can't go even 2 days without getting some and I always use a condom but I just don't wanna go on like any more. It's like I'm dependent on sex. I have 3 girlfriends currently. If I ...

How can I make this weekend special?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5530 days ago

4 March 2009 (F) - Me and my bf have been going out just over a month (was a month on monday) :). I've always had a little thing for him aswell. Anyways... We spend the weekends round each others houses (he lives an hours bus ride away, but we both go to the same c...

Can anyone help me out with this psp game please???

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5537 days ago

4 March 2009 (F) - Sorry this is not a relationship question. But I knew heaps of people go on this site daily, please can you post my question. I'm playing gangs of london on psp and need to know what street names are the marble arch, buckingham palace, wellington ...

I have recently got myself into such a mess, and it's making me feel even worse than I did before, I just want your take on this guys.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5537 days ago

4 March 2009 (F) - I have recently got myself into such a mess, and it's making me feel even worse than I did before. Admittedly, I have very low self esteem and do not value myself as highly as I should do - which causes a lot of problems when it involves the opp...

I was told, after asking a question, that I was not pretty, it deflated my self-esteem, please help?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5537 days ago

4 March 2009 (F) - I have always had a very good outlook on life and have had a fairly high self esteem up until this year. It is my junior year in high school and I am 16. It was not until this year that I noticed that no guys pay any attention to me and that all of ...

My masturbation technique is not as effective as it used to be, what happened?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5538 days ago

4 March 2009 (F) - This is a little awkward but here goes. I have been masturbating a lot lately but recently I have noticed a "change". Before when I was masturbating, my clit became somewhat umm "hard" if that makes any sense. But now, its soft all the time and it ...

My girl is skinny, I am big, how do we manage intercourse, more so how do I approach her to do it?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5537 days ago

4 March 2009 (M) - How do i pop the question on my hot and skinny GF? She's pretty small and i've done everything except intercourse with her, but how should we do it? we already talked about it and were ready but should i do it? where though? I know about condoms, ...

Need to hear from people who have broken up with their first love and re-connected after many years?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5537 days ago

4 March 2009 (?) - Has anyone broken up with their first real love only to get back together for good later on in life? I love him with all my heart and Im finding it possible that my heart keeps breaking more and more every day he's not here. its been seven months ...

Are we ever going to be more than friends?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5538 days ago

4 March 2009 (M) - Ok so me and this girl like eachother but I haven't been talking to her and she wants to move it down a notch and just be friends the problem is I still like her too much to let this happen I wish she would let me talk to her like in a more privite ...

I am 16, going to have sex for the first time, how can we make it special?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5534 days ago

4 March 2009 (F) - I'm 16. My boyfriend is 18. We've been dating for almost a year now and we had a long talk and I decided that I was ready to give up my virginity to him. He's done it before and I want it to be special for the both of us. Does anyone have any ...

Having a very hard time getting over this broken relationship. any tips for healing?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5537 days ago

4 March 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I broke up and we had a pretty good relationship, but a pretty bad break up.. its been a month and some any tips or stories of how anybody else got over there break ups.. and moved on would be appreciated im hurting really ba...

He broke up w/his g/f, says he's bi-curious, but nothing is happening

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5536 days ago

4 March 2009 (M) - okay, so heres the deal: there is this guy, he says hes straight, had a girlfriend, and I really like him. He knows it, he told me that if he was gay he would be interested in being with me. Were really good friends and I've heard rumors that he'...

Did I realize that I don't want a world without him in it?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5538 days ago

4 March 2009 (F) - So me and this guy have been dating off and on since may 08. We have dated a total of three times: once from may-june, once from september-october and then december to now. Both times i was the one to break things off. Each time the reason given wa...

I told her I'm bi and now she's telling everyone. What is up with this girl?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5538 days ago

4 March 2009 (F) - I've explained this so many times, but hey another time won't kill me. So there is this girl I have or thought I had fallen in love with. Everything's confusing right now. I am a girl also. I have known her for about 7 months. I told her I was bi, ...

I need ideas... What can I do to show her that I really do love her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5538 days ago

4 March 2009 (M) - Can someone please help me? My girlfriend says that I don't love her but I do and she said she'll forgive me if I show that I cared abt her.. how can I show her that I care? I really need help, I'm a clueless person and this is my first ...

He seems to be ignoring me online... how can I get him to come back and chat with me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5538 days ago

4 March 2009 (F) - I'm an IDIOT! I'm really not sure how to handle this situation, so I really need help! I've been trying to flirt up this one guy that I just so happen to find extremely hot and amazing and all this other crap and then I go on MySpace and find out he ...

How to tell a guy you like them without sounding like a moron?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5538 days ago

4 March 2009 (F) - How do you tell a guy you like them? There's this guy, he's flirty with me, we get on really well, he thinks I'm beautiful, etc etc. We've been speaking for about two half half months (gosh, time flies). We went to the cinema together, he sai...

I would love to have sex with her but I don't want to lose my virginity just yet.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5513 days ago

4 March 2009 (M) - Hi aunts, I need some advice. I have a girlfriend and I absolutely adore her, she feels the same way about me, and I'll never do anything to pressure her or hurt her. See I'm a pretty nice guy (14), really sensitive and caring, I'm not like those ...