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He seems to be ignoring me online... how can I get him to come back and chat with me?

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Question - (4 March 2009) 3 Answers - (Newest, 4 March 2009)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

I'm an IDIOT! I'm really not sure how to handle this situation, so I really need help! I've been trying to flirt up this one guy that I just so happen to find extremely hot and amazing and all this other crap and then I go on MySpace and find out he took me off his friend's list. And just today, he didn't want to talk when I said, 'Bye.' And then on AIM today, I asked him a question pertaining to this situaton and he signs off without answering.

Did I scare him away? And how do I get him to "come back"? I want him so unbelievably badly but I really do think I came on too quickly and too... I don't know. This isn't good. Somebody please help!

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (4 March 2009):

Yeah, we're in a class together at college and we're even in the same group for this project in that class. We do have a few mutual friends, but the connection between us is a little far down the line. By the way, time and I do not mix. I hate having to wait for crap and yet, that's all my life's ever been. I'm sick of waiting, I want him now!

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A female reader, PrincessSmithee Ireland +, writes (4 March 2009):

PrincessSmithee agony auntwould you mind answering my question please, im in a bit of a pickle too :(

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A female reader, PrincessSmithee Ireland +, writes (4 March 2009):

PrincessSmithee agony auntopps bad move :(

ermm what did you say to him, was you really foward like 'your fit, i want you!' lol

erm i really dont know, its pretty messed up now.

Do you see him in real life or have mutal friends?

maybe you could try and be around him , and justt seem really cool. Just give him a little smile or something.

if you dont, i can only suggest you just wait to see if he adds you back, or maybe if you cna get in contact with him, just act cool .. guys dont like it when girls come on too strong.

So if you do get the chance to speak to him again just be like 'hey, how are you?' just casual.

If he doesnt speak to you again, just leave it for a week oer two. theres not much you can do, only time will tell.

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