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My low confidence convinces me I can't be liked.. so should I just not bother with this guy?

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Question - (1 August 2009) 3 Answers - (Newest, 1 August 2009)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

I reallly like this boy i met out a few nights ago. I gave him a lift home and he kissed me in the car before getting out and We swapped numbers.

The problem is, he is way out of my league. There is a slim chance he may really like me, but probably, when he sees me properly and gets to know me he won't. So i don't know what to do.

Should i meet up with him?

I know i should, just incase but i'm probably just setting myself up to be disapointed (like i did recently-and it was horrible), and it will just knock my confidence, so i'm thinking maybe i'll just forget him, what do you think i should do?

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A female reader, Love is all you need United Kingdom +, writes (1 August 2009):

Love is all you need agony auntNo don't forget him otherwise you'll spend your whole life thinking what if.

He gave you his number he kissed you he wants you to meet him, otherwise he wouldn't have gave you his no. If you keep meeting a really ice guy and say he won't like me once he knows me your not gonna have anyone. Of coure he'll like you, you'll find out you have more in comon than you'll ever believe. he can nly like you more.....go for it

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A female reader, xsugarx Cyprus +, writes (1 August 2009):

youll never meet anyone this way if you keep putting yourself down like this.. meet up with him be yourself and if he likes you for who your are then GREAT . you shouldnt have to change for anyone if they ask you to, then, there not worht it. the guy obviously likes you otherwise he wouldnt of kissed you and he wouldnt of given his number to you go on give it a go .... what do you have to loose there are loads more plently fish in the sea :D

hope ive helped xxx

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A female reader, hotredhead United Kingdom +, writes (1 August 2009):

hotredhead agony auntdon't put yourself down woman! Remember confidence is attractive! and no one is out of your league anyone that thinks that about you is immature and not worth your time.

Since you only met him a couple of nights ago it's probably worth meeting up with him again as they say..nothing ventured nothing gained.

You will never know if you don't try,and if you don't try you will probably regret it and i'm sure in meeting him a few times his intentions toward you will become clear

hope this helps

good luck x

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