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51-59,
anonymous
writes:Hi everyone.I live in different country from my gf.We call, text and chat online.She usually call every few days by using a prepaid phone. She always text and despite those, we still chat a lot online.Few weeks after that, the text get delayed a lot and sometimes, it doesn't reach. She decided not to use the prepaid phone. She then use calling card to call.Months ago, she hasn't call. I asked her, she said the calling card can't connect. She has to press 50 numbers and that frustrate her.I told her it is ok because I can call like I always do. But, she always miss the call, doesn't matter when I call. She said, her phone in handbag and she couldn't hear it.I wouldn't be worried if we still talk the way we used to. Now, she barely say a word to me online. I tried to talk to her but she won't take part in the conversation.I told her if she met someone else, she can tell me instead I stayed in this situation. That makes her mad.Please advice. Thank you
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 May 2009): If it is months since she called and there is little other contact then it doesn't sound very promising. She should have the decency to tell you though, if she wants to finish it. It all sounds very difficult.
My advice is try to get over her and find someone nearer. Relationships are hard enough as it is without all that strain.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 May 2009): This really doesn't sound good to me. I think she's fading fast. A long distance relationships takes great perseverence and a lot of contact to keep it going on a good path. If she's not talking to you via the phone, hasn't much to say online to you, nor is answering your calls, it sounding like she's grown complacent and really is not into this LD relationship, anymore. I think you should give her one last call, and ask her to be honest and straight forward with you. Find out where she stands but you do need to hear from her and it has to be the truth. Ask her for that respect...and be willing to take what she says, by behaving like a gentleman and not losing it.
I am sorry but she has the right to do whatever makes her happy. And if this relationship is too hard for her to maintain, then that may be just the way it is, my friend.
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