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41-50,
*fticam
writes:Here goes, I met this guy on a music download site and we hit it off right away. We exchanged numbers and our picture were up on the site so we knew what the other one looked like With into weeks he was telling me that he had strong feelings for me and how he thought about me all the time. He pursued me like a demon until I finally was caught and admitted that I had feelings for him as well. We stayed on the phone all night long and talked every day, and he always told me that he would never hurt me, and how he loves me so much. So two months later he was suppose to visit me. And everything that could go wrong went wrong. The day he was suppose to come see me he call me at like 9:24am and told me he was leaving out, he lives in NY and I live in MD, so this is only a 4 hour drive 5 at the most. I left him so many messages, and by the time I got to the last message I was a little upset and said some things out of anger. I didn’t hear from him until 7:00am the next day. Where he told me he was in a car accident where someone crashed in the side of him. He told me that he would send me the pictures of the accident if I like I said no. then he said he heard the message that I left. And the only message that he got was the last one were I was angry he didn’t listen to all the messages before were I was worried and wanted him to tell me he was ok. We got off the phone and then he called me back. And apologized to me and said I he just listen to all the other messages. he said I have every right to be mad at him and I was very patient and he is now convinced more then ever that he can’t find another girl like me. I told him that I could take a train to visit him, but he said no he was the one who said he wanted to come see me and that is want he was gonna do. He told me he was gonna borrow his moms car and he would leave the house at 2pm and be here by 7:00pm. I didn’t here from him again until 4:00pm the next day. This was how the conversation went: he called I picked up he said baby it seem like we weren’t suppose to see each other this weekend we are gonna have to go with your plan (taking the train) he said let me call you back I have to let my phone charge for 10min. he started talking to some else beside him and told them that he told me that he needed to charge his phone for 10 min. I asked who that was he was talking to he said it was his mother. He said let me call you back in 10min I said you promise he said yes. We got off the phone he called me right back and said baby make sure your phone is charged keep your phone with you at all times. I said ok. That was the last time I heard from him. When I call it goes to voice mail or it rings then goes to voice mail, and now it saying that It is temporary disconnected, but sometimes when I call it goes to voice mail. I have been calling him like crazy. (He does have some problems with is phone at times.)Now these are my questions1. Is he mad at me2. does he still love me3. what should I do now4. why isn’t he calling me back5. when will he call me6. Should I be worried?
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 May 2009): The first big, glaring, red flag was that he came on so strong telling you he'd never hurt you and that he loves you when he's never even met you. I knew the rest of the post would be a train wreck. Who knows what happened to him but I can tell you this: He's not someone to take seriously.
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