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Student of Psychology, Degree in Nursing with wide variety of experience. Mother, daughter, sister, wife, ex, neice, grandaughter, student, boss, colleague....you get the picture.
Interested in impulse control disorders, like chocolate, cheese, Tintin, travelling, Pepsi max, Cracker, Tony Soprano, eddie Izzard, toilet humour, Family guy - shall I go on?
Adore my family and friends. Love to help others, abuse survivor, rape survivor, holder of family record for cherry pip spitting......
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In love with a married man, but how do I cope with our break up?
Q. Hi, i hope you can help me out of this absurd situation. i fell in love with a guy i work with in the same office, he is married, with two kids. out of guilt we both called it a very close friendship, then he called me his soul mate and then his...
A. 12 December 2006: You are merely a diversion. He has told you that it will never 'be' between you in the way you want it. What more can he say? Whilst you feed into his little pretend fantasy world you destroy your own self esteem, you are allowing his behaviour ... (read in full...)
Why can't I get my girlfriend's past sex life out of my head?
Q. Hey out there, I'm going crazy. Well I'm having trouble with my girlfriend's past. She has had sex with 15 other guys and had sexual relations with at least 6 more. I try not to bring it up but it comes up in my head a lot, to the point where I get ...
A. 23 June 2006: I am not ignorant dear male anon, you are. You are spouting your beliefs as you ahve done many many times before. The sexual revolution has not come about in one generation as you claim...go read up on your social history sweetie and get you facts ... (read in full...)
Why can't I get my girlfriend's past sex life out of my head?
Q. Hey out there, I'm going crazy. Well I'm having trouble with my girlfriend's past. She has had sex with 15 other guys and had sexual relations with at least 6 more. I try not to bring it up but it comes up in my head a lot, to the point where I get ...
A. 5 June 2006: Don't believe EVERYTHING you read in the papers, and remember Paul Mac had a past too!... (read in full...)
Why can't I get my girlfriend's past sex life out of my head?
Q. Hey out there, I'm going crazy. Well I'm having trouble with my girlfriend's past. She has had sex with 15 other guys and had sexual relations with at least 6 more. I try not to bring it up but it comes up in my head a lot, to the point where I get ...
A. 23 May 2006: I genuinely feel for the guy who posted this question. It must be awful to have an image in your head of what has happened before. I feel very much for any man/woman who cannot deal with a partner's past. I find it a little disturbing that no ... (read in full...)
Why can't I get my girlfriend's past sex life out of my head?
Q. Hey out there, I'm going crazy. Well I'm having trouble with my girlfriend's past. She has had sex with 15 other guys and had sexual relations with at least 6 more. I try not to bring it up but it comes up in my head a lot, to the point where I get ...
A. 23 May 2006: patronising, patronising, patronising
write it out three times and stand in the corner.... (read in full...)
Why can't I get my girlfriend's past sex life out of my head?
Q. Hey out there, I'm going crazy. Well I'm having trouble with my girlfriend's past. She has had sex with 15 other guys and had sexual relations with at least 6 more. I try not to bring it up but it comes up in my head a lot, to the point where I get ...
A. 23 May 2006: Try a husband who thinks your bit of a petronising bugger too!!
Sorry to blow your theory out of the water honey!!
xx... (read in full...)
Why can't I get my girlfriend's past sex life out of my head?
Q. Hey out there, I'm going crazy. Well I'm having trouble with my girlfriend's past. She has had sex with 15 other guys and had sexual relations with at least 6 more. I try not to bring it up but it comes up in my head a lot, to the point where I get ...
A. 22 May 2006: was controlled by men....dearie, gosh what a fabulous bedside manner you have....
Your opinions are outdated. You are right men did these things, but not to exploit women. They did it for monetary gain. A man in a little lab somewhere didn't thin... (read in full...)
Why can't I get my girlfriend's past sex life out of my head?
Q. Hey out there, I'm going crazy. Well I'm having trouble with my girlfriend's past. She has had sex with 15 other guys and had sexual relations with at least 6 more. I try not to bring it up but it comes up in my head a lot, to the point where I get ...
A. 22 May 2006: I feel you may be seeing things a little thru rose tinted glasses.
As for your comment about my being not being able to see things from the viewpoint of a male, take a look at your last paragraph on your first posting and tell me if that does... (read in full...)
Why can't I get my girlfriend's past sex life out of my head?
Q. Hey out there, I'm going crazy. Well I'm having trouble with my girlfriend's past. She has had sex with 15 other guys and had sexual relations with at least 6 more. I try not to bring it up but it comes up in my head a lot, to the point where I get ...
A. 22 May 2006: Hi ther Dr Pete
As one health professional (allegedly) to another I find you rather maralistic and self-righteous stance on female sexulaity a little on the silly side.
Before contraception the sex act for women equated with the risk of pregnanc... (read in full...)
Am I pregnant?
Q. i am three weeks late on my period and ive done two pregnancy tests and they both said negative, im not getting the sore breasts, but im getting alot more discharge than normal and it seems to be more white, also ive been getting real itcy eyes am i ...
A. 11 May 2006: Go to your GP. Without a physical examination and a diagnosis you are only going to worry more about it.
x... (read in full...)
I am having an affair but he is shy!!
Q. I'm having a affair with a married man,we have only kissed and cuddled though,he has said he wants sex with me,the thing is he turns me on then just walks,whats going on is he shy as he hasnt been with many women,is he feeling guilty to his wife.or ...
A. 24 April 2006: Back off. This guy is married and reeling you in like a fish on a line. He is making you desperate for him and then he has you!
Leave him alone and let his wife have her husband back. There are many single and unatatched men out there. Coul... (read in full...)
My partner won't marry me because she is worried about the age gap, How can I convince her I love her?
Q. I'VE been living with my ' partner Kath for four years and she's the love of my life. We got together a year after her husband walked out on her and their 18-month-old son. Danny is now seven and considers me his dad. At first my family were dead...
A. 24 April 2006: Dont be hurt by what you see is her rejection of you. I do not think she is refusing to marry you for some sinister reason. I don't even think it is anything to do with the age difference to be honest! I think this is all to do with how badly ... (read in full...)
His ex called me and after I told him how I felt he barely calls!!!
Q. I am at this moment hurting very badly. I have a boyfriend who is two years younger than i am. We are both in our forties. He has a child from a young lady which he had advised that that relationship was over and I tooked it for granted. A month ...
A. 24 April 2006: Sounds like this guy hasn't been telling you the whole truth, in fact I would take most of what he has said about his *ex* with a pinch of salt.....I don't think she is his ex at all to be honest. I think he is having his cake and eating it.
Y... (read in full...)
What is love for??
Q. What is love for? Why ppl are chasing it? Doesn't that mean that we want love because we want to be happy? Tell me if you know that................ To love or not to love -----dilemma.............
A. 24 April 2006: A philosophy student...lol.
Love is an abstract concept, a construct if you like. I have never *chased* it as such but when it happens it makes your whole world shine. Also it is a feeling of security that you ahve or can give to another huma... (read in full...)
Wifes obsession with Madonna is spiralling out of control!! Any advice?
Q. I am 25 and my wife is 23. Recently she has become obsessed with Madonna, and has been playing her albums constantly etc. She's also been suspended from work for spending time downloading Madonna MP3's I've nothing against Madonna, but now...
A. 24 April 2006: This sounds like something you would do when you are in your early teens. Is your wife somewhat emotionally immature in a way which indicates she need somebody to look up too?... (read in full...)
I am not attracted to my wife physically..should I have sex with an old gf?
Q. I love my wife very much and would never want to hurt her. We get along very well and are very connected, except for one area: sex. I am no longer attracted to her physically. In the meantime, an old girlfriend of mine has contacted me and really ...
A. 24 April 2006: You obviously have no idea what loyalty and respect means. No, do your wife the favour of divorcing her first and then move on.
To the SHALLOW male anon below with the IQ of a gnat and the personality of a dead fish, save your tirade and fatt... (read in full...)
Am I pregnant?
Q. i am three weeks late on my period and ive done two pregnancy tests and they both said negative, im not getting the sore breasts, but im getting alot more discharge than normal and it seems to be more white, also ive been getting real itcy eyes am i ...
A. 23 April 2006: Unfortunately a lot of over the counter pregnancy tests are just not that sensitive. Also not every woman gets sore breasts when first pregnant. As said below the GP is your first port of call for this one.... (read in full...)
Will things improve or will they stay as they are??
Q. D has only been seeing me once a fortnight,on a fri eve, somtimes every 3 weeks because he has been short of money paying solicitor bills to get rights to see his son and also his had to work late. Now he says things will improve. Now he hasn't g...
A. 23 April 2006: Is he seeing his child on a saturday? How about you just ask him. After all he is trying to bring you into his life more.... (read in full...)
Would it be ok if my husband said it was?
Q. I have a confession...i went out for a drink last night with a really good friend who i've known for over 10yrs and had a great time..I did not get drunk!! We had a great evening talking together we enjoy each others company (we go to quizes ...
A. 23 April 2006: Can you seperate sex from love? If so and you want your sexual needs fulfilled and your husband has promised this isn't a problem, then go for it.... (read in full...)
In love with a married man, but how do I cope with our break up?
Q. Hi, i hope you can help me out of this absurd situation. i fell in love with a guy i work with in the same office, he is married, with two kids. out of guilt we both called it a very close friendship, then he called me his soul mate and then his...
A. 23 April 2006: For some reason I think you view his wife with some disdain, which is a bit rich coming form somebody trying to break up a marriage. Honey she is 30 and you are 20 - you have no life experience yet and obviously have no concept of the utter ... (read in full...)
Having an affair with a married man, feel used, What should I do?
Q. I am madly in love with a married man I work with and I don't know what to do. We were having an affair for two months, and I fell in love with him and told him this. He said that he felt the same but that he would never leave his wife for me, and ...
A. 22 April 2006: You back off and leave him and his poor wife in peace. Of course if you want to continue to feel used then go right ahead and continue. But he has already proved to you once he is going to stay with his wife, not only that he has TOLD you he is ... (read in full...)
Guys..a question about porn. Where do men draw the line between 'normal' and 'abnormal' porn?
Q. Advice mainly from men please! I have always felt pretty liberal over porn where women choose to display themselves or have sex as some like to it, but you 'normal' guys out there, where do you draw the line between normal and abnormal? My ...
A. 22 April 2006: This thing with your daughter obviously still has implications in what is going on now or you would have not mentioned it in your letter. You must have felt so alone when this happened with lack of finnacial werewithall to escape and young kids, ... (read in full...)
How do I stop our insecurities wrecking our relationship??
Q. Ok guys and gals, Im really counting on you for this one. Sorry for length. The situation is this: I started chatting to a girl about 6 months ago online, at the time that fell apart and a relative died. I helped her through this and we became c...
A. 22 April 2006: Isn't life complicated? Dont ever be harsh on yourself for having feelings and/or being insecure, especially when in a strange postion like this! I do feel you are being perfectly normal tho about feeling threatened by this behaviour, maybe ... (read in full...)
How do I stop our insecurities wrecking our relationship??
Q. Ok guys and gals, Im really counting on you for this one. Sorry for length. The situation is this: I started chatting to a girl about 6 months ago online, at the time that fell apart and a relative died. I helped her through this and we became c...
A. 22 April 2006: Hey there dazz
You really are ahving a tough time of it, and I honestly feel for you. I always feel like I am being a little harsh sometimes in judging peoples' situations from what they say, as you know there are always two sides to every stor... (read in full...)
Boyfriend prefers to party than see me, What can I do?
Q. Why he did not pick up my phone when he was in a bar? I have been dating this guy for 7 month already, after Feb., we had a committed relationship. I turned down all of other guys and wanted to be with him with all my heart. He is a big party...
A. 22 April 2006: I dont think this guy actually realised he was behaving like such a shit. Or if he did he was doing it delibrerately so you would break up with him and he wouldn't have to break up with you instead.
Life is to short to mope on the whys and wher... (read in full...)
Is my relationship age gap ok? How can I make it work..
Q. My brother is 19..... He has a friend who is 19 also. I am 13. My brothers friend really likes me. He said he would go out with me now but he is afraid that my brother would kill him (Not really kill him) is he found out. My brother just like all ...
A. 22 April 2006: If he is nineteen he is probably aware that you ahve a crush on him. And to be really truthful I think that this age gap might be a little large for you to overcome. Just because he laced his fingers through yours doesn't mean that he necassarily ... (read in full...)
Is he insensitive for mentioning the morning after pill?
Q. Is that a common feeling that you eventually want to have a baby with the one you really love when you are in a serious relationship? My bf is 29 now, I have been dating him for 7 months. He has got a great job at Top bank in NYC. Three month...
A. 22 April 2006: You ahve to be dead straight with this guy and demand an answer. Is this relationship going anywere?
Challenge him, ask him outright and don't pussyfoot around. If you don't he will go on avoiding the issue. Tell him how you feel and ask him if h... (read in full...)
Which knee should be on the floor when proposing marriage?
Q. when you propose which knee do you get on? which knee must be on the floor?...
A. 22 April 2006: I ahve never heard that it matters about which knee goes to the floor when proposing.
I hope she says yes!!
Good luck
xxx... (read in full...)
Have liver damage, Is it my Contraception choice??
Q. Erm...I'm 17 and today I just go the contorseptive implant...only thing is I have liver damage and they Doc that gave me the implant asked me if I did I told her the truth and told her the details of my liver damage but she was ok of me to go ahead ...
A. 22 April 2006: This is quite a difficult question to answer without more information.
I think that the type of *liver damage* you have is obviously not concerning your Gp. If it did and she knew about it she would not have put you on an unsuitable medi... (read in full...)
Why can't I get my girlfriend's past sex life out of my head?
Q. Hey out there, I'm going crazy. Well I'm having trouble with my girlfriend's past. She has had sex with 15 other guys and had sexual relations with at least 6 more. I try not to bring it up but it comes up in my head a lot, to the point where I get ...
A. 22 April 2006: But that isnt what you were saying before. Also when you hide behind an anon stance it could be anybody who replies all pretending to be the same person. So when one person says , for example, this behaviour from women is slutty, and another this ... (read in full...)
We broke up out of the blue and now she seems so cold...is this the zoloft??
Q. Myself and my girlfriend of three years have broken up suddenly..she says she wasn't happy anymore..although i know there might have been reasons for this..it was so out of the blue and in about 3 days after the breakup , she started saying "things ...
A. 21 April 2006: You may remind her of the bad times she has been through. Or she may have come to the conclusion that she was using you as an emotional crutch and needed to *go it alone*. Whilst it may appear *out of the blue* for you it may have been something ... (read in full...)
Why can't I get my girlfriend's past sex life out of my head?
Q. Hey out there, I'm going crazy. Well I'm having trouble with my girlfriend's past. She has had sex with 15 other guys and had sexual relations with at least 6 more. I try not to bring it up but it comes up in my head a lot, to the point where I get ...
A. 21 April 2006: Another anon.
Not very brave are they the men on here!
Look, women do not *let* men have sex with them, they are willing participants in a mutual thing. So that makes both the men and women who indulge as bad, or good, as each other. I have no ... (read in full...)
This is graphic and gross but I need to know if it is WRONG - we get married in a month!
Q. OK... now, this might get a bit graphic (and gross!), sorry. But, I really want to know if this is common with men. I'm 24 and by boy friend is 25. We are in a relationship for the last one year. We are going to be married soon (in a month or so). ...
A. 21 April 2006: This is quite a nice way to wake up actually, and yes it has happened to me as well. So you are perfectly normal and so is he!!... (read in full...)
Why can't I get my girlfriend's past sex life out of my head?
Q. Hey out there, I'm going crazy. Well I'm having trouble with my girlfriend's past. She has had sex with 15 other guys and had sexual relations with at least 6 more. I try not to bring it up but it comes up in my head a lot, to the point where I get ...
A. 20 April 2006: Firstly, be brave enough not to hide behind an anon stance. Secondly get some balls and realise that the world is not divided into females who are saints ans sinners. Thirdly how do you figure out that girls get it more than guys? I always ... (read in full...)
Only engaged for a month, but I feel I'm being taken for granted already!
Q. Ever since we got engaged -1 month ago - my finacee seems to be taking me for granted by us having quickie sex (ie: no forplay or romance) and the flowers and hugs and kisses have all but stopped. What should I do?...
A. 20 April 2006: Tell him how you feel and then show him how to do it.....is it all one way? Like the male anon below sez - why should it all be his responsibility. It takes two to tango. Suprise him with agift, sexy underwear or a night on the town, show him how ... (read in full...)
I love my bf but only as a brother. Now the new guy in the office is making me feel so alive!!!
Q. I'm 33 and have been living with my boyfriend for 12 years - we have a house together. Recently I've been having mixed feelings for him and have lost all sexual attraction to the point where we no longer have sex. Although I love him I don't want to ...
A. 20 April 2006: In ten years time you will probably feel exactly the same way about this guy. Make or break your relationship with your live in bf first, have a little respect for him and yourself. Or make it your goal to get back your spark with him, go to ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend wants me to do stuff with him I'm not comfortable with... What can I say!?
Q. i have just got a boyfriend and he wants me to do things to him i dont want to say no coz ill look like a wuss and i dont want to say yes coz i dont want to what shall i do...
A. 20 April 2006: Say NO!!!!... (read in full...)
Can I make my period stop??
Q. Ok, I would reeeally appreciate advice on making a period stop. Something that acts fast. although it doesn´t need to stop for a long time.. delay it for a few days would be great. i´ve not seen my lover for a long long time ( we live apart) and ...
A. 20 April 2006: Yes you can. Go to your Gp he can prescribe a drug that stops bleeding. He/she may not do it but they can. Cant remember what it is called ....nor something or other.....or start you birth control pill or dont leave the seven day gap.
It wi... (read in full...)
Am I crazy to want a guy that just has eyes on me when we go out, and is satisfied with what he has?
Q. Am I overreacting? One time I was at a bar with my now exboyfriend and I saw him clearly look at a girl's ass right in front of me. I got mad, and then he denied it! He said his head must have been turned in that direction, but I looked at his eyes, ...
A. 20 April 2006: Well he needs some dark glasses or mirror shades then lol
lighten up... (read in full...)
Am I crazy to want a guy that just has eyes on me when we go out, and is satisfied with what he has?
Q. Am I overreacting? One time I was at a bar with my now exboyfriend and I saw him clearly look at a girl's ass right in front of me. I got mad, and then he denied it! He said his head must have been turned in that direction, but I looked at his eyes, ...
A. 19 April 2006: Sounds more like this relationship wasnt meant to be and you should move on and consign it, and the emotions it makes you feel to the past. Dont let this dozey, abusive idiot poison your mind against all men....they are not all like that you ... (read in full...)
What do you think of girls who sleep with lots of men?
Q. i am extremly horny and sleep with plenty of men does this make me a whore...
A. 19 April 2006: No you are not a whore. You need to accept money for your services before somebody can legitamately call you that.... (read in full...)
Is it true love or an obsession?
Q. I have known a guy since i was 14 and now I'm 26. I have been egaged and have had children, but I could not be happy in that relationship. now i am in another relationship of two years, a pretty good guy, but was again am unhappy. I always think of ...
A. 19 April 2006: You see this guy as your *one that got away* and yes I do think you will get over him. There has to have been more of a reason as to why you split up with him. Was it really because of your babydaddy? Think about how you will be unfulfilled in ... (read in full...)
My odd guy is stringing me along, please help!!!
Q. I've been seeing this guy for eight months. I say 'see', but in reality I have only seen him twice in the first six weeks and after that he's been stringing me along by text with vague promises of meeting up again. He's generally odd, which ex...
A. 19 April 2006: He has something going on in his life which you are not privvy too. How do you know he is not married, is it because he has told you this? If so then maybe you need to question him a little more closely......I think that just maybe he might be ... (read in full...)
Should I follow my heart and date this girl - who's 13?
Q. i am 16 and have feelings for a girl. but the problem is she is only 13. she looks very young but i really like her and she really likes me. if i went out if her id be called names and my mum wouldnt like me for it. i dont know what to do. follow my ...
A. 19 April 2006: Why can't the pair of you be friends and not do anything sexual? If you are meant to be then true love will stick around until she is a bit more physically and mentally mature.
Good luck
xxx... (read in full...)
Fingering my gf hurts her...why is this??
Q. Hey im 16 and im dating a 14 yr old and anytime i finger her it hurts her so bad she cant even put in a tampon why is this have any of you girls ever heard of anything like this before...
A. 19 April 2006: Chances are her hymen is still intact. She can stretch this to make things more comfortable by using her own finger and some vaselins. Or a tampon and ky jelly. She is only young and really you should be looking at whether this is age appropriate ... (read in full...)
Am I crazy to want a guy that just has eyes on me when we go out, and is satisfied with what he has?
Q. Am I overreacting? One time I was at a bar with my now exboyfriend and I saw him clearly look at a girl's ass right in front of me. I got mad, and then he denied it! He said his head must have been turned in that direction, but I looked at his eyes, ...
A. 19 April 2006: I do think you are over-reacting somewhat on this issue. Short of blindfolding him you are never going to be able to stop him looking.....it is what humans do. It is natural. It does not mean he is going to run off with somebody else, he is just ... (read in full...)
No sex from my husband for a whole year, and I'm sure he's not cheating... Is this possible?
Q. I have been with my husband for 7 yrs now and we have not had sex for 1 whole yr. It's not me. I'm very sexual with the person I love but I don't know what his problem is. He just doesn't touch me anymore. I used to try but got tired of being re...
A. 19 April 2006: As long as the pair of you are communicating there is hope yet for this relationship.
Talk to him in a non-accusatory manner, ask him to explain why he thinks you are not making love any more. If he says he has lost his libido then get him to go t... (read in full...)
I stayed after school and ended up having sex with my ICT teacher!
Q. I really fancy my ICT teacher. Then last night I stayed at school late to finish my dida (ICT ) coursework, and during that time, me and my teacher were talking and he leaned over and kissed me. We ended up having sex and now I don't know what to ...
A. 19 April 2006: Wow, anon who replied below. I wish you ahd been around to talk to me when I had my 'problems'.
xxx... (read in full...)
I stayed after school and ended up having sex with my ICT teacher!
Q. I really fancy my ICT teacher. Then last night I stayed at school late to finish my dida (ICT ) coursework, and during that time, me and my teacher were talking and he leaned over and kissed me. We ended up having sex and now I don't know what to ...
A. 19 April 2006: Wow, anon who replied below. I wish you ahd been around to talk to me when I had my 'problems'.
xxx... (read in full...)
How old should you be to have sex?
Q. i am looking for a boyfriend how can i find one and how old should a girl have to be before she have sex...
A. 15 April 2006: Have sex when you feel ready. But also take into consideration the laws on underage sex in your own country (in the UK it is 16).... (read in full...)
Is my penis too tiny?
Q. I am 14 now. My penis is really tiny and I can't produce. Is this normal for my age?...
A. 15 April 2006: As Bev said puberty hits us all at different times, do you have any other secondary sexual characteristics? Has your voice broken, do you ahve underarm hair or pubic hair yet? Have you been having *wet dreams*?... (read in full...)
I stayed after school and ended up having sex with my ICT teacher!
Q. I really fancy my ICT teacher. Then last night I stayed at school late to finish my dida (ICT ) coursework, and during that time, me and my teacher were talking and he leaned over and kissed me. We ended up having sex and now I don't know what to ...
A. 14 April 2006: If you are 16 and are leaving school this year then I cannot see the problem. If you are truely in love with this man, look at transferring to a different school to finish your education. I think that you need to sort this out sooner rather than ... (read in full...)
Why can't I get my girlfriend's past sex life out of my head?
Q. Hey out there, I'm going crazy. Well I'm having trouble with my girlfriend's past. She has had sex with 15 other guys and had sexual relations with at least 6 more. I try not to bring it up but it comes up in my head a lot, to the point where I get ...
A. 13 April 2006: I meant to say put this as a question to draw more attention. Maybe you will get some help?
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Why can't I get my girlfriend's past sex life out of my head?
Q. Hey out there, I'm going crazy. Well I'm having trouble with my girlfriend's past. She has had sex with 15 other guys and had sexual relations with at least 6 more. I try not to bring it up but it comes up in my head a lot, to the point where I get ...
A. 10 April 2006: Solved you should post this on a seperate site. I think you would benefit form others reading your thread and commenting. I think (for the record) you and your wife are locked in a vicious cycle of oneupmanship. And it will take a helluva lot to ... (read in full...)
Why can't I get my girlfriend's past sex life out of my head?
Q. Hey out there, I'm going crazy. Well I'm having trouble with my girlfriend's past. She has had sex with 15 other guys and had sexual relations with at least 6 more. I try not to bring it up but it comes up in my head a lot, to the point where I get ...
A. 9 April 2006: Why do they need to *tell the truht from the beginning?* And why would you NED to know if it is going to hurt you so much? You slept with 11 people....why is that any dofferent? What is the importance of a wpman having slept with less people than ... (read in full...)
Why can't I get my girlfriend's past sex life out of my head?
Q. Hey out there, I'm going crazy. Well I'm having trouble with my girlfriend's past. She has had sex with 15 other guys and had sexual relations with at least 6 more. I try not to bring it up but it comes up in my head a lot, to the point where I get ...
A. 7 April 2006: There are a lot of answers on here from men saying that they cannot get over *slutty* behaviour, referring to *conquests* etc. I find that offensive. I find it offensive in 2006 that it would appear a large majority of men find a problem in their ... (read in full...)
Why can't I get my girlfriend's past sex life out of my head?
Q. Hey out there, I'm going crazy. Well I'm having trouble with my girlfriend's past. She has had sex with 15 other guys and had sexual relations with at least 6 more. I try not to bring it up but it comes up in my head a lot, to the point where I get ...
A. 7 April 2006: Conquest? Purleeze! She cannot be a conquest, by saying that your are acting as if she had no choice to sleep with these men. A conquest = being conquered. Get over it.
Guess what males and females are equal in society nowadays. So how abou... (read in full...)
I stayed after school and ended up having sex with my ICT teacher!
Q. I really fancy my ICT teacher. Then last night I stayed at school late to finish my dida (ICT ) coursework, and during that time, me and my teacher were talking and he leaned over and kissed me. We ended up having sex and now I don't know what to ...
A. 30 March 2006: I find it difficult to explain how i felt, cos at the time i really loved him and I know he loved me cos he asked me to marry him. When I dumped him at 21 it broke HIS heart!! But I also know this is an abuse of a dynamic that is taboo in western ... (read in full...)
I stayed after school and ended up having sex with my ICT teacher!
Q. I really fancy my ICT teacher. Then last night I stayed at school late to finish my dida (ICT ) coursework, and during that time, me and my teacher were talking and he leaned over and kissed me. We ended up having sex and now I don't know what to ...
A. 30 March 2006: Dear anon
Please learn from this siutation. Please dont put yourslef in vulnerable situations like this again. Only ever see this man when you are with others if you dont want to be tempted into doing something you shouldnt. And IF there is a ch... (read in full...)
I stayed after school and ended up having sex with my ICT teacher!
Q. I really fancy my ICT teacher. Then last night I stayed at school late to finish my dida (ICT ) coursework, and during that time, me and my teacher were talking and he leaned over and kissed me. We ended up having sex and now I don't know what to ...
A. 30 March 2006: I have no issues with disagreements!!! But can I just point out (and this is from experience), I did nearly exactly the same thing when I was a few months from my 17th birthday. I had a long term affair with my psychology teacher who was 30. I ... (read in full...)
I stayed after school and ended up having sex with my ICT teacher!
Q. I really fancy my ICT teacher. Then last night I stayed at school late to finish my dida (ICT ) coursework, and during that time, me and my teacher were talking and he leaned over and kissed me. We ended up having sex and now I don't know what to ...
A. 30 March 2006: Obviously you already realise what you are doing is wrong. For the sake of your mental health and your teacher's career don't do it again. You agreed to it and I think it is a matter of pickiness to say that because you are months away from your ... (read in full...)
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