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Student of Psychology, Degree in Nursing with wide variety of experience. Mother, daughter, sister, wife, ex, neice, grandaughter, student, boss, colleague....you get the picture.
Interested in impulse control disorders, like chocolate, cheese, Tintin, travelling, Pepsi max, Cracker, Tony Soprano, eddie Izzard, toilet humour, Family guy - shall I go on?
Adore my family and friends. Love to help others, abuse survivor, rape survivor, holder of family record for cherry pip spitting......
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Why can't I get my girlfriend's past sex life out of my head?
Q. Hey out there, I'm going crazy. Well I'm having trouble with my girlfriend's past. She has had sex with 15 other guys and had sexual relations with at least 6 more. I try not to bring it up but it comes up in my head a lot, to the point where I get ...
A. 23 June 2006: I am not ignorant dear male anon, you are. You are spouting your beliefs as you ahve done many many times before. The sexual revolution has not come about in one generation as you claim...go read up on your social history sweetie and get you facts ... (read in full...)
Why can't I get my girlfriend's past sex life out of my head?
Q. Hey out there, I'm going crazy. Well I'm having trouble with my girlfriend's past. She has had sex with 15 other guys and had sexual relations with at least 6 more. I try not to bring it up but it comes up in my head a lot, to the point where I get ...
A. 5 June 2006: Don't believe EVERYTHING you read in the papers, and remember Paul Mac had a past too!... (read in full...)
Why can't I get my girlfriend's past sex life out of my head?
Q. Hey out there, I'm going crazy. Well I'm having trouble with my girlfriend's past. She has had sex with 15 other guys and had sexual relations with at least 6 more. I try not to bring it up but it comes up in my head a lot, to the point where I get ...
A. 23 May 2006: I genuinely feel for the guy who posted this question. It must be awful to have an image in your head of what has happened before. I feel very much for any man/woman who cannot deal with a partner's past. I find it a little disturbing that no ... (read in full...)
Why can't I get my girlfriend's past sex life out of my head?
Q. Hey out there, I'm going crazy. Well I'm having trouble with my girlfriend's past. She has had sex with 15 other guys and had sexual relations with at least 6 more. I try not to bring it up but it comes up in my head a lot, to the point where I get ...
A. 23 May 2006: patronising, patronising, patronising
write it out three times and stand in the corner.... (read in full...)
Why can't I get my girlfriend's past sex life out of my head?
Q. Hey out there, I'm going crazy. Well I'm having trouble with my girlfriend's past. She has had sex with 15 other guys and had sexual relations with at least 6 more. I try not to bring it up but it comes up in my head a lot, to the point where I get ...
A. 23 May 2006: Try a husband who thinks your bit of a petronising bugger too!!
Sorry to blow your theory out of the water honey!!
xx... (read in full...)
Why can't I get my girlfriend's past sex life out of my head?
Q. Hey out there, I'm going crazy. Well I'm having trouble with my girlfriend's past. She has had sex with 15 other guys and had sexual relations with at least 6 more. I try not to bring it up but it comes up in my head a lot, to the point where I get ...
A. 22 May 2006: was controlled by men....dearie, gosh what a fabulous bedside manner you have....
Your opinions are outdated. You are right men did these things, but not to exploit women. They did it for monetary gain. A man in a little lab somewhere didn't thin... (read in full...)
Why can't I get my girlfriend's past sex life out of my head?
Q. Hey out there, I'm going crazy. Well I'm having trouble with my girlfriend's past. She has had sex with 15 other guys and had sexual relations with at least 6 more. I try not to bring it up but it comes up in my head a lot, to the point where I get ...
A. 22 May 2006: I feel you may be seeing things a little thru rose tinted glasses.
As for your comment about my being not being able to see things from the viewpoint of a male, take a look at your last paragraph on your first posting and tell me if that does... (read in full...)
Why can't I get my girlfriend's past sex life out of my head?
Q. Hey out there, I'm going crazy. Well I'm having trouble with my girlfriend's past. She has had sex with 15 other guys and had sexual relations with at least 6 more. I try not to bring it up but it comes up in my head a lot, to the point where I get ...
A. 22 May 2006: Hi ther Dr Pete
As one health professional (allegedly) to another I find you rather maralistic and self-righteous stance on female sexulaity a little on the silly side.
Before contraception the sex act for women equated with the risk of pregnanc... (read in full...)
Why can't I get my girlfriend's past sex life out of my head?
Q. Hey out there, I'm going crazy. Well I'm having trouble with my girlfriend's past. She has had sex with 15 other guys and had sexual relations with at least 6 more. I try not to bring it up but it comes up in my head a lot, to the point where I get ...
A. 22 April 2006: But that isnt what you were saying before. Also when you hide behind an anon stance it could be anybody who replies all pretending to be the same person. So when one person says , for example, this behaviour from women is slutty, and another this ... (read in full...)
Why can't I get my girlfriend's past sex life out of my head?
Q. Hey out there, I'm going crazy. Well I'm having trouble with my girlfriend's past. She has had sex with 15 other guys and had sexual relations with at least 6 more. I try not to bring it up but it comes up in my head a lot, to the point where I get ...
A. 21 April 2006: Another anon.
Not very brave are they the men on here!
Look, women do not *let* men have sex with them, they are willing participants in a mutual thing. So that makes both the men and women who indulge as bad, or good, as each other. I have no ... (read in full...)
Why can't I get my girlfriend's past sex life out of my head?
Q. Hey out there, I'm going crazy. Well I'm having trouble with my girlfriend's past. She has had sex with 15 other guys and had sexual relations with at least 6 more. I try not to bring it up but it comes up in my head a lot, to the point where I get ...
A. 20 April 2006: Firstly, be brave enough not to hide behind an anon stance. Secondly get some balls and realise that the world is not divided into females who are saints ans sinners. Thirdly how do you figure out that girls get it more than guys? I always ... (read in full...)
I stayed after school and ended up having sex with my ICT teacher!
Q. I really fancy my ICT teacher. Then last night I stayed at school late to finish my dida (ICT ) coursework, and during that time, me and my teacher were talking and he leaned over and kissed me. We ended up having sex and now I don't know what to ...
A. 19 April 2006: Wow, anon who replied below. I wish you ahd been around to talk to me when I had my 'problems'.
xxx... (read in full...)
I stayed after school and ended up having sex with my ICT teacher!
Q. I really fancy my ICT teacher. Then last night I stayed at school late to finish my dida (ICT ) coursework, and during that time, me and my teacher were talking and he leaned over and kissed me. We ended up having sex and now I don't know what to ...
A. 19 April 2006: Wow, anon who replied below. I wish you ahd been around to talk to me when I had my 'problems'.
xxx... (read in full...)
Is my penis too tiny?
Q. I am 14 now. My penis is really tiny and I can't produce. Is this normal for my age?...
A. 15 April 2006: As Bev said puberty hits us all at different times, do you have any other secondary sexual characteristics? Has your voice broken, do you ahve underarm hair or pubic hair yet? Have you been having *wet dreams*?... (read in full...)
His ex boyfriend stole him from me!!!
Q. I need help! i meet a lad who is 18 4 months ago, we were friends, and at the time he was in a relationship which went terribly wrong for him, i was there for him to support him whilst he was moving on with his life from his x bf, we then got ...
A. 15 April 2006: Nobody can be *stolen* like an object. If they go off then it is to do with their mental mindset, and they just weren't that into you.
Sorry.x... (read in full...)
She stood me up, but is "mad" about me??? What's this about?
Q. Bonjour! Recently i asked a girl out, she said yes but then stood me up. I haven't heard from her since, but a mutual friend assures me that she's mad about me, although she has had a boyfriend the whole time. What's up?...
A. 15 April 2006: She got cold feet. She probably does like you but hey if she is in a commited relationship should you ahve even asked her out?... (read in full...)
Rumor has it..I am a slut! But it's not true so how do I show this guy I like, I am not really this way?
Q. how can you show a guy you're not a slut?? when he doesn't want to get to know you, only have sex because rumour has it that you're easy even if you aren't?...
A. 15 April 2006: Obviously dont have sex with him. Just dont do it.
Dont kiss him, dont heavy pet with him. Make him get to know you as a pwerson first and then maybe, just maybe a relationship will develop. If it doesnt you ahvent lost anything by it - like your... (read in full...)
I've known her a week.. is it going too fast?
Q. Hi, maybe I just want some reassurance but do you people think that this could work? I met a girl 26, I am 32 a couple of weeks ago when I was out for a night on the town. I won't lie, we were very attracted to each other and by the end of the n...
A. 15 April 2006: This could be the start of something really, really special. Just sit back and go with the flow. Both of you should give it 3 months and then reavaluate where you are and take it from there.
This sounds good and I wish you all the best.xx... (read in full...)
My fiancee is getting on my back about my child from a previous relationship!
Q. my fiancee is upset and getting on me all the time about my child from aprevious relationship, we both agreed to go throughthe courts for access to my child but she just hates the idea of some one else mothering my child, and its all my fault why ...
A. 15 April 2006: Hi there
There could be several reasons why you are having problems with your fiancee. You see very often some people cannot handle their partners past if it involves them having been with another individual. They get to feeling insecure and unce... (read in full...)
I'm in love with my teacher!!
Q. I've been in love with my teacher for over a year. sometimes we spend the break together talking and when we meet (in corridors) he always talks to me but when i m close to him i feel the urge to kiss him but i resist it. I' ve finished school b...
A. 15 April 2006: The age gap is a problem. And the teacher-pupil relationship is a problem.....I also think you are reading to much into hes professional behaviour. And as has been said before I think you are seeing an agenda were this is none.... (read in full...)
My hole has become irregular, could it be because of medication?
Q. hey i saw questions and answers on this site and find it informative. Here is my problem. I am 26yrs old female married for 2 yrs. i feel pain during sex. I went to GP and had some tests. they told me that i have some kind of rare fungii and ...
A. 15 April 2006: nobody on here can give your the right advice. You need to be examined and you need to see a healthcare professional. sooner rather than later...... (read in full...)
He's got me to sign a "relationship agreement" (pre-nup) - am I being old fashioned by thinking this is out of order!?
Q. Hi, I have been living with my partner of two years for 3 months now. He has asked me to sign a relationship agreement effectively contracting out of NZ's defacto law. First I was hurt and angry, then I thought he should keep all that he has work...
A. 15 April 2006: Look long , hard and seriously at this relationship. I think he has the right to protect himself against a short term relationship going awry but this is going a bit far.
If this was my guy I would be looking at why he was doing this? And I woul... (read in full...)
Any advice for a ginger guy?
Q. Hi i am 18 and i have never really had a girlfriend and i have been unfortunate enough to be born with the worst astetically pleasing hair colour. ( thats my excuse). i dont think i am that unattractive (apart from the above) but it seem that i ...
A. 15 April 2006: I adore red hair....my hubby has dark brown hair and a ginger goatee, but my son (who I put on order in for, and got exactly what I requested, has ginger hair!!!!). All the famous guys I fancy or have fancied have red hair.... Damien Lewis, Axl ... (read in full...)
She has to pee a lot... Is my girlfriend pregnant?
Q. I was out with my girlfriend for 6 hours today.. within those 6 hours she had to go to the bathroom 4 times. and they seemed to be really close together. I know one of the signs of pregnancy is having to pee a lot more frequently.. could this be a ...
A. 15 April 2006: Another option is she may just have drunk a lot or eaten a lot of food with a high water content. Let us know what ahs happened since........ (read in full...)
Never had problems with sex before, but with Joe, he couldn't even get it in!
Q. I have been off and on with, let's call him "Joe", for almost a year and half. The on and off has been do to me being uncertain of what I want. Anyways I ended up back with "Joe" and he's great. This time I feel for him hook, line, and sinker. ...
A. 14 April 2006: Sounds like the traditonal missionary position is just not for you. Try side on or rear entry postions you may have more luck.x... (read in full...)
My GF was in constant contact while overseas, keen for us to be back together... then she dumped me!
Q. My girlfriend recently left to travel overseas with her friend, who by the way, doesn't like me at all. We had been together for a year and a half. I am 27 and she is 21. Because I had already been overseas and traveled, she wanted to do it ...
A. 14 April 2006: No. She has moved on and grown up and wawy from you whilst she was away. Dont obsess about this and try to kove on yourself. Please. for your own sake dont bother contacting her either it will only lead to more heartache for yourself.... (read in full...)
Everyone is putting more pressure on him then he deserves. What can I do?
Q. I have sent in the odd question before and my situation keeps developing....My boyfriend suffers from post traumatic stress disorder from his time in the armed forces which causes horrific nightmares and influences our intimacy. He has massive ...
A. 14 April 2006: These so called family are going out of theiur way to destroy your relationship and you must continue to help him be strong enough not to give in to their emotional blackmail.
Firstly get him to calmly write down all his feelings about this situ... (read in full...)
Love my boyfriend, but he's got to get some fashion sense!
Q. Hey... I have a boyfriend... and I luv him loads and loads. I know this sounds real harsh but his fashion sense is a bit bad. His clothes are kind of OK but his trousers are too short and he wears this manky jacket. It's a bit embarrassing and a st...
A. 14 April 2006: You can mention it to him, but be prepared to accept it if he ahs a go at you back or gets in a strop. Imagine he did the same to you.
How about going shopping with him and picking out some stuff you like and saying *I would love to see you in this... (read in full...)
My mums weirdness is making me paranoid!!
Q. Me and my mum have always been really close and when i was like 6 i used to tell her absolutly everything but now i am 13 and i am a teenager i hardly tell her cos i am either out with my mates or at my bofriends house. She doesnt think i have ever ...
A. 14 April 2006: Just maybe your mum is waiting for you to say something. Maybe your paranoid-ness has made her act wierd?? If your relationship wiht her has been good up to now then cahnces are she will just be waiting for you to confide in her.
My Mum is my best... (read in full...)
He would rather spend time partying and I want out but how do I break up with him??
Q. He would rather not spend more time with me but party/nightclub. I became attached to my boyfriend after 6 month dating, he claimed busy all the time, he is a MBA student. Everytime I want to be with him, he always gave me a list of things he need ...
A. 14 April 2006: This guy has more time for his friends than you, it's a common story. But you are both young, why do you need him to be at your beack and call 24/7 and why does he have to check in with you each time he feels like changing his plans?
If this isn'... (read in full...)
I think my sister is smoking and drinking. Do I mention it to our parents?
Q. Hello, I'm 14. Male. I have 2 sisters, one is 16 years old, the other is 18. I'm concerned about the 16 year old. When I was looking for some files on my computer I stumbled across pictures of my sister smoking. I didn't know this, I don't th...
A. 14 April 2006: Look your sister is nearly an adult. Why would you snitch on her to your parents? Leave her alone and maybe she will return the favour when you get the age where you start to experiment too!
x... (read in full...)
My brother is slowly killing himself and I don't know if I should try and help!
Q. My brother has been an unstable diabetic since he was 8. Ten years later and things are just getting worse. The chances are he's not going to live to see his 30's, because his organs won't be able to cope and will just stop working. I know he can ...
A. 14 April 2006: I know this will sound harsh, but there is nothing you can do to help your brother at this time, so you need to quit harrassing him. By trying to help him, nagging him about his behaviour and trying to make him see what harm he is doing to himself ... (read in full...)
I love my teacher, but what should I do about it?
Q. hey.. Im 15 years old and im in love with my teacher.. I dont know what to do ..because i have a boyfriend and hes engaged.. also he is moving to another school, and today was his last dday :( i know its stupid..because im 15 and hes 25...but...
A. 14 April 2006: This is a crush honey. Let it go, and try to put him out of your head when he leaves. You will get over it. I promise......... (read in full...)
I stayed after school and ended up having sex with my ICT teacher!
Q. I really fancy my ICT teacher. Then last night I stayed at school late to finish my dida (ICT ) coursework, and during that time, me and my teacher were talking and he leaned over and kissed me. We ended up having sex and now I don't know what to ...
A. 14 April 2006: If you are 16 and are leaving school this year then I cannot see the problem. If you are truely in love with this man, look at transferring to a different school to finish your education. I think that you need to sort this out sooner rather than ... (read in full...)
I think I'm too young to have sex with my boyfriend, but I keep thinking about it!
Q. I am 15 and I have been dating this guy for almost a year. He's getting his license soon and I know when the time comes I'll probably want to have sex. But I'm too young and I know that. How do I keep from wanting to do bad things?...
A. 14 April 2006: Go with your feelings sweetheart and dont do anything you are not ready for. If you feel *to young* you are to young! You will regret doing something you dont feel ready for. So stop worrying about it for now and continue to say no until you are ... (read in full...)
He's quite camp and obsessive, its creeping me out!
Q. Hey. This is quite lengthy but please read and try and help, I am in my late teens and dating a guy who is 7 years older than me. Before we got together I really fancied him and I let him know I was interested, just to find out he's been in 'love' ...
A. 13 April 2006: Do you want to be with him or not?
If not tell him it is over. If you do then you need to work on some serious judgemental issues here....*he looks like a homo?* puleeze c'mon!!!!... (read in full...)
I want something to happen with me and a work colleague, but he's married!
Q. About two months ago i was chatting online to a work colleague, he is about 25yrs older than me. After a while it became obvious he had had a few to drink and was suggesting some rather sexual things.Because of my personality i played along but he ...
A. 13 April 2006: All men who are after a *bit on the side* tell their prospective *conquests* that their marriage is 1. loveless, 2. sexless, 3.meaningless......they also tell the person they hope to get a bit of rumpy with that 1. you understand, 2. i really ... (read in full...)
Why can't I get my girlfriend's past sex life out of my head?
Q. Hey out there, I'm going crazy. Well I'm having trouble with my girlfriend's past. She has had sex with 15 other guys and had sexual relations with at least 6 more. I try not to bring it up but it comes up in my head a lot, to the point where I get ...
A. 13 April 2006: I meant to say put this as a question to draw more attention. Maybe you will get some help?
:-)... (read in full...)
Why can't I get my girlfriend's past sex life out of my head?
Q. Hey out there, I'm going crazy. Well I'm having trouble with my girlfriend's past. She has had sex with 15 other guys and had sexual relations with at least 6 more. I try not to bring it up but it comes up in my head a lot, to the point where I get ...
A. 10 April 2006: Solved you should post this on a seperate site. I think you would benefit form others reading your thread and commenting. I think (for the record) you and your wife are locked in a vicious cycle of oneupmanship. And it will take a helluva lot to ... (read in full...)
Scared that my former model and current suburban queen of a mother will hate my tubby, scruffy, unemployed new man!
Q. so, i met this guy this past october. since then - and, initially, despite my reluctance - we've become extremely close ("close" meaning serious marriage talk). i never thought that i was capable of loving someone so strongly: not the problem. ...
A. 10 April 2006: Whoa. It is up to you who you date and up to you who your finally end up with. after all you aint gonna have mummy there when you wake up every morning to sit opposite mr stuffy *head up his backside* MD are you?
Go for it, enjoy the ride. Just... (read in full...)
I have a major crush on a teacher. He gave me a lift home and we kissed!
Q. Is it wrong for a 13 year old to have a major crush on a teacher? I asked him to give me a lift home the other day as I told him I was getting bullied, as I know he is kind and would believe me. So he did and we kissed. I really liked it but every ...
A. 10 April 2006: This sounds like a bit of a fantasy and you have a big time crush. You are still a child and you need to stop following this man around and concentrate on your schoolwork. because of your age I strongle suggest you confide in you mum or dad and ... (read in full...)
My god I'm desperate, my daughter physically beats me
Q. Iam a single mum with a 13 year old daughter who is physically bigger and stronger than me and she has started to hit and bully me. Iam a english size 8 and 5 foot tall and she is 5 foot 8 inches tall a size 24 and 20 stone she totally dwarfs m...
A. 10 April 2006: Thanks Prunella, I was beginning to think I had missed something with this one or lost the plot.
x... (read in full...)
My online guy is a bit of a stalker...
Q. I met a guy on-line and he's kind of stalker, I don't know how to reject him politely, what can do?...
A. 10 April 2006: You need to jsut tell him......He might get the hump with you, but he will soon turn his attentions elsewhere. Then block any further contact from him and forget about it.
Good luck.
x... (read in full...)
Too many terrible losses in my life, and I'm only 13! I'm so depressed...
Q. I am 13, 14 in May, and I am so depressed. My biological dad, that I never got to know but wanted to, hung himself 3 years ago and now my mum and dad I now have are splitting up. And my nana and grandad died in a fire a few weeks ago and I am an ...
A. 9 April 2006: BABE
I feel for you.
My Dad died 3 years ago, and although I am old enough to be your Mum it hurts more than I can ever say.
I think you need to find a trusted teacher that you can talk to. Somebody who will be willing to listen and help guide y... (read in full...)
He's hot and cold with me all the time, does he want to patch it up or not?
Q. my partner and me have been together for 13yrs, we have 3 kids, we have had a rocky 13 yrs but always loved eachother, 3 months ago we split ou and he has done his own thing in that time, 3 weeks ago he started to warm to me and he decided to work ...
A. 9 April 2006: 13 years is a long time. I think that this relationship ahs died and neither of you are willing to face up to it yet. It is always difficult, but when there are children involved it is even more so.
Sit down and really think about what you get ... (read in full...)
How do I get my self harm friend to open up to me?
Q. I'm really worried about my friend. She's 15, I know she takes drugs and cuts herself, and when i spoke to her the other day she admitted she was drunk. We talked for a long time and she actually opened up to me for once. the reason she's depressed ...
A. 9 April 2006: A friend like this is scary. You need to get help. Not just for her but for you. You cannot cure her and you cannot deal with this on your own. Go to an adult you trust and ask for their advice. Do not try to do this alone as it will be to much ... (read in full...)
My god I'm desperate, my daughter physically beats me
Q. Iam a single mum with a 13 year old daughter who is physically bigger and stronger than me and she has started to hit and bully me. Iam a english size 8 and 5 foot tall and she is 5 foot 8 inches tall a size 24 and 20 stone she totally dwarfs m...
A. 9 April 2006: Sorry but I am not buying into this one, don't believe you!... (read in full...)
Four years of separation, and he says he's ready to give our marriage another go, but he has a pregnant girlfriend!
Q. I have been separated from my husband for 4 and a half years. In this time he has bought a house wth his fiancee of 2 years, both the joint purchase and engagement I found out accidentally!!! I have always asked if he is engaged as he wears a ring o...
A. 9 April 2006: What an absolute delight your ex sounds like! Do you really want to get back with someone who can lie so easily and glibly? He hasnt even told you the truth himself like a man should- you have had to find it out for yourself. Please don't go ... (read in full...)
My BF's ex trapped him into fathering her child, so what's to say she won't go even further?
Q. I've been with my boyfriend for about a year now. A few months into the relationship he told me he had gotten another girl pregnant. (she was an X but they had broken up years before, and she went into the military and came home on leave) To mak...
A. 9 April 2006: Stop deluding yourself!! Why oh why do you think she had sex with him unless she had feelings for him? Stop putting all the blame on her! You dont say how old you are but I have a feeling you are in your teens to early 20's. As I said before it ... (read in full...)
My BF's ex trapped him into fathering her child, so what's to say she won't go even further?
Q. I've been with my boyfriend for about a year now. A few months into the relationship he told me he had gotten another girl pregnant. (she was an X but they had broken up years before, and she went into the military and came home on leave) To mak...
A. 9 April 2006: Where shall I start?
Ok, lets go.....there is no way a girl can trap a guy into having a baby. Shall I explain why? Because if her was so obsessed with not having a child he would have used a condom with her. Contraception is both sexual part... (read in full...)
Am I a 'zoophile'? I saw two dogs mating and it gave me a thrill! Help
Q. I think i might be a zoophile... Yesterday I was in the park watching 2 dogs mating and I got this rush, like when I kiss my boyfriend. Now I'm terrified that I'll start getting feelings for the animals themselves. What should i do?...
A. 9 April 2006: WTF?????
Are you for real?
lol... (read in full...)
Why can't I get my girlfriend's past sex life out of my head?
Q. Hey out there, I'm going crazy. Well I'm having trouble with my girlfriend's past. She has had sex with 15 other guys and had sexual relations with at least 6 more. I try not to bring it up but it comes up in my head a lot, to the point where I get ...
A. 9 April 2006: Why do they need to *tell the truht from the beginning?* And why would you NED to know if it is going to hurt you so much? You slept with 11 people....why is that any dofferent? What is the importance of a wpman having slept with less people than ... (read in full...)
Why can't I get my girlfriend's past sex life out of my head?
Q. Hey out there, I'm going crazy. Well I'm having trouble with my girlfriend's past. She has had sex with 15 other guys and had sexual relations with at least 6 more. I try not to bring it up but it comes up in my head a lot, to the point where I get ...
A. 7 April 2006: There are a lot of answers on here from men saying that they cannot get over *slutty* behaviour, referring to *conquests* etc. I find that offensive. I find it offensive in 2006 that it would appear a large majority of men find a problem in their ... (read in full...)
After I got drunk and got sick at his place things weren't the same...
Q. I met a wonderful guy in October and we were both very compatible. I drank a bit too much one night and a girlfriend dropped me to his place and I was not well. I have drunk as much on other occasions 5 glasses and not got sick.I think it may have ...
A. 7 April 2006: He just wasn't that into you. So move on and get over it.... (read in full...)
Why can't I get my girlfriend's past sex life out of my head?
Q. Hey out there, I'm going crazy. Well I'm having trouble with my girlfriend's past. She has had sex with 15 other guys and had sexual relations with at least 6 more. I try not to bring it up but it comes up in my head a lot, to the point where I get ...
A. 7 April 2006: Conquest? Purleeze! She cannot be a conquest, by saying that your are acting as if she had no choice to sleep with these men. A conquest = being conquered. Get over it.
Guess what males and females are equal in society nowadays. So how abou... (read in full...)
Am I a 'zoophile'? I saw two dogs mating and it gave me a thrill! Help
Q. I think i might be a zoophile... Yesterday I was in the park watching 2 dogs mating and I got this rush, like when I kiss my boyfriend. Now I'm terrified that I'll start getting feelings for the animals themselves. What should i do?...
A. 6 April 2006: C'mon, if this isnt a question written by an individual who is making them up for fun I dont know what is?... (read in full...)
I stayed after school and ended up having sex with my ICT teacher!
Q. I really fancy my ICT teacher. Then last night I stayed at school late to finish my dida (ICT ) coursework, and during that time, me and my teacher were talking and he leaned over and kissed me. We ended up having sex and now I don't know what to ...
A. 30 March 2006: I find it difficult to explain how i felt, cos at the time i really loved him and I know he loved me cos he asked me to marry him. When I dumped him at 21 it broke HIS heart!! But I also know this is an abuse of a dynamic that is taboo in western ... (read in full...)
I stayed after school and ended up having sex with my ICT teacher!
Q. I really fancy my ICT teacher. Then last night I stayed at school late to finish my dida (ICT ) coursework, and during that time, me and my teacher were talking and he leaned over and kissed me. We ended up having sex and now I don't know what to ...
A. 30 March 2006: Dear anon
Please learn from this siutation. Please dont put yourslef in vulnerable situations like this again. Only ever see this man when you are with others if you dont want to be tempted into doing something you shouldnt. And IF there is a ch... (read in full...)
I stayed after school and ended up having sex with my ICT teacher!
Q. I really fancy my ICT teacher. Then last night I stayed at school late to finish my dida (ICT ) coursework, and during that time, me and my teacher were talking and he leaned over and kissed me. We ended up having sex and now I don't know what to ...
A. 30 March 2006: I have no issues with disagreements!!! But can I just point out (and this is from experience), I did nearly exactly the same thing when I was a few months from my 17th birthday. I had a long term affair with my psychology teacher who was 30. I ... (read in full...)
I stayed after school and ended up having sex with my ICT teacher!
Q. I really fancy my ICT teacher. Then last night I stayed at school late to finish my dida (ICT ) coursework, and during that time, me and my teacher were talking and he leaned over and kissed me. We ended up having sex and now I don't know what to ...
A. 30 March 2006: Obviously you already realise what you are doing is wrong. For the sake of your mental health and your teacher's career don't do it again. You agreed to it and I think it is a matter of pickiness to say that because you are months away from your ... (read in full...)
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