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writes: Myself and my girlfriend of three years have broken up suddenly..she says she wasn't happy anymore..although i know there might have been reasons for this..it was so out of the blue and in about 3 days after the breakup , she started saying "things are so easy now", and "i'm over it"..not a care in the world about our house or pets, ect..she is on zoloft and i suspect has had some sort of emotional problems her whole life..in the 4 months since we have been broken up, she starts to cry as soon as i bring anything up..doesn't want to talk about anything b/c it is too emotional?My questioin is..can zoloft do this to someone? Make them less caring about things?? I thought it was supposed to make people better? She seems so cold..didn't respond to any of my letters, e-mails...remember this was really out of the blue
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 April 2006): no..I am a fireman and have worked really hard to try and build a life together..when we first moved into the house together..i found an e-mail to another man,,somewhat innocent, but we had a fight about ..she came to me crying saying i was the most important person to her, she was sorry, it was a an old friend and that she feels so unhappy sometimes and she doesn't know why and that she couldn't do it alone and needed help..i love her, so i said i would get her couseling through the fire dept..she never went..said it was too far for her, too busy, ect..and it was..but i really tried..this was about 6 months before we broke up..she does cry very easily and it seems as tough around the same time we broke up and she starting saying things like "i'm over it", "i'm done with", ect about our relationship, she also starting saying the sames things about her job.."i hate it", "i'm done with it", "don't care about it", ect..
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reader, willywombat  +, writes (21 April 2006):
 You may remind her of the bad times she has been through. Or she may have come to the conclusion that she was using you as an emotional crutch and needed to *go it alone*. Whilst it may appear *out of the blue* for you it may have been something which ahd been on her mind for a while. Sometimes it can be very difficult to know what another person is thinking or feeling, even when you ahve been together for a while.
Anti-depressant therapy should really be used with some sort of cognitive/ counselling therapy. Is your ex gf having any other help.
And in answer to your question, yes the anti-d's can make a difference to over-emotional people like this. They can help them cope better without bursting into floods of tears or being *wired* and angry all the time. This is obviously a big change in her behaviour for you to cope with and I really feel for you. I dont know what will happen, but I hope she will manage to work thru her issues and make some positive changes for the better. I hope it all works out for you to honey.
Good luck.
xxx
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