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I have four children. I'm a single parent, of two children a boy (19) and a girl (10). My ex-wife has the two children we share living with her, 2 girls (16, and 14).
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6 July 2008: This is an article I received from local news. When reading this I think about how important it is to know who you know, and to notice changes in the behaviors of others. In cases like this, the agressor displays subtle signs prior to acting. He may ...
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I'm in love with my Godfather
Q. I am a 22 year old female who is in love with my Godfather. Surprisingly enough, he has confessed to me that if he wasn't my Godfather, he would marry me. I really don't know what to do. I have dreams about him at night and I want to start a ...
A. 3 December 2010: I didn't know his wife was also around your age. I'm sorry you're going through this hard time. Have you considered spending your time volunteering around this season? You might even meet someone else who is doing the same that you might begin a ... (read in full...)
I'm in love with my Godfather
Q. I am a 22 year old female who is in love with my Godfather. Surprisingly enough, he has confessed to me that if he wasn't my Godfather, he would marry me. I really don't know what to do. I have dreams about him at night and I want to start a ...
A. 19 October 2010: I'm sorry you didn't get the job. Keep your head up. During my life, I've had times where I didn't get a position, then around the corner I end up getting one that ends up being better for me than the one I didn't get. You never know what's around ... (read in full...)
I'm in love with my Godfather
Q. I am a 22 year old female who is in love with my Godfather. Surprisingly enough, he has confessed to me that if he wasn't my Godfather, he would marry me. I really don't know what to do. I have dreams about him at night and I want to start a ...
A. 13 October 2010: Your welcome. Thank you for the new name, that's sweet. Keep us updated, and if you need anything else, just ask. Take care. ... (read in full...)
I'm in love with my Godfather
Q. I am a 22 year old female who is in love with my Godfather. Surprisingly enough, he has confessed to me that if he wasn't my Godfather, he would marry me. I really don't know what to do. I have dreams about him at night and I want to start a ...
A. 11 October 2010: You may not think you do, but I assure you that God holds true to every reason you do. I believe you deserve every opportunity that best reflects who you are, and who (in every moment) you're developing to be.
I hope you get that job. :)... (read in full...)
I'm in love with my Godfather
Q. I am a 22 year old female who is in love with my Godfather. Surprisingly enough, he has confessed to me that if he wasn't my Godfather, he would marry me. I really don't know what to do. I have dreams about him at night and I want to start a ...
A. 9 October 2010: You know, sometimes when hurt and broken, God renews and makes whole, but through new opportunities. I hope you get the job. :) Take care. ... (read in full...)
I'm in love with my Godfather
Q. I am a 22 year old female who is in love with my Godfather. Surprisingly enough, he has confessed to me that if he wasn't my Godfather, he would marry me. I really don't know what to do. I have dreams about him at night and I want to start a ...
A. 14 September 2010: Glad to hear the update. That's exciting. I hope everything works out for you. Take care. ... (read in full...)
I'm in love with my Godfather
Q. I am a 22 year old female who is in love with my Godfather. Surprisingly enough, he has confessed to me that if he wasn't my Godfather, he would marry me. I really don't know what to do. I have dreams about him at night and I want to start a ...
A. 23 August 2010: It's amazing when I hear how God directly works in lives. Congrats. You made the right choice and bettered yourself and your position by doing so. I'm glad to hear you're doing okay. Take care. ... (read in full...)
I'm in love with my Godfather
Q. I am a 22 year old female who is in love with my Godfather. Surprisingly enough, he has confessed to me that if he wasn't my Godfather, he would marry me. I really don't know what to do. I have dreams about him at night and I want to start a ...
A. 16 August 2010: Okay, it's past August 12. How are you doing? I hope okay. ... (read in full...)
I'm in love with my Godfather
Q. I am a 22 year old female who is in love with my Godfather. Surprisingly enough, he has confessed to me that if he wasn't my Godfather, he would marry me. I really don't know what to do. I have dreams about him at night and I want to start a ...
A. 2 August 2010: I know it's going to take time. Remember, I'm going through what you are, but from the opposite side. She was younger, I proposed, she accepted, then decided I'm not going to be part of her future goals. Trust me, I know exactly what you're going ... (read in full...)
I'm in love with my Godfather
Q. I am a 22 year old female who is in love with my Godfather. Surprisingly enough, he has confessed to me that if he wasn't my Godfather, he would marry me. I really don't know what to do. I have dreams about him at night and I want to start a ...
A. 30 July 2010: I know what you're going through. I was with someone who was also younger than I was. You put your faith and trust in someone, but you also have to realize that with the difference in your age, was he looking for what you were looking for. It seems ... (read in full...)
Should I continue to confide in my sister?
Q. I think my sister has seriously thought about killing my husband. My husband is not a good person, and the more i confide in her, i think it just makes her angerier, and if he was gone it really would be better for me and the children. He isn't ...
A. 18 August 2009: If you're working on getting out, I wouldn't confide in her. She kills him, you leave, then you'd be out of a sister. I know what you mean by strategic planning. My ex was not all there mentally, due to a major behavior disorder. I had to plan. Did ... (read in full...)
I really want to have a romantic relationship but I'm terrified!
Q. Hey everyone- I'm new here! (sorry about the length in advance) I guess I found this forum after having a rough couple of days. I think I needed some reassurance, or some advice! A bit about me. I'm 20 and nearly 21 years old. I'm nearly f...
A. 17 August 2009: You skipped the question of whether or not you self please. With your answer, I expected you'd do so. You have yourself so absolutely closed, it's like locking a gate and keeping everyone out. You don't have to be slutty or flirtatious to have ... (read in full...)
I wish my boyfriend was better but he's the father of my child.
Q. Hi i have been with the father of my child for almost 4 years.We met my senior year and it was great we broke up about 6 months into the relastionship but got back together because we thought i was pregnant. I wasnt it was a mistake but he changed ...
A. 17 August 2009: drunk, kissed the friend, may be forgivable and move on. What stopped that idea was his hitting you a few times. I am not, and will never be convinced that physical abuse in a relationships is acceptable. You two have a child. Does he hit you in ... (read in full...)
Am I her drunken mistake or does she want a relationship?
Q. I hooked up with this girl (who I’ve flirted with at prior parties) at a party but didn’t have sex with her because we were both too drunk. I got her number, been texting each other lots about whatever, and have made out with her once since our ...
A. 17 August 2009: I think she's been fed a line of crap more than once. "That's what she wanted to hear." Is she saying that as "I appreciate you saying that." or as "I've been told that before." I'd ask her, what's conflicting? What does she want, if anything? Get ... (read in full...)
I really want to have a romantic relationship but I'm terrified!
Q. Hey everyone- I'm new here! (sorry about the length in advance) I guess I found this forum after having a rough couple of days. I think I needed some reassurance, or some advice! A bit about me. I'm 20 and nearly 21 years old. I'm nearly f...
A. 17 August 2009: I'm going to apologize first for being blunt. When answering a question I don't believe candy coating or dodging around a topic that may be embarrassing or difficult to face helps the individual requesting advise.
Your question leaves out a fe... (read in full...)
He says the age difference bugs him, but why doesn't he even try?
Q. Okay I grew up and I am a lot more mature and smarter when it comes to relationships and guys. And yet, I have a question and it has been bugging me for so long. I REALLY like this guy, he is smart and sweet and funny, all I want. I can talk to him ...
A. 17 August 2009: To me, it sounds as if he's in college, so he wants to known for dating college girls. Then you'll be in college, so then he can date you once you begin. I'd ask him to be truthful, and why does he feel this way or what his true intentions are. ... (read in full...)
My husband stopped having sexual desire!
Q. I really need some good advice here. I'm having lots of trouble finding it out why my husband stopped having sexual desire. He went to the doctor and they said he is healthy, so it's must be some psychological stuff. Now ,we also went to sex ther...
A. 17 August 2009: Has there been any dramatic changes over the past few years, other than his lost desire? There can be so many causes, the information here is not enough to direct you to what it may be. Seeing a sex therapist would be the best. Just continue going ... (read in full...)
Wife tied me up for bondage then proceeded to list all the things I did wrong, and no sex!
Q. hi aunty,I got married for 6 months now..2 nights back,we decided for bondage sex,so my wife tied me down to the bed with handcuffs..intially she teased me and kissed..once I was tied up properly and at her mercy..she slapped me..and then yelled at ...
A. 16 August 2009: First, I'd think twice about doing anything with her that includes any type of restraint. That is mean, although the idea for the way you were lectured is fairly humorous but damn, if I were naked that last person I'd want to be talking about is my ... (read in full...)
With friends like this....
Q. okay, so im seventeen and ive never actually had a boyfriend, i was more interested in my school work, i was interested in boys, but felt i was too young for a relationship.. etc :) well recently, me and this guy (dean) have been talking, alot. we ...
A. 16 August 2009: You believe him? I think I would too. Your friend may have been with everyone, but if she really did suck him off, I don't think she'd be calling you and bragging about it. I think she knows about your getting close and called to give you a hard ... (read in full...)
Struggling to cope with my husband led me to sleep with another man...but now he has gone distant. What should I do? Should I try to make my marriage work?
Q. I do not know exactly what I am asking here, but let me just begin. I have been in a marriage to an addict ( alcohol/prescription meds) for almost 15 yrs.. I really don't even consider it a marriage since I am more of a mother or a nurse to him. ...
A. 15 August 2009: Life is hard. It throws us many obstacles, some of which are easy to overcome and others (dealing with addiction) can be much more difficult. As far as having an affair. That's how you chose to cope with the situation. At the time it may have been ... (read in full...)
I'm having serious problems with my kids, and now I don't know if I wish to see anyone in my family again. Please help
Q. [MOD NOTE: Two questions posted together] I know my children will be fine, son of 17 and daughter of 14. They went into independence early and their social skills are advanced. Knowledge has been fed into them. I studied psychology etc... But what...
A. 15 August 2009: You have feelings, or you wouldn't be on here asking this question. This is a serious problem, and although independent in some ways, having ODD will not allow their independents to be successful. I haven't worked with many ODD clients. The ones I ... (read in full...)
How can I be there for my ex after his fathers death, without getting in between him and his girlfriend?
Q. I have fallen back in love with my ex, he has a new girlfriend, and even though me and him are still friends I have taken a step back and had less contact with him because of her. Although I would love to have him back I am not the sort of woman who ...
A. 12 August 2009: that sounds like an appropriate way to handle it. and it's non threatening to his current relationship.... (read in full...)
I'm in love with my Godfather
Q. I am a 22 year old female who is in love with my Godfather. Surprisingly enough, he has confessed to me that if he wasn't my Godfather, he would marry me. I really don't know what to do. I have dreams about him at night and I want to start a ...
A. 12 August 2009: These feelings are not perverted. Whoever you begin a relationship with is about you. Not about hurting family. ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend's best friend is very attractive...
Q. Been with my bf for 9 months and I love him so much. The problem is that I find his best friend extremely attractive and I find myself thinking about him all the time. I think he might find me attractive too because he always hangs out with me in ...
A. 12 August 2009: Your saying that you love him so much. If that were the case, how you view his friend would not make any difference. So, your question would also cause question to how you view your boyfriend, or if your love with him is true. ... (read in full...)
My criticism has hurt girlfriend over years-- I've changed, need advice!
Q. I have been with my girlfriend for 3 years. She is 23, I am 30. She has loved me very genuinely since almost the beginning. Very sweet, good-hearted, supportive, loving woman, who has expressed that she sees herself marrying me. We are a great ...
A. 12 August 2009: Take the trip. You've already paid for it. Your plans may have change for when you get there, but why should your money for the trip go to waste? You need this vacation. Take it and enjoy yourself. ... (read in full...)
I feel my wife wants me to compromise too much. thoughts please?
Q. We all know that marriage is about giving and compromising, but what should I do if the compromise I have to make is against the personal values i hold dear, and I have to give in to demands that don't make sense to me? My newly married wife and...
A. 11 August 2009: Should you compromise and ignore those of importance to you. I'd say no. You still hold her at great importance to you. I can, however, see how this unfolds. She wants to be the center of your attention, and doing something for someone else takes ... (read in full...)
She read my e-mail, about her weight, and dumped me, any advice?
Q. My girlfriend of 11 months invaded my privacy, went through an email and saw an email I sent my best friend which said exactly this: "I love my girlfriend. She has a beautiful face, but she is letting herself go. How can I get her to drop 15-20lbs?" ...
A. 11 August 2009: You talked to someone else other than her. I understand where you said she violated your trust. From her side, you violated hers too. You didn't accept her for who she is. This additional weight is part of her, therefore you're not accepting her.
... (read in full...)
How can I trust my husband? His words and actions do not match
Q. How do I know,that my husband is tellig the truth,and I'm not going to be just a ''victim''? Well,a few years ago,he stopped being sexual with me, what left me totally puzzeled ,specially , because it came so suddenly. Now, he always looks lik...
A. 11 August 2009: You're married. At one point have been intimate. So, why do you fear what may be the truth. You want to call it off, without finding out first? I'd ask him, "we stopped having sex, I don't feel loved, what's going on?" If you left, wouldn't you ... (read in full...)
I want to get close to him but I'm afraid of catching something!
Q. ok i have this really gig problem i am with a guy that is alot older than me and i like him so much but im so scared of getting close to him and have any kind of sexually contact with him because im scared of catching something and afraid that ...
A. 11 August 2009: I agree with the other poster. If I were interested in a girl, but afraid of catching something, I'd become not so interested quickly. Your first duty is to yourself, and you do not owe anyone or are obligated to give sexual anything. It sounds like ... (read in full...)
Why did my ex call, then not pick up when I rang him back?
Q. My ex and I have been broken up since April/May. He broke up with me after we had a misunderstanding and fought verbally. I did the usual, called him, sent emails, love songss and all, till June 25th, then stopped and decided to move on. I was ...
A. 11 August 2009: I read some of your past posts. And, why would you waste your time on someone who cheats on you? Going after him as you had is like saying that you don't deserve better. So, why do you just settle and chase after someone who doesn't seem as if he's ... (read in full...)
My criticism has hurt girlfriend over years-- I've changed, need advice!
Q. I have been with my girlfriend for 3 years. She is 23, I am 30. She has loved me very genuinely since almost the beginning. Very sweet, good-hearted, supportive, loving woman, who has expressed that she sees herself marrying me. We are a great ...
A. 11 August 2009: Still that's what you need to do. I also urge you watch the movie "Fireproof" before going to visit her. It really could be a great help and give some additional ideas. I've watched it a couple of times over the past couple of days. It's simply ... (read in full...)
My criticism has hurt girlfriend over years-- I've changed, need advice!
Q. I have been with my girlfriend for 3 years. She is 23, I am 30. She has loved me very genuinely since almost the beginning. Very sweet, good-hearted, supportive, loving woman, who has expressed that she sees herself marrying me. We are a great ...
A. 11 August 2009: In counseling, have they gone over the emotional bank account? Where you make deposits and withdraws. If you make more withdraws than deposits your partner will start calling it quits.
Be honest with her. How you see how your behavior has been... (read in full...)
I can't deal with the affair I'm having with my teacher knowing I will lose him one day
Q. Am in emotional turmoil. Please don't pass moral judgment on me because I know that I will seem wrong. I lost my virginity the other day to my married former teacher. We have the most intense, intimate, amazing friendship I know I will ever expe...
A. 10 August 2009: Your life is only in ruins if you allow it to be. This guy may not be one you're going to end up with, but you have a memorable experience that a very very small percentage of girls can claim. That is having a good first time sexual experience. ... (read in full...)
A few questions on pregnancy...
Q. can you get pregnant from anal sex? my friends say that it won't count as you losing your virginity and you can't get pregnant.also can you get pregnant if he pulls it out before he releases sperm can you get pregnant? thats also what they told me ...
A. 10 August 2009: I'd have to agree with the other poster. This is not a question for strangers to answer. Ask your parents, not your friends because they know just about as much as you do. ... (read in full...)
My married lover went back to his wife when he said he wouldn't!
Q. I'm in love with a married man. he was thrown out of his home on several occasions. 4 out 7 times he came to live with me. so the last time he said to me he wasn't going back. he did!!! I'm so hurt over it but knows I got to move on ! please help me ...
A. 10 August 2009: Married people have marital problems. Often would rather work out problems than get a divorce. I agree with the percentage the other poster gave. If he's loving on you and married, he still has someone he's committed to. I highly recommend if you ... (read in full...)
Do guys prefer slim girls to chubby girls?
Q. i wonder if guys like skinny girls more than chubby or fat ones?like one day it was this guy and he was in the restaurant sitting down then he will look at all the skinny girls and say hi and stuff.but when a fat girl went pass he didnt say ...
A. 10 August 2009: Laughing at someone cause they don't fit a personal preference is shallow. When you get older, seems as if looks aren't as important. Such as finding a long term partner. It's not going to last if you only have someone to look at. It's important to ... (read in full...)
Love of my live - mother of my son, Everything seemed fine! Then suddenly she broke it off! What do I do?
Q. ok, this is the first time ive done this. so here it goes. i met this girl, and for a couple weeks we flirted and just kind of picked on each other.it finally came about that we liked each other, so we started hanging out. we went on a couple d...
A. 10 August 2009: I agree it seems salvageable. Where is her daughters father through all this? If you could elaborate further. ... (read in full...)
Thanks to Agony Uncle RCN! You helped me immensely!
Q. My last post didn't show up because I guess it wasn't "question" related. But it is an update from what I posted on the first of August. rcn was a major help and I would like to thank him for everything he told me. I did exactly what he said and it ...
A. 10 August 2009: Your welcome. I was waiting for your response to this. lol You guys have a good future, and I think with how long you've known each other, your six month anniversary sounds perfect for popping the question. Take care. ... (read in full...)
Love of my live - mother of my son, Everything seemed fine! Then suddenly she broke it off! What do I do?
Q. ok, this is the first time ive done this. so here it goes. i met this girl, and for a couple weeks we flirted and just kind of picked on each other.it finally came about that we liked each other, so we started hanging out. we went on a couple d...
A. 10 August 2009: I agree with the other poster. This is sad.
What I'm wondering though is who got a hold of her in Louisiana? Reason being, if this was how she felt the whole time, I believe she would have expressed those feelings or not allowed your relation... (read in full...)
How have other women overcome the constant abuse of their man?
Q. I have put up with my husbands abuse for too many years and have asked him to leave. Now he is refusing and seems hellbent to bring me down to his level by psycological tactics eg starting arguments before I go to work being rude to my friends ...
A. 9 August 2009: You may need to involve the authorities to have him removed from the home. Let me ask you something. Where in marriage law or in the definition of love does it say it's okay to abuse the person you claim to love? I've finally found the girl I plan ... (read in full...)
Why did my ex call, then not pick up when I rang him back?
Q. My ex and I have been broken up since April/May. He broke up with me after we had a misunderstanding and fought verbally. I did the usual, called him, sent emails, love songss and all, till June 25th, then stopped and decided to move on. I was ...
A. 9 August 2009: Thank you for the email. There is no reason why you should have to play games. I don't think it was a mistake either. He may have wanted to considered talking to you. If he really desired doing so, wouldn't he be more persistent in getting a hold of ... (read in full...)
Sex problems - it's spoiling our relationship! How can we fix it?
Q. Long question, but can you please advise me? I've been in a relationship for about a month or so now, and it has recently become a sexual relationship. But for how ever many reasons, it isn't as simple as I think it should be. There are a num...
A. 9 August 2009: I'd ask questions. Why do you feel uncomfortable? Do you enjoy fearing waking the family when we have sex? What can I do to make staying with me comfortable for you?
In order for your relationship to work, there really has to be a compromi... (read in full...)
Is it possible for me to be with him and have my independance too?
Q. Help! I don't know who I have become. I've become someone I despise; an overbearing, desperate, needy girl. I never thought it would happen to me. I thought I was more independent than that. My bf broke up with me. I texted him and asked him to work ...
A. 8 August 2009: Yes you can. A true, real relationship is not about seeking happiness. It's about sharing happiness. I've spoke with many couples over the years. I enjoy hearing stories from older married couples. What I've found, that sustains their marriage is ... (read in full...)
After all the ups and downs in our marriage, she wants a divorce but I don't. How can I win my wife back?
Q. This will probably be a long post because a lot has happened in such a short marriage. My wife and I have been together for almost 5 years and married for a year and a half. I had a daughter with someone else prior to meeting my wife and when I ...
A. 8 August 2009: Between you and her, who brought up seeking counseling and set up those meetings? What we hear to often "he'll never change" I believe is present throughout your whole time of attempting to. Understand, you can't fix a marriage on your own. It ... (read in full...)
How to handle feelings for married teacher/mentor?
Q. I have begun to think of my martial art master in a romantic way. He is kind, generous, and giving. In martial arts we show respect and have trust relationship with our teacher/master. I know he is treating me just like all of his adult students ...
A. 8 August 2009: You can admire him without being romantically involved with him. I don't think quitting his class would be beneficial for you. You have a crush on a teacher, if this were high school and people could quit because of crushes, I couldn't image how ... (read in full...)
Sex problems - it's spoiling our relationship! How can we fix it?
Q. Long question, but can you please advise me? I've been in a relationship for about a month or so now, and it has recently become a sexual relationship. But for how ever many reasons, it isn't as simple as I think it should be. There are a num...
A. 8 August 2009: Why is it not comfortable for her to stay somewhere else? Does she have an abnormal attachment to her home? Aside from bedtime, does she leave much, go out and hang out with you other places? Not placing blame, just finding answers. Aside from the ... (read in full...)
He kept me waiting but didn't call me back, should I be upset?
Q. my boyfriend and i are in what i think a good relationship... i also like to think we express our loves differently. for example i call him a lot more than he does and he says i love you more. but last night we had an argument that lead up to me not ...
A. 8 August 2009: Looking at this from both sides. Maybe it was late. If so, he may have thought he was doing you a favor by not calling. Then from your side, that late night phone call would have been better than no phone call at all.
Unless this happens often, I... (read in full...)
Is it possible for me to be with him and have my independance too?
Q. Help! I don't know who I have become. I've become someone I despise; an overbearing, desperate, needy girl. I never thought it would happen to me. I thought I was more independent than that. My bf broke up with me. I texted him and asked him to work ...
A. 8 August 2009: Coming to terms that you're not the only one with independence. Your relationship should be, you're having your life, he has his life, then you have your life together. The begging, don't worry about it. Even the independent loose track when trying ... (read in full...)
What can I do about my our sex life? Our honeymoon period didn't even outlast the honeymoon!
Q. My wife and I have been married just over a month now and the "honeymoon period" as it were, didn't even last through the honeymoon. We had sex on the wedding night, which by mutual agreement was fantastic. However on our honeymoon, which lasted o...
A. 8 August 2009: I'd recommend trying new things. Ask her, if you were to spice up your sex life, what would she want. People love having sex, but they dread talking about what they might want from their partner. Being silent leads to these ruts where she might be ... (read in full...)
I don't know what to do about the lying and cheating I've done!
Q. Okay, my boyfriend and I have been together for over a year now. I love him more than anything in the world, and care about him immensely. We have an amazing amazing connection and are best friends. HOWEVER, 5 months ago he moved away for ...
A. 8 August 2009: Although you cheated, you pulled back before the sex. To often the one who cheats will let it go all the way.
Sounds like you both need to talk. Come clean, and him too. The problem I see is these things happening when you're fighting. This say... (read in full...)
Would you consider my boyfriend a paedophile because of the age difference?
Q. My boyfriend is about ten years older than me. The thing is, he and his parents are good friends of my mother and father. I've known him my whole life. Would you consider this a violation of trust? Many of my friends have called him a pedoph...
A. 8 August 2009: Do you consider him to be preying on you? You consider him your boyfriend, did he manipulate you into choosing him? A pedophile is someone who's attracted to young girls, and attempt sexual contact for no other reason than the fact that they are ... (read in full...)
I can't deal with the affair I'm having with my teacher knowing I will lose him one day
Q. Am in emotional turmoil. Please don't pass moral judgment on me because I know that I will seem wrong. I lost my virginity the other day to my married former teacher. We have the most intense, intimate, amazing friendship I know I will ever expe...
A. 2 August 2009: Who said anything about forgetting? You still need to live your life. Don't allow yourself to be disabled because of this love. He's a good friend, although this choice may not have been, but truthfully, what would he want for you? I don't think ... (read in full...)
I can't deal with the affair I'm having with my teacher knowing I will lose him one day
Q. Am in emotional turmoil. Please don't pass moral judgment on me because I know that I will seem wrong. I lost my virginity the other day to my married former teacher. We have the most intense, intimate, amazing friendship I know I will ever expe...
A. 1 August 2009: "losing my virginity to him was the most perfect, wonderful thing I've ever experienced; i felt i could have just died happily in his arms." This is different than what we often hear. Although, having an affair is wrong, you can actually treasure ... (read in full...)
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