Sister and husband had an affair, and I am expected to act all happy at family gatherings!
Q. Dear Cupid, I'd married my first love for more than 10 years. we have one college daughter. Few years ago, I found out he cheated with my younger sister. I filed for a divorce, but never left our house beacause he was begging, crying ...
A. 13 May 2013: Your daughter is old enough. I would divorce him. ... (read in full...)
There were five condoms in the drawer and now there are none!
Q. Hello my question is my baby father had like 5 condoms for one we don't use them I check his draw beside every time and seen he had them now its empty my suggest to any women what would you but he doesn't know that I even know about. I've worried ...
A. 13 May 2013: This doesn't mean he must have cheated.
He could have
- thrown them out
- used them while masturbating
- give them to a friend
- put them somewhere else
Just ask him where are the condoms.... (read in full...)
I have a very low sex drive. Please help. Is there anything that could help?
Q. Hi-I LOVE my fiance so very much. We both have full time jobs and two dogs that take up a lot of our time ). I have no self esteem issues what so ever, I a very confident person. Our relationship is very lovey and we truly are in love- never ar...
A. 13 May 2013: There are people who you can talk to about your low sex drive: Doctors, Psychologists, Gynaecologist (I am sure you wouldn't be the first lady with this problem) and your fiance( he might have some insight).
People on this website are not expe... (read in full...)
If I tell anyone I'm gay...I'm dead....literally!
Q. Hi, I could really use some help advice. I'm 22 and where I live being gay is a no-no, but I fear that I might be gay or at least bi, but I'm not very sure I dunno what to label myself as I'm so confused. Honestly I don't want to be either. Ever...
A. 4 September 2011: Ok so I recommend an experiment. Go to your laptop turn on men porn and then women porn and you will see if you are gay/bi/straith. I feel bad for you because of you homophobic family and all that stuff, but if you are gay its because you were... (read in full...)
I have a fantasy about my wife being with another woman. Should I tell her?
Q. Hi I need some advice I've been with my wife for a while now and I know she is bi curious. I have always had the fantasy of seeing her with another girl. Do I explain I no about her curious fantasy and ask her if she wants to live it out? I no she ...
A. 4 September 2011: Let her know what she thinks about that and go from there. But be careful because three-somes that involve married couples sometimes dont go as the married couple thought it would go.
I dont know if she had experienced sex with another woman or... (read in full...)
Lesbian friend going too far!!
Q. Hey everyone, I am a 16 year old female, I have a boyfriend and I love him to death but my best friend is really starting to get in the way! She admited to me two weeks ago that she is a lesbian and she hasn't stopped harassing me since. She keeps ...
A. 4 September 2011: Poor guy :/ I think that she might have more than sexual feelings for you.. You are straith and you love your boyfriend. Thats all there is to it. Tell her that your not bi(not even curious) and that she is your best friend but you want it t... (read in full...)
Sexy photos of me in a frame or on a t-shirt as a gift? Any low budget date ideas?
Q. would it be okay as a gift for my boyfriend of 9months to get some sexy photos done of me and either give him one really nice one in a frame or maybe get it printed on a tshirt or something? Does this sound like a good idea? If not what else might ...
A. 14 June 2011: Maybe you can do somthing for him instead of buying , or making for something for him. Its no budget kinda gift but i bet he will love it... (read in full...)
I think I might have commitment issues!
Q. Well Recently, I've noticed that everytime I go out with someone, when I start getting to know them and they start getting to know me, I start to back out a little. It happened in my previous relationship. I felt we were moving to fast so I felt I ...
A. 6 June 2011: You are 15 :) you can't have commitment issues.... (read in full...)
Unattractive, no confidence, how do I talk to girls?
Q. Basicly i am a very unattractive guy, i have no confidence whatsover in myself or my appearence , i want to change how i look but do not have the guts to do it and i want to know how to talk to girls, and i dont know if i girl is genuinly interested ...
A. 4 June 2011: Go to the gym, take care of your self.
Women like confident men so even tho you would be able to talk to girls you won't attract them either by your apperance or by your personality.
I had the same problem as you have now but I started goin... (read in full...)
Is my gf cheating on me?
Q. Basically what I want to know, is whether or not my girlfriend is cheating on me. After a bad break-up my fiancee and I got back together, against many friend's wishes.. But lately she is texting ALL the time when she's with me, it's either ...
A. 4 June 2011: I m sorry. Your friends were right. I don't see the situation getting any better.
I can't really give you proper advice on this because I don't know you or her at all.
But your friends care about you and know what's best for you as they acctual... (read in full...)
Girl I like was really quiet on our date. What does this mean?
Q. Hi cupid, This girl told me she liked me by saying that as long as I'm at her party than that's all that matters. So because I liked her as well I decided to ask her out. We went to the cinema and for something to eat. She was really quiet whi...
A. 4 June 2011: Well from all this it seems that she's not that much into you. BUT she could of been nervous or something, so you can ask her out again and see what the response is.... (read in full...)
I am 17, in love with a 47 year old married man, my parents don't like him, what should I do here??
Q. I am in love with a married man. He loves me back but we have never been physical and he has not cheated on his wife except for being in love with me. He has wanted a divorce with his wife for a long time, even before he met me and before we were ...
A. 3 June 2011: I m sorry you are 17 and he is 47. Thats it. He's too old for you. There is no actual future in this. And he's married. You never met him. He could be lieing.
I m sorry but you should stay away from this guy.... (read in full...)
Is there a way to get a guy's respect back after you gave yourself to him too soon?
Q. Just a quick question, dearest Aunts. (: I was casually seeing a guy I was very interested in, and was adamant to myself that I was going to hold out a long time before I slept with him, but one night I slipped up, I just couldn't help mysel...
A. 3 June 2011: Yes there is tell him why you did it so soon. But why do you think you lost his respect towards you ?... (read in full...)
Can a girl get pregnant from this?
Q. Can a girl get pregnant just by inserting tip of the penis without a condom and cumming outside the vagina?...
A. 3 June 2011: She can but she is unlikely to get pregnant.( If you precum whilst tip of you penis was in, than the chance is higher)
But don't get all freaky and scared because everyone here said yes. The chance of her being pregnant is not very high... (read in full...)
My phone was stolen, am I right in assuming the person has kept and been through my personal information?
Q. I know this is for relationships, but i'm stressing and having an anxiety attack right now!! I really want some truth because everyone's being nice about what could of happened. Two nights ago i lost my phone in a bar/club, it's not been traced ...
A. 3 June 2011: You can't do anything about it right now , so why worry so much ?
The possiblity that someone used your picture or did something with them is very unlikely.
My asumption is that they deleted all the stuff and sold the phone as "hardly used"... (read in full...)
How can we spice up our sex life?
Q. Hello me and my boyfrienf of 1 year and a half we have had sex loads of times before but we want to sauce things up and get expermenting do you know any good moves or tips we can try out to get it more saucy and sexy again . Thankz ...
A. 3 June 2011: Well its hard to give you advice since we don't really know what you currently consider normal or regular sex.
But there are many books, movies, documents, articles you can find on google. Sit down with you bf and look over all this and you migh... (read in full...)
Do you think I can tell her I love her?
Q. I love a girl in the university, but there are a lot of friends around and she is known to has a lot of lovers .. Some time ago i spoke to her for the first time and asked her to re-dye her hair red as it was before and after about a week almost d...
A. 3 June 2011: Well she's not in love with you. And I think you are not in love with her too.
There is a differece between a crush and being in love.
I mean you are not even in a realationship ,so saying that you love her would only scare her off.
Take th... (read in full...)
I still have a bedwetting problem at my age. What can I do?
Q. HELLO AUNTS I have an issue of burns in my inner thighs, yesterday my girlfriend noticed the burns while have some oral fun with her, she asked me how did u get burns near your penis balls and inner thighs, I did not mention about it at firs...
A. 29 May 2011: Hypnotherapy !! ... (read in full...)
If he just wants to get physical, what does it mean?
Q. Hi, This is a question for the guys. What does it mean when a guy just wants to get physical with a girl? I don't mean violence. Does it mean he's just after sex? Thanks...
A. 19 May 2011: The word "just" is quite important there. He wants to have sex, no feelings.... (read in full...)
I lied to this hot girl and told her I've had sex but I haven't
Q. Hi dear cupids I m 18 and I don't really have any sexual experience. I tried to have sex with a girl like a year ago but I had no acctual idea what I was doing and my penis couldn't fit in her. We tried it 2 other night but I still counldn't pu...
A. 15 May 2011: Well thanks for all the support and boosting my confidence :D
I m going to do it anyways. I don't care if I screw up or anything. But I will do the best job preparing for it... (read in full...)
My husband wants 7 kids! I thought he was joking!
Q. My husband and I have been together since we were both 20 years old. I told him from the beginning that I don't care where we live as long as we get married near my hometown. He grew up in rural farm-town America and now that's where we and our kids ...
A. 14 May 2011: I m sorry, I dont really have any kids but to me it seems like 5 kids is enough. How will you get money for collage and other stuff?
I guess you are financialy well off now but things can change and having teenagery is much more expensive than havi... (read in full...)
I give him oral 24/7, but NEVER has gotten it in return, am I being selfish?
Q. Hello, I am a 18 year old female and i am mixed. I am native american and black. I been with my boyfriend for a year in a half and i have done everything to please him. I even pay for every single damn thing. I wait for him all the damn time ...
A. 14 May 2011: Ok just stop doing him any favors(bj,waiting for him all the time )
or break up with him ... (read in full...)
Wife cheated, got pregnant then didn't have the child. Why did she do this?
Q. Hi my wife had an affair 20 months ago, when she was pregnant, said the baby was mine and had an abortion. A few months ago I found out that the baby she made me grieve for was not mine. She would not talk to me about it. Eventually I have got so ...
A. 14 May 2011: I agree with CaringGuy... (read in full...)
He never tells me that he loves me anymore
Q. i love my bf like COMPLETELY, i have never met anyone like him, we have been going out for a year. he has never cheated on me or anything, we are the same age, and we see each other almost every week for example we like going to the movies, mall, ...
A. 14 May 2011: Ok how about asking him ? or telling him how you feel ?... (read in full...)
Normal for a married man to have pics on his phone of his male friend flexing his muscles at the gym?
Q. Is it normal for a married man to have pics on his phone of his male friend flexing his muscles at the gym? I don't think my husband is gay but others say it's a weird thing for a straight guy to have. He says they were just comparing muscles and ...
A. 14 May 2011: What did the picture look like ?
If he was topless or naked there is a better chance of the whole situation being gay.
Personaly I think that there is nothing gay about it. They acctualy might just compare their muscles. Which is little ... (read in full...)
Former "friend" with benefits said he wants to sleep with me, that I'm "hot" and doesn't seem to see anything wrong with it.
Q. I ended up having a "friends with benefits" type thing with a guy "friend" for nearly a year. He lives hours away so when he was in town we'd meet up etc. I ended up (stupidly) liking him, which was a shame because I found out that he was a complete ...
A. 14 May 2011: Well I guess you are looking for more sofisticated answer than "to have sex with you" .
My advice: lose all contact with him... (read in full...)
Why would a 48 year old man be interested in an 18 year old?
Q. Why would a 48 year old posh guy be sexually interested an 18 year old working class girl??? ...
A. 14 May 2011: She's 18 which says to him she is not looking for anything serious, she is young and porobably inexprienced = sex,sex,sex... (read in full...)
What does the female g-spot feel like? And where is it?
Q. hello. Just wondering if you lovely people could tell me what the female g spot feels like. And how far in it is. Many thanks ...
A. 13 May 2011: If you put your finger inside and 2/3 are in and its on the top of the vagina.
I recomend you videos of jason julius(google.com), they really helped me,
your welcome ... (read in full...)
Is my idea romantic, or over the top?
Q. Hi, I'm a affectionaste person and I just want to know if sending a truck filled with roses is an over the top espresstion of love....
A. 12 May 2011: over the top, think of something that is more romantic and less than 1000 roses.... (read in full...)
I feel obligated to sleep with him
Q. I would really appreciate if somebody could answer me. So here's the story; It begins like every other lovestory: girl meets boy, girl likes boy and boy feels the same. We started dating like two months ago nad it has been really fun. He is really c...
A. 22 March 2011: You should have sex if you really want to.
Its normal to be nervous. I mean its going to be your first time so its understandable.
But you should want to have sex. The feeling that you are obligated to have sex with him is not the right reason... (read in full...)
What is precum?
Q. I have heard the word many times. I am from Argentina, so English is not my first language but you probably won't be able to notice because I'm good at it. Still, there are some words I don't know. What the heck is precum? What does it look lik...
A. 19 March 2011: C.Grand is correct. It looks like water mixed with sperm. It usually appears when you are trying to last longer and hold it. So sperm wont come out but precum will. That is why its important to have a condom because precum usually contents a small ... (read in full...)
Guys that don't call often, should a girl mind?
Q. should the girls REALLY mind if dere boyfriend does not call her most often. ? as in 2-3 times a day. does dat mean he doesnt miss her ? or d guys are just like that only ? ...
A. 19 March 2011: He must really like you because 2-3 times a day is a lot.
I mean i call that many time maybe the first 5 day that we are dating.
... (read in full...)
She loves me like I'm her brother and I'm confused!
Q. i hve a girl who is my best frd... i love her a lot... she has a crush on a guy... bt tht guy jst nvr respnds to her.. he is very egoistic.... now she has decided to move on from him... i cant tell that i love her coz if i do i m 200% sure my ...
A. 19 March 2011: Well if you didn't make any signs that you like her more than a friend she will take you as friend as she probably thinks that you would make a move on her if you had any of those feelings. She is now looking at you as her best friend not the guy ... (read in full...)
Wife slept with another man with my permission but now I'm finding it hard to deal with.
Q. My wife and I have been married for five years and love each other very much. We've been very honest in our relationship and have always shared our fantasies and flirtations with other people. She has always had a desire of sleeping with another ...
A. 12 March 2011: You have to stop being so "unselfish". She is your wife. Tell her that talking to this man is making you uncomfortable. That's hard for you to deal with all this. I mean I respect you for allowing her to do that, because I never would. I get tha... (read in full...)
Men: would you be turned on or freaked out or something else by this?
Q. Hello lovely men of DearCupid :D How are we today? So, picture this... You wake up in the morning with a hard on only to find your girlfriend/mrs was already 'attending' to it... Reaction please? Would you be turned on? Freaked out? ...
A. 11 March 2011: Speaking from personal experience : Best way to wake up.... (read in full...)
Is it normal to have a high sex drive and then suddenly it drops off?
Q. For the longest time I have always had a high sex drive. I got together with my current boyfriend and he had a hard time keeping up with me, but always tried and now just recently I feel almost no sex drive at all its there but not intense like it ...
A. 9 March 2011: Have you started or changed birth control?
... (read in full...)
My boyfriend is angry because I wont send pictures of my private parts!
Q. i have a boyfriend for 6months before evrything was ok we dont see each other very often but we text each other on sms and sometimes he will call me, but since a while now he has been willing that i send him naked pictures of myself and my private ...
A. 7 March 2011: How did you tell him that you are not going to send any pictures ? You have the option of breaking up with him. Other option is to work this out. He might feel that since you are dating for like 6 months he deserves at least picture, because... (read in full...)
Could I be lactose intolerant?
Q. So I'm vegetarian but not vegan, and I eat dairy pretty much everyday. I've always felt better without eating it (I just can't seem to stop, but I'm going to now) and the only dairy I eat is cheese, ice cream, and yogurt.. about 30 mins to an hour ...
A. 5 March 2011: this site is about relationships. I would suggest you see a doctor ... (read in full...)
When I have sexual intercourse I feel nothing, is there anything I can do??
Q. I'm 16, and I have recently started having sex with my boyfriend. He fingers me a lot, and I love it, it feels really good. But when we have sex, I don't really feel anything. Is there anything I can do, or he can do? I'm always on top, does that ...
A. 5 March 2011: The thing about fingering is partially true. Girl can get to the point when it's harder for her to cum during actual intercourse than fingering, but you should always feel something. The thing I need to know what size is his penis so I can give you... (read in full...)
I really want to get this girl's attention, any suggestions??
Q. There's this girl at school and I try to get her attenden but it never seems to work how could I get her to like me ?...
A. 5 March 2011: Of course you can but you need to give more details about her and relationship between you two so I can give you helpful advice... (read in full...)
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